Posing nude & being recognised

[privateman]

My lovely wife is comfortable posing nude (we have posted some on here from time to time). She loves the thought of men lusting and indeed masturbating over her pictures. The one thing that worries her is being recognised by friends and family. A few years ago she was going to pose for the readers wives in the uk magazine Fiesta. She pulled out at the last minute. She realised that it was highly likely she would be recognised. We then thought about posting on line, and we did post a couple on another form, she quickly changed her mind and we took the pictures down. It now occurs to us that going for a magazine shoot may actually be "safer". Has anyone had experience of being recognised after publishing pictures?

 

[Carnevil9]

I've seen plenty of pornos where the participants wear masks, either just over their eyes, or their entire face. That pretty much negates any chance of being recognized, unless you have unusual tattoos.

 

[o2baPrince]

Just my thought, but In 5 years everyone will have facial recognition software on their laptops. I think it will be easy to be found with a simple search, even by your kids. So, no face, or use a mask of some kind. But I love her enthusiasm!

 

[privateman]

Just my thought, but In 5 years everyone will have facial recognition software on their laptops. I think it will be easy to be found with a simple search, even by your kids. So, no face, or use a mask of some kind. But I love her enthusiasm!

Never thought of that! This leads me to think that on-line is out!

 

[Smal3hard5cfnm]

I don't mind been recognized if the lady wants a personal performance.

 

[genxer36]

Mask, remove jewelry that is unique, cover scars or tattoos someone might notice. This would make it more difficult for others to recognize her.

 

[KPaulNeilson]

Hotel rooms only. Also check reflections.
Eliminate background recognition.

 

[twister947]

Assume you will be outed; then do a cost to benefit analysis.

 

[LekaSveta]

I usually crop my face out, even though most of my family, friends, and co workers have seen me nude at one time or another I'm worried it could have blowback if any of our customers were to come across them as we are ostensibly a family resort and I have some rather recognizable features

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

My lovely wife is comfortable posing nude (we have posted some on here from time to time). She loves the thought of men lusting and indeed masturbating over her pictures. The one thing that worries her is being recognised by friends and family. A few years ago she was going to pose for the readers wives in the uk magazine Fiesta. She pulled out at the last minute. She realised that it was highly likely she would be recognised. We then thought about posting on line, and we did post a couple on another form, she quickly changed her mind and we took the pictures down. It now occurs to us that going for a magazine shoot may actually be "safer". Has anyone had experience of being recognised after publishing pictures?

If she has reservations about Posting the two of you should think about it. My wife had some pic taken that I didn't authorize but she felt she was alright--, I mean, 'they' said that her face wasn't showing in any of them. Guess what--,? That wasn't EXACTLY the truth, how shocking that a guy would lie??? Like MRRON said already once you hit that button---,
Hey, anyway, you got some REALLY nice shots of your wife, gorgeous woman.

 

[alexzeld]

Being recognized

I usually crop my face out, even though most of my family, friends, and co workers have seen me nude at one time or another I'm worried it could have blowback if any of our customers were to come across them as we are ostensibly a family resort and I have some rather recognizable features

But don't you get a turn-on by thinking that somebody would recognize you? After all you post in e. g. literotica, the other person reads literotica, so what's the problem?
I am curious as to what you think because I love to shock people now and again (though I do appear respectable..lol)

 

[fred626]

Never thought of that! This leads me to think that on-line is out!

Id say keep her face out of pics or limited to nothing above her lips then have a good time with it. Makes both you happy and the users here st LIT

 

[LekaSveta]

But don't you get a turn-on by thinking that somebody would recognize you? After all you post in e. g. literotica, the other person reads literotica, so what's the problem?
I am curious as to what you think because I love to shock people now and again (though I do appear respectable..lol)

I get turned on by people looking at me, but not so much by them recognizing me. Just because I've posted a picture on Literotica doesn't mean that it will stay there and not end up somewhere else! Plus I have a very good job and I'd like to keep it and any kind of thing that would damage the "family friendly" image of the resort town I work in wouldn't mean just losing my job, it'd mean losing my career, the people that own and manage hotels there are a pretty small group and it wouldn't take long for something like that to get around and then the only job I'd be able to get would be flipping burgers for minimum wage!

 

[anniebaby10]

My lovely wife is comfortable posing nude (we have posted some on here from time to time). She loves the thought of men lusting and indeed masturbating over her pictures. The one thing that worries her is being recognised by friends and family. A few years ago she was going to pose for the readers wives in the uk magazine Fiesta. She pulled out at the last minute. She realised that it was highly likely she would be recognised. We then thought about posting on line, and we did post a couple on another form, she quickly changed her mind and we took the pictures down. It now occurs to us that going for a magazine shoot may actually be "safer". Has anyone had experience of being recognised after publishing pictures?

Depends on how she will be perceived not just by her family but perhaps people she works with. In some jobs, it would be awful to be recognized nude. A teacher, doctor, nurse, attorney, therapist, etc would be seen by her clients/patients and could lead to real issues. I will never post online and tell very little about myself as I have a very sensitive career that I do not wish to endanger. however, my hubby and I love sex and I have no problem sharing stories on here. We also have been to sex clubs on numerous vacations and had sex in the open at those locations. We love the freedom and being seen but we are not being put on video as those places ban cell phones. So if you are gonna want to be exhibitionists, pick your spots or suffer backlash by people that may not be as open as you. I am not judging, just offering advice.

 

[varv]

the experience of learning?? : D
there was a time, I myself planted photos in the family album of my husband's parents: D

 

[KPaulNeilson]

Bottom line is do what you feel comfortable doing and stay safe!

 

[OzzieGirlSteph]

My nudes, taken to pad a friends photography portfolio, were posted online by a then current, very quickly ex boyfriend and tbey have popped up all over the place, including several online advertisement for sexual services, I've come to terms with it and it has become a rather liberating experience once the shame and anger wore off, I get a huge ego boost now when they pop up, which is a lot less common than 5 years ago.

 

[OzzieGirlSteph]

Has anyone you know ever mentioned having seen them online?

More than once and right after it happened it cost me a job, it hasn't happened in some time though. Now if someone says anything negative i have the story to tell them, if it's a positive reaction im happy to know since i cant do anything about it.

 

[Scotch_no_rocks]

It's awesome that you were able to turn what must have been pretty horrifying into a (relatively) positive experience.

 

[Justfantasies]

My nudes, taken to pad a friends photography portfolio, were posted online by a then current, very quickly ex boyfriend and tbey have popped up all over the place, including several online advertisement for sexual services, I've come to terms with it and it has become a rather liberating experience once the shame and anger wore off, I get a huge ego boost now when they pop up, which is a lot less common than 5 years ago.

Sounds like you might like to do it again. No shame really, especially if it excites you.

 

[TriadWriter]

Not me personally, but in browsing on various sites, including here, I've recognized a few of the chicks I either knew years ago, or at some point, I've socialized with previously.

While being recognized is a legitimate concern, I have to also counter the idea with "Who, in your circle of friends and family, are going to admit to seeing the photo(s)?" because in order to see them, they'd have to look for them, presumably. Even in cases where a friend-of-a-friend shows them the photo(s), that would mean that person essentially admitting to looking at the material in the first place.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Mask, remove jewelry that is unique, cover scars or tattoos someone might notice. This would make it more difficult for others to recognize her.

the way I recognized my wifes pics without her face in frame was by the shape of her ass and the lips of her pussy----and also because of the birthmarks and freckles that she has on her body. But then there was the furniture that was in frame that I recognized from that seedy fuck motel.
BUT YEAH__, if you don't want to be recognized!
Don't take the picture!

 

[wildpair7]

My wife was in Fiesta Readers Wives and went to a Playboy casting call years ago and did a test shoot with them - she has been recognized 2x and was OK with it as the guys were nice and humple