Confessions: What are yours? V2.

It is a phase. You'll need to remind yourself it's okay to fail and be back slowly
I do need to remember that. It’s really important
ICT there are some people here that I respect and admire unequivocally.

IACT I sometimes want more.

IFCT one of these days I might find more and run with it.
Do it. Life is short
ICT my entire body hurts

IFCT driving long distance sucks butt

ICT I read this as dating long distance and my first thought was “I feel that”
 
I confess that sometimes I don’t feel like myself, and then I start wondering who it is exactly that I’m feeling like. And then I wonder if anyone out there ever feels like me when they aren’t feeling like themselves. Anyway, I really need to get some coffee.
 
I confess that this is the first place, the first group, where I ever felt like I truly belonged. I have found myself here, been true to who I am, and met some amazing people along the way. So when I lose someone here, when someone leaves the group or leaves me, it often feels like I'm losing a piece of myself. I get that some people here may not take that so seriously, and that's probably smart, but this pervy forum is the only place that has really felt like home to me. Be careful with your words and actions, folks. Because what means little to you may mean a great deal to someone else.

:(:heart:
 
I confess that this is the first place, the first group, where I ever felt like I truly belonged. I have found myself here, been true to who I am, and met some amazing people along the way. So when I lose someone here, when someone leaves the group or leaves me, it often feels like I'm losing a piece of myself. I get that some people here may not take that so seriously, and that's probably smart, but this pervy forum is the only place that has really felt like home to me. Be careful with your words and actions, folks. Because what means little to you may mean a great deal to someone else.

Losing those you care about here is really difficult in so many ways. But you are loved and many of the people you have here speak to you outside of lit and that means they never really leave you. :rose: I hope you find comfort in that too. 💐
 
I confess....I broke open a box of Halloween chocolate bars and Stoled one for my coffee break this morning...
 
I confess I've left here, twice. Both recently.

I thought it was good to leave...and thought the only way to be sure was to kill my accounts and take a forced absence, to make myself stay away, and to decompress, and to give myself some space from the childish and judgmental stuff that clogged my headspace.

I confess that with the benefits of distance and forced absence, I don't hate this place as much as I really thought I did. But I'm going to be muchhhhh more circumspect with how I interact with this place, and curate my experience accordingly, and have come up with better ways of handling the things I didn't like before. To make this place a healthy and fun place to interact, rather than what my prior experiences were.

So, fuck it. One last time risen from the ashes.

🙄
 
^

Once you stop taking Lit seriously, once you stop expecting anything other than horny, desperate guys fighting to talk to the same three women on the threads, it's actually an all right place to hang out. :)
 
ICT that I disagree somewhat with dashie...this place is more than that for some people. There have been real, lasting friendships and even romantic relationships made here, ones that transcend any goofiness on the boards.

I do think you have to take the good with the bad sometimes, and when this place gets more bad then good, there’s nothing wrong with taking a step back.

For me, I’ll probably always keep coming back here...and not for horny guys or flirting but for the community and friendships that I’ve made here. They are as real and meaningful as any other friendships made in face to face encounters

This ❤

Your experience is ultimately what you make of it. If you participate often, be the change you want to see, and invest in the right people and places... the good will ultimately outweigh the bad.


You're both awfully smart. :)

In the vein of the thread, I confess I just needed to recalibrate a lot of things, and am better for it.
 
ICT I have had a friend here for more than 8 years. She's a dear friend.

IACT I should text her.

IFCT there are some truly good people here.
 
I confess that I'm less of an asshole if I have an orgasm in the morning. Just slightly less, but enough to keep me out of jail.
 
I confess that I am part horny guy and part nice guy looking for fun conversation. But the horny guy is there.
 
Ict this place sometimes keeps me from the darkness, and other times catapults me into it.
 
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