Do you feel submissive when you suck a cock?

[SheDrivesMeCrazy]

I am like so many here that love feeling weak and used. Knowing a man can do with me as he needs and That that is why I am. I remember the first time a Man actually introduced me to his friends and the feel of his arms holding me close then the warm wonderful feeling washing over me as he kissed me. There had been many simple blow jobs before then but that kiss was what really got me.

I was in an arms-length secret relationship with a much older married man; I suppose I was his "boy toy" on the side. He had a very "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" attitude with me, but over time he got used to hugging and kissing during sex.

 

[rickdickerson]

Boss Man - Surrenduring Control

You have almost described my life over recent years as I have also turned towards cock as my marriage is sexless.
I was a boss for many years and I now love the feeling of having no control and being told what to do, just being the person who is not in charge is quite a turn on.

I agree completely. I am much in the same boat as the original post, my sexless marriage led me down a path of cuckold fantasies involving my wife and another Man, but then started being all about me submitting to a Man. Being a submissive cocksucker for a dominant Man.

Regarding the dynamic of surrendering control due to being in charge in real life, this is so true. I've been in management for many many years, and I've found that most of my sexual fantasies that have offered the most release have been about being submissive to women and men alike.

But in recent years since my marriage became sexless, I have essentially masturbated myself almost gay (I think) due to only being able to get hard for gay porn now. Men and Cock are all that do it for me anymore, and my biggest fantasy is submitting to dominant alpha Men.

 

[rickdickerson]

Submissive Faggot Realization

This is a terrific thread - it's so sexually intense and personal. Admire all men who for whatever reason have had the will and craving to blow a man to his sexual release and enjoy the experience of pleasing the most intimate part of a man's body.

I found out that I am a natural submissive, and in real life have begged men to let me blow them for nothing in return. I made oral love to their manhoods and thrilled to the flood of semen they shot in my mouth. I think I became a real man the day I sucked a stranger's cock, then blew 5 more men after that on the same day.

Everything about sucking cock I love. Everything.

In retrospect, I can honestly say I wish I had been purely homosexual since I was a teen, but once loved pussy and fucking for many years.

I consider myself a faggot, and am very proud to have the courage to find this out.

Your post really resonates with me. Especially how you realized that you wish you had been purely homosexual since you were a teen. I've recently realized that I've always been attracted to guys, even as a teen, but suppressed it due to social norms. Now much later in life, I now realize that I have been Gay or at least bisexual for almost all of my life. Despite my lack of experience with Men, I too (for the most part) consider myself a submissive faggot. This was one hell of an awakening for me to come to this realization, but internally it has been very enlightening. Coming to terms with my homosexual nature that I've suppressed my entire life has been a very eye opening journey.

 

[bobb64]

love being on my knees

I feel very submissive when I am on my knees worshipping the cock in front of me

 

[Iwantsomeplease]

Haven't sucked a,real dick since I was a teen but love to suck my dildo and have guys tell me what to do. so yes

 

[Dreamer110]

Haven't sucked a,real dick since I was a teen but love to suck my dildo and have guys tell me what to do. so yes

Sounds good.

 

[vizio]

For me as a crossdresser I feel submissive but don't care to be humiliated or talked down to. I feel submissive in a feminine way if that makes sense.

 

[rickdickerson]

Ultimate Submission To Cock.

This is a terrific thread - it's so sexually intense and personal. Admire all men who for whatever reason have had the will and craving to blow a man to his sexual release and enjoy the experience of pleasing the most intimate part of a man's body.

I found out that I am a natural submissive, and in real life have begged men to let me blow them for nothing in return. I made oral love to their manhoods and thrilled to the flood of semen they shot in my mouth. I think I became a real man the day I sucked a stranger's cock, then blew 5 more men after that on the same day.

Everything about sucking cock I love. Everything.

In retrospect, I can honestly say I wish I had been purely homosexual since I was a teen, but once loved pussy and fucking for many years.

I consider myself a faggot, and am very proud to have the courage to find this out.

This is a beautiful and honest admission. I am finally able to personally admit to myself that I am a homosexual and always have been, but I am unable to tell this to the world.

I would love to be able to find a real man to submit to and finally surrender my manhood and masculinity to, and beg him for his Cock and Cum.

 

[Shavedallover]

Good morning cocksuckers !!

 

[OpenMouth]

Good morning cocksuckers !!

Good morning. It certainly would be, if I was on my knees with that beautiful cock in my mouth.

 

[Shavedallover]

Good morning. It certainly would be, if I was on my knees with that beautiful cock in my mouth.

Hey
Open wide for daddy

 

[sunshine9]

I become submissive the minute his cock slides into my mouth. From then on Ill do anything he says.

 

[carln3346]

I feel good when I suck - love making him feel good

 

[tallandtrainable]

I feel submissive when I even think about sucking cock

All I need to feel submissive is to be in the presence of someone who acts forceful, confident and dominant. Once I find that person all he has to do is direct me firmly and I'll do whatever he wants.

If someone can't direct me and show/tell me what he wants once we meet it's a total turn off.

 

[givememoresir]

I feel submissive when I am in the right state of mind and with the right partner...sucking cock is enjoyable.

 

[takkatajim]

Depending on circumstances...yup

 

[guns444]

If I ever get the chance to suck one, i hope its a more dominant type guy, and he makes me feel submissive

 

[muycurioso]

First off, a little background. I am 67 and happily married for over 40 years. My wife and I had an active sex life until about 7 or 8 years ago, when she became very disinterested in any form of sex. I tried to coax her into some unconventional avenues, like having sex with other men, if she wanted to. She rejected the idea straight away and insisted that she had just lost interest in sex, not in me. I accepted her explanation, even though I wish she had taken me up on my offer of being free to play around.

My fascination of imagining her having sex with other men did not end there. It was fueled by reading 'Hot Wife' and 'Cuckold' stories in various forums, like Literotica, and watching whatever porn vids that were related. It was a slow transformation, to where I soon began imagining myself injected into the whole scenario. I would jerk off while thinking about eating another man's cum from my wife's freshly fucked pussy, or sucking her lover hard before inserting him inside her. I was absolutely enthralled by this and fantasised about it a lot. Every time I stroked myself, this entered my mind and took control.

It came to me one day that I was becoming just as interested in the cock as I was the pussy. The stories, and the vids, and my fantasies were fairly centered around cock. My wife sucking on them, or being fucked was becoming secondary. I wanted the cock. I wanted to taste one, lick one and suck one.

Sucking cock was now my new obsession. After a few years of dreaming about it and wishing for it to happen, it did. I met with a guy from a chat site for coffee and we ended up engaged in mutual oral sex. He got the ball rolling, by sucking me off first, then my much anticipated debut went off perfectly. We met three times altogether and I found it thrilling, exciting, and all the things that sex is about. Above all, I found it quite natural to take a man's cock in my hands and mouth and make him cum.

I had always been the dominant partner in my marriage and took on a rather strong leading role wherever I worked. It was just who I was. The first time I sucked my buddy's cock I couldn't help but feel proud as he praised my efforts and refused to accept that his, was the first cock I had sucked. (At least that is what he told me). I was glowing. I then had an overwhelming compulsion to ask for him to call me a 'cocksucker'. He looked at me, smiled and called me a cocksucker. I loved it. Right then, I would have done anything that he asked me to, or told me to.

Now for the part about the question. I have found that over the past two years, I want the buddies I meet to take on a leading role in our adventures. I tell them it is okay to call me a cocksucker, to tell me what they want me to do, to take physical control of the moment and hold my head on their cock as I suck them. I want them to be in control, more and more. I have preferred to make all of my encounters to be about mutual satisfaction. I blow you, you blow me. The last two were not. The last one, I just sucked the guy off as he leaned back against a tree in an outdoor trail. When he finished and I swallowed, he suddenly became afraid of being caught and insisted we vacate the area. The one before that I was naked in bed with my buddy and he was like the puppeteer. He had told me to strip naked when I walked in the door, and I did. He told me to follow him to the living room where we kissed and felt each other up. Then he directed me to go wait for him on his bed, and I did. When he came in, he pretty much took control of all the action and had me crawl up from the foot of the bed and suck his cock as he held me there. When he filled my mouth, and I swallowed he pulled me up along side him and had me jerk off on his cock and balls, and I did. I loved it. He was definitely in charge and I loved it.

I felt like I had no choice in the way things happened during my last two meetings and it is truly an exciting prospect for me to feel this way. I am thinking that there is no way I would ever accept being humiliated or being made to call anyone 'Sir' or 'Master', but I do enjoy being told what to do and how to do it. It is almost a relief, not being in charge. Maybe it's a lowering of testosterone, or growing older. Whatever it is, I am finding that I enjoy being the submissive, when I know I am going to be sucking a cock.

What do you think guys?

great post. Since I joined this forum I have noticed guys my age paying more attn to me. Back to you Q, I would feel submissive sucking and dominant being sucked

 

[muycurioso]

OMG----we are so alike. I love the feel of being on my knees and having a cock brush my lips; feeling the hardness push against me, forcing my mouth open---then using my mouth for his pleasure. I feel so good when I have given satisfaction to a hard cock!

sounds hot and submissive. tell him to hold your head and mouth over his cock as je cums in your mouth

 

[rickdickerson]

Surrendur

If I ever get the chance to suck one, i hope its a more dominant type guy, and he makes me feel submissive

Me too... I would only ever want to be submissive as a Cocksucker. I would actually get off to being used rough or even if he was abusive or overly aggressive. The idea of surrendering my control, masculinity, and manhood to a dominant man excites me badly... Just the thought of being dominated by a Man makes me hard.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

great post. Since I joined this forum I have noticed guys my age paying more attn to me. Back to you Q, I would feel submissive sucking and dominant being sucked

Thank you and all the others who have taken the time to answer my question.

It is a feeling that I know well. It is amazing how our feelings can change, depending on which side of the cock we are on. I have done a couple of '69's and have to admit to being in a submissive state of mind until I get my buddy off first. Then, if, he is still determined enough to keep sucking, I can transform to the dominant side.

 

[vizio]

I know the feeling. As far as age and years of being married, we are incredibly similar. Perhaps the main difference is I have only given oral sex to a crossdresser. They don't even have to be very "passable". In every instance they have controlled the action; often cumming in my mouth and reciprocating by giving me a hand job or, just as it happened to you, have be jack off on their cock and balls then ordering me to lick them clean. I've come to realize that I find a cock as sexually exciting as a woman's pussy. The feeling of a nice cock totally filling my mouth; that wonderful feeling as I feel their cock cum in my mouth is pure heaven to me. Yes, I have become a cocksucker and I truly enjoy it. Would love to share my experiences with you. Maybe a better way is to write each other----I'm at: chris313163 at gmail. Maybe we can start sharing experiences.

As a crossdresser myself I wouldn't be dominate I would want to pleasure you with my mouth and just have you cum. I like verbal encouragement not having it shoved down my throat. let me take it at my own pace

 

[sterculius]

When I'm on my knees with some guy holding my head and forcing his big cock down my throat, it's difficult to be anything but submissive

 

[Astroman72]

I guess I'm kind of odd on this front.

My favorite sexual act is performing oral sex, and with women I guess I would say I'm usually dominant in that I'm taking the lead, but I'm taking the lead to lick their pussy, and they're submitting to it.

I've never been with a guy, buy my fantasy is similar--I'm the one sucking but I'm taking the lead and he's just providing the cock.

 

[rickdickerson]

When I'm on my knees with some guy holding my head and forcing his big cock down my throat, it's difficult to be anything but submissive

I long to know this feeling.