Orgasms with and without a man involved

[JenniferSimms]

There is an episode on a Netflix series that talks about how women achieve orgasms through masturbation or when with other women easier than when with a man. I don't find that to be true, although I reach a lot more orgasms by myself because there aren't men around very often to achieve one with. It is true that I do "masturbate" when I'm having sex with a man and that does help me get off, but that's not the same thing. Anyway, I was wondering what others think.

 

[Persephone4U]

I think, this is true. What Netflix show was it?
I find it much easier to orgasm with a woman--- Now that I am married, I have better orgasms controlling them myself.

 

[JenniferSimms]

I think, this is true. What Netflix show was it?
I find it much easier to orgasm with a woman--- Now that I am married, I have better orgasms controlling them myself.

It was an episode on something like "Things Explained". I saw it when I was browsing the other day. It's not very long.

 

[UgliestSon]

Stop watching Netflix and find better dick maybe.

 

[Devilynme]

There is an episode on a Netflix series that talks about how women achieve orgasms through masturbation or when with other women easier than when with a man. I don't find that to be true, although I reach a lot more orgasms by myself because there aren't men around very often to achieve one with. It is true that I do "masturbate" when I'm having sex with a man and that does help me get off, but that's not the same thing. Anyway, I was wondering what others think.

I saw that too. Like you, I don't usually have a problem achieving orgasm with a man, but it often requires little help from my fingers. Certainly orgasms I give myself are more reliable.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I agree with this. I would find it nearly impossible to have an orgasm with a man.

 

[TheWorldBuilder]

Well when I orgasm, there's always a man involved.

 

[DeckardNYC]

A man's point of view -- I've been with the extremes, a woman who could orgasm repeatedly, like very 5 minutes, from intercourse, and a woman who could not orgasm at all from intercourse. My take from them and from others is that there are both physical and psychological factors at work.

 

[alwaysaway]

I agree with this. I would find it nearly impossible to have an orgasm with a man.

But not completely impossible

 

[lovetopleasewomen]

I agree with this. I would find it nearly impossible to have an orgasm with a man.

You might want to see a counselor about this. It could be psychosomatic.

 

[default24]

But not completely impossible

He really left himself wide open for that one

 

[DDBustyBrit]

I never have an issue reaching orgasm and I’m very multi-orgasmic.

But omg I will say this... when my Lit girlfriend and I have phone sex, it’s rare if we can last more than about 7 minutes we both cum very fast, and for me much faster than with anyone else!

 

[seeshelly]

All men are not created equal

I have been with guys that can make me cum with one orgasm after another. My first boyfriend when I was in my late teens never made me cum once. So all men are not created equal and that is what vibrators are for.

 

[LostGirlTink]

I can make myself orgasm in about a minute and a half... know why? I know my body better than anyone else ever could because I’ve lived with it longer...
Also my *settings* vary so unless someone were psychic they don’t know which of the things I like are perfect in any given second and so I’d have to communicate that.
Now that being said... my orgasms WITH someone are usually much better. I never found that I came faster with a woman than with a man.


Key point to ponder... since when is faster the goal anyway?? Maybe when I’m alone and its a simple release, but for me, if I’m in bed with someone it’s as much about the build.
It’s all good and I’m not racing to finish

 

[PinkInPink]

Fortunately I seem to be the outlier of the bell curve. I don't need fancy techniques, oral or anything technical to climax. Just fuck me like you love and want me and my body will give that which I seek.

P.S. Don't misread this. Just because I don't need these things doesn't mean I don't want these things.

 

[LoveLiving]

There is an episode on a Netflix series that talks about how women achieve orgasms through masturbation or when with other women easier than when with a man. I don't find that to be true, although I reach a lot more orgasms by myself because there aren't men around very often to achieve one with. It is true that I do "masturbate" when I'm having sex with a man and that does help me get off, but that's not the same thing. Anyway, I was wondering what others think.

I would volunteer to give you orgasms. I know you can do it yourself, but it's always better with company.

 

[Scareltt]

Different one day to the next..

It could be my age...

There are days like today where I doubt I’ll be able to climax with anything other than my PalmPower. Other days the right thought and the right caress could send me right over the edge quickly and often..

Most normal days I need clitoral stimulation. With a man during sex works just as well as with my own fingers.

Wether I’m with a lover or by myself, I feel like my orgasms are my responsibility.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Mutual Masturbation

There is an episode on a Netflix series that talks about how women achieve orgasms through masturbation or when with other women easier than when with a man. I don't find that to be true, although I reach a lot more orgasms by myself because there aren't men around very often to achieve one with. It is true that I do "masturbate" when I'm having sex with a man and that does help me get off, but that's not the same thing. Anyway, I was wondering what others think.

Masturbation is a much-underrated pleasure, and is there to be enjoyed. When you are naked together why not watch each other masturbating…? It's a great turn-on for both, and a wonderful way to learn exactly how your partner enjoys being intimately touched and brought to climax

 

[Asian_Flower]

My hubs and I have been together so long I think we just know how to push each others buttons. I always climax during intercourse at least once. The only time I feel the need when I am solo is when he is away and we are doing "fun" stuff on the phone or internet.

 

[Hipshot1554]

My hubs and I have been together so long I think we just know how to push each others buttons. I always climax during intercourse at least once. The only time I feel the need when I am solo is when he is away and we are doing "fun" stuff on the phone or internet.

This post is right on target. Finding what your lover wants/needs is critical. That also changes, from time to time.

 

[pvt_addiction]

Some good insight here.

 

[Jada59]

Stop watching Netflix and find better dick maybe.

Hehehe.

 

[Jada59]

I orgasm very easily. I can orgasm from a hug, my thoughts, dirty talk, squeezing my muscles... Of course if I am with a man and/or masturbating, the orgasm will be stronger.

With another woman? No thank you. I am not into women at all and if I woman were around during sex, that would just kill it for me. I even find it hard to watch some porn with women in it. Just depends on what they're doing and how many women there are.

 

[TheSilverLining]

Stop watching Netflix and find better dick maybe.

Story of my life

 

[TheSilverLining]

Incidentally, when I cum on my own hand there’s usually some male-inspiration somewhere along the line.
Surely that counts as involvement?