Sexless Marriages

[Lost_Yonder]

monogamy is inhumane... particularly when the one who are supposedly "committed" to has zero interest. I'm going on well over 10, probably closer to 15, years since my wife and I did anything remotely sexual...

 

[Spenser41]

What I find difficult is people messaging me to tell me they know how I feel. You then discover that their idea of sexless is “ only” getting laid twice a month. Yes I appreciate you want more but that is not remotely the same. I also don’t need to be told that I need to “ open a bottle of wine and have a chat” with my husband. And no we did not have hot sex on our recent holiday and neither did i hook up for hot sex with a stranger.... because you know.... I’m on holiday with my family. I guess the intention is not to hurt me but by god they make it difficult.

I know how you feel. Last time was Sept 2010. And I hear all the things I "Should be doing" And I have done those things and sometimes it just doesn't work out but at the same time... divorce is not always the answer.. So... I do get it.

 

[Ars119]

monogamy is inhumane... particularly when the one who are supposedly "committed" to has zero interest. I'm going on well over 10, probably closer to 15, years since my wife and I did anything remotely sexual...

I know how it feels. I feel like I'm dying inside.

 

[sunshinestate100]

If mine was open to the idea of me finding sex elsewhere I’d stay married (for the kids). We aren’t compatible but have a very complicated situation with one of ours which is what is keeping me from ending things properly. It’s so hard being with someone who won’t even touch you. He flinched if I try to touch him. Then you go and read about all these women complaining that their husbands want to much sex and wonder what the hell is wrong with you that makes him not want you

Lissy Lou don't blame yourself, the way you describe it, you have tried. I went through the same with my wife "is it me" etc. I changed they way I did things to the extent I could change no more but still nothing. Im at the stage where I think why did I change it wasn't me, honestly PM me if you just want to chat and rant about it.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not invisible!!

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

 

[HughManitee]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not invisible!!

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

That is so hot that you do that. My wife would never. She won't even let me se her naked anymore.

 

[ccs29745]

Can you ask her how she would feel if you went with another, mine would be horrified if I suggested it and probably tell me to go. The more Inthink about it. It seems a win win situation. Seriously though its tough both sexes have needs sadly over time, one persons needs dry up and therefore the other person is expected to switch off there emotions/needs overnight its not easy.

She checks my messages and email to see if I'm talking to anyone. I've had multiple chances to cheat, but turned each one down.

 

[ccs29745]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

Nothing wrong with that last line. Although my 5 great old starting to notice I have extra part she doesn't down below. Fun explaining that .lol

 

[tedsbeds]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not invisible!!

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

You could come to my house and pick up any time and would be amply rewarded

 

[shark968]

Twice a month would be glorious.

I'd take twice a year right now... or every other year.. lol

5 years and counting.

 

[Jackba57]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not invisible!!

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

Can we clone you?

 

[Mtnmike]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not invisible!!

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

Really, I need to come to your house, OMG. Been so long since I've seen the wife naked, I'd probably have a heart attack, lol.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

That is so hot that you do that. My wife would never. She won't even let me se her naked anymore.

Yeh well usually he doesn’t seem to notice & im sorry

Nothing wrong with that last line. Although my 5 great old starting to notice I have extra part she doesn't down below. Fun explaining that .lol

Yeh that would be awkward

You could come to my house and pick up any time and would be amply rewarded

In the UK there is a guy who does this and gets paid

Can we clone you?

thank you!!

Really, I need to come to your house, OMG. Been so long since I've seen the wife naked, I'd probably have a heart attack, lol.

I’m good at CPR

 

[gentold]

Yeh well usually he doesn’t seem to notice & im sorry



Yeh that would be awkward



In the UK there is a guy who does this and gets paid



thank you!!


I’m good at CPR

you are good at giggling as well

 

[DDBustyBrit]

you are good at giggling as well

Ssshhhh Gen!!

 

[MutualMatureMike]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not invisible!!

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

What a delicious image ti read about and imagine as I wake up this morning!

 

[RustyIron]

If mine was open to the idea of me finding sex elsewhere I’d stay married (for the kids). We aren’t compatible but have a very complicated situation with one of ours which is what is keeping me from ending things properly. It’s so hard being with someone who won’t even touch you. He flinched if I try to touch him. Then you go and read about all these women complaining that their husbands want to much sex and wonder what the hell is wrong with you that makes him not want you

Yeah, I know what you mean about not being touched, it is very difficult to deal with, my SO doesn't come near me either. No cuddles, no kisses, and definitely no sex.

 

[Polranny]

Yeah, I know what you mean about not being touched, it is very difficult to deal with, my SO doesn't come near me either. No cuddles, no kisses, and definitely no sex.

Occasional peck on the cheek but anything else is cold shouldered. Last time i put my hand on her ass i got a slap. I've given up the chase.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.

I did until last year when we decided to do something about it. I went for 12 years without a hard cock invading my body. Fortunately that has now changed!

We get probably 3-5 responses to our ads daily from men in this situation.

 

[Wld1936]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not invisible!!

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

I in the same boat as you! My wife as no interest in sex! After a shower I walk around nude a little! I sleep nude and she knows it. Nothing! She like hot tea in the morning. I make sure I bring her hot tea before she it's out of bed. It just one of the things I do for her. I lost I don't know what else to do!

 

[RustyIron]

Occasional peck on the cheek but anything else is cold shouldered. Last time i put my hand on her ass i got a slap. I've given up the chase.

Lol, yeah I hear ya me too.

 

[jamin1122]

Maybe the wrong place

41mwm. Sexless marriage. Sigh. My situation is more kid related then attraction etc. Sex is terrific when we can but has been less then once a month because of lack of opportunity. Its exactly how I ended up here years ago lol. I'd love to chat with someone in similar situation. Looking for someone to flirt with and chat and create satisfaction with words.
Preferrrd chat is Kik jammin111222

 

[TTawhere]

Today as I walked around the kitchen topless at noon, he noticed and made a comment on how my scars are almost faded away and my new breasts look great.

Then about 20 minutes later as I still wandered around, now fully naked for a few picking up. He said “sweetie, you’re just wandering around nude?!” I just smiled and said “so”.

Apparently there is still life there and I’m not invisible!!

And yes I do this a lot, I like to be semi clothed or nude at home.

Christ on a crutch. If that was my wife doing that, I’d have pounced on her before she made it to the next room!

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Christ on a crutch. If that was my wife doing that, I’d have pounced on her before she made it to the next room!

Apparently we are all with the wrong partners!

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

41mwm. Sexless marriage. Sigh. My situation is more kid related then attraction etc. Sex is terrific when we can but has been less then once a month because of lack of opportunity. Its exactly how I ended up here years ago lol. I'd love to chat with someone in similar situation. Looking for someone to flirt with and chat and create satisfaction with words.
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This is where I have to disagree. Instead of spending time on here chasing strange pussy, you should be spending that time chasing yours. You say it's lack of opportunity? Slow down, turn off the computer an make and opportunity!