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Titties make everything better. Wet titties more so. Love the middle pic by the way, even though there's no titty bomb in it!
Damn, she Justa did it again. Still nothing to see.
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Titties make everything better. Wet titties more so. Love the middle pic by the way, even though there's no titty bomb in it!
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mythicman62
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Just a, I've told you many times. I love everything about you. Beautiful tits, wonderful attitude,sexy ass, and fantastic wit!
I am enjoying the view of this Wet Wednesday!
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No power outages yet. Yay!
It was definitely breezy and rainy but I wouldn’t call it hurricane weather. The hurricane that came up through middle GA last year was much stronger.
I’m not out yet. The power could still go out. But hopefully it will make it.
This hurricane was pretty miserable to monitor over the last week. Not gonna lie.
It was definitely breezy and rainy but I wouldn’t call it hurricane weather. The hurricane that came up through middle GA last year was much stronger.
I’m not out yet. The power could still go out. But hopefully it will make it.
This hurricane was pretty miserable to monitor over the last week. Not gonna lie.
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wonderful ass
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Hasn't rained here in about 3 days. Dry air mass has moved in so most likely it won't until sometime next week. Kinda weird knowing a few days ago it was a beautiful day and just a couple hundred miles to the east was a major category 5 hurricane
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I was like an hour+ east.
As long as you're not FROM Philly, you're a safe human being.
lol. though I do miss the cheesesteaks from Jim's
well thank you
well thank you. and haha. I am about to go on a candy dish exploration myself
so true
Now that's a winning mane and tail !
Stay dry sweets...
thank you
You never cease to make my pulse race and make me heart skip beats. You are always so sexy and desirable to me. I could never express how much I love what you share (practically every day) here. Thank you SO very very much Justa.
aw thanks, you are way to kind. Glad you enjou
thanks, but there is a titty bomb in it, well side and back of right tit anyway, no nipple
thank you very much. I try
glad to hear it.
yeah, it was mild here too. just glad their earlier predictions were incorrect
thank you
yeah. my forecast is "chance of thunderstorms" every day but today. however that is the forecast of summer pretty much everyday. today they don't see us getting our afternoon thunderstorm.
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well happy thursday. first I will post my thong. it is a dark pink. then later I will pointlessly ramble.
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as always, fucking hot... and waiting on your ramblings...
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Wonderful photos.. You have such a beautiful bottom!!!
And more today.. thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
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Usually between 3-7 it rains. There's actually a heat advisory today
Justadesperatewifeandmom
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So, my rambling.
My pms today have me thinking about social customs and concepts, ie what is or is not rude, across different social groups. Also, whether tell people who might genuinely be ignorant to the social “rule” among this type of group when they commit a faux pas.
Take Lit for example. Even in this community, inside we have different forums groups, and inside those forums, you can see different social etiquette policies. For example, here in Ampics, being a catfisher, like using someone else’s pictures, is quite frowned upon. In other areas of lit, it is generally ignored, and in some areas of lit it is celebrated and people enjoy it. Or how people talk to each other. Ampics is generally a very soft talk, which is a large deviation from the way users interact on the GB. In the first of today’s pm examples, they brushed on something that was also brushed on in a litiquette thread last week. The concept of seeing a picture posted in ampics redistributed elsewhere with no mention of the original poster, thus one has no idea if the op was asked or not. I think most people in ampics view it is an etiquette breach, or do they? It seems those who answered the question last week in the playground do think it is a violation. However, say in fetish, which has a ton of themed threads, someone finds a picture and shares it on a thread, others will share it on another thread and that isn’t an etiquette breach. Do people in other areas of lit know this is usually considered a don’t to ampics users? We know it happens. Hell, my view count on a small group of images posted the that day is about 54 on 3 of the images and over 10,000 on the one that was reshared. I joke about the too high view counts often. I can pull them all and stop, or I can accept it. Is it also considered an etiquette violation to point out when someone commits this etiquette violation? If you see a picture of someone in ampics posted by another user elsewhere, do you point to that that might not be viewed favorably? Do you tell the original owner so they could kill the link if bothered? Do you think it is completely appropriate and anyone shares anything others should share it too? Is that around lit, or is that anywhere? Does it matter what is in the picture? Like a picture that included the face is a no, but face was cropped so it’s cool? Now in this case, I was not asked, and while I do believe it is technically a litiquette violation, I am not bothered by it because the picture is rather vanilla. However, interesting to me, was only one person mentioned this to me, thus that would lead me to believe it is either not seen as an etiquette breech but most, or that it is a greater breech of etiquette to acknowledge that a breech of etiquette occurred than it is to distribute an ampics pic in other forums without checking.
That brings to another pm. So yet again, a new random stranger pmed me, recommending a breast reduction and questioned if I had looked into it, because it looks needed. This has happened in real life too, just never by a man. Lit, it is always a man. In both lit and real life, I treat it as an impartial well meaning question, as such I answer, then make a joke, but advise in a joking way that they should probably be careful about recommending plastic surgery to random women as many frown upon it. Most people, such as women in real life, or most men on lit, admit they are aware that it is generally not polite, but then share their first hand knowledge of the process, their copays, recovery, and difference in their lives. They decided their first hand experience having done it (or on lit, their wife doing it) was valuable enough to make the etiquette breach. I get that. I have never done it with a stranger, or for cosmetic, but I have told someone I thought they had a medical concern they should look at. I was 95% sure her and her children had a rare hereditary condition that more than half the people with it don’t know, and is very often accompanied by a heart condition that is usually asymptomatic until fatal, and often fatal young. People with this genetic condition get yearly echo cardiograms so their hearts can be repaired when the defect presents before it fails. That woman avoided me for two weeks, but both her and one of her sons had surgery to fix this defect by the end of the month. While she was offended, she took my advice to see a cardiologist, mentioned this, and her boys will probably be the first males in her family to make it to 40. I think I made the right call to share my laymen medical opinion. Had I been wrong, she probably would have avoided me forever. I get making the tough call. I don't know if I would do it for cosmetic recommendations, but I guess I could see a woman who had cosmetic surgery believe it was so life changing that personal experience mitigates the social violation.
But then there is these old foreign dudes on lit. After they recommend surgery, question why I haven't or how much I have looked into it, and I answer their question, make a joke, then recommend against telling strangers to get cosmetic surgery as an introduction, as I always do, rather than replying with their extensive knowledge on the subject that explains the social violation, or acknowledging they were not aware that some may be offended, they get annoyed, reply with low level snark, ALL CAPS, “your best interests”, then foreign versions of bless your heart. Like, I have done something highly offensive by not agreeing to jump right on their breast augmentation suggestion. This has happened here several times. I am beginning to wonder if I am the confused one. Like, is this only rude in America but customary elsewhere? Do men go up to random women in like the UK and Canada, introducing themselves by telling women what cosmetic surgery to have? Do they see chicks and say "hi, I am Bob. I noticed that you are really fat. Do you know they have this surgery called gastric bypass? you should get that." or "hi, I am Bob. I noticed you have very small tits. Do you know that they will implant these bags of liquid to make them look normal? you need to look in to it." Then like the women are shocked because they have never heard of such a thing and are so impressed by this new knowledge? Am I supposed to be thanking them and telling them how wise they are, and not actually answering that I have indeed heard of it, but am not all that interested in cosmetic surgery right now? Is the cosmetic surgery greeting like the Bahamas "hey pretty lady" greeting? I actually don't even mind the question that much, it is just so weird that answering the question, joking about "do your boobs hang low", and recommending they be careful about this introduction style, seems to be a major social afront to them while them being butt hurt is like twilight zone to me. It is hilarious. Especially, when they mansplain too. (fyi, justifiable means needed, as the recent on pointed out, lol).
This reminds me of another time I pointed out a social blunder. An obvious foreign women who spoke very poor broken English drop the N bomb while discussing young African American males. I could have been offended, I could have ignored, instead I addressed the initial discussion topic, then recommended she be careful using that word as most people are offended by it. She was confused as it was how the group she was discussing referred to each other often. She genuinely seemed to have no idea how some might react to hearing it. Was I wrong to discuss with her what she had done? I honestly don't believe I was.
Anyway, if the cosmetic surgery introduction and explaining simple words to women thing is a proper cultural custom in the UK and Canada, I feel that I would be remiss to not inform the foreign men of Lit that this is not customary in many places. You might get a chick who, like me, who answers the question, or the big chick might try to crush you and little Ms. tiny tits might kick you in the balls, repeatedly. American responses to this can vary greatly, but unless you have extensive knowledge on the cosmetic surgery you are recommending, it is extremely ill-advised. If you do have the extensive knowledge and feel you must share it, only do so if it truly matters and do not mansplain. If you should get a work visa in America, under no circumstances should you introduce yourself to female coworkers by advising the cosmetic work that you think is needed.
This has been your PSA for the day. Cue the pissed off emails from old socially inept men recommending breast augmentation that it was in my best interests and that I am a bitch for laughing that their annoyance at my disregard of their concern about my body. And they will probably mansplain it. And I will probably laugh and laugh.
My pms today have me thinking about social customs and concepts, ie what is or is not rude, across different social groups. Also, whether tell people who might genuinely be ignorant to the social “rule” among this type of group when they commit a faux pas.
Take Lit for example. Even in this community, inside we have different forums groups, and inside those forums, you can see different social etiquette policies. For example, here in Ampics, being a catfisher, like using someone else’s pictures, is quite frowned upon. In other areas of lit, it is generally ignored, and in some areas of lit it is celebrated and people enjoy it. Or how people talk to each other. Ampics is generally a very soft talk, which is a large deviation from the way users interact on the GB. In the first of today’s pm examples, they brushed on something that was also brushed on in a litiquette thread last week. The concept of seeing a picture posted in ampics redistributed elsewhere with no mention of the original poster, thus one has no idea if the op was asked or not. I think most people in ampics view it is an etiquette breach, or do they? It seems those who answered the question last week in the playground do think it is a violation. However, say in fetish, which has a ton of themed threads, someone finds a picture and shares it on a thread, others will share it on another thread and that isn’t an etiquette breach. Do people in other areas of lit know this is usually considered a don’t to ampics users? We know it happens. Hell, my view count on a small group of images posted the that day is about 54 on 3 of the images and over 10,000 on the one that was reshared. I joke about the too high view counts often. I can pull them all and stop, or I can accept it. Is it also considered an etiquette violation to point out when someone commits this etiquette violation? If you see a picture of someone in ampics posted by another user elsewhere, do you point to that that might not be viewed favorably? Do you tell the original owner so they could kill the link if bothered? Do you think it is completely appropriate and anyone shares anything others should share it too? Is that around lit, or is that anywhere? Does it matter what is in the picture? Like a picture that included the face is a no, but face was cropped so it’s cool? Now in this case, I was not asked, and while I do believe it is technically a litiquette violation, I am not bothered by it because the picture is rather vanilla. However, interesting to me, was only one person mentioned this to me, thus that would lead me to believe it is either not seen as an etiquette breech but most, or that it is a greater breech of etiquette to acknowledge that a breech of etiquette occurred than it is to distribute an ampics pic in other forums without checking.
That brings to another pm. So yet again, a new random stranger pmed me, recommending a breast reduction and questioned if I had looked into it, because it looks needed. This has happened in real life too, just never by a man. Lit, it is always a man. In both lit and real life, I treat it as an impartial well meaning question, as such I answer, then make a joke, but advise in a joking way that they should probably be careful about recommending plastic surgery to random women as many frown upon it. Most people, such as women in real life, or most men on lit, admit they are aware that it is generally not polite, but then share their first hand knowledge of the process, their copays, recovery, and difference in their lives. They decided their first hand experience having done it (or on lit, their wife doing it) was valuable enough to make the etiquette breach. I get that. I have never done it with a stranger, or for cosmetic, but I have told someone I thought they had a medical concern they should look at. I was 95% sure her and her children had a rare hereditary condition that more than half the people with it don’t know, and is very often accompanied by a heart condition that is usually asymptomatic until fatal, and often fatal young. People with this genetic condition get yearly echo cardiograms so their hearts can be repaired when the defect presents before it fails. That woman avoided me for two weeks, but both her and one of her sons had surgery to fix this defect by the end of the month. While she was offended, she took my advice to see a cardiologist, mentioned this, and her boys will probably be the first males in her family to make it to 40. I think I made the right call to share my laymen medical opinion. Had I been wrong, she probably would have avoided me forever. I get making the tough call. I don't know if I would do it for cosmetic recommendations, but I guess I could see a woman who had cosmetic surgery believe it was so life changing that personal experience mitigates the social violation.
But then there is these old foreign dudes on lit. After they recommend surgery, question why I haven't or how much I have looked into it, and I answer their question, make a joke, then recommend against telling strangers to get cosmetic surgery as an introduction, as I always do, rather than replying with their extensive knowledge on the subject that explains the social violation, or acknowledging they were not aware that some may be offended, they get annoyed, reply with low level snark, ALL CAPS, “your best interests”, then foreign versions of bless your heart. Like, I have done something highly offensive by not agreeing to jump right on their breast augmentation suggestion. This has happened here several times. I am beginning to wonder if I am the confused one. Like, is this only rude in America but customary elsewhere? Do men go up to random women in like the UK and Canada, introducing themselves by telling women what cosmetic surgery to have? Do they see chicks and say "hi, I am Bob. I noticed that you are really fat. Do you know they have this surgery called gastric bypass? you should get that." or "hi, I am Bob. I noticed you have very small tits. Do you know that they will implant these bags of liquid to make them look normal? you need to look in to it." Then like the women are shocked because they have never heard of such a thing and are so impressed by this new knowledge? Am I supposed to be thanking them and telling them how wise they are, and not actually answering that I have indeed heard of it, but am not all that interested in cosmetic surgery right now? Is the cosmetic surgery greeting like the Bahamas "hey pretty lady" greeting? I actually don't even mind the question that much, it is just so weird that answering the question, joking about "do your boobs hang low", and recommending they be careful about this introduction style, seems to be a major social afront to them while them being butt hurt is like twilight zone to me. It is hilarious. Especially, when they mansplain too. (fyi, justifiable means needed, as the recent on pointed out, lol).
This reminds me of another time I pointed out a social blunder. An obvious foreign women who spoke very poor broken English drop the N bomb while discussing young African American males. I could have been offended, I could have ignored, instead I addressed the initial discussion topic, then recommended she be careful using that word as most people are offended by it. She was confused as it was how the group she was discussing referred to each other often. She genuinely seemed to have no idea how some might react to hearing it. Was I wrong to discuss with her what she had done? I honestly don't believe I was.
Anyway, if the cosmetic surgery introduction and explaining simple words to women thing is a proper cultural custom in the UK and Canada, I feel that I would be remiss to not inform the foreign men of Lit that this is not customary in many places. You might get a chick who, like me, who answers the question, or the big chick might try to crush you and little Ms. tiny tits might kick you in the balls, repeatedly. American responses to this can vary greatly, but unless you have extensive knowledge on the cosmetic surgery you are recommending, it is extremely ill-advised. If you do have the extensive knowledge and feel you must share it, only do so if it truly matters and do not mansplain. If you should get a work visa in America, under no circumstances should you introduce yourself to female coworkers by advising the cosmetic work that you think is needed.
This has been your PSA for the day. Cue the pissed off emails from old socially inept men recommending breast augmentation that it was in my best interests and that I am a bitch for laughing that their annoyance at my disregard of their concern about my body. And they will probably mansplain it. And I will probably laugh and laugh.
Justadesperatewifeandmom
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Love it.Spank for a Thursday lunch break.
thank you
thank you. And I delivered a huge pile of pointless word blabber.
Great ass! And a lovely color for that ass!
thank you. I can rock pink, sometimes
Thank youyou and your thong pictures make my Thursdays a lot brighter.
thanks. and it is almost firday
Wonderful photos.. You have such a beautiful bottom!!!
And more today.. thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
thanks, you are quite welcome
well, maybe it will rain for you tomorrow again.
Justadesperatewifeandmom
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haha
ok yeah, I didn't think so, but I have been surprised about some cultural norms, like my Mexican friends swearing their flighty asses are not rude by always being late, it is just their cultural way. lol.
it is good to know that Canadian Bob is like American Bob and is just an asshole.
what about Bob in the UK. Is this appropriate for Bob in the UK?
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Not suppose to rain for a week
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EctoJohn
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I don't care which country you are from, it's rude to suggest plastic surgery to any woman as your first point of conversation.
God forbid a woman was to be happy with her natural appearance.
Unless you specifically complain about whatever it is they are suggesting cosmetic surgery about, there's no reason to bring it up.
As for your natural appearance, your ass is glorious.
Glory Ass.
I could fall for you just seeing your ass alone.
God forbid a woman was to be happy with her natural appearance.
Unless you specifically complain about whatever it is they are suggesting cosmetic surgery about, there's no reason to bring it up.
As for your natural appearance, your ass is glorious.
Glory Ass.
I could fall for you just seeing your ass alone.
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There are assshats everywhere, we all have known some in life who have no filter. Now apply that to a faceless place like the net where consequence is often non existent and people let their dick mode flow. Some might not try to be mean but others give no shits.
And towards woman? It gets even worse if the stories I've heard are anything to go by. God help a woman if she doesn't agree with the guy. The nerve! Like I said, some are just asshats.
And towards woman? It gets even worse if the stories I've heard are anything to go by. God help a woman if she doesn't agree with the guy. The nerve! Like I said, some are just asshats.
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It’s not ok for Bob. Or Tom. Or Jim. Or Mike. Or anyone!
While I’d like to say that these types of comments surprise me, one does not need to look further than Twitter, Instagram, or any other form of social media (including comments on news articles, etc) to know that there are just too many people in the world who will say anything. And while it’s easier on Lit where most users generally are anonymous, even people who are not anonymous for some reason don’t feel the need to first filter their thoughts or comments. Republican or Democrat. Conservative or Liberal. It doesn’t matter. We would all be better served with more kindness. And nobody should assume they know better or know someone else’s story. Your example of telling the woman of a potential unknown hereditary health problem is far different from suggesting breast reduction (unless that woman has shared with you information that would leave one to believe she is seeking advice).
You’re perfect just the way you are. Me on the other hand, that’s a different story!
RjThoughts
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What, wait? We can PM you?
Damn, nerd talk coming!!!!
Damn, nerd talk coming!!!!
Justadesperatewifeandmom
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well enjoy the sun
I agree, but I am willing to admit there is a big world out there and I may be completely ignorant to the fact that this commonplace somewhere.
And I guess in their defense, I do complain about poorly fitting clothes. And make fun of them a lot. Especially that cheap china clothing and their extreme dislike of women having boobies. Maybe my jokes are misunderstood. Really, I would much prefer clothing be made for the fact that many women do indeed have boobies, not that women invest in medical procedures to fit into clothes. Manufacturing are starting the hear the desires of the big boobed consumers. yeah, mostly in the UK, but some small independent companies have been springing up in the US . It is silly that most clothing patterns are designed based on the build of a B-cup female, like they have always done, and just sized up, refusing to change, when science continues to show that this size hasn't been the norm for decades. It is silly for any business to stick to antiquated business models and methods. of course, maybe is it a good thing. It is permitting a place for independent female entrepreneurs to build amazing companies out of the idea of, "well if they refuse to make clothes, I will." More power to them and their sewing machines, then turning that into real labels, with real profits, and real employees.
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but but, generally people with no filter know they have no filter, and admit they have no filter.
haha.
well thank you. though again, in their defense maybe my comical insults of clothing are somehow insinuating that I am seeking layperson advice on what to do to make my tits smaller, not that I am wanting to know why china hates the boobies.
Ahemm, Justa pm me with a list of euro fools that you want me to Bitch Slap...
And its a done deal...
haha. I can do my own bitchslapping if I want.
What, wait? We can PM you?
Damn, nerd talk coming!!!!
of course you can pm me. anyone can. will I reply well and timely, eh.
well wait, no one pm me with medical enhancement advice unless it comes with cash to cover. and I will totally just spend the cash on UK clothes instead lol.
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