How to Heal from a Broken Heart? Any advice is welcome, funny or deep

[ElliesExplorations]

Hey all, I've had my heart broken and am struggling in how to see the good in things, the beauty and most importantly, gratitude.

How do you heal a broken heart and move on to feeling better and more confident?

Thank you for reading this and taking the time to post

 

[blulilacgrl]

Hey all, I've had my heart broken and am struggling in how to see the good in things, the beauty and most importantly, gratitude.

How do you heal a broken heart and move on to feeling better and more confident?

Thank you for reading this and taking the time to post

Time and finding a new hobby or revisiting an old hobby that you let slide. Or do a purge of things (clean your closet, organize something, etc). The throwing out of trash can often be cathartic.

 

[Shelly2inme]

Only love can break a heart...

And only love can mend it again.

Don't give up on life and love. Someplace out there is someone that could be the other half of you. It is not true that there is only one person that you can love. You just have to wait, you can't hurry love. But while you wait to find the right person enjoy this time to grow as a person yourself. Embrace other wonderful things in life. Focus on giving love to others. Not just romantic love but I mean helping and caring and nurturing others. There is more happiness in giving than in receiving and as you focus on helping others your mind will be off of your broken heart and you will grow as a person. You will see that you are living in a deformed world with many broken hearts. There are those who go through life breaking hearts and those that go through life mending them. If you mend other peoples hearts your own heart will mend.

The more you love the more lovable you will become. And a person with a good heart will see how lovable you are and they will love you and never break your heart.

 

[Eisranac]

Music almost always does it for me. When I delve into my favorite music, the heartache disappears even if only temporary.

Truly supportive people are also very helpful.

The key is to try to keep your mind off of the heartache as much as possible. It's not always easy.

 

[Esslemont]

Forgive...(if required) and forget.....in time.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Hey all, I've had my heart broken and am struggling in how to see the good in things, the beauty and most importantly, gratitude.

How do you heal a broken heart and move on to feeling better and more confident?

Thank you for reading this and taking the time to post

Lean on your friends. They want you to.

I’m sorry.

 

[lovetopleasewomen]

Sounds like a Bee Gees song.....but, ice cream. Lots & lots of ice cream.

 

[ElliesExplorations]

Time and finding a new hobby or revisiting an old hobby that you let slide. Or do a purge of things (clean your closet, organize something, etc). The throwing out of trash can often be cathartic.

And only love can mend it again.

Don't give up on life and love. Someplace out there is someone that could be the other half of you. It is not true that there is only one person that you can love. You just have to wait, you can't hurry love. But while you wait to find the right person enjoy this time to grow as a person yourself. Embrace other wonderful things in life. Focus on giving love to others. Not just romantic love but I mean helping and caring and nurturing others. There is more happiness in giving than in receiving and as you focus on helping others your mind will be off of your broken heart and you will grow as a person. You will see that you are living in a deformed world with many broken hearts. There are those who go through life breaking hearts and those that go through life mending them. If you mend other peoples hearts your own heart will mend.

The more you love the more lovable you will become. And a person with a good heart will see how lovable you are and they will love you and never break your heart.

Beautiful, I will read this again

Forgive...(if required) and forget.....in time.

So true

Lean on your friends. They want you to.

I’m sorry.

Thank you, I'm leaning where I can

Sounds like a Bee Gees song.....but, ice cream. Lots & lots of ice cream.

lol, I have chocolate

Music almost always does it for me. When I delve into my favorite music, the heartache disappears even if only temporary.

Truly supportive people are also very helpful.

The key is to try to keep your mind off of the heartache as much as possible. It's not always easy.

Music, support, silence, forgiving, seeing new growth from the destruction, mourn the loss, grieve, but in the end learn from it.

Lots of advice to work with. Thanks for letting me share on here.

 

[CharlieB4]

Write/type a story, get all the shit out of your head. Best of all you can pick your own ending, or have multiple ones.

 

[tallladiesman]

Beautiful, I will read this again



So true



Thank you, I'm leaning where I can



lol, I have chocolate



Music, support, silence, forgiving, seeing new growth from the destruction, mourn the loss, grieve, but in the end learn from it.

Lots of advice to work with. Thanks for letting me share on here.

Good to see you being positive
Onwards and upwards

 

[MrPractical]

Hey all, I've had my heart broken and am struggling in how to see the good in things, the beauty and most importantly, gratitude.

How do you heal a broken heart and move on to feeling better and more confident?

Thank you for reading this and taking the time to post

Time. Solitude. Reflection.

Give it time. Spend time learning about your needs. Reflect on what you did wrong instead of what they did wrong.

Best advice I can give.

 

[ElliesExplorations]

Good to see you being positive
Onwards and upwards

ty

 

[Series 6]

Time. Solitude. Reflection.

Give it time. Spend time learning about your needs. Reflect on what you did wrong instead of what they did wrong.

Best advice I can give.

The key is also to be gentle with yourself when reflecting on what you could do better. Forgiving yourself is important as well.

 

[MrPractical]

The key is also to be gentle with yourself when reflecting on what you could do better. Forgiving yourself is important as well.

Nicely said

 

[Dribble]

Good...beauty...gratitude...seeing anything is a choice. So if I know I am struggling finding these things, I put myself in situations where I cant but help see them. These things exist around me all the time. So it is me understanding I am the issue by closing down. Why do I close down? To protect myself. But why? The pain is already there.

I do simple things. Go to a park and watch children play. Take a walk and focus on sounds...and smells. Cruise pinterest and find something that catches my eye. Take a shower. Go to the grocery store. Whatever it takes to get out of my head. I remember saying...I used to do that...why did I stop? Do it again.

 

[ElliesExplorations]

The key is also to be gentle with yourself when reflecting on what you could do better. Forgiving yourself is important as well.

Nicely said

Agreed

Forgiveness and letting go, understanding and acceptance of the situation.

 

[Series 6]

How to Heal from a Broken Heart? Any advice is welcome, funny or deep

Well, the funny response I would give is that they say, "To get over someone you need to get under someone." I'll offer my services for that.

 

[ElliesExplorations]

Well, the funny response I would give is that they say, "To get over someone you need to get under someone." I'll offer my services for that.

lol I'll add that to the list

 

[ericsmith1212]

How long was the relationship?

 

[ElliesExplorations]

The relationship was just a few months long, but time is helping to heal.

Best advice so far....when I getting over someone, it helps to get under someone else...lol But not going to do that

 

[ElliesExplorations]

Distance. As much of it as you can. It’s where I went wrong.

Thank you, and sorry it went wrong for you too.

 

[Esslemont]

Probably a good idea to stop talking about it and move on.

 

[ElliesExplorations]

Probably a good idea to stop talking about it and move on.

Right on ya I have and am ready to have fun