Would you sleep with a married person?

[HampshireBoy]

I've mentioned on here and even written a story about how I met and bedded a married lady. I was seperated and ging through a divorce, she was very neglected at home - emotionally and physically. Over quite a few years we had a FWB relationship, as well as providing each other emotional support. It took her 3 years before they seperated. On one occasion, when the marriage was definitely failing, I met her and was invited back to their place. Even though I knew he was away it was a slightly worrying experience to be staying the night and fucking her in thier bed.

I met him a couple of time by chance, both times I was out with her brother (who knew I was bedding his sister), it was an odd experience to be introduced to this bloke who had no idea that I was fucking his wife.

In general I try to avoid married women, this just happened.

 

[dacoach44]

Yes........the married dames....

I've mentioned on here and even written a story about how I met and bedded a married lady. I was seperated and ging through a divorce, she was very neglected at home - emotionally and physically. Over quite a few years we had a FWB relationship, as well as providing each other emotional support. It took her 3 years before they seperated. On one occasion, when the marriage was definitely failing, I met her and was invited back to their place. Even though I knew he was away it was a slightly worrying experience to be staying the night and fucking her in thier bed.

I met him a couple of time by chance, both times I was out with her brother (who knew I was bedding his sister), it was an odd experience to be introduced to this bloke who had no idea that I was fucking his wife.

In general I try to avoid married women, this just happened.

Its bad karma. Or as we say in the Army, bad Ju-ju.

 

[doublea89]

Same here. I have slept with several married women but I wouldn't want my spouse to do that too me.

 

[screwher]

Same here. I have slept with several married women but I wouldn't want my spouse to do that too me.

My wife feels the same way. We're a hotwife couple and she has my full support and encouragement in having sex with other men now. But it was her cheating on me that started it. If I were to have done that she'd be crushed.

 

[WordsAreErotic]

I have cheated with one woman. I’ve thought about it with others. Never really made the move, but have decided I’m ok if it happens with certain people. These are people with whom I have a special connection and the thought of sharing the intimacies of sex makes me think we could only be closer.

 

[bone251]

Well, Lets just say you are in a bad or sexless marriage. I was once. Discretion is very important.

So the logical scenario is a married FWB as they will need to be as discreet as you.

Or the next logical scenario is an escort as you pay them to leave and be discreet.

A really good choice is a married escort.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

In our current lifestyle, I would not. In our past each of us had an affair. Both of the partners were married. Both ended in divorce. I know on hubby's side the affair caused the split. She told me that her husband just didn't measure up after being with Ron. Not sure about my partner's split. I suspect it did though.

Now neither of us want to be a part of that again. To many scars.

 

[PenelopeWood]

I have once, not knowing he was married at the time. Close a second time, but stopped before it had gone too far.
My reasons for not sleeping with married men are selfish. He would be home snuggling with his wife and I would be left home cuddling with the cat. At my age, I am uncertain if I would want to share a household, but I want someone who can get away on a moments notice.

 

[AngelaBaby]

Couple times

I have a few times. When you work with someone everyday for a long period of time during review or trial things happen. I never plan it. And sometimes you forgot about it at the moment.

But I have no interest in being the third wheel or take someone away.

 

[DayDreamerZN]

Where do I sign up?

I think this is more common than most people would admit.

In today's day and age I honestly don't see anything wrong with it if your spouse is not meeting your specific needs.

It more than obviously just depends on what it is you're looking for.

I've cheated... And I don't feel guilty about it. I'd do it again in a heartbeat if the circumstances presented itself. Does that make me a bad person? Maybe...

I guess you can only do so much talking before someone else will come along and the temptation is too much.

Once a cheater always a cheater? Debateable

 

[TheWhiteBull]

I am married so every time I sleep with my wife. Badum chik!

Jokes aside, everything is situational. I’ve slept with two married women before. One was only married because her husband wouldn’t sign divorce papers. The other just slept around but I didn’t feel too bad for the guy because he knew what she was doing and still tried to keep her around.

 

[LizVegas79]

I sleep with one every night too lol.

I always kid that if two people are both married, even if it's not to each other, it's not really cheating. But I don't really believe that. I would never sleep with anyone else without my husband's permission.

But when I was single, unless I was friends with his wife (or friends with her husband ) I didn't consider it my problem. I crossed sleeping with a married guy off my Bucket List a long, long time ago. I crossed sleeping with a married woman off a long time ago too

 

[Crownvic]

You'd be amazed at how many older men there are whose wives have retired from the sexual part of their relationships. I take care of quite a few of them. We all deserve a fulfilling life.

Thank you for your service....

 

[13Fantasies]

If my wife would let me.

 

[PenelopeWood]

You”re Married?

If my wife would let me.

I have to cross you of the list

 

[OldFred65]

I/we have many, many times. We often have couples over and swap with them. Sometimes it is straight sex, and sometimes it is the guys together and the gals together.

 

[13Fantasies]

I have to cross you of the list

-Sigh-

Story of my life.

As for your earlier concern, I wouldn't be home snuggling. We don't sleep in the same bed or have sex, so...

 

[ericandshannon]

.....

 

[PearlyDewdrops]

Admittedly I have.

I did last night. When we met I didn't know he was in a relationship. Now he says that knowing I'm available every couple of months or so keeps him sane within his marriage. I can live with that. The married/partnered women I've slept with usually had similar reasons. A revenge fuck is often a bad thing though.

The one rule I have is that I don't sleep with the wives or partners of friends or people I like.

But I have slept with married people. I appreciate that sometimes people get hungry, sometimes they're starving, that sometimes a little of what you fancy but your partner doesn't can help keep you well. We all have appetites.

I try not to judge. Recently I found out the wife of a best friend had been sleeping around on him for years. But when I found out why, she had my sympathy, though she really should have left him much earlier than she did.

Life, eh!? Fucking complicated.

 

[curl4ever]

Top preference would be with wife.

But after fifteen years of zero, this option...

You'd be amazed at how many older men there are whose wives have retired from the sexual part of their relationships. I take care of quite a few of them. We all deserve a fulfilling life.

... has started feeling increasingly reasonable. <sigh>

 

[dashd]

I sleep with a married woman on a regular basis.... she hapens to be my wife. I only wish she would be willing to be a hot wife.

 

[goodtool]

i always wanted too, once i slept with a girl who had a BF. does tat count ?

 

[LekaSveta]

I regularly sleep with a couple different married people, but they're polyamorous and their partners usually know what we're up to. I did have an affair with a married and closeted woman when I was younger, and it ended badly for all of us, so i'm not inclined to do that again outside of my current poly arrangements

 

[ErickTheRed]

Yes i would, i slept with girls who had bf, so why not a married woman?

 

[KnottyProfessor]

Before I was married I made out with a friend who was married and going through a rough time. She stopped it before it went too far though. She finally divorced. Because she was a friend in need, I didn't really see it as being with a married woman. But I don't think I'd have any issues as long as she (or he) were fully aware of what they were doing - and it wasn't just some drunken "mistake" or something like that. I'm married and appreciate fully the decision that is being made by having sex with another without my wife's knowledge.