Would you use a dating website?

Jada59

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I did sign up at a popular one following my divorce. Reason being, my daughter said her dad, my ex was on there. We both wanted to see what kind of lies he was telling on his profile. He lied about pretty much everything. Alas, I could not just view the profiles. It forced me to get an account. I did, but put just minimal information, then deleted the account after looking at all the male profiles in this area. He was not listed for me to see. Perhaps he blocked me. But there was not one person there who looked remotely normal, just going by their profile pics. Most looked deranged.

Heard a story last week of a local woman who signed up for one. Had one date. The guy was a criminal and was arrested on their date. Next guy took her to Denny's, then on the way out, started driving like a bat out of hell. Police began chasing him. He jumped out of the car, was injured but was caught by the police. He had a criminal history too. The poor woman was left alone in the moving vehicle which luckily she was able to take command of and get it stopped without getting injured. Yikes!

Last night I looked at a website with the word "silver" in it. They keep sending me emails. It's for people age 50 and up but it said there might be a few 30-40 year olds that were looking for older people. Once again, I could not view the profiles without signing up.

I read reviews of this site. Got 5 stars for things like ease of use and website layout but only 2.5 for meeting people. Not only did you have to pay for use, you could not message people unless you paid for the most expensive plan. You could sign up for a 3 month plan at close to $30 per month but it didn't allow you to message people. You could just put emoticons such as a smiley face next to their profile. I suppose the intent would be to suck the other person into paying for an upgrade. Gee... I got a smiley face! I'll pay more so I can contact her!

Anyway... Such a service seems to me to be as big waste of time and no way would I pay for it. If they're going to charge, they should at least do background checks on these people.

Thoughts?
 
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Tinder, POF, Bumble, etc.
Honestly, it's to get laid. I don't lie in my profile about what I'm looking for and what I absolutely do not want and really don't hold back on my disdain for the female of the species and they still line up.
Ok maybe not line up but close enough. I never have a problem. Bitches just...sigh. I have no words for how they treat themselves.
 
I did sign up at a popular one following my divorce. Reason being, my daughter said her dad, my ex was on there. We both wanted to see what kind of lies he was telling on his profile. He lied about pretty much everything. Alas, I could not just view the profiles. It forced me to get an account. I did, but put just minimal information, then deleted the account after looking at all the male profiles in this area. He was not listed for me to see. Perhaps he blocked me. But there was not one person there who looked remotely normal, just going by their profile pics. Most looked deranged.

Heard a story last week of a local woman who signed up for one. Had one date. The guy was a criminal and was arrested on their date. Next guy took her to Denny's, then on the way out, started driving like a bat out of hell. Police began chasing him. He jumped out of the car, was injured but was caught by the police. He had a criminal history too. The poor woman was left alone in the moving vehicle which luckily she was able to take command of and get it stopped without getting injured. Yikes!

Last night I looked at a website with the word "silver" in it. They keep sending me emails. It's for people age 50 and up but it said there might be a few 30-40 year olds that were looking for older people. Once again, I could not review the profiles without signing up.

I read reviews of this site. Got 5 stars for things like ease of use and website layout but only 2.5 for meeting people. Not only did you have to pay for use, you could not message people unless you paid for the most expensive plan. You could sign up for a 3 month plan at close to $30 per month but it didn't allow you to message people. You could just put emoticons such as a smiley face next to their profile. I suppose the intent would be to suck the other person into paying for an upgrade. Gee... I got a smiley face! I'll pay more so I can contact her!

Anyway... Such a service seems to me to be as big waste of time and no way would I pay for it. If they're going toi charge, they should at least do background checks on these people.

Thoughts?
its not the sites

ITS YOU:cool:
 
Tinder, POF, Bumble, etc.
Honestly, it's to get laid. I don't lie in my profile about what I'm looking for and what I absolutely do not want and really don't hold back on my disdain for the female of the species and they still line up.
Ok maybe not line up but close enough. I never have a problem. Bitches just...sigh. I have no words for how they treat themselves.

Heh. This "silver" one said it was only for people who wanted a lifetime commitment. That to me was even weirder.

I'm not looking for a lifetime commitment. I'm happy just the way I am! OTOH, I'm not running from a commitment either. If I meet the right person, it might happen. But there's no way I could even contemplate that based on some online profile. This site also matches your interests. Seems too clinical and again, it doesn't work that way for me.
 
you d have a problem

all your comments are negative

all you say this isnt for me, that isnt for me

who needs that?

I met my wife online after 10 yrs of fun :)
 
I have now been married to her 15 yrs....I still look at the site....many of the women are still on there....with the same pic they had.....15 yrs ago!!!!!!!!!!:mad:
 
Heh. This "silver" one said it was only for people who wanted a lifetime commitment. That to me was even weirder.

I'm not looking for a lifetime commitment.

At that age, 'lifetime' may not be all that long.
 
I have now been married to her 15 yrs....I still look at the site....many of the women are still on there....with the same pic they had.....15 yrs ago!!!!!!!!!!:mad:

Did you marry the tranny who you were stocking :confused:
 
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I was on a major online dating site for two years. Online dating sites have an interesting dynamic, especially in my age demographic.

You get a lot of people claiming that they're "not going to settle"....all well and good, but one day they're gonna wake up and be 65 years old and wondered how they got that old and are still single.

My favorite online dating story was one of these "not going to settle" type, she actually listed ten "must have" qualities in her potential dates :rolleyes:. Well....it just so happened I met all ten of these qualities, BUT I was one year over her "maximum age limit".

Sooo....I sent her a nice chatty note stating I met all ten of her "must haves" and I enjoyed reading her profile but I would respect her age limit requirements even though I was only one year outside the max, I wished her good fortune and hoped she found someone more "age appropriate" in her search....

.....I got a reply back in less than five minutes. "wait wait let's talk about this!" .....We went out two days later.
 
oh, and I've found that about 30-40% of all women on online dating sites are "Kinda sorta still married"....I suspect the figure might be higher for men.

It used to be one of my upfront "qualifier" questions: "Are you completely 100% divorced or 'kinda sorta still married'".
 
oh, and I've found that about 30-40% of all women on online dating sites are "Kinda sorta still married"....I suspect the figure might be higher for men.

It used to be one of my upfront "qualifier" questions: "Are you completely 100% divorced or 'kinda sorta still married'".

It's far higher for women. By a light year. Sometimes hubby knows, most times he doesn't.
 
the pics women have are either yrs old or their daughter....I never got the point of it
 
I actually wish I had taken pics of some of these lying bitches. Then post their profile pic alongside the real one. Oh sure it's the same person. 20 years ago.
And beware anything thats even remotely like a Glamour Shots.
Lying ass bitches.
 
and you take em to dinner, they are always on a fucking diet, BUT order the MOST expensive shit and TAKE ONE FUCKING Bite...a $20 dessert and wont touch it after a tiny nibble.....fucking cunts:mad:



these are NOT the cream of the crop......


but they BITCH about us guys:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
 
and you take em to dinner, they are always on a fucking diet, BUT order the MOST expensive shit and TAKE ONE FUCKING Bite...a $20 dessert and wont touch it after a tiny nibble.....fucking cunts:mad:



these are NOT the cream of the crop......


but they BITCH about us guys:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

That's what you get for taking them out. Meet at the bar, at most you buy a drink and it's an easy exit if ya gotta.
 
and you take em to dinner, they are always on a fucking diet, BUT order the MOST expensive shit and TAKE ONE FUCKING Bite...a $20 dessert and wont touch it after a tiny nibble.....fucking cunts:mad:



these are NOT the cream of the crop......


but they BITCH about us guys:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

When was the last time you took someone on a date?
 
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