Planning to give head for first time - any advice?

[JK Kensington]

The title of the thread pretty much says it all!

I'm a 46-year-old married man, bi-curious pretty much since my early 20s. I've never really acted on it, but I feel it's time. While I want to bottom, I don't plan to rush into that and would rather take things more slowly (somewhat) and start by going down on a guy. I think I've found the one who will be my first. He's a crossdresser, which I love because I used to do that quite a bit and miss it badly. His package is amazing... thick, smooth, and certainly looks longer than mine.

What advice do you have for me? I know what I like, but everybody's different. I have always loved having a woman use her teeth just a little bit on the underside of my cock, but that's probably because when I got my first blowies at 16, she wasn't the best at it and I would tell her to use her teeth so I knew she was down there!

Do I suck his balls? Just concentrate on trying to take as much of his cock in my mouth as I can? How hard to I stroke him into my mouth? Swallowing is the plan - no desire to have to clean cum off my face or clothes before I go back to work after taking a "lunch break." Condoms are also a no-no for this, as I want to feel and taste DICK, not latex. I hate the smell of condoms. Yes, I know diseases can be passed this way. I'm also trusting that his tests are accurate. Now, if there was anal involved, no doubt there would be condoms. But not for oral. I want the full experience.

 

[bobb_sledd]

The title of the thread pretty much says it all!

I'm a 46-year-old married man, bi-curious pretty much since my early 20s. I've never really acted on it, but I feel it's time. While I want to bottom, I don't plan to rush into that and would rather take things more slowly (somewhat) and start by going down on a guy. I think I've found the one who will be my first. He's a crossdresser, which I love because I used to do that quite a bit and miss it badly. His package is amazing... thick, smooth, and certainly looks longer than mine.

What advice do you have for me? I know what I like, but everybody's different. I have always loved having a woman use her teeth just a little bit on the underside of my cock, but that's probably because when I got my first blowies at 16, she wasn't the best at it and I would tell her to use her teeth so I knew she was down there!

Do I suck his balls? Just concentrate on trying to take as much of his cock in my mouth as I can? How hard to I stroke him into my mouth? Swallowing is the plan - no desire to have to clean cum off my face or clothes before I go back to work after taking a "lunch break." Condoms are also a no-no for this, as I want to feel and taste DICK, not latex. I hate the smell of condoms. Yes, I know diseases can be passed this way. I'm also trusting that his tests are accurate. Now, if there was anal involved, no doubt there would be condoms. But not for oral. I want the full experience.

Start by doing what you would like done to you, then let nature take its course; do what feels natural. Seek and accept his direction. Enjoy, and of course...let us know how it goes!

 

[klippert]

have you met in public for a cock=tail or coffee.. or just internet chat maybe cam.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Just Enjoy...

The title of the thread pretty much says it all!

I'm a 46-year-old married man, bi-curious pretty much since my early 20s. I've never really acted on it, but I feel it's time. While I want to bottom, I don't plan to rush into that and would rather take things more slowly (somewhat) and start by going down on a guy. I think I've found the one who will be my first. He's a crossdresser, which I love because I used to do that quite a bit and miss it badly. His package is amazing... thick, smooth, and certainly looks longer than mine.

What advice do you have for me? I know what I like, but everybody's different. I have always loved having a woman use her teeth just a little bit on the underside of my cock, but that's probably because when I got my first blowies at 16, she wasn't the best at it and I would tell her to use her teeth so I knew she was down there!

Do I suck his balls? Just concentrate on trying to take as much of his cock in my mouth as I can? How hard to I stroke him into my mouth? Swallowing is the plan - no desire to have to clean cum off my face or clothes before I go back to work after taking a "lunch break." Condoms are also a no-no for this, as I want to feel and taste DICK, not latex. I hate the smell of condoms. Yes, I know diseases can be passed this way. I'm also trusting that his tests are accurate. Now, if there was anal involved, no doubt there would be condoms. But not for oral. I want the full experience.

Just enjoy….

 

[mijbob79]

first

Jk,
Just do what you like done to you. I also would like to suck a cock at some point just to feel the power you have over the cock. To feel it get harder and then fill your mouth with it's hot cum.
Makes me hard just thinking about it. Hope to try one before too long.

 

[69johnmichaels]

First time sucking cock

I was with a couple going down on the woman when I felt a mouth on my cock. The husband was giving me head, without asking permission. It felt fantastic, of course. His wife then joined him in sucking me. When I came I went down on his 8 inch cock. It felt so incredibly hot and erotic! He finished in my mouth and his wife and I cleaned him up. I never thought about HOW or WHAT to do......it was automatic.

 

[Jennygurlluvs2play]

Number one piece of advice? Don't just suck his dick, really get into it! Be passionate about sucking cock and the recipient will appreciate your efforts even more so than they would otherwise. Just don't over do it or fake it, that just kills the mood! Taking the initiative can also increase the eroticism for him. If out of nowhere you just animalistically attack his penis he'll love it!

Secondly, get creative, use all of your mouth to pleasure his cock, your lips, cheeks, tongue, palate, etc. It should go without saying but it is imperative, do be mindful of teeth. However, you can always employ a bit of gentle nibbling here and there!

Keep his cock nice and moist. Some men are fond of spit others not so much so ask before you just spit all over his cock, it could kill the mood. A bit of coconut oil can help in this area and it just downright feels great to get lubed up!

Give his balls due attention! Cup them, gently massage them, squeeze them, grip them, lick them, suck them, etc. Tell him how much you love his gorgeous, cum filled balls too!

Get him really hard and then grip firmly around the base of his cock with your hand. Then go down on his cock all the way or as far as you can while holding him there tightly, he'll love it! You can also massage the base of his cock while you work the tip using your mouth so as to stimulate his whole member without deepthroating.

Another tip is to get him into your mouth and then use your hand to more tightly squeeze your lips and tongue around him.

Another piece of advice is to be vocal. Tell him how much his cock turns you on. For example:
“I love feeling your cock in my mouth!”
“I want to feel you explode and cum in my hungry mouth.”
“Just having your cock in my mouth makes me so fucking hard!”
“I want to feel you pulsate in my mouth while you’re cumming!”
“Your precum tastes so good, I bet your cum tastes even better!”
"Give me your cum. Pump your hot seed into my mouth!"

Speaking of the finish. The last bit of advice I have is make the finish memorable and erotic in some way. You can have fun taking and then swallowing his load, licking your lips, cleaning your hands, lips, etc using your mouth, not missing a drop. Another hot finish is to let him cum all over your face and then clean it all up with your fingers, pushing it into your mouth, licking your fingers clean. Alternatively you might just start rubbing his cum into you face and neck or even go as far as to collect all his cum and use it as lube while you masturbate.

Bottom line though, have fun and he will too! My best

 

[OpenMouth]

Make sure your face reflects the sheer pleasure you are getting from worshipping his shaft. Sigh and whisper how beautiful it is. Let him savour the view of your lips closing around the head. Talk all the time about how delicious and hot it is, how sweet his precum is and how much you want to taste his spunk. Slowly run your tongue up and down the length from his balls to his peehole. Hold it between the palms of your hands and kiss the head repeatedly. Hold it as deep in your throat as you can until you gag, then do it again. And again. And again.

Guess what I've been thinking about today?

 

[suckcurious]

just don't rush it as though it is something to do off your bucket list. Take your time and enjoy it.

 

[oralgami]

Three things make for a nice blow job:
1-wetness - slobber all over him
2- be gentle
3- make sure he knows how much you're enjoying what you're doing and make sure to look him in the eye while his dick is in your mouth.

 

[none2_none2]

... I know what I like, but everybody's different. ...

That is the most important thing you posted. We ARE ALL different. The clearest way to help guide you is to talk to the guy about what turns him own. Then when you are actually getting it on, you have to look for queues as to his responses to various things you might try.

For myself, oral is VERY pleasant, but that is all. It is more of foreplay leading up to actually penetrating a guy. Things I might point out for my own personal view.

1) I do not like teeth scrapings on my cock. Note that if a tooth breaks any skin, than the acidity of saliva will make it burn.

2) I do not like someone who sucks the head only and uses his hand to jack the shaft. I prefer to feel a man's mouth down to the base. I'm only average, so it shouldn't be considered a challenge. Likewise, if they start gagging, that is a turn off.

4) I cannot take any pressure on my balls. Squeeze them, and I'm more likely to feel nauseated.

Best of luck, and never forget your own awareness that we are all different. Being a cock owner doesn't mean you can naturally please ever other cock owner.

One other thought is to try 69. At least then, you can replicate whatever he does to you with the idea that his way if pleasing your cock, might be the way he wants you to please his.

 

[SissySalina]

Don't bite.

 

[asus013]

I always imagines i was the girl in my favorite porno of the time sucking dick. It might have been jenna jameson or some other rando porn start at the time. But they were really good cock suckers. I always wanted the guy that i was sucking to know i was enjoying sucking his cock.

the better i get to know the person the kinkier it gets to

 

[klippert]

know before his the tip passes your lips...Are you going to

• swallow
• facial...
• ....or get out of the way
• 

 

[luv23way]

Advice

Just do what you like done to you...and enjoy. Savor the moment, nothing like the feeling of a soft, spongy cock growing hard in my mouth

 

[Astroman72]

4) I cannot take any pressure on my balls. Squeeze them, and I'm more likely to feel nauseated.

I'll second that. From watching porn, apparently some guys like their balls handled more roughly, but not me. I find that extremely unpleasant and it would kill the mood.

Gentle caressing or even just barely brushing with the fingertips is all I like.

 

[carln3346]

The first time I did it I was nervous as hell for a few reasons, one being that I didn't know what I was doing and I was afraid he wasn't going to enjoy it. Once my mouth was on him, though, it just felt so natural. He helped by telling me when I was doing it just right. I just remember that it didn't seem to last long.

 

[carln3346]

The title of the thread pretty much says it all!

I'm a 46-year-old married man, bi-curious pretty much since my early 20s. I've never really acted on it, but I feel it's time. While I want to bottom, I don't plan to rush into that and would rather take things more slowly (somewhat) and start by going down on a guy. I think I've found the one who will be my first. He's a crossdresser, which I love because I used to do that quite a bit and miss it badly. His package is amazing... thick, smooth, and certainly looks longer than mine.

What advice do you have for me? I know what I like, but everybody's different. I have always loved having a woman use her teeth just a little bit on the underside of my cock, but that's probably because when I got my first blowies at 16, she wasn't the best at it and I would tell her to use her teeth so I knew she was down there!

Do I suck his balls? Just concentrate on trying to take as much of his cock in my mouth as I can? How hard to I stroke him into my mouth? Swallowing is the plan - no desire to have to clean cum off my face or clothes before I go back to work after taking a "lunch break." Condoms are also a no-no for this, as I want to feel and taste DICK, not latex. I hate the smell of condoms. Yes, I know diseases can be passed this way. I'm also trusting that his tests are accurate. Now, if there was anal involved, no doubt there would be condoms. But not for oral. I want the full experience.

Did it ever happen?

 

[JK Kensington]

Thanks for all the excellent advice! As of now, it still hasn't happened. We got close a few times to hooking up, but real life kept getting in the way. He has my number, and I hope he'll finally send me a text eventually, as I've decided to delete the Grindr app from my phone so I don't get caught with it.

Everything you've all posted will be a great help once it finally happens!

 

[sunshine9]

The title of the thread pretty much says it all!

I'm a 46-year-old married man, bi-curious pretty much since my early 20s. I've never really acted on it, but I feel it's time. While I want to bottom, I don't plan to rush into that and would rather take things more slowly (somewhat) and start by going down on a guy. I think I've found the one who will be my first. He's a crossdresser, which I love because I used to do that quite a bit and miss it badly. His package is amazing... thick, smooth, and certainly looks longer than mine.

What advice do you have for me? I know what I like, but everybody's different. I have always loved having a woman use her teeth just a little bit on the underside of my cock, but that's probably because when I got my first blowies at 16, she wasn't the best at it and I would tell her to use her teeth so I knew she was down there!

Do I suck his balls? Just concentrate on trying to take as much of his cock in my mouth as I can? How hard to I stroke him into my mouth? Swallowing is the plan - no desire to have to clean cum off my face or clothes before I go back to work after taking a "lunch break." Condoms are also a no-no for this, as I want to feel and taste DICK, not latex. I hate the smell of condoms. Yes, I know diseases can be passed this way. I'm also trusting that his tests are accurate. Now, if there was anal involved, no doubt there would be condoms. But not for oral. I want the full experience.

Wish you were mt neighbor.

 

[SpaceGhost6]

Enjoy

My advise, Have fun. Don't think about it. Worship the cock.

 

[carln3346]

My advise, Have fun. Don't think about it. Worship the cock.

Good advice - must be experienced!

 

[Vafunman42]

Sucking

You should enjoy it, just take it slow. I love doing it while the wife watches me suck her hubby.

 

[tahoechunk]

Hello Im new to bi had 2 experiences GREAT! Loved them both Me 60ish Bear MWM.... looking fr FWB in Sac foothills area of CA. Tag ...yer it....

 

[solardays]

I would avoid using teeth unless you know he likes it. I find it very irritating. Suck his cock slow. Fondle balls gently. Gently suck a ball into your mouth. If he starts getting soft or you don't think he's getting enough stimulation, use your hand and mouth. When he cums, swallow. Compliment his cock.