Knowing wife/gf has had large cock

[Sheana_V]

I'm prone to liking the truth, where it's positive or not.

I also think people shouldn't ask questions if they aren't going to be comfortable with the kinds of answers they know they're going to get.

You sir win a prize.

 

[LizVegas79]

I also think people shouldn't ask questions if they aren't going to be comfortable with the kinds of answers they know they're going to get.

So true. Or get answers they might not like. One of the biggest problems we have in the world right now imho

 

[JerseyJade]

I remember a very short conversation my boyfriend and I had about a month after we started dating. We were at his apartment and we were chilling on the couch. I was lying down with my head resting his lap playing with his cock. As I was stroking it, he asked me how I would compare his cock with the others I had played with. My answer to that was, "I love your cock." and with that, I started sucking on it. He never said anything more about it that night and never brought up that subject again. That was almost a year ago.

I think I handled that situation pretty good.

 

[KarlMartinK]

So true. Or get answers they might not like. One of the biggest problems we have in the world right now imho

I get all confused because I'm looking for something truthful and someone wants to tell me what they think I want to hear. I can appreciate that, but I'm also not that needy, I guess.

 

[LizVegas79]

I remember a very short conversation my boyfriend and I had about a month after we started dating. We were at his apartment and we were chilling on the couch. I was lying down with my head resting his lap playing with his cock. As I was stroking it, he asked me how I would compare his cock with the others I had played with. My answer to that was, "I love your cock." and with that, I started sucking on it. He never said anything more about it that night and never brought up that subject again. That was almost a year ago.

I think I handled that situation pretty good.

Way better than I did that's for sure!

 

[UhlBWett]

Let's be real

Any man who thinks his cock is the biggest his wife has ever had is probably a fool. I'll take my 7" cut cock and the pussy licking talents the good lord gave me and be happy. I wonder how many assholes get their feelings hurt and say something like; "Well I've had tighter pussy too"?

If you don't really want to know, don't ask!

UBW

 

[LizVegas79]

I get all confused because I'm looking for something truthful and someone wants to tell me what they think I want to hear. I can appreciate that, but I'm also not that needy, I guess.

Fortunately when I ask my husband if I'm the best in bed he's ever had he's way better at answering those kind of trick questions than I am - must be all the years of training he's had lol

 

[Sheana_V]

Any man who thinks his cock is the biggest his wife has ever had is probably a fool. I'll take my 7" cut cock and the pussy licking talents the good lord gave me and be happy. I wonder how many assholes get their feelings hurt and say something like; "Well I've had tighter pussy too"?

If you don't really want to know, don't ask!

UBW

You sir, also win a prize.

 

[Sheana_V]

Anyone else want to make a non-asinine comment and win a flower?

 

[KarlMartinK]

Fortunately when I ask my husband if I'm the best in bed he's ever had he's way better at answering those kind of trick questions than I am - must be all the years of training he's had lol

I'm sure it helps that "best in bed" is a subjective term, where "biggest" is more objective.

 

[KarlMartinK]

You sir win a prize.

Thank you! I didn't know I was competing, but I appreciate it!

 

[LizVegas79]

Any man who thinks his cock is the biggest his wife has ever had is probably a fool. I'll take my 7" cut cock and the pussy licking talents the good lord gave me and be happy. I wonder how many assholes get their feelings hurt and say something like; "Well I've had tighter pussy too"?

If you don't really want to know, don't ask!

UBW

You sir, also win a prize.

OMG I'd probably still be in prison serving time for murder one if he had said anything like that to me!

It's so weird he's so sensitive about it. I mean, he's an ex-jock. I bet he's seen way more whopper dicks than I have. The part I left out though, is ... that was the same conversation where he found out I had been with "a few" black guys back in my younger days. (I answered the "Were any of them black?" question honestly too.) I found out something about him that I was not very happy about that night. He has since softened on the subject (no pun intended) but still, we both went to sleep pretty angry and upset that night. I remember crying. In his defense, he did apologize and try to comfort me. Fuck, I've never mentioned this to anyone before and now I'm telling the whole world. This place is like therapy sometimes I swear. For better or worse anyways.

 

[Sheana_V]

OMG I'd probably still be in prison serving time for murder one if he had said anything like that to me!

It's so weird he's so sensitive about it. I mean, he's an ex-jock. I bet he's seen way more whopper dicks than I have. The part I left out though, is ... that was the same conversation where he found out I had been with "a few" black guys back in my younger days. (I answered the "Were any of them black?" question honestly too.) I found out something about him that I was not very happy about that night. He has since softened on the subject (no pun intended) but still, we both went to sleep pretty angry and upset that night. I remember crying. In his defense, he did apologize and try to comfort me. Fuck, I've never mentioned this to anyone before and now I'm telling the whole world. This place is like therapy sometimes I swear. For better or worse anyways.

A guy who was concerned with the races of people I have slept with is a guy I'd never sleep with again.

 

[Jada59]

I know this is a sore subject for men as they seem to think bigger is better when it comes to pretty much all things but... Bottom line, size does not matter. The guy matters. His cock is just one part of him!

 

[LizVegas79]

A guy who was concerned with the races of people I have slept with is a guy I'd never sleep with again.

My exact same general policy too. However, we were already married.

 

[Sheana_V]

My exact same general policy too. However, we were already married.

That's tough.

 

[KarlMartinK]

I know this is a sore subject for men as they seem to think bigger is better when it comes to pretty much all things but... Bottom line, size does not matter. The guy matters. His cock is just one part of him!

I would argue that size is a factor like any other factor. In some cases, it's a very important factor. In other cases, it's not very important.

 

[LizVegas79]

That's tough.

It shocked the hell out of me because he was (and still is) close with several of his ex-teammates who are black and I'm half Mexican so I didn't see it coming as an issue between us at all.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife's first real fuck was in college by a guy with a big cock. They dated for a while before he transferred, but he came back a year later for one or two more fucks. She enjoyed it and would like to have a bigger one, and I'm okay with that.

 

[anniebaby10]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

A big cock can hurt if the guy is not in tune with his lady. He has to be patient, wait until she is very wet, pull back if she asks, and not thrust so deeply if it causes pain.

 

[Jada59]

I would argue that size is a factor like any other factor. In some cases, it's a very important factor. In other cases, it's not very important.

Okay. Well, it's not important to me.

 

[ebpts]

I'm have the smallest cock that my wife has ever had. I knew this before marrying her. I have always had in the back of mind that she misses the larger cocks of her exes. I have come to accept my limitations. We do have a great sex life, but I always wonder if she is truly satisfied the way her exes satisfied her. We even fantasize about her getting to experience a bigger cock. If I can't provide her with it I'm all for her getting it from someone else. Even better if I can watch.

 

[newhere2learn]

OMG I'd probably still be in prison serving time for murder one if he had said anything like that to me!

It's so weird he's so sensitive about it. I mean, he's an ex-jock. I bet he's seen way more whopper dicks than I have.

In the interest of balance, my wife and I are the opposite of the above. She's had a lot of cock prior to me, and some of it was huge. Her bf before me was a firefighter and a tripod. However, I knew the guy, he was a personality vacuum. Apparently his repotoire in bed wasn't much past a basic fuck.


However, she's told me often that she's had way bigger cock than me. I don't care.


Meanwhile, she's asked about her pussy. And I suggested (diplomatically) that I've had a few types. Hers is short and wide, I've had others that were tighter but longer. And so on.

Neither good nor bad.

She was butthurt about that, and brought it up often.

It's no lie, I bottom out in her which hurts her, and I'm only 6-7" ... Yet when she's wet I can't even feel her when I'm in her, she's that loose.

Bodies are all different.


Biggest shock I had was fucking a 40 year old mother of 4, who fitted like a glove. Never lasted long... Best pussy ever.

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

Interesting thread. We have been playing with another couple, and he is certainly bigger than I am. Thicker with a huge mushroom head. Wife has just said he feels good but hasn't offered a whole lot more details. I've always wondered if there's more to it than just "good".

 

[BBCfan]

I'm prone to liking the truth, where it's positive or not.

I also think people shouldn't ask questions if they aren't going to be comfortable with the kinds of answers they know they're going to get.

I'm the same way, thankfully my wife is very honest. Initially she avoided saying too much about her past lovers likely because she didn't want to damage my ego. I'm pretty big but likely not even top 10 in size for her.

Then when she found out how much I'm a fan of BBC , she avoids saying too much likely because she is not wanting to encourage my BBC fetish too much...

I'd love to hear all the details about them all and hopefully in time she'll be comfortable sharing