Knowing wife/gf has had large cock

[betamale30]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

 

[Justfantasies]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

Happy for her and intrigued about different sized and shaped cocks felt

 

[Wackywagg]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

My wife has had a much larger cock then mine and it doesn’t bother me. I’m glad she got to experience one. I’m happy about all of her past experiences. It makes her the sexy women she is. We have a great sex life and while I’m not the hugest guy in the world, she seems to enjoy it. And honestly, there’s a lot more to sex then just penis in vagina. And there are always toys if she wants something bigger. You should encourage your lover and help fulfill their fantasies and desires. As she should also be doing for you. So stop worrying about your size and focus on what she likes and how you can be a better lover.

 

[cheetah2]

My wife has had a much larger cock then mine and it doesn’t bother me. I’m glad she got to experience one. I’m happy about all of her past experiences. It makes her the sexy women she is. We have a great sex life and while I’m not the hugest guy in the world, she seems to enjoy it. And honestly, there’s a lot more to sex then just penis in vagina. And there are always toys if she wants something bigger. You should encourage your lover and help fulfill their fantasies and desires. As she should also be doing for you. So stop worrying about your size and focus on what she likes and how you can be a better lover.

Very well played

 

[Justfantasies]

My wife has had a much larger cock then mine and it doesn’t bother me. I’m glad she got to experience one. I’m happy about all of her past experiences. It makes her the sexy women she is. We have a great sex life and while I’m not the hugest guy in the world, she seems to enjoy it. And honestly, there’s a lot more to sex then just penis in vagina. And there are always toys if she wants something bigger. You should encourage your lover and help fulfill their fantasies and desires. As she should also be doing for you. So stop worrying about your size and focus on what she likes and how you can be a better lover.

Technique and talk makes up for size every time. But if she wants to have fun with a big one let her do it

 

[Sheana_V]

Don't sweat it. You don't need a large cock to make a woman cum, you need a large amount of empathy.
It's not that size doesn't matter, it's that size is one factor and not the most important one. If you're average sized, then half the men any partner will have been with will be larger than yours.
Honestly, the best part of a big dick is unwrapping it. Focus on what makes you a great lover instead of worrying about what makes someone else a good lover.

 

[FL30]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

It didn't matter to her, after all she's NOT with him anymore. So why does it matter to you?

Dick size doesn't mean they're a great lover, at all.

Get yourself out of your own head, you'll just fuck yourself up more if you don't.

 

[Justfantasies]

Don't sweat it. You don't need a large cock to make a woman cum, you need a large amount of empathy.
It's not that size doesn't matter, it's that size is one factor and not the most important one. If you're average sized, then half the men any partner will have been with will be larger than yours.
Honestly, the best part of a big dick is unwrapping it. Focus on what makes you a great lover instead of worrying about what makes someone else a good lover.

My wife says that some she has had are too big. Admittedly, I have also been with women who say the bigger the better

 

[FGB]

Dude.

Most GF's Wives or Lovers have had large cocks at some point or the other... might even wish for more.

The point is she is with you despite your perceived "Shortcomings" so you are doing something right.

Sounds like you are more interested/worried about her taking on a big one than she is.

Maybe two two should talk.

I mention one night during a discussion with my FWB that she was welcome to ride a big one, however I wanted the back door or to at least watch. She said No, been there done that ...was sore as hell. She would rather find a girl and let me experience a threesome since I have not had one or maybe work something out with the right couple.

She is a hard person argue with!

 

[DiscoveringUtopia]

Know that she had one? I have laid beside her while she was getting one much larger that me. I knew it when the date was set and actually encouraged her to meet him. Unfortunately he wasn't the most talented guy in the world and it wasn't that great of an experience for her.

I know she enjoyed the experience but it could have been a much better one for her.

 

[BBCfan]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

my wife recently revealed a FWB she fucked on and off for years has perhaps one of the largest cocks I've ever heard of...10" and beer can thick.

I'm not small but I sure am compared to this guy. Its intimidating as hell if I let it be, but the thing is she doesn't rate him one of her top experiences.

I satisfy her more than any previous guy did and there of course is so much more to satisfying a woman than size.

We guys make way too much of cock size...which can be fun but women are way less obsessed about it usually.

 

[PFWilly]

My wife has had a much larger cock then mine and it doesn’t bother me. I’m glad she got to experience one. I’m happy about all of her past experiences. It makes her the sexy women she is. We have a great sex life and while I’m not the hugest guy in the world, she seems to enjoy it. And honestly, there’s a lot more to sex then just penis in vagina. And there are always toys if she wants something bigger. You should encourage your lover and help fulfill their fantasies and desires. As she should also be doing for you. So stop worrying about your size and focus on what she likes and how you can be a better lover.

In the same boat, and I know exactly how big his cock was. They had one long and wild night while I slept, and I had encouraged her to try him on. She did enjoy it a lot, but once they had their one night of passion, she had little interest in a replay.

Dammit!

 

[Booboobear84]

I wonder

If guys with big cocks are actually on the whole poorer lovers. Since they have this built in advantage, they probably let it substitute for developing technique. Clearly some of them will figure it out and will be awesome, but human nature tending toward laziness many won't. Curious of other people's thoughts, particularly you ladies.

 

[Sheana_V]

If guys with big cocks are actually on the whole poorer lovers. Since they have this built in advantage, they probably let it substitute for developing technique. Clearly some of them will figure it out and will be awesome, but human nature tending toward laziness many won't. Curious of other people's thoughts, particularly you ladies.

In my experience. Yes. Your typical big dicked dude is a lazier (and often self-entitled) lover, and therefore typical worse in bed.

Men with really small penises tend to also be lousy lays, but in their case, it tends to be because of self-doubt and self-pity instead of being a mechanical problem.

 

[muycurioso]

it has never bothered me

being just a bit above avg, I always figured gf's has had one bigger than mine. So what. I dated women with different sized boobies than other women.

 

[dirtycarol]

I got to experience two, what I would call really big cocks. The first didn't go very well in one way, but better in another, (I was young and not so experienced). The second was a blow-job and I enjoyed the challenge greatly, I was excited at the thought of doing it again, but the opportunity ever again presented itself. Both these guys were long and thick.

The cock I adored and had the most fun with wasn't really that big, kinda thin, maybe six inches in length, but it had such a wonderful upward curve, sharp distinctive head almost like it was chiseled from marble, and almost as hard!

There are things I prize in a man much more than the length and girth of his cock, but I am happy I had the experiences.

 

[jackielicker]

My wife told me the guy she was with who had the largest was also the laziest lover. The guy who had the smallest cock gave her her first orgasm.

 

[conquen]

My wife has had bigger cocks than mine. I'm not concerned in the least. It gets me aroused to imaging her taking a nice cock. As a matter of fact I'd like her to experience one again. She deserves a good long fucking with a nice big cock.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Recently found out my gfs ex bf was very hung. I’ve been having a lot of mixed feelings about It and has definitely been a shot to my confidence. Was wondering how other people handle finding out that news? Does It not matter to you? Does It hurt your feelings? Are you happy for her that she got to experience that? Make you insecure and feel bad for her having to deal with your smaller cock?

Personally, I think it would be really hot. I've had women tell me that I'm not the biggest they've had and some have even told me I'm pretty small in comparison, still a huge turn-on.

One woman I dated was married for 10 years before getting with another guy, then me. She told me that both were actually bigger, but that her husband lacked stamina. Her husband was actually quite a bit bigger than me according to her.

 

[Justfantasies]

I can't resist asking my lovers how big is the biggest they have had. Most don't tell me anything very spectacular. But one told me the biggest 11" She said it hurt and it was an interesting experience. But then she confessed she came twice in ten minutes with him.

It seems to have been all for the experience, she introduced him to her other GFs including those with BFs and hubby

 

[savmitch1038]

I used to have a g/f, and we had an open relationship, who had a fwb with a 9" cock. He was a good lover and she enjoyed many orgasms with him, but she always came back to me. We enjoyed many sex sessions where she would detail their sex to me. It was a win-win for both of us. Be happy with what you were born with, and learn how to use it!

 

[LizVegas79]

My husband, who I consider to have a very healthy sized penis, does NOT seem fond of this subject.

It's only come up once and it was sort of by accident. I said something like "God I love your cock" (which, over the course of our marriage I've probably said a thousand times in the heat of the moment) but once he replied something along the lines of "That's because you're just a dirty size queen." (I admit it, I am )

Then I made the mistake of saying "Well, if that was true I would have married someone else because ...." I was willing to let it drop but he just had to ask "Because why?"

... and I answered (truthfully unfortunately) "Because you're big sweetie, but you're not the biggest I've ever had."

I should have known from the look on his face (and the sudden decrease in throbbing in my adoring hand!) that I needed to shut up. But, I was actually pretty turned on by the conversation and so, of course, didn't. "I'm not?" he replied. "Not even the top ten," I admitted foolishly.

"Definitely the top twenty-five though," I added to tease him a little as I admired the giant tower of yummy pink flesh swaying in the air inches from my face. When he didn't say anything I knew instantly that I had made a big mistake so I went back to adoring him with my tongue and mouth and hands hoping he'd drop the subject.

He didn't.

He asked something like "You've had twenty-five guys bigger than me?" in total disbelief as I did my best to win an Oscar for gagging on his cock (it was an exaggeration - he's definitely in the top twenty). I immediately tried to take back everything I had just said. I came back up for air gasping and wiping the drool off my mouth. "No, I was kidding. Probably only one or two," I lied.

But he didn't buy it. We ended up not having sex that night and the subject has never come up again.

For any other women out there who might be reading this thread, my advice is don't bring up the subject unless he does and then if he does, before you admit anything, try to figure out the answer he wants to hear before you tell him the truth!

 

[Sheana_V]

My husband...

For any other women out there who might be reading this thread, my advice is don't bring up the subject unless he does and then if he does, before you admit anything, try to figure out the answer he wants to hear before you tell him the truth!

Or just accept that men need to get over it and pull up their big boy shorts and move the fuck on.

 

[LizVegas79]

Or just accept that men need to get over it and pull up their big boy shorts and move the fuck on.

No sh^t!!!

Excuse the pun but it's really no big deal, right?

 

[KarlMartinK]

Or just accept that men need to get over it and pull up their big boy shorts and move the fuck on.

I'm prone to liking the truth, where it's positive or not.

I also think people shouldn't ask questions if they aren't going to be comfortable with the kinds of answers they know they're going to get.