OlFiddleMan
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Just curious as to how often some of the women here have experienced it, and have you ever said anything to the person, had a funny reaction or otherwise memorable story?
Catching men/anyone in an obvious cleavage stare
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I remember my wife was stationed at the front reception desk at her work. She wasn't showing a lot of cleavage. It's a professional setting. But enough that it got a lot of guys attention as they were at her desk. ALl they had to do was look down and could see down her top. Especially on the warm summer days. She claimed to be put off by it ("Men are such pigs!") but I think she secretly liked it!
I remember my wife was stationed at the front reception desk at her work. She wasn't showing a lot of cleavage. It's a professional setting. But enough that it got a lot of guys attention as they were at her desk. ALl they had to do was look down and could see down her top. Especially on the warm summer days. She claimed to be put off by it ("Men are such pigs!") but I think she secretly liked it!
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I experience this on a nearly daily basis. There's a reason for that though.
It's because I show cleavage for precisely that reason! That people, men and women alike, like to see them!
Sometimes, when they stare really blatantly and are within talking distance, I do say something when they eventually look at my face, like "Hey, my tits are down here". I don't get defensive, unless I need to, because, come on, staring has caused me no harm.
The funniest reactions I get are from older people, or conservative/uptight folks, like pastors or religious people.
A memorable story? Hmm. I have a few - I shall update this soon
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I experience this on a nearly daily basis. There's a reason for that though.
It's because I show cleavage for precisely that reason! That people, men and women alike, like to see them!
Sometimes, when they stare really blatantly and are within talking distance, I do say something when they eventually look at my face, like "Hey, my tits are down here". I don't get defensive, unless I need to, because, come on, staring has caused me no harm.
The funniest reactions I get are from older people, or conservative/uptight folks, like pastors or religious people.
A memorable story? Hmm. I have a few - I shall update this soon
And to add when a wife catches her husband staring and my tits is very fun.
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I experience this on a nearly daily basis. There's a reason for that though.
It's because I show cleavage for precisely that reason! That people, men and women alike, like to see them!
Sometimes, when they stare really blatantly and are within talking distance, I do say something when they eventually look at my face, like "Hey, my tits are down here". I don't get defensive, unless I need to, because, come on, staring has caused me no harm.
The funniest reactions I get are from older people, or conservative/uptight folks, like pastors or religious people.
A memorable story? Hmm. I have a few - I shall update this soon
Ooh looking forward to reading them x
Happens to me a lot too (though I'm not hugely busty). But love being 'ogled'.
Love it if the guy is with his wife or girlfriend, makes it even naughtier LOL x x
I Plead Guilty.
I do it myself. I think if done properly and respectfully, it's acceptable. The Asshole's who feel they have to make some off-color comment and/or use some cheesy come on line ruin it for those of us who are mature enough to quietly enjoy the moment.
Thank you ladies for your understanding and you innocent willingness to share a bit of yourself!
UBW
I do it myself. I think if done properly and respectfully, it's acceptable. The Asshole's who feel they have to make some off-color comment and/or use some cheesy come on line ruin it for those of us who are mature enough to quietly enjoy the moment.
Thank you ladies for your understanding and you innocent willingness to share a bit of yourself!
UBW
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That's very gentlemanly of you x x x
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When you catch someone looking, do you pretend not to notice and let them continue to gaze, or do you make eye contact?
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Depends. if it is obvious they are looking then I make it obvious I know and smile and maybe play up to it a bit. Other times I make it look completely accidental.
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Hopefully you don't get into too much trouble LOL
I agree with the poster above, usually when someone is staring at my cleavage it’s becausd I’ve worn clothing that draws attention to it. And I don’t mind the attention at all.
A few years ago I had a green dress with spaghetti shoulder straps. It was low cut and tight in the bodice with a slightly flared skirt. I bought it from the VS catalog back when they still sold non lingerie clothing there. It had a push up bra made into the dress and it really um... did the trick, made the girls look amazing. So much so that it hung in my closet, never worn, for a few years. I was afraid of wearing it where I might see people that know me, afraid they would judge me for being too revealing or inappropriate.
I wore that green dress for the first time on a girl’s trip with other married ladies from my neighborhood. I was instructed to bring/wear sexy dresses by my girl friends, so I packed that green dress. When I came out of the bathroom from putting it on, one of my girl friends said ‘wow!’ Then she leaned forward and motor boated me. I had already had some champagne that afternoon (she had too) so I laughed but my face flushed. I asked my friends if the dress was just too much and they said no it’s perfect.
We went to a casino that night and I played blackjack for hours. I alternated between two tables where the dealers were lovely Latin men. I practiced my Spanish and enjoyed watching their gaze all over my bosom each time I leaned forward to place a bet. I also enjoyed watching as the gaze of other players—men and women—lingered on my breasts. It seemed inevitable that every person who saw me would take some time to look at my cleavage. Honestly loved it. I won more money than I ever had before that night. I usually leave the casino once I win $1,000 but I stayed til 1am and took home $3,500 that night. Being oogled was just intoxicating to me that night.
A month or so later, back in my city of residence, my husband and I went to dinner with a few other couples. I decided to wear the dress a second time. We went to the Bavarian Grill, a somewhat cheesy but very lively place with live music and the servers wear drndls or liederhosen. Our waiter was a cute guy 10 years my junior and he just could not stop staring at my cleavage. So much so that it became a running joke at our table, my friends would say ‘Elena could your breasts please order another round of beer?’ It was fun and I (and my husband) enjoyed all the attention my green dress brought me that night.
I don’t enjoy being oogled at work and I wear conservative professional clothes. But when I dress up to draw attention to my body I enjoy being appraised by stragers’ eyes.
A few years ago I had a green dress with spaghetti shoulder straps. It was low cut and tight in the bodice with a slightly flared skirt. I bought it from the VS catalog back when they still sold non lingerie clothing there. It had a push up bra made into the dress and it really um... did the trick, made the girls look amazing. So much so that it hung in my closet, never worn, for a few years. I was afraid of wearing it where I might see people that know me, afraid they would judge me for being too revealing or inappropriate.
I wore that green dress for the first time on a girl’s trip with other married ladies from my neighborhood. I was instructed to bring/wear sexy dresses by my girl friends, so I packed that green dress. When I came out of the bathroom from putting it on, one of my girl friends said ‘wow!’ Then she leaned forward and motor boated me. I had already had some champagne that afternoon (she had too) so I laughed but my face flushed. I asked my friends if the dress was just too much and they said no it’s perfect.
We went to a casino that night and I played blackjack for hours. I alternated between two tables where the dealers were lovely Latin men. I practiced my Spanish and enjoyed watching their gaze all over my bosom each time I leaned forward to place a bet. I also enjoyed watching as the gaze of other players—men and women—lingered on my breasts. It seemed inevitable that every person who saw me would take some time to look at my cleavage. Honestly loved it. I won more money than I ever had before that night. I usually leave the casino once I win $1,000 but I stayed til 1am and took home $3,500 that night. Being oogled was just intoxicating to me that night.
A month or so later, back in my city of residence, my husband and I went to dinner with a few other couples. I decided to wear the dress a second time. We went to the Bavarian Grill, a somewhat cheesy but very lively place with live music and the servers wear drndls or liederhosen. Our waiter was a cute guy 10 years my junior and he just could not stop staring at my cleavage. So much so that it became a running joke at our table, my friends would say ‘Elena could your breasts please order another round of beer?’ It was fun and I (and my husband) enjoyed all the attention my green dress brought me that night.
I don’t enjoy being oogled at work and I wear conservative professional clothes. But when I dress up to draw attention to my body I enjoy being appraised by stragers’ eyes.
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I experience it way too often. I don’t enjoy it at all. I get obvious stares and comments no matter what I wear. So I just wear what I feel comfortable with, which is usually relatively low-cut, because I’m not going to let myself be swayed by the opinions or bad behavior of people who don’t respect me and therefore deserve no respect in return.
I’ve had a few memorable experiences. I once had a woman reach around me in the grocery to get pasta while telling her male partner (husband, I assume), “I’ll get it. You don’t need to go near that slut.” (Note: I was wearing leggings or jeans—don’t remember which—and a henley with a tank top underneath, so I was only showing about 10% of my boobs). I responded by looking her right in the eye and tugging my tank top down until just the top of my bra was visible. I feel like I won that one.
I also have had two different bosses refer to my boobs as my “top shelf,” one in a meeting with a client. Hugely inappropriate, because it made everyone else in the meeting automatically turn and look at my chest, which made me extremely uncomfortable.
I also had an older (maybe mid-60s to early 70s) man who was walking back to his table in a restaurant actually lean down over me to get a better look down my dress as he passed. I froze, but I really wanted to yell at him. It felt really threatening.
I once surprised a man in a diy store. I was wearing a crew-neck tank top, so I wasn’t showing any cleavage. He turned the corner, saw me walking past, and made a cartoonishly-shocked-and-pleased face while staring at my chest while I walked past.
I’ve had literally dozens of people stare at my chest while I passed them and then start talking animatedly and loudly about it to whomever they were with, and I once had someone try to follow me home from the grocery store.
He was walking in while I was walking out; he noticed my cleavage and turned around to follow me. After I got to a suitable place—a public park with people coming and going—, I stopped to confront him. I had to delicately tell him to leave me alone, because every time I said “no,” he took a step closer to me and it was getting really intimidating. Finally, I just gave him a fake number, because he was Not taking “no” for an answer, and then he asked me if he could have a hug. I said “no” again; he tried anyway, but stopped when I scrambled away from him. I wound up carrying my groceries around that park for over an hour to make sure he wasn’t still following me before I left and went home.
There have been a few times I have enjoyed the attention. When my nesting partner first saw my cleavage (we met and developed our relationship online before meeting in person because of a 500-mile distance), he made a choked noise like he’d been winded and said “Jesus Christ,” which was pretty flattering.
But, for the most part, it just makes me feel objectified in a very bad way. I don’t mind casual glances. At my bust size, I can’t blame anyone for noticing them. But when people treat me like a walking pair of tits, it’s a whole different ball game.
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As a member of the itty bitty titty community I have not personally experienced this.. or if I have it wasn’t blatant enough for me to notice. Maybe I need to wear lower cut tops
As a member of the itty bitty titty community I have not personally experienced this.. or if I have it wasn’t blatant enough for me to notice. Maybe I need to wear lower cut tops
Don't let that stop you sexy girl.....
"Peeking" is more for me about a glance of the "forbidden" if you will, even if they are willingly on display, that's even better. It's not about the size of the breast at all, it's merely larger breasted women that experience the scenario most often. As much as I hate to say it, it's a guy thing. We are often infatuated by size. Myself I look for and at nipples, big boobs, small boobs, it doesn't matter to me. I try to discover many things; are the soft or hard, are they pink or brown, are they pierced or not pierced, do they have bumps around the perimeter of the areolas? Do you get the picture? Loose fitting blouses and wider arm opening actually make it easier for smaller or average breasted women to participate in this erotic ritual.
So go ahead sexy, stretch the envelope a little. Your nipples won't mind and your panties will thank you for the drink. Never feel like you don't have anything that anyone would want to see, you may be surprised by all the attention you get. Leave that silly assed bra in you dresser, it's summer! LOL.
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As a member of the itty bitty titty community I have not personally experienced this.. or if I have it wasn’t blatant enough for me to notice. Maybe I need to wear lower cut tops
"Peeking" is more for me about a glance of the "forbidden" if you will, even if they are willingly on display, that's even better. It's not about the size of the breast at all, it's merely larger breasted women that experience the scenario most often. As much as I hate to say it, it's a guy thing. We are often infatuated by size. Myself I look for and at nipples, big boobs, small boobs, it doesn't matter to me. I try to discover many things; are the soft or hard, are they pink or brown, are they pierced or not pierced, do they have bumps around the perimeter of the areolas? Do you get the picture? Loose fitting blouses and wider arm opening actually make it easier for smaller or average breasted women to participate in this erotic ritual.
So go ahead sexy, stretch the envelope a little. Your nipples won't mind and your panties will thank you for the drink. Never feel like you don't have anything that anyone would want to see, you may be surprised by all the attention you get. Leave that silly assed bra in you dresser, it's summer! LOL.
UBW
Absolutely, even when I'm dressed modestly, and I really don't have that much to show!
I'm slender, always have been, with a B cup. Maybe I'm overly sensitive to having been shortchanged in the boob department, but I always watch and invariably my rack gets checked out early on in any contact. Usually it doesn't hold attention very long, but there's always an assessment. I used to feel a stab of rejection when no one bothered with a 2nd look.
On occasion, I'll wear a push-up bra and a low neckline and just have fun. I don't make necks snap or guys walk into light poles, but it's delightfully satisfying to see a guy sneaking repeat peeks! If I'm out of town, I go braless for the same reason. Feeling my nips rub against my blouse as my boobs bounce freely keeps them puckered up and pointy, and gives me the opportunity to give someone a downblouse look. That gets even more action than the push-up bras!
I rarely call anyone out on it-only if I want to flirt.
I'm slender, always have been, with a B cup. Maybe I'm overly sensitive to having been shortchanged in the boob department, but I always watch and invariably my rack gets checked out early on in any contact. Usually it doesn't hold attention very long, but there's always an assessment. I used to feel a stab of rejection when no one bothered with a 2nd look.
On occasion, I'll wear a push-up bra and a low neckline and just have fun. I don't make necks snap or guys walk into light poles, but it's delightfully satisfying to see a guy sneaking repeat peeks! If I'm out of town, I go braless for the same reason. Feeling my nips rub against my blouse as my boobs bounce freely keeps them puckered up and pointy, and gives me the opportunity to give someone a downblouse look. That gets even more action than the push-up bras!
I rarely call anyone out on it-only if I want to flirt.
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I like your perspective. I think my bra will take a hiatus for a couple of months
Men all over your town will thank you.
hottieharley. Even ladies that dont have medium to big tits are worth looking down their tops an seeing whats there. Tiny tits are beautiful in their own way. Id certainly enjoy looking down your top an seeing your tits mmmmm. Like to chat sometime?
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As a member of the itty bitty titty community I have not personally experienced this.. or if I have it wasn’t blatant enough for me to notice. Maybe I need to wear lower cut tops
A 6'4 guy friend of mine tells me he looks down all tops just because he can and I'm positive he's far from the only one to do so. I'm sure you're gorgeous and people enjoy the views they get for sure
It can be fun in the right timing/mind set to chat someone while they are taking a peek!
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Oh yes, unexpected nipple viewings from any angle are always a sneaky pleasure.
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Any time I put them on display, I am gratified for the attention.
Last summer I was on display one particular time at a coffee shop and leaned over my table to gather my belongings to leave. I met the hungry stare of a man, so I stopped for a moment and said in a low voice "touch them . . . " I don't know why -- in hindsight it seems absolutely crazy for me. But it was just a strange locked-eyes moment. He registered that for a split second, then an audible sigh, didn't
move, then I straightened up, smiled and walked by him and out.
For me -- memorable in a good way.
Last summer I was on display one particular time at a coffee shop and leaned over my table to gather my belongings to leave. I met the hungry stare of a man, so I stopped for a moment and said in a low voice "touch them . . . " I don't know why -- in hindsight it seems absolutely crazy for me. But it was just a strange locked-eyes moment. He registered that for a split second, then an audible sigh, didn't
move, then I straightened up, smiled and walked by him and out.
For me -- memorable in a good way.
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