Humiliation?

[Blase]

But, the dogging Larkfield describe or modified dogging scenario Blase mentions sounds more like being 'used,' which I view as a consensual environment focused on female pleasure. It's a scenario you go into willingly where you don't have to direct people to the nth degree. They know what they want and in knowing what they want help you to get what you want. Is it a scenario I would engage in, probably not. But I do enjoy writing about it. As I've said many times, what woman wouldn't want multiple dudes assisting her in reaching her pleasure ? As a result, I don't define being used as humiliation. But name calling and any variation of emotional, mental or physical abuse I do put into the hum category and find a turn off. So, I guess it just depends on your definition and clarifying it for your potential partner-

The lady I mentioned above would have agreed with you. She said that it would feel like everyone was focused on her, servicing her and helping her to experience all the pleasure she could. She did say that she would have enjoyed a certain amount of verbal degradation but I think that idea was just part of the play to her.

Sadly, it never happened, but I still hope to one day make that fantasy a reality for the right girl.

 

[PaxNurgle]

I am really not that much into public scene play or public humiliation, as I would be afraid of making other people around us uncomfortable. However, in a club or setting where everyone else is either open to are participating to some degree in a kink scene, then it is absolutely HOT! To some extent- having slutty panties or stockings on under my jeans, or having Mistress call me degrading names in public, would still work though, as long as it is subtle enough not to make the "Vanilla" public (for example, Mormon families and kids, etc.) uncomfortable.

In private, all bets are off and it is the ultimate erotic turn on! I wont go into specifics, but the imagination is limitless.

 

[midlifecrisispanties]

I am really not that much into public scene play or public humiliation, as I would be afraid of making other people around us uncomfortable. However, in a club or setting where everyone else is either open to are participating to some degree in a kink scene, then it is absolutely HOT! To some extent- having slutty panties or stockings on under my jeans, or having Mistress call me degrading names in public, would still work though, as long as it is subtle enough not to make the "Vanilla" public (for example, Mormon families and kids, etc.) uncomfortable.

In private, all bets are off and it is the ultimate erotic turn on! I wont go into specifics, but the imagination is limitless.

I can see that. Mistress would agree. Our play is subtle. She doesn't shout at the top of her lungs or such. Most of it is whispered just loud enough to make me self conscious.

 

[9to5]

I can see that. Mistress would agree. Our play is subtle. She doesn't shout at the top of her lungs or such. Most of it is whispered just loud enough to make me self conscious.

I like that. its just enough to keep you on your toes and wonder if someone caught on to whats going on

 

[sterculius]

My wife likes to watch me jerk off and eat my cum. We can be sitting at home watching tv and she'll tell me to "whip it out and do it". She used to suck my "little guy" (her words) occasionally when we first met, but hasn't done it in years. She would never swallow my cum. She thought cum tasted terrible. As a teenager, she sucked a lot of cock and always swallowed but never liked it. It amuses her to see me furiously wanking my small penis and slurping up all my cum. She likes pointing out "you missed a spot". She has even taken pictures of me doing it with her cell phone.

 

[cuck72]

My wife likes to watch me jerk off and eat my cum. We can be sitting at home watching tv and she'll tell me to "whip it out and do it". She used to suck my "little guy" (her words) occasionally when we first met, but hasn't done it in years. She would never swallow my cum. She thought cum tasted terrible. As a teenager, she sucked a lot of cock and always swallowed but never liked it. It amuses her to see me furiously wanking my small penis and slurping up all my cum. She likes pointing out "you missed a spot". She has even taken pictures of me doing it with her cell phone.

I would love my wife telling me to, jack off for me and eat your load. The humiliation would be a huge turn on for me. My wife likes sucking my cock, but like your wife hates the taste, a weird thing though. My wife likes me cumming in her mouth, but spits it out, saying YUK! I think she just likes me cumming from her blow jobs, knowing I enjoyed it.

 

[PaxNurgle]

One of the most humiliating scenarios I could think of, is for a dominant wife/GF or partner to order her sub to jerk off and shoot his load into the toilet bowl, while telling him that his genetically inferior seed is filthy and no good to anyone, so it should be flushed. If she (and her partner) are not too squeamish about it, she could even order him to do so right after using the toilet herself- as "it would save water." (This might be a bit too much though.)

 

[VeraBad]

I remember talking with a woman who, some time ago, spent a few weeks on Lit and made quite a splash before leaving, apparently for career-related reasons.

Her fantasy was not "dogging" in a public setting but being given over, in private, to a group of people who would pass her around and essentially do what they wished with her, within the bounds of safety and reason (and consent, of course, although the idea was to create a situation where someone she trusted was in control so that she felt safe and could mostly concentrate on enjoying the experience). As I recall, she even liked the idea of being made to do things like crawling to people, begging for certain acts, and confessing that she was a whore.

Of course the above would constitute extreme objectification and, probably for most people, humiliation as well. But judging from conversations I've had over the years, I think there are any number of women (not to mention men) who would do this if they could be assured of being safe and coming out on the other side with no fear of long-term consequences like disease or harm to their reputations.

She could just "perform" for those groups in public or private. The spectators couldn't touch. she could do ANYTHING she wanted to get the group excited. This works. Believe me.

 

[Blase]

She could just "perform" for those groups in public or private. The spectators couldn't touch. she could do ANYTHING she wanted to get the group excited. This works. Believe me.

Oh, I believe you.

The particular lady I mentioned did want more. In fact, although she would exchange messages with me, I had the distinct impression that I was a bit tame for her.

 

[ready2obey]

Trust me

Trust me you're not alone. Humiliation and submissiveness seem to go hand in hand.

 

[Erosfan]

My wife likes to watch me jerk off and eat my cum. We can be sitting at home watching tv and she'll tell me to "whip it out and do it". She used to suck my "little guy" (her words) occasionally when we first met, but hasn't done it in years. She would never swallow my cum. She thought cum tasted terrible. As a teenager, she sucked a lot of cock and always swallowed but never liked it. It amuses her to see me furiously wanking my small penis and slurping up all my cum. She likes pointing out "you missed a spot". She has even taken pictures of me doing it with her cell phone.

My wife likes to watch me jerk off at times too. She will give me a blow job on occasion and she doesn't swallow. I'm OK with that since she lets me cum in her mouth. She will often kiss me after that and I love it. I would love for her to make me jerk off and cum in front of her friends.

 

[Guns44]

My wife likes to watch me jerk off at times too. She will give me a blow job on occasion and she doesn't swallow. I'm OK with that since she lets me cum in her mouth. She will often kiss me after that and I love it. I would love for her to make me jerk off and cum in front of her friends.

I love these scenarios, too bad I don't have a dominant woman in my life

 

[VeraBad]

She could just "perform" for those groups in public or private. The spectators couldn't touch. she could do ANYTHING she wanted to get the group excited. This works. Believe me.

And this scenario is much more common than you might think.

 

[htester]

My wife likes to watch me jerk off and eat my cum. We can be sitting at home watching tv and she'll tell me to "whip it out and do it". She used to suck my "little guy" (her words) occasionally when we first met, but hasn't done it in years. She would never swallow my cum. She thought cum tasted terrible. As a teenager, she sucked a lot of cock and always swallowed but never liked it. It amuses her to see me furiously wanking my small penis and slurping up all my cum. She likes pointing out "you missed a spot". She has even taken pictures of me doing it with her cell phone.

Honestly, that doesn't sound like humiliation. That just sounds like fun. You have a keeper there, S --

 

[Erosfan]

She could just "perform" for those groups in public or private. The spectators couldn't touch. she could do ANYTHING she wanted to get the group excited. This works. Believe me.

I believe you.
I'm a male that would love to have my wife put me in this very situation. She knows she can do anything to or with me, whenever and wherever she wants. I just can't get her to take that next step.

 

[VeraBad]

I believe you.
I'm a male that would love to have my wife put me in this very situation. She knows she can do anything to or with me, whenever and wherever she wants. I just can't get her to take that next step.

That's too bad. It would be so much guilty fun for you to sit with a group of friends or strangers as you wife sits there barely dressed sipping her wine, maybe confessing all her sexual indiscretions and escapades. Maybe modeling the different outfits worn on her adventures. And that filthy mouth on her!

 

[eroticspank]

Bumping because the subject came up elsewhere:

It's about being given a safe place to talk about the things that i feel shame about, and to have my partner keep nudging me to reveal it all, every tiny, excrutiating little morsel. The humiliation isn't coming from my partner, it's already in my own head, he's just the facilitator.

I want the intimacy that comes from letting someone poke around in my soft places; i don't want to be injured or abandoned.

I bring up this quote again because it is so good.

I think as a man, being with a woman who can explore places with me that I have not been before, am embarrassed or feel shame about is exhilarating. The humiliation part like mentioned above is in my head and the key is my partner being okay with my turn on, fetish, and or fantasy.

It is about us--sometimes led mainly by her--finding an area I find erotically taboo, something I blush about that I am turned on by it. She is excited to find/see this different side of me and wants to explore it, make me blush even more! The result is some new areas of fun and amazing orgasms.

Some men are closed books, this exploration and humiliation is about opening up.

ES

 

[sterculius]

Honestly, that doesn't sound like humiliation. That just sounds like fun. You have a keeper there, S --

My wife routinely threatens to make me jerk off in public. The closest she has come was when she ordered me to jerk off while driving. Granted, we were on I 91 in Connecticut on the way to visit friends in Maine and traffic was light, but it was in the middle of the day and I could be seen by truckers and SUV's. I put the car on speed control and she reached over and held the wheel just as I was about to cum allowing me to catch my semen in my left hand as I normally did before licking it all up.

 

[whenagain]

Lately I’ve been craving humiliation more and more.

 

[Erosfan]

My wife routinely threatens to make me jerk off in public. The closest she has come was when she ordered me to jerk off while driving. Granted, we were on I 91 in Connecticut on the way to visit friends in Maine and traffic was light, but it was in the middle of the day and I could be seen by truckers and SUV's. I put the car on speed control and she reached over and held the wheel just as I was about to cum allowing me to catch my semen in my left hand as I normally did before licking it all up.

My wife has jerked me off when we travel. She says we have been seen. I love it. I had an ex, a long time back, that would have me jerk off for her at times where it was kind of risky. Her key phrase was "go ahead". I did it for her when I was driving on the interstate, on our boat one morning near shore. She would taunt me and say people can see you. Good memories.

 

[Tomgirl0512]

From a submissive female

Trust me you're not alone. Humiliation and submissiveness seem to go hand in hand.

What you said seems right on to me. I'm new to serving a Master by only two weeks. He calls me His Pussy slave in training, and reminds me constantly what I will be when trained. Hardly a sentence is spoken by Master that doesn't contain one or two terms He calls me by.
My clothes are locked away in His closet, so I stay naked throughout the day. When a delivery man comes to the door, which isn't infrequent, I have to answer it as I am. Thankfully, we're in a remote location. Yesterday, a large box was delivered and carried inside by two men. Disregarding their stares, I asked them if they needed a glass of water, and they accepted. Their eyes were riveted of course.
Master also brings His buddies home unexpectedly. I act as hostess and serve them drinks before sitting at Master's feet cross legged as He likes. He wants me submissive at all times.

 

[petes478]

What you said seems right on to me. I'm new to serving a Master by only two weeks. He calls me His Pussy slave in training, and reminds me constantly what I will be when trained. Hardly a sentence is spoken by Master that doesn't contain one or two terms He calls me by.
My clothes are locked away in His closet, so I stay naked throughout the day. When a delivery man comes to the door, which isn't infrequent, I have to answer it as I am. Thankfully, we're in a remote location. Yesterday, a large box was delivered and carried inside by two men. Disregarding their stares, I asked them if they needed a glass of water, and they accepted. Their eyes were riveted of course.
Master also brings His buddies home unexpectedly. I act as hostess and serve them drinks before sitting at Master's feet cross legged as He likes. He wants me submissive at all times.

I get off on humiliating submissive girls. Young or old, married or single, all are fine. Asian women a special favorite of mine. Message me.

 

[hourglass_nikki_ts]

I remember talking with a woman who, some time ago, spent a few weeks on Lit and made quite a splash before leaving, apparently for career-related reasons.

Her fantasy was not "dogging" in a public setting but being given over, in private, to a group of people who would pass her around and essentially do what they wished with her, within the bounds of safety and reason (and consent, of course, although the idea was to create a situation where someone she trusted was in control so that she felt safe and could mostly concentrate on enjoying the experience). As I recall, she even liked the idea of being made to do things like crawling to people, begging for certain acts, and confessing that she was a whore.

Of course the above would constitute extreme objectification and, probably for most people, humiliation as well. But judging from conversations I've had over the years, I think there are any number of women (not to mention men) who would do this if they could be assured of being safe and coming out on the other side with no fear of long-term consequences like disease or harm to their reputations.

i love this idea

 

[Erosfan]

Honestly, that doesn't sound like humiliation. That just sounds like fun. You have a keeper there, S --

Absolutely a keeper!

 

[sterculius]

Honestly, that doesn't sound like humiliation. That just sounds like fun. You have a keeper there, S --

What is humiliating is the way she makes fun of my pathetically small penis while watching me jerk off and the shocked expression on her face as I greedily slurp up all my cum from my hand