Sassy and EY's erotic inspiration thread

[planetbeat_]

Time....

Such a moving and wonderful post, you my dear have the most beautiful heart x

 

[Youneverknow81]

Time....

They’re a badge earned as well as long as you learned something from what it took to earn it

 

[SassySheDevil]

Congratulations, Sassy!!!!

You look quite happy! Weddings are good for the soul!!

Thank you. They really are sometimes.

A happy and lovely Sassy, always a pleasure to see xxx

Thank you.

Hello!

Been in spotty internet service, and very happy to stop by the thread to see you are still unbelievably pretty and inspiring! Hope you are well!

Ugh.. Some serious ups and downs. But I'm hanging in there.

time helps, but never completely heals.... wounds remain and sometimes they start to bleed again...

That's for sure.

So true.

Lovely pic of you, one with nature.

Thank you.

You speak the truth!! Lovely picture!

Thank you Scot.

Popping in to say hello to the special lady...

Good to see you sweet man.

Sending hugs my dear!!

Thank you. I hope you are well.

Such a moving and wonderful post, you my dear have the most beautiful heart x

Thank you. That means a lot to me.

They’re a badge earned as well as long as you learned something from what it took to earn it

That is a hard loss to determine what I learned. The biggest thing I learned from that loss was fear. I am still afraid to be alone because of that loss. That loss is the biggest reason I own a gun. The man (if I can be so nice as to call him that) who took this person from me is in jail in my own town. So I guess I learned some strength. But I see the weaknesses it left me with more.

 

[EndlessNameless]

That is a hard loss to determine what I learned. The biggest thing I learned from that loss was fear. I am still afraid to be alone because of that loss. That loss is the biggest reason I own a gun. The man (if I can be so nice as to call him that) who took this person from me is in jail in my own town. So I guess I learned some strength. But I see the weaknesses it left me with more.

big hug

 

[SassySheDevil]

I met a younger woman who often times reminds me of this thread. She is struggling to be positive, but, has a difficult time looking at her scars as anything but detrimental to her happiness (as others view her appearance). She has , to me, mild scarring from sliding on asphalt along one side of her body from knee to just below her shoulder, which also includes (I have not seen the extent) according to her, the side of her breast and areola. Yes she survived a motorcycle accident, but she has gotten over that fear and is again riding solo, so I see her overcoming any obstacle she comes across. I just wish there was a way I could let her see her scars as I do...as a mark of courage and a remembrance, not a disfigurement.

She is an amazing young woman, who has picked her life up by the boot straps, and beat the system to be an amazing single Mom. Earned a degree, and made a career for herself at the same time. Just this one thing is causing her pain, and it hurts me to watch her struggle with it.

I actually read this a couple of times today. And I want to reply to this when I can get to my computer.

 

[SassySheDevil]

big hug

I'll take your arms any day.

 

[EndlessNameless]

I'll take your arms any day.

They aren't as strong as gun. But they're warm.

 

[SassySheDevil]

They aren't as strong as gun. But they're warm.

I'll take it!

 

[SassySheDevil]

I met a younger woman who often times reminds me of this thread. She is struggling to be positive, but, has a difficult time looking at her scars as anything but detrimental to her happiness (as others view her appearance). She has , to me, mild scarring from sliding on asphalt along one side of her body from knee to just below her shoulder, which also includes (I have not seen the extent) according to her, the side of her breast and areola. Yes she survived a motorcycle accident, but she has gotten over that fear and is again riding solo, so I see her overcoming any obstacle she comes across. I just wish there was a way I could let her see her scars as I do...as a mark of courage and a remembrance, not a disfigurement.

She is an amazing young woman, who has picked her life up by the boot straps, and beat the system to be an amazing single Mom. Earned a degree, and made a career for herself at the same time. Just this one thing is causing her pain, and it hurts me to watch her struggle with it.

So between life experiences and therapy, I've learned a few things about insecurity. One. No amount of therapy changes what I see in the mirror. The battles I fight are with myself. I've learned that no matter what size I am, I will always find fault. I've been big and small, and I always found something wrong.

Sometimes, hearing the sweetest compliments from those you love, are the best. Other times, they feel obligated. My husband can tell me how beautiful I look, and I think "He has to say that. He loves me"
Sometimes compliments from other women feel more genuine, because they aren't trying to get anything from it. But they are no different then the men at times. You can tell (if you really pay attention) who says something just to be nice, and who says it and means it.
But, women can also look at other women, know how insecure they are, and understand that, that is who needs to be lifted most. We all can see other womens insecurities and love them. But have the same, and hate them. No one can figure us out lol

I have also learned that sometimes, it truly takes the right people, the ones you trust the most. You believe without a single doubt, to make you feel beautiful when you don't see it. I have learned through many relationships. Friends and other wise, that when you build a certain level of trust and caring with them. You just feel their words. You can look them in the eyes when they say "you are beautiful" and feel it. Know it.
I take my daughter shopping for clothes, because she is honest. My son will tell me I look beautiful in everything (love that man) But she will tell me if it doesn't look good, and I appreciate that.
But no matter how much you love this woman. She still sees the demons in the mirror. But I bet if you keep her away from a mirror, she has plenty of days like me, where she feels beautiful.

It takes work, and if you are willing to put forth the effort. She may some day see the beauty you do. I'm learning to spend more time with the people who help me feel positive.

BTW, I'm much better at recognizing my other strengths. Physical, is just not one of them.

I appreciate your sharing.

 

[Youneverknow81]

So between life experiences and therapy, I've learned a few things about insecurity. One. No amount of therapy changes what I see in the mirror. The battles I fight are with myself. I've learned that no matter what size I am, I will always find fault. I've been big and small, and I always found something wrong.

Sometimes, hearing the sweetest compliments from those you love, are the best. Other times, they feel obligated. My husband can tell me how beautiful I look, and I think "He has to say that. He loves me"
Sometimes compliments from other women feel more genuine, because they aren't trying to get anything from it. But they are no different then the men at times. You can tell (if you really pay attention) who says something just to be nice, and who says it and means it.
But, women can also look at other women, know how insecure they are, and understand that, that is who needs to be lifted most. We all can see other womens insecurities and love them. But have the same, and hate them. No one can figure us out lol

I have also learned that sometimes, it truly takes the right people, the ones you trust the most. You believe without a single doubt, to make you feel beautiful when you don't see it. I have learned through many relationships. Friends and other wise, that when you build a certain level of trust and caring with them. You just feel their words. You can look them in the eyes when they say "you are beautiful" and feel it. Know it.
I take my daughter shopping for clothes, because she is honest. My son will tell me I look beautiful in everything (love that man) But she will tell me if it doesn't look good, and I appreciate that.
But no matter how much you love this woman. She still sees the demons in the mirror. But I bet if you keep her away from a mirror, she has plenty of days like me, where she feels beautiful.

It takes work, and if you are willing to put forth the effort. She may some day see the beauty you do. I'm learning to spend more time with the people who help me feel positive.

BTW, I'm much better at recognizing my other strengths. Physical, is just not one of them.

I appreciate your sharing.

I honestly believe these are thoughts everyone has, well except extreme narcissistically. I’m glad this thread is here and selfishly happy with the modality in which you deliver inspiration! I’ve been astounded with your appearance for years and this thread has allowed me a glimpse at your soul and it’s gorgeous!

 

[SassySheDevil]

I honestly believe these are thoughts everyone has, well except extreme narcissistically. I’m glad this thread is here and selfishly happy with the modality in which you deliver inspiration! I’ve been astounded with your appearance for years and this thread has allowed me a glimpse at your soul and it’s gorgeous!

Thank you. I just wish it would have been able to continue on as it was started.

EYs birthday was last week, and I thought of her. I really hope that she is doing well.

 

[Blueeyesrenee]

So between life experiences and therapy, I've learned a few things about insecurity. One. No amount of therapy changes what I see in the mirror. The battles I fight are with myself. I've learned that no matter what size I am, I will always find fault. I've been big and small, and I always found something wrong.

Sometimes, hearing the sweetest compliments from those you love, are the best. Other times, they feel obligated. My husband can tell me how beautiful I look, and I think "He has to say that. He loves me"
Sometimes compliments from other women feel more genuine, because they aren't trying to get anything from it. But they are no different then the men at times. You can tell (if you really pay attention) who says something just to be nice, and who says it and means it.
But, women can also look at other women, know how insecure they are, and understand that, that is who needs to be lifted most. We all can see other womens insecurities and love them. But have the same, and hate them. No one can figure us out lol

I have also learned that sometimes, it truly takes the right people, the ones you trust the most. You believe without a single doubt, to make you feel beautiful when you don't see it. I have learned through many relationships. Friends and other wise, that when you build a certain level of trust and caring with them. You just feel their words. You can look them in the eyes when they say "you are beautiful" and feel it. Know it.
I take my daughter shopping for clothes, because she is honest. My son will tell me I look beautiful in everything (love that man) But she will tell me if it doesn't look good, and I appreciate that.
But no matter how much you love this woman. She still sees the demons in the mirror. But I bet if you keep her away from a mirror, she has plenty of days like me, where she feels beautiful.

It takes work, and if you are willing to put forth the effort. She may some day see the beauty you do. I'm learning to spend more time with the people who help me feel positive.

BTW, I'm much better at recognizing my other strengths. Physical, is just not one of them.

I appreciate your sharing.

Oh sweet beautiful Sassy!!

I swear you and I could be sisters. I've only known you a short little while but I feel like I've known you a long time. Everything you said here is something I could have written. The mirror and I fight daily. The demons I fight are ugly. Somedays I win other days they win. I don't know how to take a compliment because how can anyone honestly say I'm beautiful when I know I'm not. I've fought my whole life with my weight. But everyday I try and say something positive to myself...not easy but I try. Still learning to love myself...maybe one day I will get there.

You really are amazing

 

[SassySheDevil]

Oh sweet beautiful Sassy!!

I swear you and I could be sisters. I've only known you a short little while but I feel like I've known you a long time. Everything you said here is something I could have written. The mirror and I fight daily. The demons I fight are ugly. Somedays I win other days they win. I don't know how to take a compliment because how can anyone honestly say I'm beautiful when I know I'm not. I've fought my whole life with my weight. But everyday I try and say something positive to myself...not easy but I try. Still learning to love myself...maybe one day I will get there.

You really are amazing

Thank you. I hope you know how much that means to me. And I have a proposal for you... I've actually been thinking about you and meaning to send you a message. So I will PM. you.

But again, I will reply to this when I am at my computer. I don't trust voice text LOL

 

[planetbeat_]

I spent a lot of time reading these last few posts and found them so moving, you Sassy are a beautiful person and I thank you for this thread

 

[SassySheDevil]

I spent a lot of time reading these last few posts and found them so moving, you Sassy are a beautiful person and I thank you for this thread

Thank you. ❤ I can only smile at you today. After all of this time I finally got to see your face. I am so fucking excited. The simple things in life

 

[planetbeat_]

Thank you. ❤ I can only smile at you today. After all of this time I finally got to see your face. I am so fucking excited. The simple things in life

Ha I am glad to provide you smiles anytime my darling girl

 

[RustyIron]

So between life experiences and therapy, I've learned a few things about insecurity. One. No amount of therapy changes what I see in the mirror. The battles I fight are with myself. I've learned that no matter what size I am, I will always find fault. I've been big and small, and I always found something

I'll leave this thought here.
Beauty has many forms, and no mirror in the world, can reflect the real you, and the beauty that lies within.


Don't look in the Mirror for faults, look inside your heart for the positives and healing, that the mirror will never show you.

 

[Youneverknow81]

Thank you. I just wish it would have been able to continue on as it was started.

EYs birthday was last week, and I thought of her. I really hope that she is doing well.

Yeah... perhaps time has healed that wound?

 

[SassySheDevil]

Playing with snapchat. Im hoping to take new pics soon. Real pics Happy Saturday!

 

[EndlessNameless]

Oh, come on. You can always play with me! Err, wait.

You're looking so pretty. I just want to kiss you.

 

[touristen]

Playing with snapchat. Im hoping to take new pics soon. Real pics Happy Saturday!

I didnt know snapchat is such a... nice application...

 

[Todger65]

Playing with snapchat. Im hoping to take new pics soon. Real pics Happy Saturday!

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Lovely smile Sassy.

 

[inkandiridiumnibs]

But no matter how much you love this woman. She still sees the demons in the mirror. But I bet if you keep her away from a mirror, she has plenty of days like me, where she feels beautiful.

It takes work, and if you are willing to put forth the effort. She may some day see the beauty you do. I'm learning to spend more time with the people who help me feel positive.

Heh, Lovely to think so Sassy Dear, but I have nothing to offer her. My interest in her is purely platonic, but that platonic side cares enough for her happiness to see the pain she is experiencing, and that hurts.

 

[RustyIron]

Playing with snapchat. Im hoping to take new pics soon. Real pics Happy Saturday!

Awe sooooooooo pretty

 

[SassySheDevil]

Today was super relaxing.. I needed it.