Do you feel submissive when you suck a cock?

[Pantyman63]

Very submissive

I love being a sub..being on my knees with a man holding my head and fucking my mouth..or on my back, takes my panties off me, puts my legs on his shoulders and fucks my ass over and over..

Yes..i love being submissive.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

jimmy,

It's posted. Chapter 4 is finally completed and posted. Let me know what you think.

https://www.literotica.com/s/a-good-little-cock-sucker-ch-04

Apple,

Thank you for the heads up. I just finished reading it today. It is a wonderful story, not only for potential cock suckers. I love how you worked the 'HOT' wife into the mix. It should be another winning chapter for you.

 

[Sissyqueen9769]

Submissive

I do not. I feel empowered

 

[Apex619]

When I'm sucking a nice hard cock, usually I'm not dom or submissive, my goal is to give pleasure to that person. At times I like to be in control, either totally focused on him or in a nice 69 for the both of us.

When I dress us in sexy things, that's when I do a total shift in my mood. I love to be very submissive, to do exactly what he's telling me to do, how he want's me to lick and suck his cock, tease him, please him, until he unloads in my mouth, down my throat, or all over my lips. I do enjoy that feeling of total focus on his pleasure, because I know he's going to do the same to me and for me.

The clothes really change my mood, and that is a turn on for me and for my partner. I had a friend who really enjoyed me dressing up while he was naked, and he liked me being dominant totally, which was a different scenario but fun and exciting none the less. His goal was to get me to fill his mouth with my warm sweet cum, which he loved doing. He was not interested in reciprocity, which at times I would want to provide, but that side of things wasn't on his list.

So I'd let him drain my balls as much as he wanted to and we were both happy.

 

[Danni8585]

I am a bi crossdresser...who wants to be on my knees sucking cock. Being submissive puts me horniest slut...but I just don't do with just anyone...as I got to be so enthralled with that crossdresser or 20 to 40 man...when I see what like...I know it...because I get a warm and oily feeling...my breathing is short...and my voice sounds constricted...then after there's something mutual...I will go down and worship...treating the pee hole as a vagina..****nning my tongue slowly...and between my lips..

By that time...I am submissive slut...unashamed....and in my element..

 

[TrayciCD]

When I'm sucking a nice hard cock, usually I'm not dom or submissive, my goal is to give pleasure to that person. At times I like to be in control, either totally focused on him or in a nice 69 for the both of us.

When I dress us in sexy things, that's when I do a total shift in my mood. I love to be very submissive, to do exactly what he's telling me to do, how he want's me to lick and suck his cock, tease him, please him, until he unloads in my mouth, down my throat, or all over my lips. I do enjoy that feeling of total focus on his pleasure, because I know he's going to do the same to me and for me.

The clothes really change my mood, and that is a turn on for me and for my partner. I had a friend who really enjoyed me dressing up while he was naked, and he liked me being dominant totally, which was a different scenario but fun and exciting none the less. His goal was to get me to fill his mouth with my warm sweet cum, which he loved doing. He was not interested in reciprocity, which at times I would want to provide, but that side of things wasn't on his list.

So I'd let him drain my balls as much as he wanted to and we were both happy.

Thanks for sharing your experience, Apex. I'm a dom/top crossdresser, and I enjoy being with other crossdressers--especially submissive ones. There's something about the masculine/feminine juxtaposition that is particularly erotic. And I'm dominant in my masculine persona, so why not my feminine one? Can a tiger not change its stripes?

On the other hand, somewhere in the back of my mind, there's a switchy part. I'd like to try submission, just to know what it feels like, whether it's a turn-on for me. I guess that I might one day find a CD switch with whom to experiment. Until then, I won't complain about having my cock worshipped by a crossdressing sissy....

T.

 

[nomk]

I dont know how you cannot feel submissive when you are naked on your knees, your own cock rock hard and dripping pre cum, knowing the slightest touch will make you cum.
I love for him to be verbal in a nice way telling me how he likes watching my lips wrapped around his cock and how good it feels when I lick and suck his balls,
edging him over and over, my lips numb and jaw straining until he cant hold back and frantically starts fucking my throat, his cock pulsing with each shot of cum until he's finished.

 

[samantha647]

it depends on the position you are both in and what he is doing with his hands..... Its a power thing for me .. if he is on his back .. or sitting on a couch ... and his hands are wandering over my back and ass ....but if I'm on my knees and his hands are on the back of my head, in my hair .. then I feel submissive

 

[james2346]

I am not that experience but enjoy a nice hard on. could use it on mine.

 

[Brickdaley]

Submissive

The cock sucker buck.naked on.his/her knees with the owner of cock being sucked being allowed to use his hands to control the action and make sure he has a clear view of his " tool" moving in and out of the cock sucker's mouth is truly a act of submission .

He can also order the cock sucker to put his/her hands on his ass and used the leverage to push the down the throat in order to " Suck him to the balls " another very submissive act on the part of the cock sucker .

 

[samantha647]

The cock sucker buck.naked on.his/her knees with the owner of cock being sucked being allowed to use his hands to control the action and make sure he has a clear view of his " tool" moving in and out of the cock sucker's mouth is truly a act of submission .

He can also order the cock sucker to put his/her hands on his ass and used the leverage to push the down the throat in order to " Suck him to the balls " another very submissive act on the part of the cock sucker .

need to add some 6" stiletto heels to this scene

 

[goodsonformom]

it depends on the position you are both in and what he is doing with his hands..... Its a power thing for me .. if he is on his back .. or sitting on a couch ... and his hands are wandering over my back and ass ....but if I'm on my knees and his hands are on the back of my head, in my hair .. then I feel submissive

I agree. It does depend on me actually. If it's a good friend and I just wanting to get off and suck a cock, no I'm not thinking submissive. If I'm on my knees and the guy is older and treats me a particular way my natural response might to lean to being a bit submissive.

 

[james2346]

I am bi and would like to chat about experiences

 

[peter49parker]

Yes I am

I have just recently finished, and published my second installment about I became a cock sucker for my black buddy.

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-first-cock-bbc


https://www.literotica.com/s/my-first-cock-bbc-ch-02

 

[69plus1]

Who is in control?

Do I feel submissive when I suck cock? Not a bit. I'm in control. It i something I do for both of us but I get as much pleasure as the one I am sucking.
If you don't believe you are in control whan you are sucking someone, stop and see who begs the loudest.

 

[Marty Fisher]

First off, a little background. I am 67 and happily married for over 40 years. My wife and I had an active sex life until about 7 or 8 years ago, when she became very disinterested in any form of sex. I tried to coax her into some unconventional avenues, like having sex with other men, if she wanted to. She rejected the idea straight away and insisted that she had just lost interest in sex, not in me. I accepted her explanation, even though I wish she had taken me up on my offer of being free to play around.

My fascination of imagining her having sex with other men did not end there. It was fueled by reading 'Hot Wife' and 'Cuckold' stories in various forums, like Literotica, and watching whatever porn vids that were related. It was a slow transformation, to where I soon began imagining myself injected into the whole scenario. I would jerk off while thinking about eating another man's cum from my wife's freshly fucked pussy, or sucking her lover hard before inserting him inside her. I was absolutely enthralled by this and fantasised about it a lot. Every time I stroked myself, this entered my mind and took control.

It came to me one day that I was becoming just as interested in the cock as I was the pussy. The stories, and the vids, and my fantasies were fairly centered around cock. My wife sucking on them, or being fucked was becoming secondary. I wanted the cock. I wanted to taste one, lick one and suck one.

Sucking cock was now my new obsession. After a few years of dreaming about it and wishing for it to happen, it did. I met with a guy from a chat site for coffee and we ended up engaged in mutual oral sex. He got the ball rolling, by sucking me off first, then my much anticipated debut went off perfectly. We met three times altogether and I found it thrilling, exciting, and all the things that sex is about. Above all, I found it quite natural to take a man's cock in my hands and mouth and make him cum.

I had always been the dominant partner in my marriage and took on a rather strong leading role wherever I worked. It was just who I was. The first time I sucked my buddy's cock I couldn't help but feel proud as he praised my efforts and refused to accept that his, was the first cock I had sucked. (At least that is what he told me). I was glowing. I then had an overwhelming compulsion to ask for him to call me a 'cocksucker'. He looked at me, smiled and called me a cocksucker. I loved it. Right then, I would have done anything that he asked me to, or told me to.

Now for the part about the question. I have found that over the past two years, I want the buddies I meet to take on a leading role in our adventures. I tell them it is okay to call me a cocksucker, to tell me what they want me to do, to take physical control of the moment and hold my head on their cock as I suck them. I want them to be in control, more and more. I have preferred to make all of my encounters to be about mutual satisfaction. I blow you, you blow me. The last two were not. The last one, I just sucked the guy off as he leaned back against a tree in an outdoor trail. When he finished and I swallowed, he suddenly became afraid of being caught and insisted we vacate the area. The one before that I was naked in bed with my buddy and he was like the puppeteer. He had told me to strip naked when I walked in the door, and I did. He told me to follow him to the living room where we kissed and felt each other up. Then he directed me to go wait for him on his bed, and I did. When he came in, he pretty much took control of all the action and had me crawl up from the foot of the bed and suck his cock as he held me there. When he filled my mouth, and I swallowed he pulled me up along side him and had me jerk off on his cock and balls, and I did. I loved it. He was definitely in charge and I loved it.

I felt like I had no choice in the way things happened during my last two meetings and it is truly an exciting prospect for me to feel this way. I am thinking that there is no way I would ever accept being humiliated or being made to call anyone 'Sir' or 'Master', but I do enjoy being told what to do and how to do it. It is almost a relief, not being in charge. Maybe it's a lowering of testosterone, or growing older. Whatever it is, I am finding that I enjoy being the submissive, when I know I am going to be sucking a cock.

What do you think guys?

LOVED LOVED LOVED this story!!! And after spending a lifetime being in controlled and enjoying everything the female side had to offer, it's no surprise to me that you would LOVE sucking cock, pleasing men, and being the submissive one - it makes total sense as its something new and exciting!! Continue enjoying it as you're making you and someone else very very happy! And I too love to be called cocksucker!

 

[sweettalk4u]

It depends on your mindset going in or rather, going down. The feeling of being controlled, of putting your sexual well being in the hands of another, knowing you will be taken care of, makes for a better submissive than just using them and casting them aside. Train them and they get better every time

 

[jimmyturtleman]

LOVED LOVED LOVED this story!!! And after spending a lifetime being in controlled and enjoying everything the female side had to offer, it's no surprise to me that you would LOVE sucking cock, pleasing men, and being the submissive one - it makes total sense as its something new and exciting!! Continue enjoying it as you're making you and someone else very very happy! And I too love to be called cocksucker!

I am glad that you liked my post, or should I say, "LOVED LOVED LOVED' it. It is with a great deal of satisfaction I get when I hear from like minded guys. At one time, I was very hesitant to share this kind of experience, but now I find it thrilling.

Thank you for your post ... from one cocksucker to another.

 

[chris313]

I know the feeling. As far as age and years of being married, we are incredibly similar. Perhaps the main difference is I have only given oral sex to a crossdresser. They don't even have to be very "passable". In every instance they have controlled the action; often cumming in my mouth and reciprocating by giving me a hand job or, just as it happened to you, have be jack off on their cock and balls then ordering me to lick them clean. I've come to realize that I find a cock as sexually exciting as a woman's pussy. The feeling of a nice cock totally filling my mouth; that wonderful feeling as I feel their cock cum in my mouth is pure heaven to me. Yes, I have become a cocksucker and I truly enjoy it. Would love to share my experiences with you. Maybe a better way is to write each other----I'm at: chris313163 at gmail. Maybe we can start sharing experiences.

 

[chris313]

OMG----we are so alike. I love the feel of being on my knees and having a cock brush my lips; feeling the hardness push against me, forcing my mouth open---then using my mouth for his pleasure. I feel so good when I have given satisfaction to a hard cock!

 

[SheDrivesMeCrazy]

Yes I felt very submissive when I sucked cock.

I didn't think of myself as gay, but to cut a long story short I was seduced by an older man that was very assertive with me; I was flattered by his erection knowing that he was turned on by me and I just felt obligated to reward him by going down on him. It was like an out of body experience.

He later told me I am better than his wife at giving blowjobs.

 

[PG564E]

This is a terrific thread - it's so sexually intense and personal. Admire all men who for whatever reason have had the will and craving to blow a man to his sexual release and enjoy the experience of pleasing the most intimate part of a man's body.

I found out that I am a natural submissive, and in real life have begged men to let me blow them for nothing in return. I made oral love to their manhoods and thrilled to the flood of semen they shot in my mouth. I think I became a real man the day I sucked a stranger's cock, then blew 5 more men after that on the same day.

Everything about sucking cock I love. Everything.

In retrospect, I can honestly say I wish I had been purely homosexual since I was a teen, but once loved pussy and fucking for many years.

I consider myself a faggot, and am very proud to have the courage to find this out.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I know the feeling. As far as age and years of being married, we are incredibly similar. Perhaps the main difference is I have only given oral sex to a crossdresser. They don't even have to be very "passable". In every instance they have controlled the action; often cumming in my mouth and reciprocating by giving me a hand job or, just as it happened to you, have be jack off on their cock and balls then ordering me to lick them clean. I've come to realize that I find a cock as sexually exciting as a woman's pussy. The feeling of a nice cock totally filling my mouth; that wonderful feeling as I feel their cock cum in my mouth is pure heaven to me. Yes, I have become a cocksucker and I truly enjoy it. Would love to share my experiences with you. Maybe a better way is to write each other----I'm at: chris313163 at gmail. Maybe we can start sharing experiences.

Not sure if your post is directed at me, but thank you (and everyone else) for all of the delightful responses so far. I have replied to your request to correspond via email. Again, thank you.

 

[cyberking001]

dom?

Actually, in some ways, it is very dominating to suck another guy's cock.
If he has never had it before, or if his wife/girlfriend (note: I will not
mess around with married guys, just saying) will not give it to him,
or if he is just horny and needs to have relief....

Then it is a lot of fun to make him beg for it, both before and during.
Make him feel so desperate that he is willing to do anything to get
attention on his hard throbbing cock so that he can get the relief or
the first-time experience that he needs so badly ...

Tease him first, play with his cock in his jeans, get it rock hard,
keep asking him how bad he needs it, what he is willing to do for it,
then play with it in his briefs, making them all wet with pre-cum,
teasing him about how bad he is leaking ...

Then drop his drawers, slowly stroke his throbbing member, telling
him how nice it looks when it is hard ... and ask him again what he
needs you to do for him, and make him beg for it all over again.

Then, when you finally make him cum, he will thank you all over,
tell you how good it was, how bad he needed it ... and ask you when
you will do it again for him, at which point, the teasing process can
begin all over again.

Then, of course, the real secret is that it was YOU all along who
was hot and horny for a cock to suck ... but he doesn't have to
know that, does he

I think you get the idea

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I am like so many here that love feeling weak and used. Knowing a man can do with me as he needs and That that is why I am. I remember the first time a Man actually introduced me to his friends and the feel of his arms holding me close then the warm wonderful feeling washing over me as he kissed me. There had been many simple blow jobs before then but that kiss was what really got me.