Are women over 50 invisible?

[SparkyWalter]

I could be wrong, but I think he's saying older women are more likely to wear the leggings/sweaters and boots. I had no idea what Chelsea boots are so I had to Google it. They are boots like this:
https://www.zappos.com/p/sam-edelman-tinsley-black-matte/product/8605266/color/81304

Women over 50 are incredibly sexy and beautiful. They are confident, know what they want there's nothing more attractive than that.

 

[Samsacks]

With all the MILF, Mature and GILF threads on here, do you even have to ask?

 

[PattiJolene]

l sure hope not...l feel pretty confident for over 50...most times...

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

l sure hope not...l feel pretty confident for over 50...most times...

hmmmm, ya got a picture of all that confidence--? Perhaps??

 

[LoveLiving]

No

They are here
They are very much visible
And man, are they ever gorgeous.

XO Ladies

 

[quietlylooking]

This has probably been covered but women over 50, invisible? Hell no.

Personally, I am 34 and my wife is 46. I think she is sexier than fuck. I don't think this will change in the next 4 years or ever.

What I would say to a woman over 50 that might be insecure about finding someone is don't be. For every man that is only interested in screwing college girls, there are even more that are interested in a real woman and that is you. Stop giving a fuck if your boobs are sagging, your face is starting to wrinkle, or heaven-forbid, you gained a few pounds. It doesn't matter. You, the whole package, are perfect the way you are.

This is all good to know. It's hard, sometimes, to accept all of this, given the images that we are bombarded with in the media, but the data do add up. Thank you.

 

[SquidProQuo]

My lesbian friend only likes femme women who are 40 or above. She's attracted only to "MILFs" and is turned off by women her age or younger. She is on Tinder and like 10 other dating apps and has a hard time finding older good-looking femme women in the area we live in. She complains that the lesbians on the apps are usually super butch or "too young" for her if they ever happen to be femme.

 

[RedSilk69]

I will state outright that my ideal is a girl age 45-55

Ladies and gentlemen, I think we have found the problem.

Speaking as a 50 year old woman, I am solely interested in men who are interested in women, not girls. I expect most women of my vintage can sniff out a "but I'm not a sexist" sexist.

Enjoy the 24 yr old. Some of my best friends at one point was a couple with a 24 year age difference; it can work.

 

[RedSilk69]

I just found this, which seemed amazingly appropriate.

So true! I just went to Mexico for a few days, and the feeling of safety is something I never experienced traveling as a young woman. My 50 yr old self is fine with not getting the hoots and hollers; I love being a fly on the wall at a market, or able to simply enjoy myself at a museum.

To the main subject of the thread: I wonder to what extent early adulthood changes how we react to being "mature." My older sister was hot, and loved it. She married, divorced, and has sunk into a depression that I think is in part fueled by the difference between her life now and what she expected. She dresses like a matron and has no interest in life being fun again.

I, however, was a nerd. I was awkward and uncomfortable. I was uptight. Since my divorce 4 years ago, I have felt a huge weight lifted - not just the absence of the unsatisfying marriage, but also a real freedom to do whatever the fuck I choose. Life has become fun again.

I've been largely single, although I'm fairly freshly out of an eight month relationship with a man I thought was The One. (Side note: he completely changed my perspective of middle aged men. He was 56 and could go all night. Damn I miss that!) I have a FWB, and damn but the sex is awesome. While I might not get as much attention as before, it's not lacking. I love being free to fuck whomever I choose, and I've kept busy.

 

[Psychprofgal]

They are here
They are very much visible
And man, are they ever gorgeous.

XO Ladies

At 56 I am so very comfortable and so very happy that I get noticed almost daily. My husband has helped me notice it and is proud that I am checked-out. Just yesterday afternoon a man stood still as I approached and said,”you really look good today, wow!”. Surely I blushed as I sweetly thanked him very much. It has only been the last few years that this type of compliment has happened and consistently.

Maybe me approach is different and my confidence is attractive? Whatever it is I hope it continues as long as I live because it is really heart warming and a blessing.

Thank you for listening!!! Lol. Xoxox

 

[secretofthesea07]

At 56 I am so very comfortable and so very happy that I get noticed almost daily. My husband has helped me notice it and is proud that I am checked-out. Just yesterday afternoon a man stood still as I approached and said,”you really look good today, wow!”. Surely I blushed as I sweetly thanked him very much. It has only been the last few years that this type of compliment has happened and consistently.

Maybe me approach is different and my confidence is attractive? Whatever it is I hope it continues as long as I live because it is really heart warming and a blessing.

Thank you for listening!!! Lol. Xoxox

Your pictures and posts on the boards have always been incredibly confident and sexy. I imagine you likely exude "something" that makes heads turn...

 

[midlifecrisispanties]

"French author, 50, says women over 50 are too old to love
Yann Moix, a prize-winning novelist, says women of same age are ‘invisible’ to him."

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Absolutely not! Some of the most beautiful women I've ever met were 50 or above. There is a particularly arousing quality to well kept age. Older women are also more tender lovers and tend to be better, more nurturing Dominants. (in my personal experience.)

 

[StrongMaster7]

I'm 59. What follows is my opinion.

It's a very interesting question. And the answer is yes and no.

Yes, some women over 50 (over 40 even) are invisible. Most by choice. Many women are raised to be essentially non-sexual. By family and maybe by church, they were taught that sex is dirty, or at the very least something not to be talked about. So, once they divorce or give up on romance, they choose to become invisible to the opposite sex. My wife has tons of friends like this. Some are quite pretty. One or two are rich. But they live in small apartments and read books and have cats and they are pretty much just waiting to die.

Fortunately, there are also many women over 50 who are taking care of themselves and kicking ass right and left. They were part of the first generation where people didn't start smoking in droves. They did aerobics, Nautilus, Jazzercise, etc. They ate right and didn't pack on the pounds. I know so many women over 50 that I find sexually attractive. And I think younger men would find them sexy too.

Like the movie says. Life is choices. This is one. Get busy living or get busy dying. Stay in the game or quit and walk away.

 

[runsilent]

At 56 I am so very comfortable and so very happy that I get noticed almost daily. My husband has helped me notice it and is proud that I am checked-out. Just yesterday afternoon a man stood still as I approached and said,”you really look good today, wow!”. Surely I blushed as I sweetly thanked him very much. It has only been the last few years that this type of compliment has happened and consistently.

Maybe me approach is different and my confidence is attractive? Whatever it is I hope it continues as long as I live because it is really heart warming and a blessing.

Thank you for listening!!! Lol. Xoxox

Absolutely your attitude makes a difference. My SO never believed in her sexyness. I tell her constantly how gorgeous I find her. She is starting to believe me and notices the same things you mentioned. You go girl because you are that beautiful woman that has been noticed all along. You just wouldn't believe it.

 

[MissileMike]

I've wondered this, too. I just turned 52 a few weeks ago and I wonder if men really see me.

We do, prefer sexy ladies my own age, or even older..

 

[womaneater58]

I'm not sure they are invisible but I find it difficult to find a single woman that's easy to approach.

 

[friendlytongue38671]

I'm 51, and while I wouldn't turn down someone in their 20s, my personal preference is someone who grew up in my same time frame, who knows 80s music (or 90s music). I'm someone who finds intelligence and confidence sexy. I'd rather have someone who is a little older, or doesn't have the perfect figure (whatever the hell that is), but is comfortable in their own skin.

There is someone I work with, she's probably mid-late 40s, her kids are grown and in college; she is married (I am too), but every time she smiles my way, its like a shot to my heart.

 

[AllenJames]

Beautiful, not invisible

When I was in my mid-30s I had a couple of encounters with older women in their 40s/50s and always kept my eye out for an opportunity, loved the fact they were experienced and usually knew exactly what they wanted and how to get it!

 

[dr_scorpion]

When I was in my mid-30s I had a couple of encounters with older women in their 40s/50s and always kept my eye out for an opportunity, loved the fact they were experienced and usually knew exactly what they wanted and how to get it!

true i had the same experience with a 50-year-old woman but unfortunately she was the only one.

 

[Booboobear84]

"French author, 50, says women over 50 are too old to love
Yann Moix, a prize-winning novelist, says women of same age are ‘invisible’ to him."

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The quote should lead to more questions about prize judges and winners and less about yourself. For myself, the current object of my fantasies is a 56 year old who I dance with. I met her a few years ago at a dance, and for over a year I didn’t ask her to dance because I was intimidated by her looks. If I were single it wouldn’t just be fantasies.

 

[Erodicus]

"French author, 50, says women over 50 are too old to love
Yann Moix, a prize-winning novelist, says women of same age are ‘invisible’ to him."

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When I correspond with women online on erotic matters, I much prefer to write and read something longer and more substantial. I find it tiresome to engage constantly in the usual one line cliches. So my ideal epal is an intelligent, literate and adventurous lady with an elevated libido. They are relatively rare, but there are some wonderful mature ladies here on Lit who are 50+ and who have proved to be talented writers as well as forthright, sexy and lots of fun.

 

[Sugartitties]

We do, prefer sexy ladies my own age, or even older..

I've noticed that as my confidence levels have risen lately, I am not nearly as invisible as I was. I am also selecting clothing that is both sexy and stylish, without being overtly sexual. I am enjoying this new life of mine very much.

 

[Man_oh_Man]

I've noticed that as my confidence levels have risen lately, I am not nearly as invisible as I was. I am also selecting clothing that is both sexy and stylish, without being overtly sexual. I am enjoying this new life of mine very much.

Confidence is BY FAR the sexiest thing about another human being

The hottest body in the world all shy and meek is NOT attractive

But confidence....especially in your body...and being proud to show it off....that is truly sexy

 

[Jay0693]

As a 45 yr old, I must say that there are plenty of women older than I am who are very fine to look at. Beauty is how you carry yourself. Just today I got caught staring at cleavage of an older lady. What I would have done to have been playing with those boons

 

[notredame43]

As a woman slightly over 50, I'm glad to hear that some men profess to finding our demographic of interest. Still, when I saw the article, it left me a bit sad. Perhaps he's being brutally honest.

no dear lady he isnt.. it used to be as you grew older people acted their age, Now thats more often not the case. Ive found women of that age to be alot more fun and less of a mess than their younger counterparts.