Good Girl In Public Slut In Private

[KashAlmighty5]

Any women that are considered nerdy or a good two shoes..but secretly like to be treated like a slut in the bedroom.. Nothing like finding out an innocent church going quiet good girl is secretly a freak...Any ladies that are looked at as good girls but really have slutty nasty side...share your stories...such a turn on

 

[magicalmoments]

Nerdy and goody two shoes is not a natural combination. In my experience most nerdy girls are secret sluts and not always so secret about it. In my opinion church going good girls are freaks, sluts are never freaks. Also putting slutty and nasty together as if sluts are necessarily nasty is just bullshit. I've never met a nasty slut in my life. They've all been very pleasant.

 

[Carnevil9]

I've known a few women like that. Quiet and meek when out and about, but you get them behind a bedroom door and they turn into a tiger. It's like discovering the greatest secret treasure in the world!

 

[Shelly2inme]

Double life due to double standard

The use of the term "slut" to describe a woman that loves sex is a double standard. Men that love sex are viewed as "red blooded." But somehow if a woman feels the same way about sex as a man she is a slut. That is so sick.

Using the term "nasty" to describe sexual enjoyment is also very common as a slur to describe women that love sex. Fucking is not nasty. It is natural and brings great pleasure to both men and women. But society brands women that love sex as nasty sluts. I wish that sexually liberated people on Literotica would stop buying into these social-control-terms that are designed to advance the cause of making sex taboo rather than natural and wonderful.

I am forced to live a double life and I hate it. My husband and I run a business and have a lot of people working for us. If our community knew what our sex life is like our business would suffer and we would have to let people go. That would hurt people we care about. That is the only reason I stay in the shadows and once we are done with this business I will be very happy to go public with our life style because I believe it is healthy and natural.

But for now I am viewed as a business woman and a soccer mom. But the truth is that I love sex. I love having a variety of sex partners both male and female. I love to be double teamed and my husband loves to double team me. None of that makes me a slut or nasty. What it really means is that society is mentally ill regarding sex and society is often very nasty in the way it treats people.

Let's stop using negative terms like "slut" and "nasty" to describe the most wonderful natural pleasure known to humankind.

 

[savmitch1038]

The use of the term "slut" to describe a woman that loves sex is a double standard. Men that love sex are viewed as "red blooded." But somehow if a woman feels the same way about sex as a man she is a slut. That is so sick.

Using the term "nasty" to describe sexual enjoyment is also very common as a slur to describe women that love sex. Fucking is not nasty. It is natural and brings great pleasure to both men and women. But society brands women that love sex as nasty sluts. I wish that sexually liberated people on Literotica would stop buying into these social-control-terms that are designed to advance the cause of making sex taboo rather than natural and wonderful.

I am forced to live a double life and I hate it. My husband and I run a business and have a lot of people working for us. If our community knew what our sex life is like our business would suffer and we would have to let people go. That would hurt people we care about. That is the only reason I stay in the shadows and once we are done with this business I will be very happy to go public with our life style because I believe it is healthy and natural.

But for now I am viewed as a business woman and a soccer mom. But the truth is that I love sex. I love having a variety of sex partners both male and female. I love to be double teamed and my husband loves to double team me. None of that makes me a slut or nasty. What it really means is that society is mentally ill regarding sex and society is often very nasty in the way it treats people.

Let's stop using negative terms like "slut" and "nasty" to describe the most wonderful natural pleasure known to humankind.

Well said, I love a woman who enjoys sex. Men and women alike should be able to enjoy sex with as many partners and not be worried about being labeled. I hope you enjoy being double teamed many more times!

 

[Sigmund7]

Agreed. The world needs more women (and men) who appreciate sex and act appropriately on their desires. I know that terms like "slut" are sometimes used in a passionate way but, like the n-word, that is only appropriate for an inner circle where the meaning is known. Slut, as a general term for a sexually free woman, has a bad connotation

 

[htester]

The use of the term "slut" to describe a woman that loves sex is a double standard. Men that love sex are viewed as "red blooded." But somehow if a woman feels the same way about sex as a man she is a slut. That is so sick.
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Let's stop using negative terms like "slut" and "nasty" to describe the most wonderful natural pleasure known to humankind.

Agreed. Kash's post doesn't bother me, but I see where you're coming from.

Women who enjoy having sex are called sluts. Women who decide not to have sex are called frigid. And women who have sex out of necessity are called whores.

Men who enjoy sex, don't have sex, have sex for money ... they're called men

But ... all the same, I do love it when someone calls me a dirty fuckwhore. But, typically, I prefer it with someone who understands that I'm having sex because I enjoy it. Every now and again someone on lit might misunderstand or ask how I can enjoy sex if I'm a feminist. Or someone might say, I enjoy fucking myself so much I should consider monetizing it, which angers me. Those comments seem to mark female sexual pleasure as some type of aberration - rather than just saying, 'hey I love that you're enjoying this moment as much as I am,' even guys here see it as unnatural. Once a male friend found my porn collection and said he was shocked. I'm a grown woman over the age of 30. Yet, somehow in his mind, women or women of a certain age just didn't participate in sexual congress.

I won't say I'm reclaiming the term slut. It's too ingrained in our society. But, I am a proud horny slut. And we're slowly getting to a place where open sexual discussions for both genders are becoming more common --

 

[Justfantasies]

Nerdy and goody two shoes is not a natural combination. In my experience most nerdy girls are secret sluts and not always so secret about it. In my opinion church going good girls are freaks, sluts are never freaks. Also putting slutty and nasty together as if sluts are necessarily nasty is just bullshit. I've never met a nasty slut in my life. They've all been very pleasant.

I agree with every word of this. I have always been very attracted to nerdy women and vice versa. I am always surprised, how often, when you get to know them better they have stories to tell of sexual escapades of the most imaginative sort. I have a few stories to tell

 

[screwher]

The title of this thread pretty much sums up Mrs. Screwher. Wife. Mother. Respected member of her profession and community. But the last handful of years she's been discreetly slipping off to other men's houses and getting fucked! Andvrecently bring one of them home and on her marital bed! All with her husband's full approval.

Personally I don't think my wife's been with nearly enough men to be considered a slut. But I'm sure the puritans would label her that by virtue of being married.

 

[Justfantasies]

The title of this thread pretty much sums up Mrs. Screwher. Wife. Mother. Respected member of her profession and community. But the last handful of years she's been discreetly slipping off to other men's houses and getting fucked! Andvrecently bring one of them home and on her marital bed! All with her husband's full approval.

Personally I don't think my wife's been with nearly enough men to be considered a slut. But I'm sure the puritans would label her that by virtue of being married.

That sounds quite slutty to me. How many guys would she have to fuck to make her a slut?

 

[LupusDei]

I had that one girlfriend who outright stated that she would be happy to wear hijab or even burka in public, but dreamt about a huge house with pool in the middle, where she would never be required to wear clothes, but never be seen. Because, that's somehow traumatic. She was a beast in bed too, but her special spirituality was a tad bit confusing even to me. Well, she's a mathematician.

 

[Justfantasies]

I had that one girlfriend who outright stated that she would be happy to wear hijab or even burka in public, but dreamt about a huge house with pool in the middle, where she would never be required to wear clothes, but never be seen. Because, that's somehow traumatic. She was a beast in bed too, but her special spirituality was a tad bit confusing even to me. Well, she's a mathematician.

The sluttiest girlfriend I ever had was a mathematician and my wife is a statistician -- LOL

 

[KashAlmighty5]

Nerdy and goody two shoes is not a natural combination. In my experience most nerdy girls are secret sluts and not always so secret about it. In my opinion church going good girls are freaks, sluts are never freaks. Also putting slutty and nasty together as if sluts are necessarily nasty is just bullshit. I've never met a nasty slut in my life. They've all been very pleasant.

Could've kept this comment to yourself..you know what I meant dumbass...my real life better than your fantasy life lol

 

[Yuna87]

Any women that are considered nerdy or a good two shoes..but secretly like to be treated like a slut in the bedroom.. Nothing like finding out an innocent church going quiet good girl is secretly a freak...Any ladies that are looked at as good girls but really have slutty nasty side...share your stories...such a turn on

I think you'll find most women to be one person out in public and another in the bedroom. Now to the degree might differ like you said where you have an extreme good acting woman who puts on the dungeon master latex when she gets home. I think I read somewhere we all have three faces in life, one for the general public, one for our friends, and the one that is truly us.

 

[policywank]

I find it humorous the way people implicitly assume that women wear our sexuality on our sleeve. As if through the centuries of shame and oppression we never figured out that it makes sense to keep our sexual activities on the down low. There are lots of reasons we might dress or look more sexually available but “advertising” for sex or complying with expectations are pretty far down the list.

Yet people - men and women - still think that by looking at a woman or maybe talking to her they can determine how “slutty” she is. It just isn’t so. Most of the sexually active women I know don’t fit any stereotype. There is no “most” about any “type” of women because we are far more diverse and complex than those simplistic little groupings. Nerdy girls or church going girls or whatever group are not a homogenous group just because guys like to define us that way. To say that most girls of a given group are or are not sexually actively to the point of being “slutty” is silly.

Back to the original question I would imagine that for men with depth they would want to experience a woman of depth. One that doesn’t fit any stereotype and whose true sexuality is revealed as you get to know her. I am pretty liberal with the presentation of my sexuality but I certainly enjoy surprising a man as he learns to appreciate the breadth of my appetites that are not obvious to the casual observer.

 

[Erosfan]

The use of the term "slut" to describe a woman that loves sex is a double standard. Men that love sex are viewed as "red blooded." But somehow if a woman feels the same way about sex as a man she is a slut. That is so sick.

Using the term "nasty" to describe sexual enjoyment is also very common as a slur to describe women that love sex. Fucking is not nasty. It is natural and brings great pleasure to both men and women. But society brands women that love sex as nasty sluts. I wish that sexually liberated people on Literotica would stop buying into these social-control-terms that are designed to advance the cause of making sex taboo rather than natural and wonderful.

I am forced to live a double life and I hate it. My husband and I run a business and have a lot of people working for us. If our community knew what our sex life is like our business would suffer and we would have to let people go. That would hurt people we care about. That is the only reason I stay in the shadows and once we are done with this business I will be very happy to go public with our life style because I believe it is healthy and natural.

But for now I am viewed as a business woman and a soccer mom. But the truth is that I love sex. I love having a variety of sex partners both male and female. I love to be double teamed and my husband loves to double team me. None of that makes me a slut or nasty. What it really means is that society is mentally ill regarding sex and society is often very nasty in the way it treats people.

Let's stop using negative terms like "slut" and "nasty" to describe the most wonderful natural pleasure known to humankind.

In my world, you are a rare find. My wife loves sex too.
A great term, in my mind, is sweetheart!

 

[Jerseyboy52]

My wife

My wife just got home and admitted to having all three filled and begged me to clean her up. The obvious two holes are fine but I've never been allowed near her ass. See what happy hour does?

 

[LindsayRoseBBW]

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[slimm_d]

I believe it LindsayRoseBBW!!

 

[magicalmoments]

Could've kept this comment to yourself..you know what I meant dumbass...my real life better than your fantasy life lol

It's a public forum arsewipe, if you can't express yourself coherently and can't cope with opinions different from your own then leave. You and your "real life" will not be missed.

 

[peruvianchica]

I am definitely perceived as a good girl. I'm the type to follow all of the rules, hard working, don't give off a flirtatious vibe at all, especially at work. I barely drink, was very studious in school and was always the "good one" in my family. However, behind closed doors I let loose. Those who have found out about my sex life have been in disbelief. Some are surprised that I even have lingerie or toys, let alone some of the other things I've done. It's great to have this sort of double life. Lots of fun

 

[MarriedBBW231]

My first post this seems like the perfect subject to start out with. This thread describes me to a tee!

 

[Erodicus]

The use of the term "slut" to describe a woman that loves sex is a double standard. Men that love sex are viewed as "red blooded." But somehow if a woman feels the same way about sex as a man she is a slut. That is so sick.

Using the term "nasty" to describe sexual enjoyment is also very common as a slur to describe women that love sex. Fucking is not nasty. It is natural and brings great pleasure to both men and women. But society brands women that love sex as nasty sluts. I wish that sexually liberated people on Literotica would stop buying into these social-control-terms that are designed to advance the cause of making sex taboo rather than natural and wonderful.

I am forced to live a double life and I hate it. My husband and I run a business and have a lot of people working for us. If our community knew what our sex life is like our business would suffer and we would have to let people go. That would hurt people we care about. That is the only reason I stay in the shadows and once we are done with this business I will be very happy to go public with our life style because I believe it is healthy and natural.

But for now I am viewed as a business woman and a soccer mom. But the truth is that I love sex. I love having a variety of sex partners both male and female. I love to be double teamed and my husband loves to double team me. None of that makes me a slut or nasty. What it really means is that society is mentally ill regarding sex and society is often very nasty in the way it treats people.

Let's stop using negative terms like "slut" and "nasty" to describe the most wonderful natural pleasure known to humankind.

Well said! I completely agree with all you've said. You are lucky though, that you have a husband who is on exactly the same wavelength as you are. I tried to suggest to my wife once that sex with other partners could add spice to our sex lives, but she was horrified that I should suggest it. That stopped me from being as open about sex as I would have liked to be with her.

 

[watchallofme]

My first post this seems like the perfect subject to start out with. This thread describes me to a tee!

Oh really?!

 

[MutualMike]

My first post this seems like the perfect subject to start out with. This thread describes me to a tee!

It is good to have Lit to express and explore sides not normally open to view isn't it!