If your wife or girlfriend cheated

If she cheated because she was missing something emotionally, I would feel bad and work on it. If she cheated because she was horny and in the moment, I'd want the details and to be part of it next time.
 
My wife has cheated at conferences and so have I. Sometimes I think that is what they are made for

Yeah, I think that’s one of the things I love about the fantasy ... I’ve had enough sexual encounters at conferences, and know my wife well enough, to be pretty sure how it would play out. I can see every part of the evening, from the dinner at a shared table, to lingering over drinks, to heading back to her room ....

I especially love it when she unpacks after coming back. I always wonder who else might have seen those panties, her bras ....
 
I have a big cheating fantasy, so I would probably find a way to enjoy it.

Anyone else?
 
Does it count as cheating if it's only one or two times and spur of the moment? Just on a boyfriend, not husband

Yes. I must say only if we have talked about and committed to not seeing anyone else. If we are not working out you need to talk to me and see if we can fix it. Fucking around is a break in trust. That's a hard thing to repair. I don't think I could do it.
 
Yep... I'm a "cheater'... I don't like that term, but in the world of people who fuck others when they are married... one is a cheater, plain and simple.

I would love it if my wife began an affair with someone. Not likely, but never say never... We haven't made love (actually fucked) in about 3 years... yep, 3 years or more. So... that's why I cheat. Other than that we have a great marriage...

I have a new lady, she is a great fuck, doesn't care if I'm married and can keep a secret. Met her on FetLife... so she is also opening up new horizons for me... all is good. :devil:
 
I thought we were talking about women who cheat. All men cheat, as near as I can tell— except me :) and I'll admit that I have in the past. I mean, it seems like in a large segment of our culture, you just aren't a 'real man' if you don't cheat.

Which is why I like it so much to hear about women who cheat. I like that they turn the tables.
 
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I wouldn’t exactly call it cheating, since I’ve actually encouraged her to have sex with other guys she finds attractive. In part I’ve suggested this to help her overcome a dark past, that past made her quite inhibited sexually. I’d hoped that she could let go a bit, and just enjoy the sensual pleasures of sex, without massive guilt feelings. She’s only been with a couple of guys, she didn’t divulge these episodes to me right away, but later shared the details of her trysts. To a certain degree, those few encounters did lead her to a more fulfilling sex life. A win-win in my book.

And to answer the original question, both of my wife’s other lovers were guys she had known for several years. Mutual attraction and trust were important factors. No quickies with strangers...that I know of, lol.
 
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I wouldn’t exactly call it cheating, since I’ve actually encouraged her to have sex with other guys she finds attractive. In part I’ve suggested this to help her overcome a dark past, that past made her quite inhibited sexually. I’d hoped that she could let go a bit, and just enjoy the sensual pleasures of sex, without massive guilt feelings. She’s only been with a couple of guys, she didn’t divulge these episodes to me right away, but later shared the details of her trysts. To a certain degree, those few encounters did lead her to a more fulfilling sex life. A win-win in my book.

And to answer the original question, both of my wife’s other lovers were guys she had known for several years. Mutual attraction and trust were important factors. No quickies with strangers...that I know of, lol.

Seems like a very nice arrangement
 
It’s been great actually. My only regret at all is that I’ve always been interested in sharing one of her lovers. But she won’t go there and I won’t push. Closest was we both enjoyed the company of one particular gent, but separately. Darn!

We did later compare notes...lol.
 
If she cheated because she was missing something emotionally, I would feel bad and work on it. If she cheated because she was horny and in the moment, I'd want the details and to be part of it next time.

Well said -- it's the details that matter
 
I guess I should when we decided to have sex with someone else it was well discussed beforehand. There were no secret lovers.

That to me does not break the trust.
 
I guess I should when we decided to have sex with someone else it was well discussed beforehand. There were no secret lovers.

That to me does not break the trust.

But sometimes delicious sex just happens. And sometimes -- at the right time -- confessions can be exciting too
 
My wife

At this point I don't consider it cheating with her boss. However, she's been doing her sisters husband lately. Sister doesn't know.
 
Funny thing is, my wife thinks I have no idea. However, her brother in law tells me everything.....lol.
 
Oh wow! That's really hot. And your wife --from what you have told me in PMs -- sounds soooo fuckable
 
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