Where to discuss the benefits of masturbation?

[mf1438]

It's not about sex addiction, yet it's about a need to find a sex positive forum to help remove shame and guilt from masturbation.

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I wrote this to TENGA in response this article they wrote.

Want to know the secret to unlocking a better life? Masturbate at least four times per week. I have a question about the article.

“TENGA also hopes to elevate the conversation around masturbation, prompting people to discuss the topic with loved ones, such as friends and significant others.”

Are there any recommended forums where conversations about the benefits of masturbation continues?
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Their response:

TENGA Global
Hi! We do not have specific forms in mind. Such conversations can be found everywhere online, oftentimes on the various social media platforms (Reddit, twitter, etc)

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Okay, I give up. Where are the forums where people talk openly about the benefits of masturbation? I found places that talk about the downside, porn addiction, compulsive masturbation, sex addiction, but nowhere have I found those who espouse the health benefits of masturbation.

 

[justdamhorny]

If it wasn't for masturbation, I might as well be dead!!

 

[Bigspurt]

It's not about sex addiction, yet it's about a need to find a sex positive forum to help remove shame and guilt from masturbation.

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I wrote this to TENGA in response this article they wrote.

Want to know the secret to unlocking a better life? Masturbate at least four times per week. I have a question about the article.

“TENGA also hopes to elevate the conversation around masturbation, prompting people to discuss the topic with loved ones, such as friends and significant others.”

Are there any recommended forums where conversations about the benefits of masturbation continues?
==
Their response:

TENGA Global
Hi! We do not have specific forms in mind. Such conversations can be found everywhere online, oftentimes on the various social media platforms (Reddit, twitter, etc)

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Okay, I give up. Where are the forums where people talk openly about the benefits of masturbation? I found places that talk about the downside, porn addiction, compulsive masturbation, sex addiction, but nowhere have I found those who espouse the health benefits of masturbation.

I am a dedicated Tenga customer. Great products! Solo sexual activity can be great without any added devices but Tenga has amped up my level of satisfaction many fold.

 

[MascaraRuns]

If it wasn't for masturbation, I might as well be dead!!

Hmm, masterbation is fun, dont get me wrong. It's even better when imagining a particular someone there with you. You need to experience more in life than that. I take it your significant other isnt helping out. Maybe you need a fuck buddy.

 

[magicalmoments]

I'm told that if you lie on your hand until it's numb then masturbate it's like someone else doing it to you.

 

[mf1438]

If it wasn't for masturbation, I might as well be dead!!

Here! Here!

 

[mf1438]

It's not about sex addiction, yet it's about a need to find a sex positive forum to help remove shame and guilt from masturbation.

==
I wrote this to TENGA in response this article they wrote.

Want to know the secret to unlocking a better life? Masturbate at least four times per week. I have a question about the article.

“TENGA also hopes to elevate the conversation around masturbation, prompting people to discuss the topic with loved ones, such as friends and significant others.”

Are there any recommended forums where conversations about the benefits of masturbation continues?
==
Their response:

TENGA Global
Hi! We do not have specific forms in mind. Such conversations can be found everywhere online, oftentimes on the various social media platforms (Reddit, twitter, etc)

==
Okay, I give up. Where are the forums where people talk openly about the benefits of masturbation? I found places that talk about the downside, porn addiction, compulsive masturbation, sex addiction, but nowhere have I found those who espouse the health benefits of masturbation.

Thanks for your replies, but I was kind of hoping for a forum or a thread somewhere on Literotica where the topic is discussed ad nauseum. Seems like something everybody likes to do but nobody likes to talk about...

 

[LadyJS]

Thanks for your replies, but I was kind of hoping for a forum or a thread somewhere on Literotica where the topic is discussed ad nauseum. Seems like something everybody likes to do but nobody likes to talk about...

Just my opinion, but I think there's still a social stigma about masturbation. The old joke goes 90% of men and 70% of women masturbate. The 10% of men and 30% of women who say they don't are liars. Even on a sex site like Lit, people seem to talk about fucking someone in detail, but playing with themselves, not so much. Plus, masturbation is primarily a solitary activity, usually done in private, and that probably contributes to the reluctance to talk about it.

People on Lit obviously do masturbate, as evidenced by threads like this one, or this one, as examples. I'm sure there are others as well. Maybe you can strike up a conversation in one of them. No guarantees, but you never know what will occur on Lit.

 

[mf1438]

Just my opinion, but I think there's still a social stigma about masturbation. The old joke goes 90% of men and 70% of women masturbate. The 10% of men and 30% of women who say they don't are liars. Even on a sex site like Lit, people seem to talk about fucking someone in detail, but playing with themselves, not so much. Plus, masturbation is primarily a solitary activity, usually done in private, and that probably contributes to the reluctance to talk about it.

People on Lit obviously do masturbate, as evidenced by threads like this one, or this one, as examples. I'm sure there are others as well. Maybe you can strike up a conversation in one of them. No guarantees, but you never know what will occur on Lit.

Thanks for the great advice. Much appreciated!

 

[tangledwebgal]

Maybe I'm wierd or something but nothing gets me off more intensely than me. I've had plenty of amazing orgasms from men (and a woman ) but so far the only thing that's made me cum so hard I squirt was my own hands. Poor me.

 

[PWilton]

Thread Reference

Posters here may find this Literotica thread of interest:

PSA: Masturbation

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1368704&highlight=masturbation

Mostly images, but some folks' thoughts about the subject from time to time.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I thank God for masturbation and pornography. Without them, I don't believe I could live.

First, it provides me with a much-needed release from the sexual drive that i seem to have in spades.

Second, it allows me to be faithful to my wife in that I do not fuck other women.

Third, although I am not a doctor, I believe that daily masturbation is good for the male physiology. I think that daily ejaculation is exercise for the male genitalia and prostate. It may be nonsense, but that is what I believe.

In a marriage where my wife doesn't care much about sex and our frequency is decreasing, solo sex is where I live.*

*I know that there are many who are worse off than I am. I'm sorry for you guys.

 

[MutualMan]

Hmm, masterbation is fun, dont get me wrong. It's even better when imagining a particular someone there with you. You need to experience more in life than that. I take it your significant other isnt helping out. Maybe you need a fuck buddy.

Or a masturbation buddy?

 

[Icy1]

It's not about sex addiction, yet it's about a need to find a sex positive forum to help remove shame and guilt from masturbation.

==
I wrote this to TENGA in response this article they wrote.

Want to know the secret to unlocking a better life? Masturbate at least four times per week. I have a question about the article.

“TENGA also hopes to elevate the conversation around masturbation, prompting people to discuss the topic with loved ones, such as friends and significant others.”

Are there any recommended forums where conversations about the benefits of masturbation continues?
==
Their response:

TENGA Global
Hi! We do not have specific forms in mind. Such conversations can be found everywhere online, oftentimes on the various social media platforms (Reddit, twitter, etc)

==
Okay, I give up. Where are the forums where people talk openly about the benefits of masturbation? I found places that talk about the downside, porn addiction, compulsive masturbation, sex addiction, but nowhere have I found those who espouse the health benefits of masturbation.

Maybe you could start one here. Seems like as good a place as any.

 

[Willy_Wanker]

Madturbation is natural and so much fun, never feel guilty!

 

[mf1438]

Maybe you could start one here. Seems like as good a place as any.

Masturbation Questions

How do you experience turn on?

The next time you get horny and right before you rub one out, take a moment to explain what triggered the feeling and what you are about to do to fuel the fire.

Were you watching porn?

Did you see a sexy picture?

Were you thinking about a loved one, or were you just bored in the moment?

 

[OnaTangent]

Masturbation Questions

How do you experience turn on? A random thought or imagine.. typically very spontaneous and random. I do sometimes seek inspiration but usually the mood just strikes me.

The next time you get horny and right before you rub one out, take a moment to explain what triggered the feeling and what you are about to do to fuel the fire.

Were you watching porn?

Did you see a sexy picture?

Were you thinking about a loved one, or were you just bored in the moment?

I have always enjoyed stroking myself off. Even when in a relationship I found it made for more balanced lovemaking if I did frequent self maintenance.

Since I have been single a while I have actually found quite a few other people that enjoy chatting and sharing masturbation ideas and thoughts. It is personal so natural it's not really open on the boards.

I second the idea of a masturbation buddy.... either with chat or ideally in person. In person obviously it could develop into more...

 

[MascaraRuns]

Or a masturbation buddy?

No. I think fuck buddy is def more worth it.

 

[CottonForMe]

Third, although I am not a doctor, I believe that daily masturbation is good for the male physiology. I think that daily ejaculation is exercise for the male genitalia and prostate. It may be nonsense, but that is what I believe.

In a marriage where my wife doesn't care much about sex and our frequency is decreasing, solo sex is where I live.*

Yup............ unless I can get a cock to suck

 

[Easyvirtue]

My masturbation habits are a release for me, a way to ground myself and detach from daily BS. Yes I love my wife, our life together and sex is great, but I love myself too and she is aware I masturbate and she also knows she is the trigger of what gets me going, however when I’m alone I am thinking and fantasizing about sex acts I know we will never do together.