░░│Single Litsters' Truth or Dare│░░│ FOR SINGLES ONLY! │░░

[MrDevereaux]

I spent the day trying to figure out an obnoxious way to comply with the current ToD prompt, since I'm not a fan. And then...I came up with a solution to complete the dare...and still retain a bit of my feminine mystery.

Here's my dare...a description of my naked body, written using an easy code. Anyone who deciphers the description will have earned the chance to read it.

I’m cracking the code! You fiendish lady!

 

[Midwest50Guy]

Ha! Sure...I'll go with that! I've no issues providing deets to the female Litsters I consider my friends.

I am sure a bunch of fake female accounts were just created..lol

 

[Beatrix_B]

I’m cracking the code! You fiendish lady!

So...did you figure it out, MrD?

I am sure a bunch of fake female accounts were just created..lol

That's probably true...but said 'women' are as likely cruising for 50-something guys from the Midwest as 40-something women from the Midwest. So...you best be on the look-out for PMs too, friend. Haha!

 

[Midwest50Guy]

So...did you figure it out, MrD?



That's probably true...but said 'women' are as likely cruising for 50-something guys from the Midwest as 40-something women from the Midwest. So...you best be on the look-out for PMs too, friend. Haha!

that is one problem i don't have. all the cobwebs in my inbox keeps that crap out.

 

[Beatrix_B]

that is one problem i don't have. all the cobwebs in my inbox keeps that crap out.

Cobwebs? Lucky! I seem to have an infestation.

 

[Midwest50Guy]

Cobwebs? Lucky! I seem to have an infestation.

I guess you must be charmed.

 

[Beatrix_B]

I guess you must be charmed.

I really am! I couldn't ask for a nicer, more respectful bunch of naughty Litsters!

 

[Midwest50Guy]

I really am! I couldn't ask for a nicer, more respectful bunch of naughty Litsters!

well then why are you wasting your time with me.....carry on then

 

[Beatrix_B]

well then why are you wasting your time with me.....carry on then

Well, as I've elected to be the 'hostess with the most-est' and reply to the majority of posts on this thread, you are kind of stuck with me. But, don't worry. I have a date with Mr. Sandman shortly.

 

[Midwest50Guy]

Well, as I've elected to be the 'hostess with the most-est' and reply to the majority of posts on this thread, you are kind of stuck with me. But, don't worry. I have a date with Mr. Sandman shortly.

I hope he isn't linked with this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qX7ySNlPkdg

enjoy yourself

 

[MrDevereaux]

So...did you figure it out, MrD?

I did, indeed! Very attractive description, but the use of code to make the statement *fans self*

Is your inbox full?!

 

[Beatrix_B]

I did, indeed! Very attractive description, but the use of code to make the statement *fans self* Is your inbox full?!

Haha! No, my inbox isn't full. (Some aren't curious enough to put in the modicum of effort to decipher as you.) However, if you keep posting questions like that, you might provide spark interest. So...shhhhh!) Oh, and thank you...

 

[EctoJohn]

Some aren't curious enough to put in the modicum of effort to decipher as you.

Personally I deciphered it on day one (albeit admittedly using an online cipher tool), and your self description was amazing, but I just didn't PM you.

 

[Beatrix_B]

Personally I deciphered it on day one (albeit admittedly using an online cipher tool), and your self description was amazing, but I just didn't PM you.

Aww! So, very considerate of you! And thank you the compliment!

 

[EctoJohn]

Aww! So, very considerate of you! And thank you the compliment!

You're welcome.
It was the kind of description that made me dream of seeing the visuals.

 

[Beatrix_B]

You're welcome.
It was the kind of description that made me dream of seeing the visuals.

Ha! Well, I've no problems exchanging words, but 'visuals' are a completely different matter. Haha!

 

[EctoJohn]

Ha! Well, I've no problems exchanging words, but 'visuals' are a completely different matter. Haha!

Yeah, I understand.
Visuals are too personal for some people unless they really know the person.

Also, there are no truth or dares listed on this page, so I'll add some more.


TRUTH: Do you prefer potential significant others to be older, younger, or a similar age?

DARE: Post a one finger challenge pic.
Google images of it if you don't know what that is, but basically it's a mirror selfie where you only use one finger to cover up your nipples and crotch. The trick is to use the finger in front of the camera to cover your lower bits, but your mirrored finger also covers the nipples.

 

[MellifluousJ]

I'll go with Truth. Lately, I've spent a little time thinking about this question myself, actually. I've been in a serious relationship with someone younger and someone around my age, so I think I'd like to try being with someone older. I don't want to have to teach (other than the standard help-me-learn-what-you-like kind of teaching) and I think it would be nice to be with someone that could teach me a thing or two (and I'm not just talking sexually here). I suppose I also figured that older would mean more mental stimulation, but I know that's definitely not always the case.

 

[Beatrix_B]

Also, there are no truth or dares listed on this page, so I'll add some more.


TRUTH: Do you prefer potential significant others to be older, younger, or a similar age?

DARE: Post a one finger challenge pic.
Google images of it if you don't know what that is, but basically it's a mirror selfie where you only use one finger to cover up your nipples and crotch. The trick is to use the finger in front of the camera to cover your lower bits, but your mirrored finger also covers the nipples.

Thanks for posting another ToD prompt, Ecto!

I was so bored by last night's Super Bowl game that I was lulled into a state of drowsiness and went to bed without looking in on this thread. Your vigilance is very much appreciated.

Also appreciated are your unique ToD prompt ideas! I mean, 'finger pic challenge'? I've never heard of such a thing! And, although you can best be believin' that I will answer with a 'truth' little later, I am definitely going to see if I can't finagle my own version of thr mirrored selfie you describe...for my own viewing satisfaction, of course.

 

[Beatrix_B]

I'll go with Truth. Lately, I've spent a little time thinking about this question myself, actually. I've been in a serious relationship with someone younger and someone around my age, so I think I'd like to try being with someone older. I don't want to have to teach (other than the standard help-me-learn-what-you-like kind of teaching) and I think it would be nice to be with someone that could teach me a thing or two (and I'm not just talking sexually here). I suppose I also figured that older would mean more mental stimulation, but I know that's definitely not always the case.

[Are you seeing this, ladies and gents?! ^^^ I'd love to get more of these kinds of replies, when possible—the kind that foster broader conversations regarding sex and sexuality within the context of the ToD prompts.]

Thank you for your thoughtful reply, Mellifluous!

As a 'woman of a certain age', I am happy to hear that men are recognizing the value that we women who have a few miles on the speedometer bring to the table. Though, I'm not downplaying the allure of younger women—they definitely have their own appeal, as well—it seems as if, for a time, there was a trend where men were said to prefer the company of younger women to that of mature women.

Fortunately, my time on Lit has proven that not to always be the case. However, considering my generation (Gen-X) is one the last to actually have had to exist and socialize without the use of a computer, mobile device, or 'swipe right/left' apps; it may be that our sustained attention spans and ability to have an extended conversation of some depth that, perhaps, gives us mature women an advantage. (Oh, and there's the added bonus that we likely know a thing or two (or fifty) when it comes to having engaging sexual interactions.)

I'd be interested in hearing others' thoughts on this point.

 

[Beatrix_B]

TRUTH: Do you prefer potential significant others to be older, younger, or a similar age?

TRUTH: I've only ever really dated (in RL) people who were of similar age, plus or minus 3 years. However, going forward, I don't think age would be as much of a factor as having things in common. I know I'm definitely not interested in dating anyone who is not at least as sexually adventurous as I am. So, for me, age is less a factor as finding someone who ticks off other boxes in regards to what I'd want in a significant other. I'd be comfortable with anyone who was within ten years of my age. I could likely go a little older than that, but I'd not want to go much younger.

 

[EctoJohn]

Thanks for posting another ToD prompt, Ecto!

I am definitely going to see if I can't finagle my own version of the mirrored selfie you describe...for my own viewing satisfaction, of course.

You're welcome.
Gotta keep things moving for my own hunt to become un-single.

Make sure you google images of it first.
It might be a bit tricky to figure based upon my description alone.

As for myself, answering my own truth, I prefer around my own age.
Although I agree with you that age isn't quite as important as having something in common, I find that going too far outside one's own age limits how much people tend to have in common.
Also, in my head, if I'm looking for that one and only forever significant other, she needs to want to eventually have kids with me.
While I have nothing against dating and having flings with someone much older, I do have to consider that, at my age, as we get older having kids becomes much more difficult and unlikely, so going younger is safer.

Then again, going too young, you start threatening having less and less in common like I just said above.

Ideally I suppose any future significant other should be of an age that we could have gone to high school together.

 

[Beatrix_B]

Ideally I suppose any future significant other should be of an age that we could have gone to high school together.

That completely makes sense—if planning/having a family is a priority. I'm sure that factored into why I only dated men who where within a few years of my age when I was younger.

However, I have no intentions of having more children or even marrying, for that matter. So, in my case, there's no reason to factor in age. If a man is interested in starting a family or having more kids, I would not be the ideal woman for him by a long shot. Haha!

Still, it's always a good plan to know what you want in a SO.

 

[Nightfall72]

Yeah, I understand.
Visuals are too personal for some people unless they really know the person.

Also, there are no truth or dares listed on this page, so I'll add some more.


TRUTH: Do you prefer potential significant others to be older, younger, or a similar age?

DARE: Post a one finger challenge pic.
Google images of it if you don't know what that is, but basically it's a mirror selfie where you only use one finger to cover up your nipples and crotch. The trick is to use the finger in front of the camera to cover your lower bits, but your mirrored finger also covers the nipples.

Younger.

 

[Midwest50Guy]

Yeah, I understand.
Visuals are too personal for some people unless they really know the person.

Also, there are no truth or dares listed on this page, so I'll add some more.


TRUTH: Do you prefer potential significant others to be older, younger, or a similar age?

DARE: Post a one finger challenge pic.
Google images of it if you don't know what that is, but basically it's a mirror selfie where you only use one finger to cover up your nipples and crotch. The trick is to use the finger in front of the camera to cover your lower bits, but your mirrored finger also covers the nipples.

truth...it really doesn't matter. age is just a number and women are weird in their own way and I will never understand them and gave up trying a long time ago. I hate dated women 20 plus years when i was younger and 15 years younger. when i got older. My ex wife was 11 years younger. What matters is the connection that you have and how they made you feel.