Dressed Inappropriate In Front Of Company

[KashAlmighty5]

Any females that have ever dressed Inappropriate or revealing while your significant other friends is over..my top heavy ex girlfriend used to serve us beers on game night in the smallest tank tops with no bra..the lust in the eyes and sneak glances from my friends turned us both on..any guys or girls have experienced this let me hear your stories..

 

[CandiCame]

I mean... define 'inappropriate'. You sound like somebody who was raised in a house with one of those islands in the kitchen. Are we out here expecting people to wear bras and pants in their own house? Is that a thing? I always thought that if you went to somebody's house you didn't expect that the guy would be wearing a shirt or a woman would be wearing pants because you're in THEIR house. Are people putting clothes on their kids just because somebody's stopping over?

This isn't even a sex thing I just genuinely didn't know we were supposed to wear town clothes in the house. Like... it's my house.

 

[KashAlmighty5]

In the South where I'm from it's considered Disrespectful to not be fully dressed when guests are over.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

I mean... define 'inappropriate'. You sound like somebody who was raised in a house with one of those islands in the kitchen. Are we out here expecting people to wear bras and pants in their own house? Is that a thing? I always thought that if you went to somebody's house you didn't expect that the guy would be wearing a shirt or a woman would be wearing pants because you're in THEIR house. Are people putting clothes on their kids just because somebody's stopping over?

This isn't even a sex thing I just genuinely didn't know we were supposed to wear town clothes in the house. Like... it's my house.

I totally agree. It's your house, wear what you want. At our house we are never in anything but lingerie. If you want to stay, join us.

 

[CandiCame]

In the South where I'm from it's considered Disrespectful to not be fully dressed when guests are over.

You're telling me you live in the south and would expect that if you rolled up in the trailer park you wouldn't expect to see somebody in a tank top with no bra and cut off sweatpants?

We was raised in two different 'south's.

The answer then is yes, I am, without exception, dressed "inappropriately".

Hell, if I'm just going to run to a gas station for a few seconds I might not throw a shirt on. Catch me at that place down the road at like 11pm buying milk in a pair of torn jeans and house shoes.

Edit: Dude don't go to a wal-mart any time except right after church, it'd blow your damn mind.

Edit: Also define 'guests'. Like yeah if a teacher is doing a home visit or something, but if it's literally drinking buddies like in the OP then who the fuck do they think they are that I gotta wear clothes around them? And for that matter why the hell is the lady of the house serving them? They know where the kitchen's at. Their legs broken?

 

[tjernst]

Church

My late wife hated wearing any kind of underwear. Loved it when she went to church that way, or we visited family.

 

[twister947]

In the South where I'm from it's considered Disrespectful to not be fully dressed when guests are over.

This. Fully dressed isn't the same as dressed up. And most of us don't live in trailer parks.

 

[CandiCame]

This. Fully dressed isn't the same as dressed up. And most of us don't live in trailer parks.

I was using that as an example. And again, I get it if it's "guests" guests, but for your drinking buddies? I feel like it's ridiculous to expect somebody not to be at home in their own house.

This thread just blindsided me because I had genuinely never heard of this concept. If your friends are coming over they know how you life. It's not like it's someone you'd have to dress up for. This is a difference between "house clothes" and "town clothes" thing. There is a difference between the two and I see the distinction as being if you're fully dressed then you are dressed up.

And honestly if you feel like you and everybody in your house needs to be in town clothes to watch a game and drink that's kind of sad to me? That's why it hit me so hard. You're putting your friends in the same category as "company I have to entertain" and not "friends".

Do y'all run around cleaning the damn house too? Picking up all the kid's toys and chucking them in her room, then tell her she has to be on her best behavior? OR are these people she calls 'Uncle whatever' and wears a diaper around because they're your fucking friends?

Like the concept is almost offensive to me that it would be expected of me to treat my friends like that. Because if- I mean just to go back to the OP- if I have to SERVE someone a beer, if they're not comfortable enough with me to go into my kitchen and get what they want to drink- then we ain't friends. You're a guy at my house that I can't wait to leave so I can live in my house again. You're not a real part of my life. You're someone I'm acting for. I'm /pretending/ I wear clothes in my own house. I'm /pretending/ my house is clean. I'm /pretending/ to have a lifestyle I don't have, because I straight-up don't really want you here and I will change back when you leave. I will be happy to see you gone.

 

[KashAlmighty5]

I was using that as an example. And again, I get it if it's "guests" guests, but for your drinking buddies? I feel like it's ridiculous to expect somebody not to be at home in their own house.

This thread just blindsided me because I had genuinely never heard of this concept. If your friends are coming over they know how you life. It's not like it's someone you'd have to dress up for. This is a difference between "house clothes" and "town clothes" thing. There is a difference between the two and I see the distinction as being if you're fully dressed then you are dressed up.

And honestly if you feel like you and everybody in your house needs to be in town clothes to watch a game and drink that's kind of sad to me? That's why it hit me so hard. You're putting your friends in the same category as "company I have to entertain" and not "friends".

Do y'all run around cleaning the damn house too? Picking up all the kid's toys and chucking them in her room, then tell her she has to be on her best behavior? OR are these people she calls 'Uncle whatever' and wears a diaper around because they're your fucking friends?

Like the concept is almost offensive to me that it would be expected of me to treat my friends like that. Because if- I mean just to go back to the OP- if I have to SERVE someone a beer, if they're not comfortable enough with me to go into my kitchen and get what they want to drink- then we ain't friends. You're a guy at my house that I can't wait to leave so I can live in my house again. You're not a real part of my life. You're someone I'm acting for. I'm /pretending/ I wear clothes in my own house. I'm /pretending/ my house is clean. I'm /pretending/ to have a lifestyle I don't have, because I straight-up don't really want you here and I will change back when you leave. I will be happy to see you gone.

You have issues...thanks for ruining the entire thread asshole

 

[CandiCame]

You have issues...thanks for ruining the entire thread asshole

I have issues because I think a woman oughta be able to wear a tank top and no bra in her own damn house without being ogled? And I pointed out that for most folks this is commonplace and self-explanatory?

Like I said, bro, don't ever step foot in a wal-mart. You'd have a damn heart attack.

This was just completely out of left field. I was trying to understand it. It never occurred to me that one COULD dress "inappropriately" in their own damn house. You set the level for what is appropriate. It's her house. If it's a no bra situation, then it's appropriate. I genuinely still don't understand what you were trying to say.

 

[Cptjameshook]

I think you are really stretching the OP to make your point. This post really more reflects that this is a fetish or turn on for both the male and female. I don’t think anyone is being forced to wear anything or serve anyone, rather it’s part of the whole flaunting act to get the wondering eyes of their friends. I think if we can respect his post as good intentioned we can have more fun with it. It requires a certain level of sophistication.

 

[jaF0]

I always thought that if you went to somebody's house you didn't expect that the guy would be wearing a shirt or a woman would be wearing pants because you're in THEIR house.

Yes, that's expected in civilization. Mature adults do that. Maybe not CCs and BBs in whatever ramshackle hillside villages they live in without indoor plumbing.

 

[jaF0]

This. Fully dressed isn't the same as dressed up. And most of us don't live in trailer parks.

I'm pretty sure a trailer park would be a step up for CC. Maybe several steps.

 

[Jada59]

When I first met the people who would be my inlaws, I had two nighties that were identical except for the color. One was black and the other was teal. They weren't low cut and had 3/4 length sleeves. They were short. I didn't realize how short until one morning while making breakfast, all the guys in the family gathered around me with requests. Many of these requests required me to bend over and get things. They all kept telling me how pretty my nighties were.

I didn't even realize this until I got back home and saw myself in a full length mirror. You could almost see the curve of my butt cheeks when I was standing up straight!

Then after we got married, my husband had disappeared somewhere. We'll never know where but that's beside the point. My BIL and one of my teenaged nephews as well as my MIL took me from PA to MA and we were staying in the same motel room. This time I brought some long caftans with me. Again, I thought I was fully covered until I noticed that my BIL and nephew kept having me bring things to them and I had to reach up to get them. This time the issue was the side. They were made of two rectangles with a V neckline cut in. Simple shoulder seams and side seams. But... The side seams did not come up very far from the bottom. So at the sides, you could see not only my sides but my boobs.

I still have some of those caftans. I bought new ones. I know I am revealing when I wear them. But now I do it on purpose.

 

[HoldYouDown]

I think you are really stretching the OP to make your point. This post really more reflects that this is a fetish or turn on for both the male and female. I don’t think anyone is being forced to wear anything or serve anyone, rather it’s part of the whole flaunting act to get the wondering eyes of their friends. I think if we can respect his post as good intentioned we can have more fun with it. It requires a certain level of sophistication.

Exactly. I get it. I opened this thread expecting some fun anecdotes, lol. As a house guest I would consider my hostess to be dressed "inappropriately" for the occasion if she were wearing a tank top and no bra. Whether it's truly appropriate or not is in the eye of the beholder I suppose. And I don't consider a lot of Wal Mart shoppers to be dressed appropriately to be in public. So there you go. But I like the idea for the thread.

 

[Nightfall72]

You're telling me you live in the south and would expect that if you rolled up in the trailer park you wouldn't expect to see somebody in a tank top with no bra and cut off sweatpants?

We was raised in two different 'south's.

The answer then is yes, I am, without exception, dressed "inappropriately".

Hell, if I'm just going to run to a gas station for a few seconds I might not throw a shirt on. Catch me at that place down the road at like 11pm buying milk in a pair of torn jeans and house shoes.

Edit: Dude don't go to a wal-mart any time except right after church, it'd blow your damn mind.

Edit: Also define 'guests'. Like yeah if a teacher is doing a home visit or something, but if it's literally drinking buddies like in the OP then who the fuck do they think they are that I gotta wear clothes around them? And for that matter why the hell is the lady of the house serving them? They know where the kitchen's at. Their legs broken?

I need to move.

 

[jaF0]

I need to move.

What you need to do is trim your sig line that stretches the board so much.

 

[needsifeel]

I have been out with my s/o's family whilst wearing a dress with no knickers. simply because the vpl was horrendous lol

 

[Bigspurt]

It was the 70s and my college girl friend didn’t own a bra and loose fitting tops were very popular. Needless to say she was a regular flasher. She was probably a pert 36 B. Lost track of her long ago. I’ve looked on social media. No luck.