does sex become better when you get married?

[dominatrixjane]

does sex become better when you get married?

https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/834427/sex-married-men-women

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a39658/best-things-about-married-sex/

 

[magicalmoments]

When you're fucking someone other than your spouse, definitely!

 

[nassauguy_2001]

When you're fucking someone other than your spouse, definitely!

I was thinking the same thing!!!

 

[johnnieblue44]

does sex become better when you get married?

https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/834427/sex-married-men-women

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a39658/best-things-about-married-sex/

The couple goes to the marriage counselor who says, "Let's start with something you both have in common". And the husband says, "Well, neither one of us likes to suck cock."

 

[newhere2learn]

No, it becomes non-existent

 

[navytime09]

Sex becomes better when you're honest.

 

[Clem99]

Hahaha....sex stops happening when you get married. Marriage...kids....jobs....elderly parents...financial stress...and the wife decides sex once a month is more than enough.

Don’t get married if you like sex.

 

[newhere2learn]

Hahaha....sex stops happening when you get married. Marriage...kids....jobs....elderly parents...financial stress...and the wife decides sex once a month is more than enough.

Don’t get married if you like sex.

^^^^^^ this. All fucking day long

 

[Remy88]

dumbest shit I've ever seen. Sex does not get better after you ake get married. It gets worse and then moves to non existant. Marriage is the greatest killer of everything that is great about being young and horny. When you are dating (and not cohabitateing) she will fuck your brains out and want your affection all the time. This is done mainly to lure you into marriage or some type of bullshit commitment. You (the man) stupidly believe that marriage is going to be great. Shes amazing, so tender, affectionate and sucks your cock so lovingly and so regularly. Surely this is what life is about, surely this is the way things will continue if you take that next step and commit to each other. I mean she wants you all the time now, how could this just change? WRONG! It will change. Average time is about 6 months to a year. Now if you have kids.... forget ever having sex regularly again. You, the man are just supposed to forget your human needs and live in misery the rest of your life. If you try and Express how this isn't fair to you and that you do have needs, you will be called immature and chastised for not thinking about important things. As if your own physical needs are not important at all... if you can't take living in that kind of misery anymore (which will likely never improve) and you actually step out and cheat to try and fulfill your needs, you will be shamed and ridiculed forever....

Moral of the story... dont get married if you love sex and need it regularly. Now if you somehow find a nympho wife who has those same needs then that's a different story. But those are about rare as finding real women to talk to or meetup with on lit.... unicorn rare...

 

[ElliottEden]

When you're fucking someone other than your spouse, definitely!

Or when someone else is fucking your spouse

The couple goes to the marriage counselor who says, "Let's start with something you both have in common". And the husband says, "Well, neither one of us likes to suck cock."

https://youtu.be/MxC-ynRZoDg

 

[magicalmoments]

Sex becomes better when you're honest.

Now this is very true. This is my experience as well.

 

[MisAlicia87]

Now if you somehow find a nympho wife who has those same needs then that's a different story. But those are about rare as finding real women to talk to or meetup with on lit.... unicorn rare...

Not as rare as a unicorn, however, certainly bringing others in has made our sex life much better

 

[Jada59]

Not in my case. Prior to marriage it wasn't the best I ever had but it wasn't necessarily bad.

After marriage? We had sex three times to the point where he had an ejaculation. Had to be done in a totally dark room. I had to wear a high necked flannel gown. There could be no foreplay of any kind and the only parts that could touch were our genitals. All the while he complained about how disgusting sex was. I became pregnant the third time. The one and only time with no condom.

There had been prior attempts, mainly on my part. But the disgust on his part put me off and I just quit trying. Or he would say that he couldn't because had to go golfing.

Always after sex, he took an immediate shower then went golfing. I even got a job at the golf course. Still didn't help.

 

[Remy88]

Not in my case. Prior to marriage it wasn't the best I ever had but it wasn't necessarily bad.

After marriage? We had sex three times to the point where he had an ejaculation. Had to be done in a totally dark room. I had to wear a high necked flannel gown. There could be no foreplay of any kind and the only parts that could touch were our genitals. All the while he complained about how disgusting sex was. I became pregnant the third time. The one and only time with no condom.

There had been prior attempts, mainly on my part. But the disgust on his part put me off and I just quit trying. Or he would say that he couldn't because had to go golfing.

Always after sex, he took an immediate shower then went golfing. I even got a job at the golf course. Still didn't help.

He sounds gay. Or just religious to the point of insanity. Or both. Either way a very disturbing story...

 

[Jada59]

He sounds gay. Or just religious to the point of insanity. Or both. Either way a very disturbing story...

Daughter and I both think gay. He has gone away with men to hotels/motels many times.

I spoke to my former SILs and his brothers are the same way. Their mom was/is very religious. But only the youngest brother still goes to church on a regular basis. He's still married. Other brother just abruptly left his marriage and took off with his high school sweetheart. They live in another state so I've never met her. She's nice though and still in contact with me.

 

[Asian_Flower]

I had great sex with my hubby before we were married, I had great sex after we were married. We still have great sex after all these years. It is really simple. He likes fucking me, I like him fucking me....oh and all the other fun stuff to!

 

[Nightfall72]

No, it becomes non-existent

Mostly because its okay to do it. It is no longer taboo so to say.

 

[Corbie]

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[Remy88]

I had great sex with my hubby before we were married, I had great sex after we were married. We still have great sex after all these years. It is really simple. He likes fucking me, I like him fucking me....oh and all the other fun stuff to!

You're right it is very simple. As I said before... you are a unicorn... otherwise you wouldn't even be a regular poster on lit....

 

[Marshill72]

I hate it for yall that have a sexless marriage. I'll be married 15 uears this Wednesday and still have lots if great sex. She likes it, I like it so it works. We do have short spurts where we go maybe 5-6 days without. But usually its never more than 2 days.

 

[runsilent]

I would say it gets ordinary. Nothing special and it get squeezed in when it can.Sleep seems to become way more important when you're married.

I will say for some reason it gets exciting in a hotel for both of the ex's (telling on myself there) and lovers. Maybe it's the new place or being away from a world that is not allowed to interrupt. Maybe it's knowing this is a special time so let's treat each other specially all day long. Like we did at the beginning.

As an aside. Having good sex means turning off all the phones and whatnot.

 

[GD88]

I'll agree with comments that "it gets squeezed in when it can" and "kids...jobs...financial stress" and how that can put a dampener on things.

We do still find each other attractive though despite our schedules and stresses. There are days where we're both too tired to be sure. But for us, half the fun these days for us is initiating and seeing each other go through the dilemma of do I pass on this tonight so I can do the work that I brought home from the office or do I make love to my spouse and then go do the work. It's made for some situations where we've said no but are visibly turned on and are not doing anything to stop the other from initiating and end with us fucking each other.

I will say that the best sex I've had since being married have always been in a hotel room when we're on holidays.

 

[Smallchange4]

I thought the sex was good. I only found out she didn't when she confessed to playing away. We got past it and expanded our sexual horizons. I discovered I had an SPH fetish about the same time she realized that maybe she was a bit of a size queen. Other guys and couples were on the menu. Everything blossomed from there until we kind of ran out of road. I call it chasing the fetish dragon. We constantly needed to mix things up. It became more difficult to find new people to play with.

 

[Justfantasies]

I thought the sex was good. I only found out she didn't when she confessed to playing away. We got past it and expanded our sexual horizons. I discovered I had an SPH fetish about the same time she realized that maybe she was a bit of a size queen. Other guys and couples were on the menu. Everything blossomed from there until we kind of ran out of road. I call it chasing the fetish dragon. We constantly needed to mix things up. It became more difficult to find new people to play with.

was she experienced before she met you?

 

[Smallchange4]

was she experienced before she met you?

Very experienced. She like myself liked sex all the time. Our marriage was based on far more than sex but we both have always been quite voracious. Before and after marriage. Her infidelity could have killed our relationship but it actual enhanced it for a few years.