Empty Feeling

[bicuriousnc]

So... I recently spent a weekend being fucked (for the first time) and noticed an interesting thing. Once he was in he and came out of me, I felt completely empty and needed him back in me... It didn't matter if it was for a moment to change positions or after he filled me with cum . My cumming had no relief for it either. And in the days and weeks since the need hasn't lessened at all. Will it ever lessen? Cause it's getting a bit frustrating.... (pun intended)

Seriously though... is the only cure another session(s) or will it fade?

 

[SissySalina]

Try a Butt Plug to get you by those days of your need.
The feeling will change with time and experience, but be careful of the direction it changes to.

 

[bicuriousnc]

Thanks SissySalina. I definitely think the plug will help get me through. What do you mean be careful of the change direction though?

 

[bicurnow]

Thanks SissySalina. I definitely think the plug will help get me through. What do you mean be careful of the change direction though?

Maybe you will no longer want to suck cock!

 

[SissySalina]

Thanks SissySalina. I definitely think the plug will help get me through. What do you mean be careful of the change direction though?

Over time you will get use to the plug and how it feels, then you will want to try something bigger and better to gain that feeling back. At that point you must determine weather it is length or width that you need to fill your craving.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Your relationship can get more intimate too. It sounds as though you have become very close?

 

[bicuriousnc]

Maybe you will no longer want to suck cock!

Never!!!

 

[bicuriousnc]

Your relationship can get more intimate too. It sounds as though you have become very close?

It has but is long distance :-(

 

[bicuriousnc]

Over time you will get use to the plug and how it feels, then you will want to try something bigger and better to gain that feeling back. At that point you must determine weather it is length or width that you need to fill your craving.

Ohhhhh I get that.... Thanks! I will be careful!!!

 

[none2_none2]

I guess you are saying that your need is purely physical. When I was young and on the prowl, if I went too many days without being inside a guy, I would get restless and irritable. When I was in a more involved relationship where I got to sleep with a guy, I would find myself sleeping with my cock in his crack. It was something I did partially subconsciously. Yes I did have a VERY high libido when I was younger. However, even back then I think a part of it was emotional. I never felt so totally complete as when a man let me inside him. Oral sex was pleasant, but nothing orgasmic for me. I never really cared for being J/o'ed as I never felt the other guy got the rhythm right. However sometimes even the act of putting my penis inside a guy made me harder at the sensations of being totally enveloped by the walls of his insides. One particular FB was so receptive. When we did fall asleep there were times I could slip it in again while he was still sleeping. Sometimes he would wake up and say I had to finish what I started. Sometimes I came and it seemed like he never woke up. (In all honesty, he drink a bit too much.) I don't get to engage in sex now that I have ED and worse. However, I miss it so much. The emotions as well as the sensations during the union. My partner of 16 plus years now was the first person I could control my urges with. Maybe part of it was that I was getting older. Still, I know part of it was that I knew if he told me to stop because we had to be somewhere, I would get to try again when we got back home. That blessed assurance that his beautiful hole was mine in the future gave me a bit of sense of serenity. The fact that he would say things like "my body is only for you", would drive me insane with aching to merge with him again. I couldn't fuck multiple times like I could in my younger days, but the fact that I could feel and smell my cum in his hole gave me a sense of satisfaction that all was ok until we were both recharged and up to merging again. My motto has always been that when a man gets fucked and angel earns his wings. I wish I could satisfy my partner and launch more flying
legions of angels like I used to.

 

[SissySalina]

Not exactly, the act is physical and there is a physical feeling but it is also the mind set. It is similar to a feeling of satisfaction, it is that good feeling and a feeling of accomplishment of something special and a constant reminder because you can wiggle of flex and the feeling of fullness is there.
It is much more than a physical feeling.

 

[Jada59]

Never!!!

Agree with you there! I'll go to my grave wanting to suck cock.

 

[bicuriousnc]

Agree with you there! I'll go to my grave wanting to suck cock.

Amen!

 

[bicuriousnc]

Not exactly, the act is physical and there is a physical feeling but it is also the mind set. It is similar to a feeling of satisfaction, it is that good feeling and a feeling of accomplishment of something special and a constant reminder because you can wiggle of flex and the feeling of fullness is there.
It is much more than a physical feeling.

Humans are complex

 

[jakelc]

I’m very similar to none2, without taking a cock inside me I get very irritable, I regularly use butt plugs which do keep the empty feeling at bay but they are just a stop gap measure. For me I need to feel real cock, the warmth of another body fucking me, feel his need to cum as it approaches and his orgasm inside me (or on me) I describe it as an addiction, or an itch I just can’t scratch. I need to have that empty feeling go away but the only thing that truly satisfies, no matter of size or colour, is real, hard cock. Once I’ve been satisfied I can plug myself and be happy for a while until the urge comes back and the butt plug isn’t enough: I’ve tried larger and larger butt plugs, inflatable ones at home and they feel great but sooner or later that primal desire comes right on back