Anal training

[inside_out]

Toys are always fun...but there's something extra special about using them specifically to prep for getting fucked in the ass for the first time. Anyone done anal training? Tell me about it.

 

[SamMalone12]

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[SissySalina]

Toys are always fun...but there's something extra special about using them specifically to prep for getting fucked in the ass for the first time. Anyone done anal training? Tell me about it.

What do you consider training?
You can always use a plug or dildo and that in itself would not be training.

 

[Experimentalslut]

Toys are always fun...but there's something extra special about using them specifically to prep for getting fucked in the ass for the first time. Anyone done anal training? Tell me about it.

Had a butt plug in all day knowing i waa going to get pounswd my hard cocks

 

[Snowbunnie12]

The idea sound very interesting... we have done something in the passed that kind of matches the described... im not a fan of anal however he thinks it incredibly hot and honestly sometimes so do I if the mood is right. Part of it is that I know it’s going to happen. Light meals the day before. A good cleaning 3-4 times the morning of followed by something to keep my little rose bud open, progresses throughout the day from small medium to large at his direction.

 

[SamMalone12]

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[Christinesmess]

She is a little shy at first, but I like to tongue her hole sometimes when I’m eating her out. I can usually get her excited enough that I can grab one of her princess plugs out of the nightstand drawer and then tease her a little with it before her ass gapes slightly and just literally sucks it in. Before we ever played down there, she admitted once that she gets an uncontrollable urge to orgasm when she goes to the bathroom during constipation. She definitely likes the plug in when we have sex. She is still not quite ready to take me all the way in though. We are afraid that she will tear no matter how much lubrication. So we are working our way up to larger plugs. Going to toy her with a glass toy made by the icicle brand. Looks like a large glass anal bead set that increases in size. Pretty sure I’m going to get her to orgasm by working her with this.

 

[panty_aussie]

i think well different toys to increase

i had ex misses use toys on me then would slowly increase the amount of fingers in my arss

 

[inside_out]

What do you consider training?
You can always use a plug or dildo and that in itself would not be training.

I mean deliberately over time stretching your ass to take a cock with increasing sizes of plugs or dildos.

 

[twister947]

There's no stretching involved. The sphincter muscle needs to relax.

 

[UnderMyKilt]

There's no stretching involved. The sphincter muscle needs to relax.

That depends on your definition of "stretch". It doesn't necessarily mean "stretching" like to make larger or permanently deform, but rather stretching, or exercising, like you would any muscle in preparation for physical activity.

To paraphrase another site that puts it rather succinctly,

"You mean like doing weights with my butt?

Not exactly. But the same kind of principle applies. If you're going to making use of muscles that you haven't used often before (or in a way that you aren't used to using them), a little bit of training is in order. Basically, the point of anal training is to get your anal muscles used to the activities you have planned for them. This doesn't necessarily mean preparing your anus to take the biggest dildo you've ever seen. If you plan to engage in basically any level of anal sexual activity, some level of training will definitely help."

Yes, and as is the case in warm ups and stretching for any physical activity, relaxation is a big part of it. This is especially true since the natural state of the anal sphincter is contracted to hold feces in and the mechanism that causes it to open for defecation is largely autonomous and involuntary. The use of anal toys in prep for anal sex can, and will, help you to "get in touch with" all the muscles and nerves down there. With practice, you can learn to have at least a modicum of control in learning to relax, control and use those otherwise involuntary anal and rectal muscles....for your pleasure. As for me, I'm a Jedi Assmaster....LOL

That said, tell me there isn't some "stretching" (not tearing) of muscles and surrounding tissues when I'm riding a 3" diameter dildo or HUGE plug.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Physically It’s to teach you how to relax, be clean, be lubed and order of positions. Mentally it is to sensitize the area so that it responds as well as it can. Don’t use vibration until you are trained. Then use it sparingly if you like but you may be very happy without it

 

[UnderMyKilt]

The Anal Pleasure Bible....

Since my youth, I have tended to intellectualize everything including my sexuality. This book filled in a lot of the "gaps" in what I thought I knew, and felt, and made a big difference in my "anal life" and acceptance of my alternate sexuality.

"Anal Pleasure & Health" by Dr. Jack Morin was the anal eroticism bible when I first bought it in 1981, again when I bought the Third Edition in 1998, and still relevant today when I bought the Kindle version of the Fourth Edition (2010).

The merely curious, those beginning to experiment, and even the most experienced pros at anal sex and anal play can find something new to LEARN in its pages. Even after 50 years of anal eroticism, I found some new and interesting material in the 4th Edition that I bought today. ((Bought it online, and read it all in one sitting today even though I've read two previous editions. 60 new pages...)