Do you feel submissive when you suck a cock?

[jimmyturtleman]

Well Written

Then you would enjoy MrThick. His name says it all.

You can find MrThick and the first three stories in the "A Good Little Cock Sucker" series here:

https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=2098278&page=submissions

I hope you enjoy the stories...and MrThick!

Having read most, if not all of your previous stories, I can say that I am one of your most avid fans. I like your writing style as well as your content.

Mr & Mrs Thick give CuriousOne a run for his money in this third chapter. As with real life we must make progress in whatever we do to keep us interested. And that includes sexual activity. If we remain stalled in our acts and desires, we become stagnant as partners or participants. CuriusOne seems to enjoy his newfound friend, MrsThick and her way of doing things.

I look forward to reading more about Mr and Mrs Thick and their muse, CuriousOne.

 

[gunthernehmen]

Deliciously submissive...

 

[SuperSissy]

Hopefully. Can be a big part of the fun.

 

[MadCatZach]

First off, a little background. I am 67 and happily married for over 40 years. My wife and I had an active sex life until about 7 or 8 years ago, when she became very disinterested in any form of sex. I tried to coax her into some unconventional avenues, like having sex with other men, if she wanted to. She rejected the idea straight away and insisted that she had just lost interest in sex, not in me. I accepted her explanation, even though I wish she had taken me up on my offer of being free to play around.

My fascination of imagining her having sex with other men did not end there. It was fueled by reading 'Hot Wife' and 'Cuckold' stories in various forums, like Literotica, and watching whatever porn vids that were related. It was a slow transformation, to where I soon began imagining myself injected into the whole scenario. I would jerk off while thinking about eating another man's cum from my wife's freshly fucked pussy, or sucking her lover hard before inserting him inside her. I was absolutely enthralled by this and fantasised about it a lot. Every time I stroked myself, this entered my mind and took control.

It came to me one day that I was becoming just as interested in the cock as I was the pussy. The stories, and the vids, and my fantasies were fairly centered around cock. My wife sucking on them, or being fucked was becoming secondary. I wanted the cock. I wanted to taste one, lick one and suck one.

Sucking cock was now my new obsession. After a few years of dreaming about it and wishing for it to happen, it did. I met with a guy from a chat site for coffee and we ended up engaged in mutual oral sex. He got the ball rolling, by sucking me off first, then my much anticipated debut went off perfectly. We met three times altogether and I found it thrilling, exciting, and all the things that sex is about. Above all, I found it quite natural to take a man's cock in my hands and mouth and make him cum.

I had always been the dominant partner in my marriage and took on a rather strong leading role wherever I worked. It was just who I was. The first time I sucked my buddy's cock I couldn't help but feel proud as he praised my efforts and refused to accept that his, was the first cock I had sucked. (At least that is what he told me). I was glowing. I then had an overwhelming compulsion to ask for him to call me a 'cocksucker'. He looked at me, smiled and called me a cocksucker. I loved it. Right then, I would have done anything that he asked me to, or told me to.

Now for the part about the question. I have found that over the past two years, I want the buddies I meet to take on a leading role in our adventures. I tell them it is okay to call me a cocksucker, to tell me what they want me to do, to take physical control of the moment and hold my head on their cock as I suck them. I want them to be in control, more and more. I have preferred to make all of my encounters to be about mutual satisfaction. I blow you, you blow me. The last two were not. The last one, I just sucked the guy off as he leaned back against a tree in an outdoor trail. When he finished and I swallowed, he suddenly became afraid of being caught and insisted we vacate the area. The one before that I was naked in bed with my buddy and he was like the puppeteer. He had told me to strip naked when I walked in the door, and I did. He told me to follow him to the living room where we kissed and felt each other up. Then he directed me to go wait for him on his bed, and I did. When he came in, he pretty much took control of all the action and had me crawl up from the foot of the bed and suck his cock as he held me there. When he filled my mouth, and I swallowed he pulled me up along side him and had me jerk off on his cock and balls, and I did. I loved it. He was definitely in charge and I loved it.

I felt like I had no choice in the way things happened during my last two meetings and it is truly an exciting prospect for me to feel this way. I am thinking that there is no way I would ever accept being humiliated or being made to call anyone 'Sir' or 'Master', but I do enjoy being told what to do and how to do it. It is almost a relief, not being in charge. Maybe it's a lowering of testosterone, or growing older. Whatever it is, I am finding that I enjoy being the submissive, when I know I am going to be sucking a cock.

What do you think guys?

I am 69 and it turns me on to give pleasure. To a woman or a man. You kind of have me thinking now about domination. I certainly don't want my hair pulled and bossed but I guess I do indeed get hard feeling like I am servicing a man. I like that men can have sex without many of the complications I think that women can make . Not all , but some want commitment and ownership along with sex. Anyway, I feel a bit submissive as I am servicing a hard cock. I am just a wet mouth for it to take pleasure in and deposit it's hot cum load in. If I am lucky the favor is returned but never guaranteed. I am a cum slut.

 

[bimori]

Deliciously submissive...

I think when I have a cock in my mouth not as being submissive but as being in total control. I have alway found as you bring a guy closer to cumming he will do anything or promiss you anything to let him cum in your mouth. Plus while he is cumming if you keep on sucking his cock until you have milked every drop. Until he starts to go soft he may even beg you to stop.

 

[Astroman72]

I think when I have a cock in my mouth not as being submissive but as being in total control. I have alway found as you bring a guy closer to cumming he will do anything or promiss you anything to let him cum in your mouth. Plus while he is cumming if you keep on sucking his cock until you have milked every drop. Until he starts to go soft he may even beg you to stop.

Although I'm bi, my sexual experiences have been limited to women. But yeah, I'm kind of on the same page. When I go down on a woman, it's usually because I'm taking the lead and she's on her back with her legs spread, in a submissive position, and I'm licking her pussy because I'm craving her pussy. My fantasies of sucking a guy's cock are pretty similar.

 

[CandiCame]

It takes a certain mindset that I have to get into beforehand, because it's so hard to make yourself not realize that all you have to do is bite down.

But if I'm in that mindset, with a good dom who knows how to talk to me and grab me and shit, yeah, it can be great.

 

[sweettalk4u]

It depends on the role and your goal. If you are sucking him to edge and control him and make him your own, then you are dominant, especially if you continue to control him after play is over and he needs your permission to cum. Or if the dominant play is just for this session to make his load even bigger as it fills your mouth, then you could be a top. Either way you are in control and loving it.

 

[SuperSissy]

I find it very interesting that some of us feel submissive while giving head, and others feel dominant, in control. Great thread.

 

[jackbird]

older 61 in mass

Yes I feel submissive when sucking cock. When they get verbal putting the hand on my head telling me to suck it deep yes feel submissive. Love feeling him in side my mouth enjoying my tongue wet mouth. Feel submissive when they tell me to suck there balls. Can't wait till I find someone to take my anal cherry will feel very submissive then.

 

[vizio]

I don't know so much submissive as... feminine

 

[Cockservant4you]

My experience is very close to yours. When my wife lost interest in sex I began to have the same fantasies as yourself. I have yet to act upon them, but cock dominates my mind during masturbation.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

My experience is very close to yours. When my wife lost interest in sex I began to have the same fantasies as yourself. I have yet to act upon them, but cock dominates my mind during masturbation.

If you are interested in making this happen for real, take your time and make wise decisions. Visit some chat rooms and see what is out there. If you find someone that you can 'click' with, explore what you really want. Do not do anything that you don't want to, and have "Fun."

 

[Cockservant4you]

Thank you for the advice. I am definitely taking my time. I have found the experience so far interacting with with others about my new fascination very erotic. Just conversing with other men on sites like this immediately causes my cock to start leaking from the excitement.

 

[Dreamer110]

Thank you for the advice. I am definitely taking my time. I have found the experience so far interacting with with others about my new fascination very erotic. Just conversing with other men on sites like this immediately causes my cock to start leaking from the excitement.

Sounds like you're enjoying yourself.

 

[Scareltt]

I used to feel one way, however that’s changed.

It takes a certain mindset that I have to get into beforehand, because it's so hard to make yourself not realize that all you have to do is bite down.

But if I'm in that mindset, with a good dom who knows how to talk to me and grab me and shit, yeah, it can be great.

I used to view it as a purely submissive act. I’m on my knees giving a blow job. However as I have started to give more of them, I am learning it’s truly a powerful act. When I’m on my knees with a man’s cock in my mouth I hold all the power. I can work their cock quickly and see how quick I can make them cum. Or I can take my time and slowly take them down the path. Once they are going crazy I can allow them to orgasm in my mouth, or on my body. Or I can stop right before and have a front row seat and watch their cock do the rhythmic dance of the ruined orgasm.


I hold all the power...

 

[Dreamer110]

I used to view it as a purely submissive act. I’m on my knees giving a blow job. However as I have started to give more of them, I am learning it’s truly a powerful act. When I’m on my knees with a man’s cock in my mouth I hold all the power. I can work their cock quickly and see how quick I can make them cum. Or I can take my time and slowly take them down the path. Once they are going crazy I can allow them to orgasm in my mouth, or on my body. Or I can stop right before and have a front row seat and watch their cock do the rhythmic dance of the ruined orgasm.


I hold all the power...

I see a lot of happy men in your hands.

 

[Jander1]

I see a lot of happy men in your hands.

Sexy conversation. --I feel a bit submissive and manly at the same time if that makes sense. Grabbing that cock and having the power to make it cum seems more manly than licking pussy.

 

[Dreamer110]

Sexy conversation. --I feel a bit submissive and manly at the same time if that makes sense. Grabbing that cock and having the power to make it cum seems more manly than licking pussy.

I guess you'd just have to show me. Lol

 

[Jander1]

I guess you'd just have to show me. Lol

Guess so. I get excited, argh. Superman like, lol

 

[Dreamer110]

Guess so. I get excited, argh. Superman like, lol

Doesn't sound like a bad thing.

 

[Jander1]

Doesn't sound like a bad thing.

Making joy is never bad

 

[Dreamer110]

Making joy is never bad

Obviously I'd much prefer some enthusiasm rather than it just being a chore.

 

[Scareltt]

I get that...

Obviously I'd much prefer some enthusiasm rather than it just being a chore.

All sexual activities should be done with enthusiasm.

Your partner can tell when you’re not into it.

 

[ArtisticX]

"feel" submissive? sometimes, when I want to be, it's a nice feeling. Unfortunately there is so much tension and hype around sexual behaviors/desires, that I wonder if anyone is actually experiencing, or merely acting out rote behaviors? forgive me... it's early, and I was raised catholic.

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