Numi's boudoir

[numeniusa]

Where's my LIKE button!

Have you tried one? I can't believe it's taken me this long

 

[Artfan2]

It's important to keep up one's skills

Here's another thing I learned recently. A sex tip arrived in my email (from a well-known sex toy purveyor ). It said to try holding a vibrator to your cheek whilst performing oral on a man. So he gets the vibrations.

Seemed to work pretty well

Ha ha! It sounds like you're committed to growing your skills. I'm sure that it's very much appreciated.

 

[hairball18]

Let me know when you have a free slot in your diary to lend that free hand

My slots are all free. My hand just slapped me for missing this.

 

[tnman03]

It's important to keep up one's skills

Here's another thing I learned recently. A sex tip arrived in my email (from a well-known sex toy purveyor ). It said to try holding a vibrator to your cheek whilst performing oral on a man. So he gets the vibrations.

Seemed to work pretty well

Yes, I can see how that would be a stimulating turn of events. All the more toolsets to add to a couples erotic capabilities.

 

[numeniusa]

Ha ha! It sounds like you're committed to growing your skills. I'm sure that it's very much appreciated.

It's interesting finding new techniques I do like the teasing aspect of that one

Are there any techniques you particularly like, Mr Artfan? Giving or receiving...

 

[numeniusa]

My slots are all free. My hand just slapped me for missing this.

It's good to keep your slots available. I can think of better employment for the hand, though

 

[numeniusa]

Yes, I can see how that would be a stimulating turn of events. All the more toolsets to add to a couples erotic capabilities.

I must get around to writing about the sleeve thing.

It's horribly, wonderfully effective

This is it:

https://www.bondara.co.uk/ml/11/f-enlargev2/products/bx01.jpg

That makes it look slightly huge, but it's a nice snug fit

 

[Artfan2]

It's interesting finding new techniques I do like the teasing aspect of that one

Are there any techniques you particularly like, Mr Artfan? Giving or receiving...

A variety of stimulation is always good. Alternating between hot water and ice can be very intense. But you have to make sure everything's nice and aroused before you apply the ice. Both giving and receiving.

 

[tnman03]

I must get around to writing about the sleeve thing.

It's horribly, wonderfully effective

This is it:

https://www.bondara.co.uk/ml/11/f-enlargev2/products/bx01.jpg

That makes it look slightly huge, but it's a nice snug fit

That's the first one of those I've viewed Numi. Interesting.

 

[hairball18]

It's good to keep your slots available. I can think of better employment for the hand, though

I am willing to share said hand. Since it does not drive, I will have to accompany it.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

I must get around to writing about the sleeve thing.

It's horribly, wonderfully effective

This is it:

https://www.bondara.co.uk/ml/11/f-enlargev2/products/bx01.jpg

That makes it look slightly huge, but it's a nice snug fit

Ahem... do! Not come across them before and I am always up for a little education,

 

[Joxlrg]

Education

YES PLEASE educate us on exactly what that device is.. I would love to learn as well..

 

[numeniusa]

A variety of stimulation is always good. Alternating between hot water and ice can be very intense. But you have to make sure everything's nice and aroused before you apply the ice. Both giving and receiving.

I can't imagine applying ice to a man's cock I can imagine that arousal beforehand would be important. And if you know that warmth is coming after, whether hot water, mouth or pussy, well it's going to be a good contrast

In the same vein, I have learned this week that a cool glass dildo inside me in combination with a hot tongue on my clit is very good, very good indeed... I'm given to understand that it's a difficult thing to pull off, "like patting your head and rubbing your tummy at the same time, only ruder..."

 

[numeniusa]

I am willing to share said hand. Since it does not drive, I will have to accompany it.

I'm pleased to hear it I'm sure we can find employment for both your hands. And ... other things...

 

[numeniusa]

That's the first one of those I've viewed Numi. Interesting.

Ahem... do! Not come across them before and I am always up for a little education,

YES PLEASE educate us on exactly what that device is.. I would love to learn as well..

OK, so I haven't written any words to go with them yet, but I took some good pictures of it in action yesterday. Some of them, including the one below, were a bit shaky-handed, I can't imagine why

http://i.imgur.com/ovX63iu.jpg

Stay tuned for a full description...

 

[hairball18]

I'm pleased to hear it I'm sure we can find employment for both your hands. And ... other things...

You look very festive all decorated like that.

 

[Artfan2]

I can't imagine applying ice to a man's cock I can imagine that arousal beforehand would be important.

In the same vein, I have learned this week that a cool glass dildo inside me in combination with a hot tongue on my clit is very good, very good indeed...

Yes, it's important for me to be very aroused before applying ice to my cock. But the stimulation of going from hot, and then briefly to cold, is very intense. I'm sure a that sliding both a hot tongue and a cold ice cube up and down the length would be a stimulating combination as well.

OK, so I haven't written any words to go with them yet, but I took some good pictures of it in action yesterday. Some of them, including the one below, were a bit shaky-handed, I can't imagine why


Stay tuned for a full description...

Looking forward to both words and pics.

 

[tnman03]

I must get around to writing about the sleeve thing.

It's horribly, wonderfully effective

This is it:

That makes it look slightly huge, but it's a nice snug fit

OK, so I haven't written any words to go with them yet, but I took some good pictures of it in action yesterday. Some of them, including the one below, were a bit shaky-handed, I can't imagine why

Stay tuned for a full description...

I tried to find more information on that sleeve but was unsuccessful. By its design I'm guessing it's intent is for intercourse rather than masturbation though. It looks like an interesting design.

 

[numeniusa]

You look very festive all decorated like that.

Left over tinsel... A bit scratchy. But I like it

And a belated happy birthday to you, Mr HB. It's a British tradition that a birthday boy is entitled to a blow job. Just saying...

 

[numeniusa]

Yes, it's important for me to be very aroused before applying ice to my cock. But the stimulation of going from hot, and then briefly to cold, is very intense. I'm sure a that sliding both a hot tongue and a cold ice cube up and down the length would be a stimulating combination as well.

Looking forward to both words and pics.

Ooh. Interesting idea. The hot tongue/ice cube combination.

You're an adventurous man. I like that.

 

[numeniusa]

I tried to find more information on that sleeve but was unsuccessful. By its design I'm guessing it's intent is for intercourse rather than masturbation though. It looks like an interesting design.

I'm going to include a link so you can look it up... I would say it's as easy for a man to use on himself as it is for a partner to do it for him. I'm not sure which would be preferable

 

[numeniusa]

On 'the sleeve'

There are lots of toys in my toy box. Lots. Some come out often. Some come out rarely. Some are more successful than others... (and Tink has a whole toy review thread about what works and what doesn't). For the most part their common feature is that they are for female stimulation, for use either by me or by someone on my behalf. Or my behind

So it was a deliberate decision to try to find something to add to the collection which would be for my man specifically. I've never been drawn to fleshlights, they look a bit yucky to me. I have been told that the stimulation is good, pleasurable and natural-feeling, but I don't think I would like to use one on a man, and I'm sure I wouldn't like the clean-up afterwards. Which is making it all about me, I realise, but still. Ew...

A search through a popular sex toy purveyor's website threw up the PDX Elite, which looked interesting.

http://i.imgur.com/XAOYGjh.jpg

It was described as a 'male masturbator', or 'stroker'.

It looks like a tiny stingray with those flaps on either side, the 'spine' and the protruding head. The spine is a vibrating bullet vibe, the flaps are curved to fit the cock shaft, and are lightly ribbed on the inside.

It was very clear, very quickly, that it was extremely effective. The first time I used it on my man, he went from nought to sixty in about ten seconds flat. I learned fast that I had to take it slowly!

From the beginning, then. It slips easily onto a stiff, well-lubed cock. This means that there's a nice build-up before it's time to put it in place. A period of stroking with a human hand, the application of a little coconut oil, watching it melt, spreading it all along the shaft, over the head and back down to the corona. It's important to make sure it's properly distributed everywhere, slippery and glistening. I like to pay particular attention to the frenulum, because I know the stroker will be especially effective there.

Once the cock is properly prepared, you can slip the sleeve over the base, vibrating spine at the top. Remembering to switch on the vibrator first, of course The flaps are a little rigid, so it's a snug fit, but not too tight. There's room to vary the 'hold' by squeezing a little or relaxing the hand.

This is what it looks like in situ. (Warning - that's an explicit pic. And aologies for the low light and the rather 'Christmassy' background ).

When there's steel cockring in play, as in the pic above, the tail of the vibrator can come into contact with the ring at the base position, which transfers the vibration right around the ring.

It comes into its own with the stroking, of course. I like to slide it slowly up the shaft towards the head. As it gets nearer, the vibrating tip gets closer and closer to the frenulum, until it's vibrating right along the length of the frenulum, the cries of ecstasy are getting louder and more urgent, and I have to back off, otherwise it's all going to be over rather quickly!

The noises my man makes when I do this put me in mind of how I feel when the ears of my rabbit vibrator come into contact with my clit. A feeling of intense stimulation that you can't control, even if you wanted to.

What's in it for me? It's a great toy for edging a man, if you're careful, and you're confident in your interpretation of his cues. I really like that you can still see the cock while it's in place, and the contrast between the rigid black flaps and the rigid human skin is lovely. On a purely practical note, the clean-up is a doddle, however far you go.

I especially like its propensity for precum generation. I'm a big fan of precum. Which is just as well, because the sleeve induces it in my man in gallons. You can see the start of that process here. (Warning - that one's explicit too... )

I imagine it would be a good toy for a man to use on himself, if he were so minded. I like being in charge of it, though. I like the control. The teasing. The taking him to the edge and back from it.

And the precum. I really like the precum.

Here's a link to the manufacturer's website. There's even a video on there, apparently. I haven't dared watch it!

 

[tnman03]

I'm going to include a link so you can look it up... I would say it's as easy for a man to use on himself as it is for a partner to do it for him. I'm not sure which would be preferable

Okay, your very informative follow up post on this was enlightening. Yes, I'd think it would be a much nicer stroker than a fleshlight and less messy.

I found the information about the built in bullet vibe very interesting. This really does sound like an ideal addition to a couples toybox.

Thanks for the review.

 

[hairball18]

Left over tinsel... A bit scratchy. But I like it

And a belated happy birthday to you, Mr HB. It's a British tradition that a birthday boy is entitled to a blow job. Just saying...

There is something to be said about traditions. Even with your mouth full.

 

[hairball18]

Left over tinsel... A bit scratchy. But I like it

And a belated happy birthday to you, Mr HB. It's a British tradition that a birthday boy is entitled to a blow job. Just saying...

I forgot to thank you for the birthday wish. How rude of me.