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Im here but doing chores , I hate painting sets my allergies off
Any volunteers to help ? I'll make you cakes in return or other stuff .......:D
 
Have fun folks, I'm off to see if my shoulder can take the rest of the job I have to do tonight. I'll pop in and say hello when I'm wrapped up.
 
pikmin1388 said:
Tiles it's an old fireplace
You like cream in your cake ? :D
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Old fire place hmm painting tiles, didn't you like them as they were.

I do like cream on my cake.:devil:

More to the point is do you like cream on yours too,:devil:
 
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RustyIron said:
Old fire place hmm painting tiles, didn't you like them as they were.

I do like cream on my cake.:devil:

More to the point is do you like cream on yours too,:devil:
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Tiles are yucky brown bedroom now purple does not match at all
I don't have any cream do you? :D
 
So I wanted to say something about this trend I've noticed of women here and at other sites who basically challenge men to catch their attention.

Its not in a fun or sexy way either. Its more like a spoiled child demanding that the adults around them entertain them or they'll throw a tantrum.

This is not sexy to me. Here is how I see it. Are you a strong enough woman to be MY woman? Are you intelligent enough to keep up with me and engage and challenge me? Are you passionate enough to make me burn for you? Kinky enough to play with me when I feel dirty? Brave enough to call me on my bs and bring me back down to earth without undermining or damaging me?

It isn't my job to be your toy and I want far more than a toy, I want a partner. I want someone who will be at my side, and if she feels like being under me, then we can do that, but when the orgasm has faded and the afterglow dinned, go back to being my equal. Are YOU up to the challenge?
 
Some people like attention, and if what they do gets them attention, it's what they'll continue to do.

It works particularly well in places like this, because most people here, from my observation, aren't looking for partners. A lot of them are just looking to play. So, men will give the attention sought, because it might get them some playtime. Playing the game increases the odds for that.

I suppose, if you're looking for a partner, than it can be rather frustrating. Good luck with it. Hopefully, someone who's looking for what you have to offer will find you.
 
I will admit to some frustration with this too at times. Especailly when I don’t know what to say in a first message if I walked into a room I would generally initiate conversation with you by saying hi, how are you? But you can’t do that in a pm people don’t tend to answer. I guess it’s because they have so much less data about you than they do in person such as your looks or presentation and all we have to present ourselves is our words, but sometimes I can get the frustration...

This would be a great topic in the conversation thread and parts of it have been touched on there.

When it comes to lit I pretty much assume everyone is attached in their real world and looking for something whether that be conversation, or playtime it’s just a matter of learning what it teach person seeks. Not saying there aren’t single people here there are, but I assume they aren’t until they say otherwise... now I forgot where I was going with this last train of thought, so I’ll stop now.
 
When I do PM's I try to start of with an introduction, just like a conversation, then I say why I PM'd them. Sometimes I just give a cold PM, sometimes I've talked in a thread, or maybe I'm just telling them I liked something they posted.

I usually say that I'm interested in conversation, just getting to know them or something to the effect. Then I tell them to take a look at my post and see if I don't seem like a total jackass and say I look forward to hearing back from them.

Oh, and I try and be funny most times too. I'd say I get a fair number of responses, but almost all my PM's are friendly banter and not sexually charged.
 
KamaKamaSutra said:
When I do PM's I try to start of with an introduction, just like a conversation, then I say why I PM'd them. Sometimes I just give a cold PM, sometimes I've talked in a thread, or maybe I'm just telling them I liked something they posted.

I usually say that I'm interested in conversation, just getting to know them or something to the effect. Then I tell them to take a look at my post and see if I don't seem like a total jackass and say I look forward to hearing back from them.

Oh, and I try and be funny most times too. I'd say I get a fair number of responses, but almost all my PM's are friendly banter and not sexually charged.
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I’m in the same boat as you too that’s what I try to do also, but sometimes it doesn’t come haha.
 
The_gladiator said:
I’m in the same boat as you too that’s what I try to do also, but sometimes it doesn’t come haha.
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I just tend to think that people don't know if I'm being serious or not, I have an odd sense of humor. But I just have to remember, NOOO mater how bad life gets, I have a big dick :rolleyes:
 
KamaKamaSutra said:
When I do PM's I try to start of with an introduction, just like a conversation, then I say why I PM'd them. Sometimes I just give a cold PM, sometimes I've talked in a thread, or maybe I'm just telling them I liked something they posted.
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Or sometimes you just ask if they're male or female. :D
 
Working 8:30am-5:30pm M-F is weird. I don't think I've ever in my life worked regular business hours and I'm wondering if I'll ever get to see my doctor, go get an eye exam like I need to do, go to the bank, go to the dentist..........

...or anything else that requires normal business hours. lmao

I mean, I'm not complaining. I just never knew how important it was to consider taking days off for regular stuff. haha
 
I'll answer a "Hello. How are you?" PM, since it's polite, but more often than not, that conversation isn't going to go very far.

One of the harder questions to answer seems to be when I ask them what prompted them to write to me.

If you write to someone specifically because you want to talk to them, not just because you want to talk to someone, then just say hello, and tell them why they got your attention. It's not difficult. I do it all the time. :)
 
Froya said:
I'll answer a "Hello. How are you?" PM, since it's polite, but more often than not, that conversation isn't going to go very far.

One of the harder questions to answer seems to be when I ask them what prompted them to write to me.

If you write to someone specifically because you want to talk to them, not just because you want to talk to someone, then just say hello, and tell them why they got your attention. It's not difficult. I do it all the time. :)
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Hey you did that to me?! Was my answer decent?
 
Chris_Michael said:
Working 8:30am-5:30pm M-F is weird. I don't think I've ever in my life worked regular business hours and I'm wondering if I'll ever get to see my doctor, go get an eye exam like I need to do, go to the bank, go to the dentist..........

...or anything else that requires normal business hours. lmao

I mean, I'm not complaining. I just never knew how important it was to consider taking days off for regular stuff. haha
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Oh, hey there. You slipped in and I nearly missed it.

How have your first days on the job been?
 
Froya said:
Oh, hey there. You slipped in and I nearly missed it.

How have your first days on the job been?
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The first two days were orientation. I really wont be able to tell how the job will be until the pharmacy opens. That will be the test of if I can do it all myself or if I’m going to get kicked to the curb.

I will be in the pharmacy tomorrow but I’m not sure what I’ll be doing. We wont be open. I’ll probably just be preparing for launch.

We’ll seeeeeeeeeee!!!
 
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