Social Experiment - Ladies, Send a PM to a Random Man on Lit for a Change

[The_gladiator]

Awful. She’d feel really awful, about many things said about, and to me, honestly. I was flat out mocked, called names, and told to fuck off mire times than I can count. Thank you for actually being the only one to give that a thought.

All because I left (when in reality I just went quiet) for about 30 hours, when I thought my real life was compromised.

I don't understand that... real life happens and in my opinion that should always come first, you gotta take care of you... why would anyone hold that against you? We all do it. Some of us can't be as open about lit in our real lives... sorry you were hurt Gracie. Welcome back...

I'm also not sure how giving a damn about your feelings makes me a fucking moron, but I'm starting to realize how little I care.... I was just worried for your feelings, once those posts were made they're forever, if you've not read back, just don't...

 

[pikmin1388]

Awful. She’d feel really awful, about many things said about, and to me, honestly. I was flat out mocked, called names, and told to fuck off mire times than I can count. Thank you for actually being the only one to give that a thought.

All because I left (when in reality I just went quiet) for about 30 hours, when I thought my real life was compromised.

I'm so sorry things turned out like this , I hope you're okay , I heard how funny and entertaining you are

 

[Gracie13]

I don't understand that... real life happens and in my opinion that should always come first, you gotta take care of you... why would anyone hold that against you? We all do it. Some of us can't be as open about lit in our real lives... sorry you were hurt Gracie. Welcome back...

I'm also not sure how giving a damn about your feelings makes me a fucking moron, but I'm starting to realize how little I care.... I was just worried for your feelings, once those posts were made they're forever, if you've not read back, just don't...

I did. That’s why I just stayed quiet. Soul crushing which really makes me mad at myself for allowing myself to care about this place. I am exactly how I am here, in real life. So while I was mocked for being emotional-and I’m not talking about Chris- I really am. That’s my own fault. People, again, not just one person, feel I personally screwed them over because while my niece and nephew were in my
care, I started getting crazy messages and I just shut it all off to deal with my real life and apparently that means I “screwed people over”. The whole thing just super upsetting and I wish I didn’t care as much as I did.

 

[The_gladiator]

I did. That’s why I just stayed quiet. Soul crushing which really makes me mad at myself for allowing myself to care about this place. I am exactly how I am here, in real life. So while I was mocked for being emotional-and I’m not talking about Chris- I really am. That’s my own fault. People, again, not just one person, feel I personally screwed them over because while my niece and nephew were in my
care, I started getting crazy messages and I just shut it all off to deal with my real life and apparently that means I “screwed people over”. The whole thing just super upsetting and I wish I didn’t care as much as I did.

This is supposed to be fun, once its not I ask myself personally why bother... what you describe sounds horrible.

This is why some of us are more guarded on lit than we are in person, and why for years glad was a role, it wasn't really me, it was to help me not be so hurt if things went south... but its hard not to care about people in threads like this you make connections.

 

[Gracie13]

I'm so sorry things turned out like this , I hope you're okay , I heard how funny and entertaining you are

Thanks oh boy..I’m sure you’ve heard things. It seems most have! I’m just a regular girl though!

 

[Chris_Michael]

Thanks oh boy..I’m sure you’ve heard things. It seems most have! I’m just a regular girl though!

I told her good things about you.

She let me vent to her when I lost you.

 

[pikmin1388]

Thanks oh boy..I’m sure you’ve heard things. It seems most have! I’m just a regular girl though!

I have but I don't judge anyone , just be yourself, we are on here to have fun
I hate people saying bad stuff

 

[Froya]

This is supposed to be fun, once its not I ask myself personally why bother... what you describe sounds horrible.

This is why some of us are more guarded on lit than we are in person, and why for years glad was a role, it wasn't really me, it was to help me not be so hurt if things went south... but its hard not to care about people in threads like this you make connections.

You do make connections, and those connections have connections, and when shit happens, strings get pulled. Most of the time no one knows all or even much of the story. And some people can end up hearing different versions of the 'truth' from different people, because everyone has their own version based on their own experiences with the situation or person. Shit gets messy when something happens that stirs up emotions.

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

Awful. She’d feel really awful, about many things said about, and to me, honestly. I was flat out mocked, called names, and told to fuck off mire times than I can count. Thank you for actually being the only one to give that a thought.

All because I left (when in reality I just went quiet) for about 30 hours, when I thought my real life was compromised.

Hey I didn't say nuttin I was even worried about ya.

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

You do make connections, and those connections have connections, and when shit happens, strings get pulled. Most of the time no one knows all or even much of the story. And some people can end up hearing different versions of the 'truth' from different people, because everyone has their own version based on their own experiences with the situation or person. Shit gets messy when something happens that stirs up emotions.

It's all just a game of telephone. I say we beat the caller a bit. XD

 

[Gracie13]

Hey I didn't say nuttin I was even worried about ya.

Except you told Chris I fucked with you, and then you told me it was all on me, as in this was totally my fault.

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

What?!

 

[Chris_Michael]

Except you told Chris I fucked with you, and then you told me it was all on me, as in this was totally my fault.

At least tell him I screenshot the message. I didn’t “tell you.” I let you read it.

 

[The_gladiator]

Don't put anything in writing you wouldn't want a prosecuter to read aloud to you during cross examination lol.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Well Gracie, it’s just me and you now because we just pissed off the entire internet.

 

[Gracie13]

I’m going to get mocked again, but look.

Literally every freaking time I talk on this thread it goes to crap.

 

[The_gladiator]

Way to channel high school lol... screenshotted messages? Anything you say can and will be used against you, eh?

 

[Gracie13]

Way to channel high school lol... screenshotted messages? Anything you say can and will be used against you, eh?

Me?? I didn’t do it.

 

[The_gladiator]

Me?? I didn’t do it.

I wasn't referring to you, though.... it was Chris that mentioned it.

 

[Gracie13]

I wasn't referring to you, though.... it was Chris that mentioned it.

Just checking

 

[The_gladiator]

Just checking

Why would you think I was talking about you? I very carefully did not quote your message, since I know I tend to do that by accident at times. Don't worry.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Way to channel high school lol... screenshotted messages? Anything you say can and will be used against you, eh?

Soooo...

Telling her that something was said - ok
Showing her a screenshot of what was said - highschool behavior

Alrighty then...

 

[The_gladiator]

Soooo...

Telling her that something was said - ok
Showing her a screenshot of what was said - highschool behavior

Alrighty then...

Eh they both kinda suck... especially out of context.

But, that's just my opinion, you may disagree.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Eh they both kinda suck... especially out of context.

But, that's just my opinion, you may disagree.

Yep. Well, I got what I came here for.

So, I guess this Personals is done.

Sucks that it went down the way it did but oh well...

 

[Wetsider]

Fellow goes to sleep for a while and all kinds of things happen.

Well, I for one am glad you are around again in whatever capacity makes you happy Gracie.

The rest of it... Well, I deliberately wasn't involved and have no desire to be. Whatever went down is Gracie's business, and whatever is between her and Chris is their business.

Did I mention I'm making meatloaf for dinner tonight while listening to Meatloaf?

https://youtu.be/C11MzbEcHlw

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