Oral Servitude 4

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See, now. This is too complicated for me. If I’m serving someone, it’s that one person. He gets all my focus. My movement is always directed towards him.

Here’s a question. Can you worship more than one person at a time? I’m not talking SERVICE. We can all multitask. I’m talking about devotion.

In my experience, three-person relationships are quite feasible (I've been in a couple of triads, covering ~ 15 years of my life, depending on what you count) but threesomes are difficult. IME they tend to turn into two people paying attention to one another while the third feels like a fifth wheel. Or somebody takes responsibility for keeping things equitable ("okay, I've given you five minutes, now I need to swap over...") which isn't the most spontaneously sexy thing in the world.

The closest it's been for me is a sort of dom/me-assistant-sub situation: "you hold her wrists while she worships me" kind of thing. But I don't think that's quite what you're talking about.

I can see it maybe working for somebody who approaches it as "worshipping this couple" rather than "worshipping these two people"?
 
Yeah, I have a similar issue with 69, while it's fun for a short time it's hard to focus on receiving pleasure while intent on giving pleasure.

Perhaps I need more practise?

IME, it's one of the many things that works better as a porn visual than in the flesh. I enjoy both giving and receiving, but both at the same time is unsatisfying.
 
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