~ Zaftig ~

Thick thighs save lives.

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Btw - is that a 16/18 US size? I can’t remember the difference with UK sizes - will need to google, but rest assured mine is a chubby tummy (as my delightful other half pointed the fuck out yesterday, five minutes before I was due to leave the house for a funeral and as he zipped up the dress... :eek:). What I post on my thread is incredibly selective shots from a small number of acceptable angles, often with my hands pulling bits back... and then I come here and am filled with shame that I can’t be more authentic...

Oh, same here, dear Allia. I have posted pics here when I'm in an "authentic" mood, but most of the time on my own thread I absolutely attempt to appear smaller than I am.

I'm size 18. I hope nobody felt that I was being an attention whore or that my pics were out of place.
 
Oh, same here, dear Allia. I have posted pics here when I'm in an "authentic" mood, but most of the time on my own thread I absolutely attempt to appear smaller than I am.

I'm size 18. I hope nobody felt that I was being an attention whore or that my pics were out of place.

Your pictures are never out of place. They are magnificent, just like you. Always be true to yourself. Your public adores you. I would even go as far to say worshipping at your altar.
 
Oh, same here, dear Allia. I have posted pics here when I'm in an "authentic" mood, but most of the time on my own thread I absolutely attempt to appear smaller than I am.

I'm size 18. I hope nobody felt that I was being an attention whore or that my pics were out of place.

FWIW, I don't think you're an attention whore.

It pains me that one would feel the need to post here only when feeling "authentic", though.

I think you are lovely in your photos, and it bothers me when i see people trying to achieve a "perfection" which is, quite frankly, unattainable without an airbrush and a personal trainer.

Take, for instance, this pic. It's absolutely one of my favorites of me, no touch ups, no makeup, just really good lighting and angles.

But..
I won't keep it up like my other rolly poly ones because, to me, it only shows a fraction...a rose-colored version, if you will.

It is not representative of the entirety of me.

I don't want people liking that picture if they would, in turn, grimace at my Sta-Puf-Marshmellow figure...

Ergo, y'all will always get the Buddha, not the Aphrodite, regardless of where I post.
*poof* goes the pic..:p

 
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FWIW, I don't think you're an attention whore.

It pains me that one would feel the need to post here only when feeling "authentic", though.

I think you are lovely in your photos, and it bothers me when i see people trying to achieve a "perfection" which is, quite frankly, unattainable without an airbrush and a personal trainer.

Take, for instance, this pic. It's absolutely one of my favorites of me, no touch ups, no makeup, just really good lighting and angles.

But..
I won't keep it up like my other rolly poly ones because, to me, it only shows a fraction...a rose-colored version, if you will.

It is not representative of the entirety of me.

I don't want people liking that picture if they would, in turn, grimace at my Sta-Puf-Marshmellow figure...

Ergo, y'all will always get the Buddha, not the Aphrodite, regardless of where I post.
*poof* goes the pic..:p


😢 I missed the pic, but never mind, I love the whole of you, but don’t mind bits as well.

I’ve made it known to some of those larger ladies who don’t like to show their natural curvyluscious bits that they should be proud of what they have. But as you said, it took you years to get to your IDGAF attitude so in a way I do understand them.

My curvy middle bits are in my profile and thats because I have reached the IDGAF point.
 
😢 I missed the pic, but never mind, I love the whole of you, but don’t mind bits as well.

I’ve made it known to some of those larger ladies who don’t like to show their natural curvyluscious bits that they should be proud of what they have. But as you said, it took you years to get to your IDGAF attitude so in a way I do understand them.

My curvy middle bits are in my profile and thats because I have reached the IDGAF point.

:heart:
 
Take, for instance, this pic. It's absolutely one of my favorites of me, no touch ups, no makeup, just really good lighting and angles.

But..
I won't keep it up like my other rolly poly ones because, to me, it only shows a fraction...a rose-colored version, if you will.

It is not representative of the entirety of me.

I don't want people liking that picture if they would, in turn, grimace at my Sta-Puf-Marshmellow figure...

Ergo, y'all will always get the Buddha, not the Aphrodite, regardless of where I post.
*poof* goes the pic..:p


It saddens me I missed another pic.

And, frankly, I'm a fan of the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man. ;) :D
 
Something sheer...

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A friend of mine had the balls to post his nakeys despite having fears of being received poorly. So i figured it was time i made a contribution of my own, as a way to show my thanks, and tell the Lit world that he rocks.

You know who you are, sexy nerd. ;):rose::rose::rose:

I must confess: i hate how i look. I hate the weight. I feel trapped in a body that isn't mine, and i don't like it.. But i am enormously grateful that I've never gotten anything but kindness, acceptance, and encouragement (and even a come-on or two :eek: ) anytime I've posted the more revealing pics. It's hugely affirming to know that i can be sexy at this weight, too. That i don't have to put it on hold until my dress size goes back down. It's a wonderful thing to be told. :)
 
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