Ever truly submitted?

[live4thebj]

I am a dominate lover, not on purpose just works that way for me.

Then one day I let this mother dominate me. She tied my legs and hands with her pantyhose and had her way with me. This woman fingered me, used toys on me, sucked my cock, rode me till she came and then finally got me to cum.

I enjoyed it but not an everyday thing for me.

You?

 

[Tnt69]

The last guy that tried tying me up is still recovering! No dom/ sub shit going on in our bedroom! EVER!

 

[liqueur]

been there, done it. You need to have an exceptional level of trust with that person, though. It's not for nothing that we evolved with a sense of caution.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

I don't think people here really understand what it truly means to submit to someone in a relationship. You can't just say "Okay, I'm your sub." It's much much more to it than that.

I have been wanting to be a Daddy Dom, which is more protective in nature than the pain and shit you see in videos. But since the only women I meet are online, it would never work.

 

[Jada59]

I had a BF would would do that to me and sometimes me to him. It was a wonderful thing. Not a lifestyle for us. Just something we did on occasion.

 

[sub2femdom]

I've had 3 women dominate me, all in different ways.

One was a domina, she owned me for a couple months, meaning that she completely dominated me, decided what happened in the bedroom, how, and controlled when I came outside of the bedroom as well. We built up to that trust, it didn't just happen the first night. I completely enjoyed it.

The other was a cuckoldress, and that started on day 1. She fucked men, and I was there to serve them, clean up, etc. It was good.

The third was my mistress/slave. She did a combination of the above 2 - sometimes she would cuckold me specifically with black men, other times it would be chastity and teasing, bondage, you name it. No 2 sessions were ever the same. Notably, I trained her when I was her Dom, and we switched roles after about 8 months. I had taught her (by example) to use variety, teasing, passion, and mild sensual humiliation rather than just beatings and bondage...It was GREAT.

Trust is everything, it doesn't always happen on day 1, as others have already pointed out.

 

[Tnt69]

I don't think people here really understand what it truly means to submit to someone in a relationship. You can't just say "Okay, I'm your sub." It's much much more to it than that.

I have been wanting to be a Daddy Dom, which is more protective in nature than the pain and shit you see in videos. But since the only women I meet are online, it would never work.

Trust me I know what totally submitting to someone in a relationship is! In my mind its sick and disgusting and belittles the sub while it elevates the ego of the idiot.I dont take orders well, and I sure in the hell wouldnt take orders from the one I love! NEVER! IM 100% capable of "protecting" myself!

 

[liqueur]

pet peeve warning

"Dominate" is a verb. Something you do, not something you are.

Dominants dominate!

 

[tgirljamie]

I am a dominate lover, not on purpose just works that way for me.

Then one day I let this mother dominate me. She tied my legs and hands with her pantyhose and had her way with me. This woman fingered me, used toys on me, sucked my cock, rode me till she came and then finally got me to cum.

I enjoyed it but not an everyday thing for me.

You?

I've been dominated many times. I enjoy it.

 

[wickedpanda]

The last guy that tried tying me up is still recovering! No dom/ sub shit going on in our bedroom! EVER!

Oh come on when your wearing that strap on your so the Dom!

 

[Tnt69]

Oh come on when your wearing that strap on your so the Dom!

Umm Im thinking its called Penis Envy! Has nothing to do with dominating anyone or anything! Lol

 

[chitrashi]

I've never been tied up, but truly submitting is not about bring tied up. It is about giving control of your life and body to someone else - at least to me, that's what submitting means.

It's a level of trust, love and communication that goes beyond the physical.

 

[WilliamOddly]

Something I'd love to try, not as a lifestyle, just a bedroom thing.

 

[SissySalina]

YES!
When ever She wishes, that is part of the relationship. It is a proof of TRUST that builds in the relationship, but with some people it is just the right feeling.
You can't explain why it is that person but it just is, you feel so at ease and normal, the inner self just bubbles out.

 

[Nikki910]

Tried it.. And loved it!

Just last night my partner tied my wrists tightly to the frame of the bed and blindfolded me. He teased me with a vibrator and his hands until I was begging for him to fuck me. When I came I came so hard It's such a turn on to know someone has total control over you and can do anything they want with you, and even better when you can't see it coming

 

[Nikki910]

Thanks for sharing your experience Nikki. Many people are afraid to explore their relationships and miss out on experiences like that. It's fun to put on head phones as well and have some music playing so you can't hear what he's doing either. Sensory deprivation its called. Very fun.

That does sound like fun... Maybe I will have to try that out later tonight

 

[live4thebj]

I don't think people here really understand what it truly means to submit to someone in a relationship. You can't just say "Okay, I'm your sub." It's much much more to it than that.

I have been wanting to be a Daddy Dom, which is more protective in nature than the pain and shit you see in videos. But since the only women I meet are online, it would never work.

I disagree. I met a woman online and we ended being an item for 2 years. What she didn't tell me she was a total submissive and I mean just that. She did whatever i told her. I could have her suck my cock while watching a movie for one minute and then suddenly tell her to clean the dishes and then bend her over as she is doing the dishes and fuck her in the ass. This is just one example of many.

 

[HeyAll]

I am a dominate lover, not on purpose just works that way for me.

Then one day I let this mother dominate me. She tied my legs and hands with her pantyhose and had her way with me. This woman fingered me, used toys on me, sucked my cock, rode me till she came and then finally got me to cum.

I enjoyed it but not an everyday thing for me.

You?

You constantly post the dumbest and most ridiculous sex stories on this forum.

I'm surprised if anyone believes anything you write, if not skipping over it at this point.

 

[Iwantitnowpleas]

My first foray into the gay world I went to a bar in the afternoon. Just a few guys there, I started playing pool while drinking a beer...completely freaking out on the inside. an older guy (I was 32 at the time) came over and started talking to me. After a few minutes he suggested we go to his house to be more comfortable. So we left and I followed him in my car.

Once there he got us a beer and sat next to me on the couch. Again, it seemed just a minute later he reached across me and slid/ lifted me onto his lap. I'm thin, 130 lbs then and he was 180 lbs or so and in excellent shape. The oddesr thing was I made no move to stop him.

This continued on at every step I was powerless. He moved and did as he pleased. I had never considered myself a bottom, always taking control during sex but suddenly I was on my back being made love to and I liked it. He was a passionate tender lover and given different circumstances I never would have left his house.

The whole episode gave me a new perspective of sub/dom. It has nothing to do with pain or torture its just one person recognizing and controlling another.

 

[sterculius]

Although my best friend Larry and I started out as equals, after it became apparent that I enjoyed sucking his huge cock while he didn't like sucking my abnormally small one, I became his NSA personal cocksucker, willing to give him blowjobs whenever and wherever he wanted one. After that was established. it became a game to see how far he could go in giving me humiliating orders to follow almost as a dare to see if I would obey, and it became a point of pride for me to show him that I could and would do as he instructed me to do in spite of the shameful aspect of some of the acts. I learned to become sexually aroused by the humiliation and degradation and by being impersonally treated as an object. It is still my biggest turn-on.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

yesss. honestly yes.

 

[live4thebj]

You constantly post the dumbest and most ridiculous sex stories on this forum.

I'm surprised if anyone believes anything you write, if not skipping over it at this point.

I love how easy it is to get under your skin. You really have a bad attitude.

Oh and * for past stories. :-D

The other thing I can't help but wonder if you are being a dick on purpose or you really don't believe me. Either way don't give a shit. But I will say this, everything I post is true. :-D

Those were fun times.

 

[gunthernehmen]

I'd love to, but can't trust enough to really, truly submit.

I can trust enough to have a hell of a good time in the meantime, though!

 

[live4thebj]

I'd love to, but can't trust enough to really, truly submit.

I can trust enough to have a hell of a good time in the meantime, though!

Speaking of trust and irony. The mother that I trusted to do this to me is also the same mother that fucked me out of $1000; loaned her two and only paid back $1000. That cunt! But sex with her was fun. So take it as a payment for all the fucking we did and getting to admire the legs on your daughter; that makes her my whore. Yeah that is a good way to see it.

But I should have known better to loan money to biker chick that was friends with many motorcycle clubs/gangs.

 

[gunthernehmen]

Speaking of trust and irony. The mother that I trusted to do this to me is also the same mother that fucked me out of $1000; loaned her two and only paid back $1000. That cunt! But sex with her was fun. So take it as a payment for all the fucking we did and getting to admire the legs on your daughter; that makes her my whore. Yeah that is a good way to see it.

But I should have known better to loan money to biker chick that was friends with many motorcycle clubs/gangs.

Sounds like she was experienced at the technique. She knew she'd keep some of your money, so yes. Whore.