Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[formertroll]

Not a lot to contribute. I've pretty much come to the conclusion am not a dd or lg lol

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Not a lot to contribute. I've pretty much come to the conclusion am not a dd or lg lol

LOL!!

Well here, let us dress you up in a party frock and a tiara and you just see if you don't feel like an lg.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

And here is the TL; DR version for Fara and anyone else who doesn't want to read my novella:

Don't sweat the labels.

And hang where you feel welcome! (I'm looking at you, Mr. troll )

 

[formertroll]

And here is the TL; DR version for Fara and anyone else who doesn't want to read my novella:

Don't sweat the labels.

And hang where you feel welcome! (I'm looking at you, Mr. troll )

https://youtu.be/zCl59hL_OYw

 

[AlwaysFara]

And here is the TL; DR version for Fara and anyone else who doesn't want to read my novella:

Don't sweat the labels.

And hang where you feel welcome! (I'm looking at you, Mr. troll )

Why would you not think I don’t read you?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

https://youtu.be/zCl59hL_OYw

Omg

I have a couple of questions for you. You don't mind, do you?

1. Do you feel welcome here?
2. Do you have any experience with D/s that might overlap with any discussions you've read about here?

By the way, I'm Honey. Nice to meet you.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Why would you not think I don’t read you?

If I didn't look like utter death today, I'd send you a video.

 

[AlwaysFara]

If I didn't look like utter death today, I'd send you a video.

Ahahhaah

 

[LostGirlTink]

Still up? I hope not. {blows a quiet kiss x}

I was up late doing laundry for the kids, got busy writing for one of my threads, and then time zones being what they are, had a middle of the night visit from a close friend. It was a very good visit, but now I'm awake thinking about that, and then the puppies needed food and water, my tooth is bothering me... And here I am, still up at nearly 5am.

Some of you may know I'm a switch. Sub-heavy, but I'll switch it up for someone I want to spend time with who isn't feeling the Dom vibe. Or another switch! So I've been doing a bit of that lately, and the timing has been great.

I'd really been struggling with how needy I feel when I'm in little space, how much of a burden I feel I am to my partner, and it's been a relief to not be dealing with that particular issue for the time being. It's also given me the distance needed to allow me to think about how married i am to the DD/lg dynamic.

Do I love being little? Do I love being Daddy's good girl? You betcha! But I'm coming to understand that - for me - there are things more important, more necessary, to my relationships than being in a full-time DD/lg situation.

I never thought I would say that! But then, I never thought I would ever not feel little, and yet I went through a period of several months during which that seemed to have been taken from me, and I didn't know if it would ever return. It did (Oooo, I've just remembered that i still owe a post on that subject!), as more of a want than a need, which has given me a freedom to explore outside that dynamic that I hadn't felt before.

Gosh, this is getting wordy! Where was I going with this... ?

We've had a few posters here who have commented that they can identify with some characteristics of a Daddy or a little, but they don't feel the label really fits them. And then someone else who did some talking and thinking and decided that they definitely weren't a Daddy. LOL!! I say good for him, to have been open-minded enough to consider the possibility and seek out others with experience in this area to help him get it sorted.

I think what I want to say is that I'd like to encourage people to think of labels as a way to connect with others with whom you have something in common that is characteristic of the label. But for Pete's sake, don't get so hung up on the darn things that they hinder you from stepping outside the perceived boundaries of the label, or thst they hinder someone else from joing in the conversation. Ya know?

Dang it, there was something else, but my tooth hurts and I can't remember. Anyway...

I have a person 'round these parts who's pretty special to me. When we were new, we started out talking labels and who should do what, and somewhere along the line we got so busy enjoying one another's company that we forgot to care. *shrug*
So now we do whatever we want, and whip out a label or two when it makes it easier to talk about a particular aspect of our relationship. Recently we had this conversation:

Him: What's on your mind?
Me: Will you dom me this week, please? I need a break.
Him: Anything for you. ( hehe )

And that was that!

Relationships are so much more... nuanced than Tumblr or Pornhub or K&P at Fetlife would lead us to think. Don't let anyone tell you how to do your relationship, just enjoy figuring it out for yourselves, together.

Yeah?

So much I want to reply to here but I’m in a time crunch.

Needy-check
Struggling with neediness- check
Labels-good as a way to open conversation
Relationships so much more nuanced-check

I’m an overthinking mess today and don’t have time for it.
*sigh*

 

[formertroll]

Omg

I have a couple of questions for you. You don't mind, do you?

1. Do you feel welcome here?
2. Do you have any experience with D/s that might overlap with any discussions you've read about here?

By the way, I'm Honey. Nice to meet you.

1. Yes, that's why i hoped i could stay.

2. Experience? A bit in play sessions but it's not really been my thing before trying to explore it more in conversations here the last couple weeks.

I'll read your novel later lol

 

[formertroll]

So much I want to reply to here but I’m in a time crunch.

Needy-check
Struggling with neediness- check
Labels-good as a way to open conversation
Relationships do much more nuanced-check

I’m an overthinking mess today and don’t have time for it.
*sigh*

We're here if you need a vent

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Ahahhaah

So much I want to reply to here but I’m in a time crunch.

Needy-check
Struggling with neediness- check
Labels-good as a way to open conversation
Relationships do much more nuanced-check

I’m an overthinking mess today and don’t have time for it.
*sigh*

*hugs* you can always come back to it another time.

 

[AlwaysFara]

So much I want to reply to here but I’m in a time crunch.

Needy-check
Struggling with neediness- check
Labels-good as a way to open conversation
Relationships do much more nuanced-check

I’m an overthinking mess today and don’t have time for it.
*sigh*

I love you Tink.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

1. Yes, that's why i hoped i could stay.

2. Experience? A bit in play sessions but it's not really been my thing before trying to explore it more in conversations here the last couple weeks.

I'll read your novel later lol

Glad you feel welcome.

I'll expect a glowing review!

 

[AlwaysFara]

We're here if you need a vent

Hiya, troll.

I’m mostly lurking, too. I feel comfy here.

 

[LostGirlTink]

Thanks

 

[ExiledWelshman]

So much I want to reply to here but I’m in a time crunch.

Needy-check
Struggling with neediness- check
Labels-good as a way to open conversation
Relationships so much more nuanced-check

I’m an overthinking mess today and don’t have time for it.
*sigh*

*hug*

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Hiya, troll.

I’m mostly lurking, too. I feel comfy here.

You better!

Thanks

*offers Fara's bosom*

 

[barefootgirl69]

*waves at everybody*

Hoping your ok BFG, look after the critters. Hope they don't bite.

They mostly just sleep, unlike me.

Still up? I hope not. {blows a quiet kiss x}

I was up late doing laundry for the kids, got busy writing for one of my threads, and then time zones being what they are, had a middle of the night visit from a close friend. It was a very good visit, but now I'm awake thinking about that, and then the puppies needed food and water, my tooth is bothering me... And here I am, still up at nearly 5am.

Some of you may know I'm a switch. Sub-heavy, but I'll switch it up for someone I want to spend time with who isn't feeling the Dom vibe. Or another switch! So I've been doing a bit of that lately, and the timing has been great.

I'd really been struggling with how needy I feel when I'm in little space, how much of a burden I feel I am to my partner, and it's been a relief to not be dealing with that particular issue for the time being. It's also given me the distance needed to allow me to think about how married i am to the DD/lg dynamic.

Do I love being little? Do I love being Daddy's good girl? You betcha! But I'm coming to understand that - for me - there are things more important, more necessary, to my relationships than being in a full-time DD/lg situation.

I never thought I would say that! But then, I never thought I would ever not feel little, and yet I went through a period of several months during which that seemed to have been taken from me, and I didn't know if it would ever return. It did (Oooo, I've just remembered that i still owe a post on that subject!), as more of a want than a need, which has given me a freedom to explore outside that dynamic that I hadn't felt before.

Gosh, this is getting wordy! Where was I going with this... ?

We've had a few posters here who have commented that they can identify with some characteristics of a Daddy or a little, but they don't feel the label really fits them. And then someone else who did some talking and thinking and decided that they definitely weren't a Daddy. LOL!! I say good for him, to have been open-minded enough to consider the possibility and seek out others with experience in this area to help him get it sorted.

I think what I want to say is that I'd like to encourage people to think of labels as a way to connect with others with whom you have something in common that is characteristic of the label. But for Pete's sake, don't get so hung up on the darn things that they hinder you from stepping outside the perceived boundaries of the label, or thst they hinder someone else from joing in the conversation. Ya know?

Dang it, there was something else, but my tooth hurts and I can't remember. Anyway...

I have a person 'round these parts who's pretty special to me. When we were new, we started out talking labels and who should do what, and somewhere along the line we got so busy enjoying one another's company that we forgot to care. *shrug*
So now we do whatever we want, and whip out a label or two when it makes it easier to talk about a particular aspect of our relationship. Recently we had this conversation:

Him: What's on your mind?
Me: Will you dom me this week, please? I need a break.
Him: Anything for you. ( hehe )

And that was that!

Relationships are so much more... nuanced than Tumblr or Pornhub or K&P at Fetlife would lead us to think. Don't let anyone tell you how to do your relationship, just enjoy figuring it out for yourselves, together.

Yeah?

I fell asleep until about 530... getting back to sleep has been difficult with the kids up moving about the house. This is supposed to be the first day of our school break. Most days they are quiet, hoping to push back the time we start our work. When will they act like teenagers and sleep until 10am???

Then some dog in the neighborhood started yapping. My thoughts on finding the sweet, little darling might offend some. I include a need for slapping the owner for letting it carry on like that so early in the morning.

That purple part up there... it caught my eye.
I think even my marriage had some of that dynamic in there, but only because I am who I am through and through. I can't separate myself from it. My adult and my little are interwoven and make me whole. I'm not sure I want to live the rest of my life without it fully acknowledged and allowed out without having to be ashamed of it.

I don't want a relationship with someone without that.

*yawns* It's going to be a long day.

 

[tolyk]

So much I want to reply to here but I’m in a time crunch.

Needy-check
Struggling with neediness- check
Labels-good as a way to open conversation
Relationships so much more nuanced-check

I’m an overthinking mess today and don’t have time for it.
*sigh*

I know you won't see this, possibly for a while, but this weekend was so fantastic. We got to spend more time together than we have since we first met. We got to firm up our plans to meet more solidly. We got to discuss our future. Our. Future.

I remain yours Love, yours.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

They mostly just sleep, unlike me.



I fell asleep until about 530... getting back to sleep has been difficult with the kids up moving about the house. This is supposed to be the first day of our school break. Most days they are quiet, hoping to push back the time we start our work. When will they act like teenagers and sleep until 10am???

Then some dog in the neighborhood started yapping. My thoughts on finding the sweet, little darling might offend some. I include a need for slapping the owner for letting it carry on like that so early in the morning.

That purple part up there... it caught my eye.
I think even my marriage had some of that dynamic in there, but only because I am who I am through and through. I can't separate myself from it. My adult and my little are interwoven and make me whole. I'm not sure I want to live the rest of my life without it fully acknowledged and allowed out without having to be ashamed of it.

I don't want a relationship with someone without that.

*yawns* It's going to be a long day.

Darn kids! Darn dogs! Sorry you're sleepy. *strong tea and a bikky*

Let's keep talking about the rest. *thinks hard to find some werds*

 

[barefootgirl69]

Darn kids! Darn dogs! Sorry you're sleepy. *strong tea and a bikky*

Let's keep talking about the rest. *thinks hard to find some werds*

How's your tooth?

Sometimes labels are good when your new friend is wondering why you act a certain way. LOL.. it breaks the ice, or totally confuses them.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

How's your tooth?

Sometimes labels are good when your new friend is wondering why you act a certain way. LOL.. it breaks the ice, or totally confuses them.

Better, thanks!

LOL!!

I've been trying to pick out some of my favorite things that I associate with DD/lg and assess whether they could exist in a different dynamic. (Grammar fail, sorry)

 

[DarkSimian]

Totally off topic, but can I get a hug?

 

[AlwaysFara]

Honey offered my bosom before.