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My dad passed away today. I was there for his final moment. Hopefully he's at peace now.

I hadn't seen this post until the last minute.

I'm really hurting for you, love. I'm a daddy's girl and could not imagine dad being taken away from me.


You are in my thoughts today. :rose:

Daddy will always be above you, watching you. He will eternally be in your heart. He is indeed in peace and raised a wonderful person that is you.

Yes, at least you were there for his final moment.
 
Sorry to hear that. At least suffering is over.

Yes.

Thinking of you.

I know, sweetie.

I hadn't seen this post until the last minute.

I'm really hurting for you, love. I'm a daddy's girl and could not imagine dad being taken away from me.


You are in my thoughts today. :rose:

Daddy will always be above you, watching you. He will eternally be in your heart. He is indeed in peace and raised a wonderful person that is you.

Yes, at least you were there for his final moment.

Yes. He passed away with me by his side.
 
My cousin Ruby said about how my dad's ex-girlfriend would be at his service to comfort my sister, I made this post on Facebook. If she decides not to talk to me anymore, oh well.

"I need to explain something. I have NO reason to make the following up.
This woman named Jean has spent YEARS talking down about my dad. Every chance Jean got to tell me or my sister what a horrible person our dad is/was....she did. Once I realized how toxic Jean is, I was done with her. I refuse to be around people like that. If you have or had an issue with my dad, take it up with him....NOT his daughters.
When people say "Well, she's there to comfort your sister." It pisses me the fuck off. My sister abandoned my dad for this pathetic excuse for a human years ago. Jean lives for tragedy. She loves sticking her snout in peoples problems and talking behind their backs. She loves watching people suffer.

My sister should respect that fact that I hate Jean and NOT have her there. And who the fuck invites someone to my dad's service that he NEVER wanted to deal with anymore???
My dad loved us dearly. The past years of his life, my sister was never there. NEVER! So, for those who make comments about how Jean will be their at the service to comfort my sister, fuck you! This asshole Jean is a toxic slime pit of a human. You want me to be God-like and forgive someone who takes great joy in other peoples sorrows??? Nope. Ain't gonna happen.
If this pisses someone off, guess what.....you are no better than Jean and are perfectly happy with individuals who love to watch people suffer for your enjoyment."

I did not state that this post was towards my cousin but hopefully she gets the fucking point. Some people are just not worth the time. At some point in your life you have to decide who are the best people for you to be around and who are toxic.
 
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Take care of yourself. Be extra kind to yourself during this time. As best as you're able.
 
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Take care of yourself. Be extra kind to yourself during this time. As best as you're able.

Thank you. I'm doing better than I thought. I'm guessing it's because the last 2 years I've watched him decline.
 
I understand. It is a preparation, of sorts, watching that decline. It does alter, somewhat, the grieving process.
 
I understand. It is a preparation, of sorts, watching that decline. It does alter, somewhat, the grieving process.

Greatly. I miss the way he used to be. I miss him now but not as much as I thought I would. Guessing I already did my crying these past years of watching him slowly disappear. I cried so many times while leaving the nursing home knowing I was losing him. :(
 
My father serviced in the Navy and the service for him was beautiful. They showed him so much respect and dignity.

He's no longer suffering and is at peace. I know he's watching over me and most likely having a good time with friends and family.

Damn, I'm so sad. :(
 
My father serviced in the Navy and the service for him was beautiful. They showed him so much respect and dignity.

He's no longer suffering and is at peace. I know he's watching over me and most likely having a good time with friends and family.

Damn, I'm so sad. :(

That sounds lovely. I'm sorry for your loss.
 


I used to work with a guy who had rescued a small Yorkie as a gift for his wife. The dog was a bitch. Their old mutt didn't really get along with the new one.


So, sometimes, Yorkie would lose her mind and act up pretty badly. A bonk on the head would make her calm down.


She misbehaved at supper - on TV tables in front of the b00b t00b - and was getting on this guy's nerves. So he took his steak knife by the point and reached to bonk the bitch on her head, but she outsmarted him and grabbed the knife by its handle and disarmed him.


So that's how the pocket poodle came to be knife wielding . . . . :D
 
I used to work with a guy who had rescued a small Yorkie as a gift for his wife. The dog was a bitch. Their old mutt didn't really get along with the new one.


So, sometimes, Yorkie would lose her mind and act up pretty badly. A bonk on the head would make her calm down.


She misbehaved at supper - on TV tables in front of the b00b t00b - and was getting on this guy's nerves. So he took his steak knife by the point and reached to bonk the bitch on her head, but she outsmarted him and grabbed the knife by its handle and disarmed him.


So that's how the pocket poodle came to be knife wielding . . . . :D

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