Self-Identity

[Kantarii]

How do you see yourself - better yet - does it reflect how others see you?

I see myself as a very unique, artistic freak, definitely not the average guy you meet on the street. I wouldn’t say being a transvestite is common or rare; however, being open and visible as one is kinda special in and of itself.
Kant

 

[thongpanty]

A panty wearing male who's comfortable being me,

 

[jakelc]

I am who I am, bisexual, sissy, husband and loving the life I live.

 

[cheetah2]

I am just me Having fun Don’t care what anyone thinks

 

[jon414]

I consider myself a heteroflexible male exploring all life's pleasures! For all of my life I have had a stronger "feminine side" than most males. I desired social interactions as opposed to things and have always been known as nurturing. So yup, it does come out in the wash, always has been that way. I just didn't realize it for many years. Others around me have always seen it; I was just so close to myself that I didn't personally! Funny how it seems to work that way.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

I see myself as an older man, married with children, a life, but who had a taste of something a long time ago and is trying to recover that sensation - a feeling of transgression, yes, but also one of liberation and freedom, completion. Not there yet but working on it.

 

[bimori]

I see myself as an older man, married with children, a life, but who had a taste of something a long time ago and is trying to recover that sensation - a feeling of transgression, yes, but also one of liberation and freedom, completion. Not there yet but working on it.

I see myself as someone with a verity of sexual taste. I look to try new thing that go beyond my limits to see if is something that I would enjoy. My goal is also to be sure that my partners also fine out what their wants a desires are also. It’s all about finding what pleasures you and our partners the most. And forget what anyone else thinks about what your kinks are.

 

[Mqoi]

Mature older man, loving husband and father, who has repressed his sexual attraction to other guys for years. I'm more attracted to personalities and the person's gender doesn't really matter to me.

 

[BiiCuz]

Me

Inside-Mature, openminded, curious, bi, submissive, loving lingerie, eroticism,passion, pleaser

Outside...responsible, openminded, closeted, fixer mature

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I am who and what I am,
and that will have to do until it won't.
Does it reflect what people think they know about me
or how they think they feel about me. Probably not---,
but I told them all before, I had a history and not one that I was willing to share with them at the time.

Whatever short comings of mine that they can't or won't deal with--- Oh Well.

 

[Dbaggins417]

Me

I feel weird being a masculine guy in all other phases of life, except I like to dress in lingerie and I'm bi. I don't even like makeup or have a desire to dress in female outer clothing, just lingerie.

 

[photobuff56]

Older, married and Bi. I played around as a young teen but in my late 50's i wanted to do it again to see if i liked. I did and do, but feel guilty when i do it because i love my wife very much but feel an empty spit if i dont do it.

 

[SissySalina]

As a very lucky sissy, to have and love Her.

 

[camper23]

Older, married and Bi. I played around as a young teen but in my late 50's i wanted to do it again to see if i liked. I did and do, but feel guilty when i do it because i love my wife very much but feel an empty spit if i dont do it.

I am in the same boat as you, except that I didn't have any experiences when I was young. I have come close a few times as an adult, and I always feel guilty, but I can't help thinking about cock!

 

[Kantarii]

I am in the same boat as you, except that I didn't have any experiences when I was young. I have come close a few times as an adult, and I always feel guilty, but I can't help thinking about cock!

Some odd years ago, I decided to put the past behind me and stop dating men. That was a bold choice for me; however, it hasn’t been an easy road nor path to take. Faithfully, I’ve stuck to my guns, but the desire to be on the receiving end of love, getting fucked is still in the shadows of my mind. I have found a few coping mechanisms to help deal with the cravings: writing stories about my past, talking about my experiences, playing with sex toys, dressing up to the extreme. Honestly, I don’t think I’ll be able ever forget the things I’ve done, but I’ve learned to accept the fact I’m human and prone to mistakes, but I’m not about to fill my heart with regret for things I did as opposed to the things I didn’t do.
Kant

 

[Mqoi]

Some odd years ago, I decided to put the past behind me and stop dating men. That was a bold choice for me; however, it hasn’t been an easy road nor path to take. Faithfully, I’ve stuck to my guns, but the desire to be on the receiving end of love, getting fucked is still in the shadows of my mind. I have found a few coping mechanisms to help deal with the cravings: writing stories about my past, talking about my experiences, playing with sex toys, dressing up to the extreme. Honestly, I don’t think I’ll be able ever forget the things I’ve done, but I’ve learned to accept the fact I’m human and prone to mistakes, but I’m not about to fill my heart with regret for things I did as opposed to the things I didn’t do.
Kant

I had issues with my attraction to guys for some years. I eventually came to realize that it's just part of who I am and always will be. I don't regret any of it (relish is more like it) and don't consider any of it a mistake, just a life learning experience. Actually I do have a regret. I regret having repressed it for all these years.

 

[klippert]

Identify as a 12ga with dbl X. I kick hard and shoot a heavy load

 

[jackstud]

Some odd years ago, I decided to put the past behind me and stop dating men. That was a bold choice for me; however, it hasn’t been an easy road nor path to take. Faithfully, I’ve stuck to my guns, but the desire to be on the receiving end of love, getting fucked is still in the shadows of my mind. I have found a few coping mechanisms to help deal with the cravings: writing stories about my past, talking about my experiences, playing with sex toys, dressing up to the extreme. Honestly, I don’t think I’ll be able ever forget the things I’ve done, but I’ve learned to accept the fact I’m human and prone to mistakes, but I’m not about to fill my heart with regret for things I did as opposed to the things I didn’t do.
Kant

I am very turned on by the attension I get. Very flattered. Kantarii, true never reget doing

 

[hornyguy888]

I'm am open minded person when it comes to sex and sexuality. A person who wants to explore and try most things including many bi-curious thoughts, and taboo kinks. But I am perceived as the tough manly man who is 100% straight and dominant.

 

[Kantarii]

I don’t think of myself as a true versatile in the bedroom - nor have I ever. If I was with a guy - I was submissive and if I was with a woman - dominant. It’s those times I was with a woman that made me jealous of being on the receiving end of love, seeing how much women enjoyed that side in the bedroom. It was more than enough to scorch my mind and make me want to sexually explore with men- to the point I was addicted to getting fucked.

Somehow, guilt woke me up to reality. After accumulating a few bad relationships with guys, the bad that I experienced outweighed the good I found in having sex with men. Don’t get me wrong, I met some wonderful guys while I was dating them, but most were either married or lied about it. Had I met the right guy, things would have been different; the same could also be said of women I dated, although at this point, my heart craves the love of a woman.
Kant

 

[Astroman72]

I think of myself as someone who's overwhelmingly heterosexual in most aspects of romance, attraction, behavior and sexuality, except for one very specific thing: big, circumcised white cocks drive me absolutely wild with desire.

I guess I can't be completely straight since I fantasize about gay sex a lot, so "bisexual" probably is most accurate. But that doesn't seem quite right, since my desires for women are very different and much deeper than my desire for men (which is more like my desire to masturbate--a purely physical pleasure.)

I guess humans and their sexuality are just really complicated and hard to place in simple categories.

 

[Kantarii]

I think of myself as someone who's overwhelmingly heterosexual in most aspects of romance, attraction, behavior and sexuality, except for one very specific thing: big, circumcised white cocks drive me absolutely wild with desire.

I guess I can't be completely straight since I fantasize about gay sex a lot, so "bisexual" probably is most accurate. But that doesn't seem quite right, since my desires for women are very different and much deeper than my desire for men (which is more like my desire to masturbate--a purely physical pleasure.)

I guess humans and their sexuality are just really complicated and hard to place in simple categories.

Today, whenever I masturbate, 99% of the time is centered on either fantasizing about sucking dick or getting fucked, then giving ass to mouth oral - two of the things that I really enjoyed during the time period I dated men exclusively.
The rare 1% is usually a spur of the moment thought divided between having cum shot all over my face or getting fucked while I’m sucking.

Since I’ve pretty much repressed my past, I shy away from letting the women I date watch me in my private time out of fear of blurting something out that might be incriminatingKant

 

[OpenMouth]

I'm a straight male closet crossdressing sissy cocksucker.

 

[Uggg]

Wooo, interesting thread idea Kant! I like it. Made for interesting reading.

Kay I'll play.

I'm a... This has been up long enough now.

Uggg

 

[yukonnights]

(I may still decide to delete this )