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I don't have any answers for anyone but me....what is my interpretation of the difference between a blow job and cock worshiping? Both deliver pleasure and even with the same mouth in some instances.

I know lots of women that love sucking cock and yes that even includes getting on their knees to suck a hard dick. But even when you enjoy oral sex, it doesn't automatically mean you are into cock worship too.

Can both be intimate? Absolutely

But cock worship for me is more along tantric lines...a deeper submissive commitment act that shows pure pleasure in in erotically devoting your whole being and focus into the single act of showing love to a man's cock and balls. To lavishly express this with your whole being...your mouth, your tongue, your hand and your words....a mindset of focusing on actual and genuine adoration of the sexual organs of someone you care deeply about.

There is no race to get a man off...but a rhythmic full exploration of every inch of him, every fold and crevice, enjoying and savoring the feel of him and expressing that joy to him and offer him the pleasure of your pleasure to love his cock....kiss, lick, suck and trace all of him with fingers and tongue....to rub him against your skin and fully embrace his manhood..and yes..offer him your loving mouth as the warmth for him to cum in as the last step to worshiping his cock is to receive and swallow him and want nothing more in the moment than to have his cock in your mouth.

My opinion only....but it works for me

Loooove this. That’s exactly it. Thanks, Matt.
 
What is cock worship? And why is it different from a BJ?

Yes. I’ve asked this before. Just trying to get back on track.
Plus, I like the answers.

Answer a question with a question?

Is it the cock you are worshipping or is it him, through the extension of his cock?

A blow job is what you got from your girlfriend when you both were learning and exploring at a young age. You know, her lips touched it, it counts.

But seriously, for me, I do not see it as her worshipping my cock, but more of her devotion to pleasing me. Both through submission as well as the sheer pleasure she knows she is providing.

Just my opinion.
 
If you're getting your dick sucked and you cum it's a blowjob. The fact your aim is off isn't the fault of the person sucking your dick!

Holding up my hands in surrender...

I love licking pussy! The women responding here generally love cock and bj's. I was just pointing out (inelegantly as it turns out) that many women don't swallow and don't like cock...

Someone who gives a bj and then enjoys or encourages the spunk somewhere other than the mouth is almost certainly a cock worshiper.

I'm happy to be part of a study to find out the difference between cock worshiper and bj's ?
 
Well Far....

What is cock worship? And why is it different from a BJ?

Yes. I’ve asked this before. Just trying to get back on track.
Plus, I like the answers.

I am no expert, and dont get near enough of them. I think the BJ is less sensual, faster, and perhaps even driven by duty. Cock worship is slower, more consideration and curiosity. I dont think he necessarily has to cum; thats just frosting. If the sucker wants to get fucked, maybe that load goes in her/him.

And...right you are; so fun to read the answers!

:D
 
Holding up my hands in surrender...

I love licking pussy! The women responding here generally love cock and bj's. I was just pointing out (inelegantly as it turns out) that many women don't swallow and don't like cock...

Someone who gives a bj and then enjoys or encourages the spunk somewhere other than the mouth is almost certainly a cock worshiper.

I'm happy to be part of a study to find out the difference between cock worshiper and bj's ?

But the women in this thread love cock and love to swallow. It’s the one thing I don’t talk about with my GFs off Lit. Maybe one. Many of my RL friends just don’t like it. Or they say they don’t.
 
Answer a question with a question?

Is it the cock you are worshipping or is it him, through the extension of his cock?

A blow job is what you got from your girlfriend when you both were learning and exploring at a young age. You know, her lips touched it, it counts.

But seriously, for me, I do not see it as her worshipping my cock, but more of her devotion to pleasing me. Both through submission as well as the sheer pleasure she knows she is providing.

Just my opinion.

I’ve only felt I was worshipping cock twice in my life. The first time with my first “real” BF, who taught me how to love a man. He told me I used to go into a sort of trance. Where all I saw was his cock and my goal was to love it. Looking back, it was probably a sort of subspace.
I feel like that. During, when I look up and he is like a god to me, looking down and hard and demanding. I want nothing more to make him happy, but it makes me cum, too.
Especially after. When I’m licking and it almost hurts to leave him and go to sleep. I’ve dozed down there, my mouth still on him, completely worn out.

I loved/love both of them. My first BF and now. So, maybe for me it has to do with that? It also has to do with his willingness to let me be sexual.
Some men are threatened by that. And only want a basic BJ. Trust me.
 
So are we saying, a BJ has some focus of 'completion', whereas cock-worshipping is all about a state of mind for the giver and receiver?
 
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