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I love number 7. That ties into the first point. Be present. My focus is on him. All of me. No tv, no porn, no other person. Only him.
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I love number 7. That ties into the first point. Be present. My focus is on him. All of me. No tv, no porn, no other person. Only him.
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generally, i always think there are too many cock sucking/blowjob videos and pics
but i also always think i just have not ever had a really good blowjob
i would always choose to go down on the girl more than her go down on me
aside from some minor foreplay i am also not a big fan of 69.....i can't really enjoy what she might be doing to me....for what i am doing to her.....
i much prefer just one or the other doing the doing
having said all of that....nothing on this earth tears me up as much as eating a girls pussy.....i want to do it for hours.....getting her to the edge and back often.....and taking her over the edge when she can't stand it any more as well.....but the taste, scent, and generally being close her sweet pussy is as arousing as anything ever!
generally, i always think there are too many cock sucking/blowjob videos and pics
but i also always think i just have not ever had a really good blowjob
i would always choose to go down on the girl more than her go down on me
aside from some minor foreplay i am also not a big fan of 69.....i can't really enjoy what she might be doing to me....for what i am doing to her.....
i much prefer just one or the other doing the doing
having said all of that....nothing on this earth tears me up as much as eating a girls pussy.....i want to do it for hours.....getting her to the edge and back often.....and taking her over the edge when she can't stand it any more as well.....but the taste, scent, and generally being close her sweet pussy is as arousing as anything ever!
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Cock worship is where she is just happy and content being near it, being part of it, having it in her hands, around her face, in her mouth, etc.
BJ is more the targeted action to make him cum with her mouth.
Cock Worship Examples:
https://78.media.tumblr.com/ac7a59dee4dc04e1b02cf29d58f4ae62/tumblr_mlkpezSPSO1s6efszo1_1280.jpg
https://78.media.tumblr.com/4a4aa6d277fa21aebdf1ca2bdac0d078/tumblr_ngu9kqmf2Z1rsfdtro1_1280.jpg
https://78.media.tumblr.com/fbe07cbc7fdb20efa5a79495e4d78504/tumblr_nkqfoytgNz1rq93veo1_400.gif
https://78.media.tumblr.com/0e77862bd7a89e30d46701aad80b5d0a/tumblr_nl4capygzr1up5f2jo1_250.gif
Blow Job Examples:
https://78.media.tumblr.com/0a9c7c1ebee95c21a22ad0e68613143f/tumblr_nf27r5V9iL1sjdtw3o1_500.gif
https://78.media.tumblr.com/5af80a5931764054da01045fb2fefa83/tumblr_nf35a2J39m1tw52ilo1_500.gif
Perhaps the difference is subtle, but that is how I see it.
Cock worship is where she is just happy and content being near it, being part of it, having it in her hands, around her face, in her mouth, etc.
BJ is more the targeted action to make him cum with her mouth.
Cock Worship Examples:
https://78.media.tumblr.com/ac7a59dee4dc04e1b02cf29d58f4ae62/tumblr_mlkpezSPSO1s6efszo1_1280.jpg
https://78.media.tumblr.com/4a4aa6d277fa21aebdf1ca2bdac0d078/tumblr_ngu9kqmf2Z1rsfdtro1_1280.jpg
https://78.media.tumblr.com/fbe07cbc7fdb20efa5a79495e4d78504/tumblr_nkqfoytgNz1rq93veo1_400.gif
https://78.media.tumblr.com/0e77862bd7a89e30d46701aad80b5d0a/tumblr_nl4capygzr1up5f2jo1_250.gif
Blow Job Examples:
https://78.media.tumblr.com/0a9c7c1ebee95c21a22ad0e68613143f/tumblr_nf27r5V9iL1sjdtw3o1_500.gif
https://78.media.tumblr.com/5af80a5931764054da01045fb2fefa83/tumblr_nf35a2J39m1tw52ilo1_500.gif
Perhaps the difference is subtle, but that is how I see it.
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Farawyn
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That 3rd one. I love washing my face with him.
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Farawyn
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Do you think your urge to go down on her hinders your enjoyment of being sucked?
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I think it's all about the intent.
Blowjobs can be marvellous, but essentially they are you making his cock cum with your mouth, that's the intention.
But cock worship, there the intention is to show him how much you adore him and his cock.
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So what would you call it then if it's not one or the other, but a little of both? That would be me
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So what would you call it then if it's not one or the other, but a little of both? That would be me
I'm not sure all women agree with cum in the mouth...
So would all cock worshipers swallow!?
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I personally don’t know anyone on Lit who said she wouldn’t.
But yes. If you are worshipping? Grateful for his cum. It’s your reward.
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This one would, with pleasure.
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I agree. And what is an expert? I ask way more questions than I have the answers to.
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Its not a BJ unless she swallows (in my book)
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Me too Farawyn.
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Unnecessary definitional constraint in my opinion. If I choose to allow her to take it as she wants, she’s free to paint her breasts or face with my cum. She worked for it. Still a blowjob.
But I do understand your point if she’s just doing it to get you off and doesn’t like it. Why even bother?
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I like your first point. A lot. I was trying to respond to the statement appropriately. Yes. It’s still a BJ if she doesn’t swallow.
As for women who don’t like to, don’t do it?
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I love it when a woman loves sucking cock as much as I love eating pussy. A half assed blowjob from someone who doesn’t love sucking cock is like eating a hamburger from McDonald’s. Is it a hamburger? Yes. Does it actually satisfy the craving you had for a juicy, flavorful, medium rare piece of meat cooked by someone who knows and cares about why they’re doing? No.
I’d rather go find a chef who likes what they’re doing. Opposites suck (or not, pun is unintentional) in reality.
That’s why this thread is hot. The pics are about people doing what they love.
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Umm, I know I get distracted like all. the. time. However, if *that's* on my radar, laser focused am I.
Really good redirect on his part, though.
Asked before or not, sooooo glad you brought it up! Because I adore talking about sucking cock!
I'm on board with these definitions. Not to sound be-all-end-all about it, but my idea is that cock worship is about the experience with his cock. Blowjobs are geared toward the climactic end result. Both wonderful in their own right.
Now as Kat said, it could start one way and change into the other, intentionally or not. Either way, since he's got my lips and hands and fingers and tongue, and I have his cock and balls, I'm thinking it's a win-win.
This one makes me think cock worship. So does this and this. To me, cock worship is much like meandering here and there, enjoying every single moment along the way versus targeted steps towards a goal (a very delightful goal, mind you).
He or she, this could apply to so, so, so much.
Exactly. Doing something (in this case, oral) that's not enjoyable for one just makes both (or all) involved feel kinda ugh about it. So yeah, just don't do it.
Or...figure out a way to make it enjoyable?
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I think your two examples capture the essence exactly. As a man I would love that kind of affection and adoration...
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And as a woman, I felt they exemplified the way it is for me. Other than posting pics of myself doing such (which yeah, no, for loads of reasons), these were the closest I could find to what I feel when that's all going down (pun SO intended). Being in that zone is one freaking wonderful place to be. The best kind of give and take in my book.
I could talk about this all day (especially when my husband isn't here to otherwise occupy my hands and mouth), but I'll just leave it here. Only for now. 'Cause it's cock we're talking about, so I'm coming back for more.
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I am gonna say I especially love number 6.... when I get the eyes, it's always amazing
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I don't have any answers for anyone but me....what is my interpretation of the difference between a blow job and cock worshiping? Both deliver pleasure and even with the same mouth in some instances.
I know lots of women that love sucking cock and yes that even includes getting on their knees to suck a hard dick. But even when you enjoy oral sex, it doesn't automatically mean you are into cock worship too.
Can both be intimate? Absolutely
But cock worship for me is more along tantric lines...a deeper submissive commitment act that shows pure pleasure in in erotically devoting your whole being and focus into the single act of showing love to a man's cock and balls. To lavishly express this with your whole being...your mouth, your tongue, your hand and your words....a mindset of focusing on actual and genuine adoration of the sexual organs of someone you care deeply about.
There is no race to get a man off...but a rhythmic full exploration of every inch of him, every fold and crevice, enjoying and savoring the feel of him and expressing that joy to him and offer him the pleasure of your pleasure to love his cock....kiss, lick, suck and trace all of him with fingers and tongue....to rub him against your skin and fully embrace his manhood..and yes..offer him your loving mouth as the warmth for him to cum in as the last step to worshiping his cock is to receive and swallow him and want nothing more in the moment than to have his cock in your mouth.
My opinion only....but it works for me
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