Cuckold?

[RockyMountainMan2]

What is the true definition of cuckold? I love to share my lady with others, but not to be humiliated, I love to see her fucked senseless. I like to set up adventures and control the situation. I love to dress her up in provocative clothes and take her out and encourage her to flirt and tease (My story "Rita Teaches me to Share" is an example.) its such a thrill to see my lady worked over by a cock or two, then after she's all slimy she gets up out of the pile and goes home with me where then she is all mine. Am I a cuckold?

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Yes I think so. You are a willing cockold.

 

[RockyMountainMan2]

Yes I think so. You are a willing cockold.

Thanks, I guess there are different levels of being a cuckold. I'm mostly curious so I can properly classify my stories. Probably won't do the personalized license plate though haha.

 

[ReadyOne]

Sorry, disagree

Yes I think so. You are a willing cockold.

What you have sounds like hot wife, or a play dates.

Cuckolding.

The traditionally cuckold relationship has three people. The bull controls the sexual relationships of the wife. He may also choose (through the wife) to control the sexual actions of the husband, i.e. the cuckold. Wife does what bull wants, which may include getting husband to follow the bull's instructions. The husband need not know of the bull's existence.

Forms may range from bull just dating wife at his pleasure unknown to the husband (a la cheating wife) to the bull totally dictating the all of the couple's sexual conduct including being present in their bedroom and being serviced by both.

The key is the bull's control. In the mildest form, the wife is at his beck and call because the bull has gone beyond simple seduction and the wife has surrendered power to the bull. The bull doesn't have to extent control to the cuckold, except in the sense that the bull preempts wife from husband.

In stronger forms, the cuckold is made aware of and submits to the bull's control over the wife. Control of the cuckold by the bull may be direct, or indirect by the bull's control of the wife.

Submission by the cuckold may be voluntarily or involuntarily (e.g. going along to keep the marriage together) and involves the cuckold's humiliation. It could be as weak as the knowledge that his wife does the bull's bidding over his or prefers the bull as a lover. It may be as strong as being psychologically, verbally, or physically degraded by one or both.

Voluntary Cuckolds very often get off on the humiliation and loss of control. Cuckold stories are written to this idea. In real life, successful cuckolding is just another form of power exchange.

Hot Wife

Hot Wife is the husband sending his wife out have her own sexual adventures.

It is a mutual activity of husband and wife and the husband is fully aware. The wife's sexual partner is generally known to husband, having been chosen in advance by the couple, but the wife may go hunting with hubby's knowledge to find a lover.

In all cases, the wife remains in control and does it by her choice. Wife and lover often have multiple encounters, i.e. an affair. A single encounter is at the choice of the wife, perhaps because she doesn't want a secondary relationship or because the partner failed hex expectations.

Husband while not generally present during the date, is included before and after. He helps her prepare for the date same as a girl friend would. Afterwards she reports her experience giving sexual details allow hubby relive and share the encounter. Reclamation sex after the date is a reassertion of the husband wife bond.

The husband derive pleasure from the wife's pleasure. He wants his wife to have great sex and believes he can not provide everything she wants. He may see himself as sexually inadequate or unable to deliver what he knows his wife would enjoy, e.g. BBC or seduction via dance.

Play Date

In a variant of swinging, situations are set up by husband and wife, or by him with her approval. Events organized for her benefit and participants recruited for specific (limited) activities focused on the her.

Events run the spectrum: exhibitionism, soft-swap, full swap, three-ways, bukkake, orgies, bondage, trains, gang bangs, and realizable fantasies.

The husband is often present to observe (and perhaps record) his wife's pleasure first hand, and perhaps direct activities.

 

[Ramone45]

What is the true definition of cuckold? I love to share my lady with others, but not to be humiliated, I love to see her fucked senseless. I like to set up adventures and control the situation. I love to dress her up in provocative clothes and take her out and encourage her to flirt and tease (My story "Rita Teaches me to Share" is an example.) its such a thrill to see my lady worked over by a cock or two, then after she's all slimy she gets up out of the pile and goes home with me where then she is all mine. Am I a cuckold?

Some degree of humiliation is part of the appeal of being a cuckold. The humiliation of knowing your woman needs another man to satisfy her. also, hearing her talk about him and what he did to her.

 

[policywank]

What you have sounds like hot wife, or a play dates.

Cuckolding.

The traditionally cuckold relationship has three people. The bull controls the sexual relationships of the wife. He may also choose (through the wife) to control the sexual actions of the husband, i.e. the cuckold. Wife does what bull wants, which may include getting husband to follow the bull's instructions. The husband need not know of the bull's existence.

Forms may range from bull just dating wife at his pleasure unknown to the husband (a la cheating wife) to the bull totally dictating the all of the couple's sexual conduct including being present in their bedroom and being serviced by both.

The key is the bull's control. In the mildest form, the wife is at his beck and call because the bull has gone beyond simple seduction and the wife has surrendered power to the bull. The bull doesn't have to extent control to the cuckold, except in the sense that the bull preempts wife from husband.

In stronger forms, the cuckold is made aware of and submits to the bull's control over the wife. Control of the cuckold by the bull may be direct, or indirect by the bull's control of the wife.

Submission by the cuckold may be voluntarily or involuntarily (e.g. going along to keep the marriage together) and involves the cuckold's humiliation. It could be as weak as the knowledge that his wife does the bull's bidding over his or prefers the bull as a lover. It may be as strong as being psychologically, verbally, or physically degraded by one or both.

Voluntary Cuckolds very often get off on the humiliation and loss of control. Cuckold stories are written to this idea. In real life, successful cuckolding is just another form of power exchange.

Hot Wife

Hot Wife is the husband sending his wife out have her own sexual adventures.

It is a mutual activity of husband and wife and the husband is fully aware. The wife's sexual partner is generally known to husband, having been chosen in advance by the couple, but the wife may go hunting with hubby's knowledge to find a lover.

In all cases, the wife remains in control and does it by her choice. Wife and lover often have multiple encounters, i.e. an affair. A single encounter is at the choice of the wife, perhaps because she doesn't want a secondary relationship or because the partner failed hex expectations.

Husband while not generally present during the date, is included before and after. He helps her prepare for the date same as a girl friend would. Afterwards she reports her experience giving sexual details allow hubby relive and share the encounter. Reclamation sex after the date is a reassertion of the husband wife bond.

The husband derive pleasure from the wife's pleasure. He wants his wife to have great sex and believes he can not provide everything she wants. He may see himself as sexually inadequate or unable to deliver what he knows his wife would enjoy, e.g. BBC or seduction via dance.

Play Date

In a variant of swinging, situations are set up by husband and wife, or by him with her approval. Events organized for her benefit and participants recruited for specific (limited) activities focused on the her.

Events run the spectrum: exhibitionism, soft-swap, full swap, three-ways, bukkake, orgies, bondage, trains, gang bangs, and realizable fantasies.

The husband is often present to observe (and perhaps record) his wife's pleasure first hand, and perhaps direct activities.

I don’t buy the premise that the bull must be in control.

The traditional definition of cuckold is a man whose wife fucks one or more other men. Nothing is stated as to why she does so or how the husband feels about and there is no comment on the behaviour of the other man. The husband’s humiliation or lack of awareness was often inferred in a historical context but I don’t believe it was part of the definition. I mean if the husband knew and didn’t feel he humiliated did he cease to be a cuckold? Some refer to a contented cuckold as a wittol but to my understand that is a subset or certain type of cuckold - kind of the way a lynx is a type of cat.

When we get into modern uses of the word we are, by definition, into an evolving set of terms used in alternative lifestyles. Nobody has the authoritative version. I would certainly agree that it is different than a swingers dynamic. It seems to be an accepted premise that a hot wife has sexual relations with other men and the husband does not or at least not to the same degree. But the idea that the other man or “bull” controls her sex is nonsense. If she is not controlled by the other man but rather makes her own choices is her husband any less of a cuckold or she any less of a hit wife? No.

As with so many aspects of sexuality it becomes about power and men seek to impose theirs. Either the hot wife is her husband’s personal porn star (acting on his direction) or under the control of the “bull”. And the bull is labelled as such to assert his dominance. Truth is the historical definition applied to a woman fucking other men on her own accord. It is a direct by-product of her decisions not any man’s. That hasn’t changed. We have evolved enough not to assume that the husband must be or feel humiliated but it was never and still isn’t about male power. Some might play it that way and that is fine but that isn’t what it is about.

Quite the opposite it implies female power and prerogative. That has always scared men and led them to try to twist things their way. For meatheads like this it’s only ok for me to be a slut if I am controlled by a man......I mustn’t be allowed to do it on my own accord......I must be stopped or another nastier name must be used to shame me into submission. Lol. No sorry sweetie but I’m a hot wife and my husband is a cuckold and I call the shots on our sex life. And the very first decision I made is that no other man gets to dominate either of us.

 

[liqueur]

If you were to go with the dictionary definition of the term, you are a cuckold.

But as the terms are commonly used in the kink world, cuckolding usually involves at least some degree of humiliation (that was true even as far back as Chaucer's time). As the terms are commonly used, she would be a hot wife, and you the husband of said wife.

 

[RockyMountainMan2]

What you have sounds like hot wife, or a play dates.

Cuckolding.

The traditionally cuckold relationship has three people. The bull controls the sexual relationships of the wife. He may also choose (through the wife) to control the sexual actions of the husband, i.e. the cuckold. Wife does what bull wants, which may include getting husband to follow the bull's instructions. The husband need not know of the bull's existence.

Forms may range from bull just dating wife at his pleasure unknown to the husband (a la cheating wife) to the bull totally dictating the all of the couple's sexual conduct including being present in their bedroom and being serviced by both.

The key is the bull's control. In the mildest form, the wife is at his beck and call because the bull has gone beyond simple seduction and the wife has surrendered power to the bull. The bull doesn't have to extent control to the cuckold, except in the sense that the bull preempts wife from husband.

In stronger forms, the cuckold is made aware of and submits to the bull's control over the wife. Control of the cuckold by the bull may be direct, or indirect by the bull's control of the wife.

Submission by the cuckold may be voluntarily or involuntarily (e.g. going along to keep the marriage together) and involves the cuckold's humiliation. It could be as weak as the knowledge that his wife does the bull's bidding over his or prefers the bull as a lover. It may be as strong as being psychologically, verbally, or physically degraded by one or both.

Voluntary Cuckolds very often get off on the humiliation and loss of control. Cuckold stories are written to this idea. In real life, successful cuckolding is just another form of power exchange.

Hot Wife

Hot Wife is the husband sending his wife out have her own sexual adventures.

It is a mutual activity of husband and wife and the husband is fully aware. The wife's sexual partner is generally known to husband, having been chosen in advance by the couple, but the wife may go hunting with hubby's knowledge to find a lover.

In all cases, the wife remains in control and does it by her choice. Wife and lover often have multiple encounters, i.e. an affair. A single encounter is at the choice of the wife, perhaps because she doesn't want a secondary relationship or because the partner failed hex expectations.

Husband while not generally present during the date, is included before and after. He helps her prepare for the date same as a girl friend would. Afterwards she reports her experience giving sexual details allow hubby relive and share the encounter. Reclamation sex after the date is a reassertion of the husband wife bond.

The husband derive pleasure from the wife's pleasure. He wants his wife to have great sex and believes he can not provide everything she wants. He may see himself as sexually inadequate or unable to deliver what he knows his wife would enjoy, e.g. BBC or seduction via dance.

Play Date

In a variant of swinging, situations are set up by husband and wife, or by him with her approval. Events organized for her benefit and participants recruited for specific (limited) activities focused on the her.

Events run the spectrum: exhibitionism, soft-swap, full swap, three-ways, bukkake, orgies, bondage, trains, gang bangs, and realizable fantasies.

The husband is often present to observe (and perhaps record) his wife's pleasure first hand, and perhaps direct activities.

Thanks Readyone! Lots of good info. I think I have fit into all three categories at one time or another

 

[RockyMountainMan2]

Some degree of humiliation is part of the appeal of being a cuckold. The humiliation of knowing your woman needs another man to satisfy her. also, hearing her talk about him and what he did to her.

I have to admit that there is a degree of humiliation that turns me on. I don't understand it, I guess it is in the same realm of why people like riding roller coasters. Thanks for the input!

 

[RockyMountainMan2]

I don’t buy the premise that the bull must be in control.

The traditional definition of cuckold is a man whose wife fucks one or more other men. Nothing is stated as to why she does so or how the husband feels about and there is no comment on the behaviour of the other man. The husband’s humiliation or lack of awareness was often inferred in a historical context but I don’t believe it was part of the definition. I mean if the husband knew and didn’t feel he humiliated did he cease to be a cuckold? Some refer to a contented cuckold as a wittol but to my understand that is a subset or certain type of cuckold - kind of the way a lynx is a type of cat.

When we get into modern uses of the word we are, by definition, into an evolving set of terms used in alternative lifestyles. Nobody has the authoritative version. I would certainly agree that it is different than a swingers dynamic. It seems to be an accepted premise that a hot wife has sexual relations with other men and the husband does not or at least not to the same degree. But the idea that the other man or “bull” controls her sex is nonsense. If she is not controlled by the other man but rather makes her own choices is her husband any less of a cuckold or she any less of a hit wife? No.

As with so many aspects of sexuality it becomes about power and men seek to impose theirs. Either the hot wife is her husband’s personal porn star (acting on his direction) or under the control of the “bull”. And the bull is labelled as such to assert his dominance. Truth is the historical definition applied to a woman fucking other men on her own accord. It is a direct by-product of her decisions not any man’s. That hasn’t changed. We have evolved enough not to assume that the husband must be or feel humiliated but it was never and still isn’t about male power. Some might play it that way and that is fine but that isn’t what it is about.

Quite the opposite it implies female power and prerogative. That has always scared men and led them to try to twist things their way. For meatheads like this it’s only ok for me to be a slut if I am controlled by a man......I mustn’t be allowed to do it on my own accord......I must be stopped or another nastier name must be used to shame me into submission. Lol. No sorry sweetie but I’m a hot wife and my husband is a cuckold and I call the shots on our sex life. And the very first decision I made is that no other man gets to dominate either of us.

Thanks Policywank! Wow, lots of good info for me to chew on. Wittol? I think I like that word lol. It sounds like you could teach this subject at a university level, that's awesome! I have always been in control of the situations in the past, but only because the woman preferred it. Your situation sounds intriguing, I think I would fit right in to that. I agree with you that there are different degrees to it all, different branches, a lynx and a lion are two different creatures, but still both cats. I appreciate your input and I now have much to think about!

 

[RockyMountainMan2]

Who cares if you fit into a definition. If it works for you and you're having fun....roll with it. Life's too short to play any other way.

I agree 100%, life is too short to worry about it. I have several stories published under loving wives, and I received an email the other day from a reader who told me I should be under the category of cuckold. Doesn't make a difference to me really, I just like to see my lady getting the most pleasure she can get, and I love to write about it. Thanks Fullofsin! Hope your night is full of sin!

 

[screwher]

Who cares if you fit into a definition. If it works for you and you're having fun....roll with it. Life's too short to play any other way.

I have to second this. I call my wife a hotwife and that we're in a hotwife relationship. But we're not at the point where she's entertaining a lot of the usual hotwife characteristics or cliches. It's more like she's just having extra marital affairs with her hubby's full approval. It's just easier to say "hotwife".

 

[ReadyOne]

Other buckets

FemDom

FemDom is Female Domination, a form of power exchange where the wife takes control of part(s) of the relationship. It may be in the bedroom, in the home, or everywhere.

Pussy Whipped is an extreme form where it is obvious to outsiders that the husband unconditionally submits to the wife's authority. This is an full reversal of the traditional marriage of centuries ago, where wives were property.

Humiliation has the wife controlling the sexual relationship and humiliating the husband, for his or their pleasure. Activities include berating, limiting sexual access, pussy worship, sexual slavery, orgasm control, cock cages, etc. The wife may take lover(s), often forcing the husband to accept her actions as humiliation. Details may be used to further humiliate (as well as titillate) him.

Cuckolding is where the wife takes additional lover(s) without his direct consent. Her encounters may be for sexual pleasure, tangible rewards, and/or to humiliate him. While her actions themselves may be humiliating, it is not unusual for her to also actively humiliate him.

This form of cuckolding differs from the "traditional" one by being orchestrated by the wife, who retains control. There is no bull, just lover(s) of her choice.

Public humiliation is based on public knowledge about the wife's affairs(s), has 3 degrees. 1: husband doesn't know people know. 2: husband does knows her affair(s) are public known. 3: husband knows people know, and allows her to continue.

Deliberate humiliation, which may be kept private, occurs when the wife makes known her lover(s) to her husband and increases when she requires him to actively accept them. Requiring his presence at her sexual encounters (watching) is a strong form, and active humiliation during an encounter is the extreme form.

 

[policywank]

I agree 100%, life is too short to worry about it. I have several stories published under loving wives, and I received an email the other day from a reader who told me I should be under the category of cuckold. Doesn't make a difference to me really, I just like to see my lady getting the most pleasure she can get, and I love to write about it. Thanks Fullofsin! Hope your night is full of sin!

I get that all the time. There are several judgmental readers who think it is their prerogative to disparage anything cuckold related and they often make a fuss about how those stories don’t belong in loving wives. They behave as though their retinas will burn out if they even see the story. They routinely disregard titles, descriptions and warnings then read the story all the way through and shit all over it for the subject matter.

They are like idiots that keep reading Stephen King books and complain over and over again how they hate horror. But instead of just not reading it they bitch about how his books should only be sold in a different bookstore.

Whether there should be a separate cuckold section is just their excuse for being disparaging. I’m sure you figured out to ignore them.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I don’t buy the premise that the bull must be in control.

The traditional definition of cuckold is a man whose wife fucks one or more other men. Nothing is stated as to why she does so or how the husband feels about and there is no comment on the behaviour of the other man. The husband’s humiliation or lack of awareness was often inferred in a historical context but I don’t believe it was part of the definition. I mean if the husband knew and didn’t feel he humiliated did he cease to be a cuckold? Some refer to a contented cuckold as a wittol but to my understand that is a subset or certain type of cuckold - kind of the way a lynx is a type of cat.

When we get into modern uses of the word we are, by definition, into an evolving set of terms used in alternative lifestyles. Nobody has the authoritative version. I would certainly agree that it is different than a swingers dynamic. It seems to be an accepted premise that a hot wife has sexual relations with other men and the husband does not or at least not to the same degree. But the idea that the other man or “bull” controls her sex is nonsense. If she is not controlled by the other man but rather makes her own choices is her husband any less of a cuckold or she any less of a hit wife? No.

As with so many aspects of sexuality it becomes about power and men seek to impose theirs. Either the hot wife is her husband’s personal porn star (acting on his direction) or under the control of the “bull”. And the bull is labelled as such to assert his dominance. Truth is the historical definition applied to a woman fucking other men on her own accord. It is a direct by-product of her decisions not any man’s. That hasn’t changed. We have evolved enough not to assume that the husband must be or feel humiliated but it was never and still isn’t about male power. Some might play it that way and that is fine but that isn’t what it is about.

Quite the opposite it implies female power and prerogative. That has always scared men and led them to try to twist things their way. For meatheads like this it’s only ok for me to be a slut if I am controlled by a man......I mustn’t be allowed to do it on my own accord......I must be stopped or another nastier name must be used to shame me into submission. Lol. No sorry sweetie but I’m a hot wife and my husband is a cuckold and I call the shots on our sex life. And the very first decision I made is that no other man gets to dominate either of us.

Unfortunately, but so true...

Traditionally speaking, a cuckold is the husband of a wife who decides to control her own sexuality and sleep with who she desires. Today, as policywank points out, it is about a man who uses his wife to fulfill his own desires of seeing her being appreciated by other men - be it with a twist of humiliation or not.

God forbid if a woman should make her own choices in regards to her body, her desires, and her sexuality!

 

[buffalobill2014]

Some degree of humiliation is part of the appeal of being a cuckold. The humiliation of knowing your woman needs another man to satisfy her. also, hearing her talk about him and what he did to her.

That's exactly the main attraction and extreme turn on for me(I have been cuckolded for 20 years or so), the humiliation is a strong turn on for me, knowing the other man is satisfying my wife in a way that I cannot provide, I just love the whole lifestyle(she does also)

 

[RockyMountainMan2]

FemDom

FemDom is Female Domination, a form of power exchange where the wife takes control of part(s) of the relationship. It may be in the bedroom, in the home, or everywhere.

Pussy Whipped is an extreme form where it is obvious to outsiders that the husband unconditionally submits to the wife's authority. This is an full reversal of the traditional marriage of centuries ago, where wives were property.

Humiliation has the wife controlling the sexual relationship and humiliating the husband, for his or their pleasure. Activities include berating, limiting sexual access, pussy worship, sexual slavery, orgasm control, cock cages, etc. The wife may take lover(s), often forcing the husband to accept her actions as humiliation. Details may be used to further humiliate (as well as titillate) him.

Cuckolding is where the wife takes additional lover(s) without his direct consent. Her encounters may be for sexual pleasure, tangible rewards, and/or to humiliate him. While her actions themselves may be humiliating, it is not unusual for her to also actively humiliate him.

This form of cuckolding differs from the "traditional" one by being orchestrated by the wife, who retains control. There is no bull, just lover(s) of her choice.

Public humiliation is based on public knowledge about the wife's affairs(s), has 3 degrees. 1: husband doesn't know people know. 2: husband does knows her affair(s) are public known. 3: husband knows people know, and allows her to continue.

Deliberate humiliation, which may be kept private, occurs when the wife makes known her lover(s) to her husband and increases when she requires him to actively accept them. Requiring his presence at her sexual encounters (watching) is a strong form, and active humiliation during an encounter is the extreme form.

Thank you ReadyOne…..good info!

 

[RockyMountainMan2]

I get that all the time. There are several judgmental readers who think it is their prerogative to disparage anything cuckold related and they often make a fuss about how those stories don’t belong in loving wives. They behave as though their retinas will burn out if they even see the story. They routinely disregard titles, descriptions and warnings then read the story all the way through and shit all over it for the subject matter.

They are like idiots that keep reading Stephen King books and complain over and over again how they hate horror. But instead of just not reading it they bitch about how his books should only be sold in a different bookstore.

Whether there should be a separate cuckold section is just their excuse for being disparaging. I’m sure you figured out to ignore them.

OMG! Haha I couldn't agree more! It seems as though there are some readers that just live to criticize. God forbid you put a comma in the wrong place! Thank you for the response, it was my deep laugh of the morning!

 

[Justfantasies]

I don’t buy the premise that the bull must be in control.

The traditional definition of cuckold is a man whose wife fucks one or more other men. Nothing is stated as to why she does so or how the husband feels about and there is no comment on the behaviour of the other man. The husband’s humiliation or lack of awareness was often inferred in a historical context but I don’t believe it was part of the definition. I mean if the husband knew and didn’t feel he humiliated did he cease to be a cuckold? Some refer to a contented cuckold as a wittol but to my understand that is a subset or certain type of cuckold - kind of the way a lynx is a type of cat.

When we get into modern uses of the word we are, by definition, into an evolving set of terms used in alternative lifestyles. Nobody has the authoritative version. I would certainly agree that it is different than a swingers dynamic. It seems to be an accepted premise that a hot wife has sexual relations with other men and the husband does not or at least not to the same degree. But the idea that the other man or “bull” controls her sex is nonsense. If she is not controlled by the other man but rather makes her own choices is her husband any less of a cuckold or she any less of a hit wife? No.

As with so many aspects of sexuality it becomes about power and men seek to impose theirs. Either the hot wife is her husband’s personal porn star (acting on his direction) or under the control of the “bull”. And the bull is labelled as such to assert his dominance. Truth is the historical definition applied to a woman fucking other men on her own accord. It is a direct by-product of her decisions not any man’s. That hasn’t changed. We have evolved enough not to assume that the husband must be or feel humiliated but it was never and still isn’t about male power. Some might play it that way and that is fine but that isn’t what it is about.

Quite the opposite it implies female power and prerogative. That has always scared men and led them to try to twist things their way. For meatheads like this it’s only ok for me to be a slut if I am controlled by a man......I mustn’t be allowed to do it on my own accord......I must be stopped or another nastier name must be used to shame me into submission. Lol. No sorry sweetie but I’m a hot wife and my husband is a cuckold and I call the shots on our sex life. And the very first decision I made is that no other man gets to dominate either of us.

I have always enjoyed non-exclusive relationships, partly because the women in my life gets a thrill from them and I get a thrill from their enjoyment. But I don't think I would like them anywhere near as much if I thought the other guy or guys were trying to control the situation or humiliate me

 

[policywank]

I have always enjoyed non-exclusive relationships, partly because the women in my life gets a thrill from them and I get a thrill from their enjoyment. But I don't think I would like them anywhere near as much if I thought the other guy or guys were trying to control the situation or humiliate me

My husband has been very clear on this point as well. He embraces my sexual prerogative and freedom. For me to let anyone (including him) control my sex would be the complete opposite. It is quite important that I control and take responsibility for my actions. If I played the submissive or the victim or let others disparage him he would lose his confidence in and respect for me and it would be all over.

 

[Justfantasies]

My husband has been very clear on this point as well. He embraces my sexual prerogative and freedom. For me to let anyone (including him) control my sex would be the complete opposite. It is quite important that I control and take responsibility for my actions. If I played the submissive or the victim or let others disparage him he would lose his confidence in and respect for me and it would be all over.

Amen to all that -- I wonder how much we really choose all this for ourselves. I know some men who like to be humiliated. For me, the fact that my wife is a "slut" is the ultimate turn on. For other men, I know" they could not help their jealousy.

 

[Scareltt]

Even if..

I get that all the time. There are several judgmental readers who think it is their prerogative to disparage anything cuckold related and they often make a fuss about how those stories don’t belong in loving wives. They behave as though their retinas will burn out if they even see the story. They routinely disregard titles, descriptions and warnings then read the story all the way through and shit all over it for the subject matter.

They are like idiots that keep reading Stephen King books and complain over and over again how they hate horror. But instead of just not reading it they bitch about how his books should only be sold in a different bookstore.

Whether there should be a separate cuckold section is just their excuse for being disparaging. I’m sure you figured out to ignore them.

I have a feeling even if there was a cuckold section they would still complain.

 

[whenagain]

I have a feeling even if there was a cuckold section they would still complain.

Yeah. Some just have it out for those stories.

 

[gtnlynn]

Good discussion. I never felt like a cuckold, and hot wife certainly fits our situation.

 

[RockyMountainMan2]

I have a feeling even if there was a cuckold section they would still complain.

Yep! There are certain stories I don't like, but I just simply don't read them. Some people live for drama, drama is ok as long as its getting someone fucked haha.