Daddy's Little Girl

[INeedLove]

Peeking in to say hi to everyone.


I miss having a daddy and the daddy time we enjoyed. There is nothing like those special times and the kisses and hugs you get from him.

 

[barefootgirl69]

https://image.ibb.co/fNZw8T/20180609_013846.png

I stole this and sent it to Daddy, because just the night before this was our scenario!!

 

[barefootgirl69]

*snip*

I think we need to be careful to not encourage or approve behavior that hinders our forward movement. CGs are there as a safe place, a hiding place even, at times, but they're also there to facilitate our growth! Caregivers can tend and nurture us in ways that still acknowledge the truth that we are responsible for our own health and happiness. We can be strong and confident and capable, while still enjoying intimacy within the relationship. It's not an either/or proposition, we can do both!

This is well said, Honey. I always appreciate the time taken when my Daddy (present and past) encourages me to grow, to try new hobbies, read books outside my norm, even when they encourage me to go meet people knowing how shy I am. I appreciate the way they give a new perspective on things that I hadn't seen. I appreciate the 'keys' to success that he provides, and how he expects me to be able to encourage myself through all the things he's provided.

And, if he's not there for something that needs my attention, I am the badass woman I need to be... and I appreciate the praise he gives.

I CAN go through life and make things happen and do what needs doing, but it's so good to have him as my best friend.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I stole this and sent it to Daddy, because just the night before this was our scenario!!

I saw you say that somewhere else!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

This is well said, Honey. I always appreciate the time taken when my Daddy (present and past) encourages me to grow, to try new hobbies, read books outside my norm, even when they encourage me to go meet people knowing how shy I am. I appreciate the way they give a new perspective on things that I hadn't seen. I appreciate the 'keys' to success that he provides, and how he expects me to be able to encourage myself through all the things he's provided.

And, if he's not there for something that needs my attention, I am the badass woman I need to be... and I appreciate the praise he gives.

I CAN go through life and make things happen and do what needs doing, but it's so good to have him as my best friend.

I'm glad you have all of that.

It's been a while now since we've had that dynamic. I'm not miserable without it... maybe wistful from time to time. I do miss that sweet sense of communion. Being friends is still good, but... different.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I think it was incredibly well said. It leads me to YET ANOTHER "is this a thing?" Question.

I see you both mention "a hiding place" even.
I have a personality quirk, I call it my turtle shell or hibernating. When things get completely overwhelming and I feel like I can't fix or change anything I tend to curl into my turtle shell. I keep up self care, but I stop dealing with other people. I go incommunicado until I can cope again, until I can do something productive to change the situation or the thing is done. I know it isn't productive, but it is a form of self preservation.
Does this sound familiar at all? The exception to the rule is *person* that I curl up into. May times I can't even really do a ton of discussing, it is just *hold me make it OK* and it does. At that point cuddles make the world better. I've told *person* I wish I could curl up and live either in your pocket or inside you right now, yep, that'd be good.
The reason I say *person* not "Sir" is because this has been true forever, regardless of who I was with or our dynamic. I know at least back to my first boyfriend. I distinctly remember that when my grandpa died and my mom was diagnosed with cancer in the span of a month.

So is turtle/ hibernate/ hide a thing? Or just a me quirk?

~~~~~~
Secondary topic:
That moment when you are doing something completely unrelated for work and run into something *perfect*.
I just read the short story "Eleven" by Sandra Cisneros. If you haven't read it, do. You can find the text online easily.
I think this might be appropriate for quite a few people here:
" what they don't understand about birthdays and what they never tell you is that when you're eleven, you're also ten, and nine, and eight, seven, six, and five, and four, and three, and two, and one. ...like some days you might say something stupid and that's the part of you that's still ten. Or maybe some days you might need to sit on your mamma's lap because you're scared, and that's the part of you that's still five. And maybe one day when you're all grown up maybe you will need to cry like you're three, and that's OK. That's what I tell mama when she's sad and she needs to cry. Maybe she is feeling three.
Because the way you grow old is kind of like an onion or like the rings inside of a tree or like my wooden dolls that fit one inside the other, each year inside the next one. That's how being eleven years old is."

It goes on, but I thought it too appropriate not to share.

Yes, it's a thing! A normal, how many people deal with stress thing.

More later. (Btw, I call it turtling too! )

Story sounds great, I'll check it out.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I think it was incredibly well said. It leads me to YET ANOTHER "is this a thing?" Question.

I see you both mention "a hiding place" even.
I have a personality quirk, I call it my turtle shell or hibernating. When things get completely overwhelming and I feel like I can't fix or change anything I tend to curl into my turtle shell. I keep up self care, but I stop dealing with other people. I go incommunicado until I can cope again, until I can do something productive to change the situation or the thing is done. I know it isn't productive, but it is a form of self preservation.
Does this sound familiar at all? The exception to the rule is *person* that I curl up into. May times I can't even really do a ton of discussing, it is just *hold me make it OK* and it does. At that point cuddles make the world better. I've told *person* I wish I could curl up and live either in your pocket or inside you right now, yep, that'd be good.
The reason I say *person* not "Sir" is because this has been true forever, regardless of who I was with or our dynamic. I know at least back to my first boyfriend. I distinctly remember that when my grandpa died and my mom was diagnosed with cancer in the span of a month.

So is turtle/ hibernate/ hide a thing? Or just a me quirk?

~~~~~~
Secondary topic:
That moment when you are doing something completely unrelated for work and run into something *perfect*.
I just read the short story "Eleven" by Sandra Cisneros. If you haven't read it, do. You can find the text online easily.
I think this might be appropriate for quite a few people here:
" what they don't understand about birthdays and what they never tell you is that when you're eleven, you're also ten, and nine, and eight, seven, six, and five, and four, and three, and two, and one. ...like some days you might say something stupid and that's the part of you that's still ten. Or maybe some days you might need to sit on your mamma's lap because you're scared, and that's the part of you that's still five. And maybe one day when you're all grown up maybe you will need to cry like you're three, and that's OK. That's what I tell mama when she's sad and she needs to cry. Maybe she is feeling three.
Because the way you grow old is kind of like an onion or like the rings inside of a tree or like my wooden dolls that fit one inside the other, each year inside the next one. That's how being eleven years old is."

It goes on, but I thought it too appropriate not to share.

You are definitely not alone in this.
I've been doing this the past week. I come here for fun, not drama.
All the negative things going on it seems, here on the PG. It was affecting me, and I took off. Everytime I peeked in, people were going at it again.

I draw away from people when I need time to think. I ask myself what I need, who I need, etc. It's a self-protection thing. I'm back today because, after talking with my Daddy, my best friend, my nerd... he suggested deleting my subscriptions and keeping only a few that I felt I needed. This one, the fort, and one other. It was a perfect solution!

Did I mention he's amazing?

 

[barefootgirl69]

I saw you say that somewhere else!

Yesss! We were laughing about it during our conversation last night, he thought I drew it to go with what I had done the night before... I had to explain I had lurked that morning (yesterday) and stole it from you.

We laughed and laughed.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

You are definitely not alone in this.
I've been doing this the past week. I come here for fun, not drama.
All the negative things going on it seems, here on the PG. It was affecting me, and I took off. Everytime I peeked in, people were going at it again.

I draw away from people when I need time to think. I ask myself what I need, who I need, etc. It's a self-protection thing. I'm back today because, after talking with my Daddy, my best friend, my nerd... he suggested deleting my subscriptions and keeping only a few that I felt I needed. This one, the fort, and one other. It was a perfect solution!

Did I mention he's amazing?

I've been deleting subscriptions lately, too.

'Curate your experience!'

 

[funluvinaj]

https://78.media.tumblr.com/e611b1a7a7c7f59f29e6ce6759a45a1e/tumblr_p6cxstFjjP1wi1l51o1_500.jpg

 

[funluvinaj]

*snip*

I think we need to be careful to not encourage or approve behavior that hinders our forward movement. CGs are there as a safe place, a hiding place even, at times, but they're also there to facilitate our growth! Caregivers can tend and nurture us in ways that still acknowledge the truth that we are responsible for our own health and happiness. We can be strong and confident and capable, while still enjoying intimacy within the relationship. It's not an either/or proposition, we can do both!

I got kind of rambly there Did I answer your question?

sounds like something exactly like Daddy would say.

I don't know that it was so much a question - just a comment that sometimes cuddling seems much more desirable!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

sounds like something exactly like Daddy would say.

I don't know that it was so much a question - just a comment that sometimes cuddling seems much more desirable!

Absolutely it does.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I'm making this up. Add your own!


Dr. Daddy's Prescriptions For a Happy Little Girl
************************************************

Hard day at work... foot massage from Daddy

Gained 3 pounds... Daddy kisses all over

Someone died on t.v.... predicament bondage until sufficiently distracted

Feeling rather unwell... cup of tea made by Daddy

Grocery store stopped carrying favorite flavored water... blowjob until completion, and then lick Daddy clean

Drama with the fam... neck and shoulder rub from Daddy

Shark week and hormonal crying... a good hard spanking followed by a good hard fuck

Tired babygirl... sleepy Daddy snuggles under Daddy's quilt

 

[jp55665566]

Maybe it's just me, but cuddling a precious little makes me feel masculine, viril and powerful.

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/6a/fb/0d/6afb0d23f83edc5c3de48b35b8b9e444--daddy-quotes-passion.jpg

 

[Nzerxx]

Maybe it's just me, but cuddling a precious little makes me feel masculine, viril and powerful.

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/6a/fb/0d/6afb0d23f83edc5c3de48b35b8b9e444--daddy-quotes-passion.jpg

*thud*
melty

Thank you

 

[Nzerxx]

I'm making this up. Add your own!


Dr. Daddy's Prescriptions For a Happy Little Girl
************************************************

Hard day at work... foot massage from Daddy

Gained 3 pounds... Daddy kisses all over

Someone died on t.v.... predicament bondage until sufficiently distracted

Feeling rather unwell... cup of tea made by Daddy

Grocery store stopped carrying favorite flavored water... blowjob until completion, and then lick Daddy clean

Drama with the fam... neck and shoulder rub from Daddy

Shark week and hormonal crying... a good hard spanking followed by a good hard fuck

Tired babygirl... sleepy Daddy snuggles under Daddy's quilt

That prescription would make me feel all better
Repeated as needed of course...

 

[Nzerxx]

https://image.ibb.co/fNZw8T/20180609_013846.png

this made me laugh and laugh coz I had a Dom (we are still friends) It was a LDR and he would be like "Its time for you to close your eyes and go to sleep" and I would plead to talk more (I still love talking with him) and one day he read me the book "Go The F@#* To Sleep" I laughed so hard! But I went to sleep so happy

I miss this
I miss him (even though we talk almost every day)
I miss US

But this made me smile

 

[Nzerxx]

Sorry for the double post, but yes...this I can 100% say fits. Mostly the wanted, cared for, belonging...those are definitely driving forces. Add I need to feel I please. I need to feel helpful. I need to feel I make him proud.

This is me too

 

[angelofthenorth]

May I add one to the Prescription.

Insomnia......Daddy to read a chapter or two of a book. I can recommend this better than a glass of warm milk.

I'm making this up. Add your own!


Dr. Daddy's Prescriptions For a Happy Little Girl
************************************************

Hard day at work... foot massage from Daddy

Gained 3 pounds... Daddy kisses all over

Someone died on t.v.... predicament bondage until sufficiently distracted

Feeling rather unwell... cup of tea made by Daddy

Grocery store stopped carrying favorite flavored water... blowjob until completion, and then lick Daddy clean

Drama with the fam... neck and shoulder rub from Daddy

Shark week and hormonal crying... a good hard spanking followed by a good hard fuck

Tired babygirl... sleepy Daddy snuggles under Daddy's quilt

 

[Angedesoleil]

Thanks for telling me I'm not alone in turtling. I know avoidance is a coping mechanism or rather a non coping mechanism. I'm constantly annoyed at myself for going that direction, as logically it solves nothing.

I'm looking forward to reading your longer reply Honey, thank you.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I added a list of threads I thought might be good for when littles aren't feeling like flirting or discussing sexy things, here:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1410677&page=4

Yes, it's a big list.
I had a rough night and morning, and needed a creative project to distract me. It worked!

 

[LostGirlTink]

I added a list of threads I thought might be good for when littles aren't feeling like flirting or discussing sexy things, here:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1410677&page=4

Yes, it's a big list.
I had a rough night and morning, and needed a creative project to distract me. It worked!

I hide in a fort when I'm sad Ange, it's how I describe the walls I throw up around me.
It's the rare person that gets let inside my fort and the ones that do are the ones capable of knocking it to the ground...
Which is why I'm so cautious, once the fort has been leveled I have to build from the ground up.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Checks out his posts...

Pardon me if I misunderstand... but, aren't you the same guy who posed this question in Miss Honey's thread over the weekend, when you didn't know what a Daddy was?

This one :

So, "daddy" implies a family situation of some sort, yes? But in this case there is a distinct suggestion of dom/sub relationship? Yes I'm a little dense

She answered that post much the same way I did in PM. Suddenly, you're a Daddy?

I'm not trying to argue, but I would like clarification. We aren't here (the ladies) to be taken advantage of.

Maybe it's just me, but cuddling a precious little makes me feel masculine, viril, and powerful.

 

[jp55665566]

Pardon me if I misunderstand... but, aren't you the same guy who posed this question in Miss Honey's thread over the weekend, when you didn't know what a Daddy was?

This one :



She answered that post much the same way I did in PM. Suddenly, you're a Daddy?

I'm not trying to argue, but I would like clarification. We aren't here (the ladies) to be taken advantage of.

bfg, i wanted to try and participate, I'm sure I'm not a qualified daddy, though I do have some sensibilities and attraction to the situation. I do beg your pardon

 

[Farawyn]

bfg, i wanted to try and participate, I'm sure I'm not a qualified daddy, though I do have some sensibilities and attraction to the situation. I do beg your pardon

I want to participate, too.
I don’t know much about this.
So...I listen and ask questions.

There’s a lot of men (and women!!!) who will say they are into something or other just to get off.
BFG runs a nice thread here, with honest dialogue.

There is a RP thread. I know a lot of members have fun with trying on different personas there.