M2M Preferences - Equal or Submissive

[TomBoner]

M2M Preferences - Equal, Macho, or Submissive

So I'll readily admit that I don't understand any guy who says he's straight but wants to have his cock sucked by another guy. Doesn't make any sense to me at all other than the fact that there's bi-sexuals who can't accept that they're not societies definition of "straight".

I also don't understand the whole sissy, cross-dressing, or submissive type of thinking ... just as I don't personally relate to the whole macho, dom sort of outlook on things. I'm not knocking those who do it by any means. But I enjoy sex for the sake of sex ... and I enjoy giving pleasure to another human being (regardless of it being a man or a woman) just as much as I enjoy receiving pleasure from another human being.

So if you consider yourself a bi-sexual or gay man, do you enjoy the sissy/feminine side of sexuality with another man, or do you prefer the macho/manly persona, or do you just enjoy sex with a guy without feminine or masculine attachments to it.

If your a bi-sexual or lesbian girl who enjoys watching or participating with M2M sex, do you prefer the guys to be more feminine, masculine, or neutral in there outlook towards sex?

 

[sober71]

M2m

Personally I just like sex with male or female, I enjoy giving and receiving and no I'm not keen on over feminist males or macho females, just enjoy having fun.

 

[willbethere]

For me it more about giving pleasure, I really enjoy pleasing my girl. The little experience I have had with another guy the same applies, I just wish I could find the right guy to continue exploring with.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Hard to answer. I like being an equal partner, but also willing to take either role. I'm willing to drop to my knees and worship his cock with my mouth, being his cock slut. But minutes later I might want to fuck him, from behind or otherwise. And I'm open to 69ing anytime.

With the right guy I'll submit and serve him, with another guy I might take him greedily, without concern for his needs, only mine.

I've used guys, and I've been used.

My perfect 'date' includes both of us serving each other, and taking each other as we feel the need. We both end the night satisfied and exhausted.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Since I have had sexual contact with both females and males, I am comfortable with a bi-sexual label, if one finds it necessary to pin one on me. I do love a good blow job from a woman or a man and I love eating pussy as much as I love sucking a hard cock.The fact is, I love sex. I love to pleasure as well as being pleasured. I do not wish to be anything more or less than equal. I would, however, be open to different games/roles that would put me in either dom/sub category, only temporarily. In the end, sex for me is both giving and receiving pleasure.

 

[BritPup]

I couldn't really choose my option. Because it depends entirely on the other guy. I prefer to dominate smooth/slim/young and be dominated by the opposites of those aspects.

But it depends on how it goes once you get together.

 

[sober71]

Since I have had sexual contact with both females and males, I am comfortable with a bi-sexual label, if one finds it necessary to pin one on me. I do love a good blow job from a woman or a man and I love eating pussy as much as I love sucking a hard cock.The fact is, I love sex. I love to pleasure as well as being pleasured. I do not wish to be anything more or less than equal. I would, however, be open to different games/roles that would put me in either dom/sub category, only temporarily. In the end, sex for me is both giving and receiving pleasure.

I'm identifying with you, sex is fun so why neglect half t he population. I love a spanking, it's a turn on for sexual fun.

 

[SissySalina]

Wher is the sissy pole?

Would like to respond to this poll but there is no space for sissys.
sissy is not a man or allowed to be a woman.

 

[Sunnyade]

I prefer dominant women but enjoy sex more with a sub male.

 

[Jerseyshore]

Definitely prefer bottoming....my husband is a loving, tender gay top who I love to please

 

[Dbaggins417]

My $.02

Nothing here

 

[oralgami]

I can't pick any of the options. I consider myself to be masculine and not feminine in the slightest. Nevertheless, I have no problem assuming the submissive role. I don't see taking the role of a servicing partner as being equivalent to being feminine.

 

[gcs2718]

I'll gladly suck most any cock just to suck a cock but do enjoy being dominated by my feeder if he's into that. I certainly consider myself submissive and enjoy that role. I chose #3 because that most closely fits me. I've been with a few fem guys but am not fem myself.

 

[betabrad]

I'm submissive with either women or men.

 

[willingtobeused]

Agree

 

[SuperSissy]

There's no answer to your question, because everyone is driven differently, and driven differently on different days. For instance, as a sissy, I want to be submissive to a man, and I hold an idealized sissy self image sort of like a stereotypical 50's housewife. I want to be pretty and feminine for my man, and wait on him and service his every sexual need. He will be dominate and understanding, love me and tell me how pretty I am and how sexy I am, etc.

Other sissys on here I've conversed with are also submissive to men, but desire a strong element of humiliation or degradation in the relationship. Still others are submissive to their women, and sex with men is just a fantasy, perhaps used to heighten their feeling of submission to their women.

And for many of us, sexual preference is like going to a diner: the menu is huge, and you can order what you feel like on any given day.

I do think your desire to learn is admirable. Good luck on your journey!

 

[gailwright]

Love Being Feminine!

Whether I'm "dressed" or not, the moment I'm with a man I feel totally submissive and feminine--wanting to give him pleasure.

My "problem" is that I want him to treat me as his girlfriend and form a loving relationship in which he dominates and feminizes me.

(As you might imagine, I have had no luck in finding a like-minded man. )

 

[Astroman72]

I guess I'm on the "equal" side of the fence, as the whole dominant/submissive thing doesn't resonate much with me.

I'm definitely not a dominant guy, and while I guess I'm technically "versatile," most of my gay sexual fantasies involve me being the bottom---but I would not be at ALL comfortable with a really dominant sexual partner, either male or female. That's a personality type I don't click with in any aspect of my life, sexuality included.

Sexually, someone gently and respectfully taking the lead turns me on, but the whole dominance, humiliation stuff is a major boner-killer for me.

 

[J1biboi]

I guess I'm on the "equal" side of the fence, as the whole dominant/submissive thing doesn't resonate much with me.

I'm definitely not a dominant guy, and while I guess I'm technically "versatile," most of my gay sexual fantasies involve me being the bottom---but I would not be at ALL comfortable with a really dominant sexual partner, either male or female. That's a personality type I don't click with in any aspect of my life, sexuality included.

Sexually, someone gently and respectfully taking the lead turns me on, but the whole dominance, humiliation stuff is a major boner-killer for me.

I'm with you. I've never understood the whole dominance, humiliation thing.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

I'm not sure I agree with the question. Do I have to be feminine to be submissive? I don't think so. I'm sure that my being either dominant or submissive - or equal for that matter - isn't a matter of feminine or masculine.

 

[Mqoi]

I guess I'm on the "equal" side of the fence, as the whole dominant/submissive thing doesn't resonate much with me.

I'm definitely not a dominant guy, and while I guess I'm technically "versatile," most of my gay sexual fantasies involve me being the bottom---but I would not be at ALL comfortable with a really dominant sexual partner, either male or female. That's a personality type I don't click with in any aspect of my life, sexuality included.

Sexually, someone gently and respectfully taking the lead turns me on, but the whole dominance, humiliation stuff is a major boner-killer for me.

That's pretty close to me. I'm masculine, but I do have a softer side that I don't mind showing. I'm more interested in being equal partners with my lovers. And really dominant people turn me off. As do really submissive people. That said, if the right guy was to come along, I'd melt in his arms and he could have me any way he wants. But I've only ever ran into a couple of guys that I felt that way about. And they were straight.

 

[sober71]

I am more sub bottom, been in charge most of my working life, now enjoy giving control over with limit's

 

[Samisstout]

I am more sub bottom, been in charge most of my working life, now enjoy giving control over with limit's

I like this . I would like to be instructed on what to do and how to do it. Not yelled at or humiliated but just instructed .

 

[BikiniRiki]

I just really get into pleasing older mature men!
Letting me service their more mature superior cocks from my lower kneeling position, having them help me to my feet after I've swallowed their potent seed...

 

[load69]

I would just love to get a nice hard cock shooting hot cum in my mouth. I don’t really care about them being dom or sub. Just hard