A question for gay guys.

[LostBabygirl3489]

I'm just curious...how many gay guys would be okay with hooking up with a transmasculine person? Specifically, someone who was assigned female at birth and had a masculine appearance but still had breasts and a vagina? As a nonbinary afab person, I used to fantasize about hooking up with a gay guy since I tend to be attracted to them more than straight cisgender guys. But I never even bothered because I always thought they would have no interest once they found out the truth. I guess I would have a better chance with a bisexual or pansexual guy, but those are hard to find, in my experience...

I'm just curious. I won't take offense.

 

[shavenukguy]

I'm just curious...how many gay guys would be okay with hooking up with a transmasculine person? Specifically, someone who was assigned female at birth and had a masculine appearance but still had breasts and a vagina? As a nonbinary afab person, I used to fantasize about hooking up with a gay guy since I tend to be attracted to them more than straight cisgender guys. But I never even bothered because I always thought they would have no interest once they found out the truth. I guess I would have a better chance with a bisexual or pansexual guy, but those are hard to find, in my experience...

I'm just curious. I won't take offense.

I’m guessing it would be difficult for you to get the blood pumping for gay guys as you still have a vagina.

Personally though I think it’s kind of sexy, masculine on the outside but feminine underneath.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

I’m guessing it would be difficult for you to get the blood pumping for gay guys as you still have a vagina.

Personally though I think it’s kind of sexy, masculine on the outside but feminine underneath.

Yeah I figured...I've met more gay guys than bisexual guys, sadly. There is a huge stigma against bisexual guys and it's really sad. If I ever date a cisgender guy again, he'd be bisexual or pansexual.

Thank you. I think the contrast is sexy in other people, too.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

I mean, there have been many times where I've presented myself as masculine and it really throws off guys (I have no idea whether they are straight, bisexual or gay, obviously). There have even been a lot of times where I don't even try to be masculine at all and I get called sir or I am addressed as male. So I find this whole thing interesting, honestly.

 

[shavenukguy]

Yeah I figured...I've met more gay guys than bisexual guys, sadly. There is a huge stigma against bisexual guys and it's really sad. If I ever date a cisgender guy again, he'd be bisexual or pansexual.

Thank you. I think the contrast is sexy in other people, too.

Society does have this knack of frowning on people who have sex with it fall in love with others from outside of the so-called ‘normal’ spectrum.

I’m finding as I get older and embark on this next chapter of my life that I’m becoming more and more attracted to personality rather than gender.

If we clicked in a club or whatever and ended up back at your place, I’m expecting to see a dick but you present me with a pussy, the new me could embrace it provided there was attraction between us.

Hope you get what I mean

 

[hylas_]

Gay dude here. I probably wouldn't have been interested in the past, but now I'm a bit more sexually open-minded. Hooking up with a transmasculine person could be potentially interesting for me.

I remember meeting this butch lesbian once, and there was this spark between us. We were pretty obviously checking each other out. Too bad she was in a (presumably monogamous) relationship at the time...

 

[Iwantitnowpleas]

You might want to consider finding a Sissy, most are probably bi. How wonderful it would be for you both to be free to express yourself however you wanted. Think non binary from the other side. You might even find someone here on Lit.

 

[Mqoi]

I'm just curious...how many gay guys would be okay with hooking up with a transmasculine person? Specifically, someone who was assigned female at birth and had a masculine appearance but still had breasts and a vagina? As a nonbinary afab person, I used to fantasize about hooking up with a gay guy since I tend to be attracted to them more than straight cisgender guys. But I never even bothered because I always thought they would have no interest once they found out the truth. I guess I would have a better chance with a bisexual or pansexual guy, but those are hard to find, in my experience...

I'm just curious. I won't take offense.

I'm bi and definitely not the sissy type, but I've always been more emotionally attracted to the strong "tom boy" women than the girly girls. I guess I like having relationships with someone who's into the more "manly" type activities that I like and who's not afraid to say what they want. Probably part of the reason I like guys too, but not much on the sissy types. Nothing against either sissies or girly girls, but they're just not my type.

 

[luvemboth]

I guess I would have a better chance with a bisexual or pansexual guy, but those are hard to find, in my experience...

As are women who like bi guys.

 

[rae121452]

i'm 100% gay but i still am attracted to ftm people. so maybe i'm the weird one? anyway, i had a friend (gay) who was on a business trip to dc, hooked up with a guy at a gay bar and when they got to his room, he found out he was ftm with the original plumbing. he was perturbed for a moment but he said they wound up having the hottest sex of his life.

and, my god, who in the world would ever say no to buck angel?