hornyhubby48
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This is going to become a very long post, so don't start reading it, unless you are prepared to invest some time. And if you enjoy posts with content.
Finding an on-line partner to become happy with should not be dificult at all. I read many testimonials here from people, who have achieved that. And why not? After all, the only thing needed would be for Mr. Right Guy to run into his female counterpart. And/or vice versa.
And then the two of them would get to know and like each other, and decide to form a relationship, which brings both of them exactly what they've been missing: an intimate companionship, empathy and caring from their new partner. And the opportunity to care and empathize themselves. Plus some new intellectual impetus now and then, when one and/or the other mention a unique thought occasionally, that's worth exploring.
On-line happiness is so easy, really, so why doesn't it occur more often? The main problems I see: too few chances to meet the right person, and unsuitable methods being practised for relationship exploration all too often. Let me explain what I mean.
First of all, the Lit "Personals" forum has degraded into a soap box gathering, where everybody and his brother comes together, who does not have anything meaningful to say. When I posted this ad first, I counted about 75% posts here (30 out of 40 on the first page), in which either someone searches for the absolute impossible, or where she or he outlines nothing but "frivolous" goals in their ads.
Which means very few ads, which really deserve to be posted on a serious Personals forum. So fewer and fewer people come here, with realistic goals, goals that are not merely frivolous. And the quantity of serious searchers dwindles.
Next, once I meet a woman, who seems to offer (and search for) a serious on-line relationship, the process of getting to know one another rarely runs in a halfways optimal manner. Either our writing is much too intermittent, or she is so fearful of walking into a trap, that she has enormous difficulties opening up. Not prepared for taking the risk of a possible failure seems to be very common among the kind of women who attract me. And/or simply a lack of openness for other reasons.
And then frauds occur sometimes, like the woman who was really searching for a DOM to get excited by, instead of a deeper relationship. But failed to tell me that right from the start.
And in addition, not every serious woman will resonate with every serious man she meets. I addressed the subject of resonance in my second ad here.
So one thing is quite obvious: countless obstacles abound on the way to on-line happiness. The only question that remains: will you, the woman who ticks like me, the woman I could develop a relationship with that may lead to happiness, be so much discouraged that you don't look for ads like mine any longer?
If the answer is NO for you, and you found my ad here, then it seems to me there exists only one alternative: you send me a PM immediately, and the two of us will try to get to know one another in a manner that contains as few of the obstacles as possible that I mentioned earlier.
Finding an on-line partner to become happy with should not be dificult at all. I read many testimonials here from people, who have achieved that. And why not? After all, the only thing needed would be for Mr. Right Guy to run into his female counterpart. And/or vice versa.
And then the two of them would get to know and like each other, and decide to form a relationship, which brings both of them exactly what they've been missing: an intimate companionship, empathy and caring from their new partner. And the opportunity to care and empathize themselves. Plus some new intellectual impetus now and then, when one and/or the other mention a unique thought occasionally, that's worth exploring.
On-line happiness is so easy, really, so why doesn't it occur more often? The main problems I see: too few chances to meet the right person, and unsuitable methods being practised for relationship exploration all too often. Let me explain what I mean.
First of all, the Lit "Personals" forum has degraded into a soap box gathering, where everybody and his brother comes together, who does not have anything meaningful to say. When I posted this ad first, I counted about 75% posts here (30 out of 40 on the first page), in which either someone searches for the absolute impossible, or where she or he outlines nothing but "frivolous" goals in their ads.
Which means very few ads, which really deserve to be posted on a serious Personals forum. So fewer and fewer people come here, with realistic goals, goals that are not merely frivolous. And the quantity of serious searchers dwindles.
Next, once I meet a woman, who seems to offer (and search for) a serious on-line relationship, the process of getting to know one another rarely runs in a halfways optimal manner. Either our writing is much too intermittent, or she is so fearful of walking into a trap, that she has enormous difficulties opening up. Not prepared for taking the risk of a possible failure seems to be very common among the kind of women who attract me. And/or simply a lack of openness for other reasons.
And then frauds occur sometimes, like the woman who was really searching for a DOM to get excited by, instead of a deeper relationship. But failed to tell me that right from the start.
And in addition, not every serious woman will resonate with every serious man she meets. I addressed the subject of resonance in my second ad here.
So one thing is quite obvious: countless obstacles abound on the way to on-line happiness. The only question that remains: will you, the woman who ticks like me, the woman I could develop a relationship with that may lead to happiness, be so much discouraged that you don't look for ads like mine any longer?
If the answer is NO for you, and you found my ad here, then it seems to me there exists only one alternative: you send me a PM immediately, and the two of us will try to get to know one another in a manner that contains as few of the obstacles as possible that I mentioned earlier.
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