What Makes A Good Daddy Dom?

[BubblyBookworm]

Please tell me or share with us some good characteristics, qualities, or traits of a Daddy Dom?

I have some ideas, but would love to hear the perspective of others.

Thank you!!

 

[Pantyboy74]

I am curious and I was hoping to hear the views of others!!

1.Her Number One Fan
2. He knows all her flaws because he is also her ultimate Confidant
3. He is her protector
4. Her Teacher and mentor
5. He wants to be her Guide and advisor
6. Her anchor
7. Disciplinarian.

 

[Eva_Star]

I have never given the "dd/lg" label to my relationship, even when, in the past, there were aspects of it.

For me, the most important thing that the PYL can do is make me feel safe. Give me the security I need to let go and trust. Knowing that he would protect me in any situation is everything.

 

[Blue]

I think this is a good topic for the cafe but all of the oversized font and immediate repost feels like yelling to me. I need little more "quiet" in my head. Just saying.

I thought that was just me.

I avoid threads by this OP 'cause the giant fonts and garish colours sort of hurt my brain.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

BB, this approach is fine for the Playground, but you need to take it down a few notches in the Café.



Security, yes. Wisdom and humility as well.

Patience, kindness, gentleness

Creativity, intuition, responsiveness

Availability is huge for me. So is approval and affection.

The ability to gently prod me with one hand and pet me reassuringly with the other.

We don't do punishment. It came up early on and his comment was, 'I think you've punished yourself enough already.' It hasn't come up since.

My Daddy is tender, generous, and steadfast.
Plus he's a sarcastic motherfucker and I would suck his balls off just for that.

 

[BubblyBookworm]

BB, this approach is fine for the Playground, but you need to take it down a few notches in the Café.



Security, yes. Wisdom and humility as well.

Patience, kindness, gentleness

Creativity, intuition, responsiveness

Availability is huge for me. So is approval and affection.

The ability to gently prod me with one hand and pet me reassuringly with the other.

We don't do punishment. It came up early on and his comment was, 'I think you've punished yourself enough already.' It hasn't come up since.

My Daddy is tender, generous, and steadfast.
Plus he's a sarcastic motherfucker and I would suck his balls off just for that.

Thank you for sharing; I wasn’t trying to be disrespectful or loud! I was being sincere. I guess I am a colorful person; I didn’t mean to offend anyone!! I was just being myself, and I appreciate that in others! Thank you for your responses!!

 

[BubblyBookworm]

BB, this approach is fine for the Playground, but you need to take it down a few notches in the Café.



Security, yes. Wisdom and humility as well.

Patience, kindness, gentleness

Creativity, intuition, responsiveness

Availability is huge for me. So is approval and affection.

The ability to gently prod me with one hand and pet me reassuringly with the other.

We don't do punishment. It came up early on and his comment was, 'I think you've punished yourself enough already.' It hasn't come up since.

My Daddy is tender, generous, and steadfast.
Plus he's a sarcastic motherfucker and I would suck his balls off just for that.

Thank you for sharing; I wasn’t trying to be disrespectful or loud! I was being sincere. I guess I am a colorful person; I didn’t mean to offend anyone!! I was just being myself, and I appreciate that in others! Thank you for your responses!!

 

[Farawyn]

BB, this approach is fine for the Playground, but you need to take it down a few notches in the Café.



Security, yes. Wisdom and humility as well.

Patience, kindness, gentleness

Creativity, intuition, responsiveness

Availability is huge for me. So is approval and affection.

The ability to gently prod me with one hand and pet me reassuringly with the other.

We don't do punishment. It came up early on and his comment was, 'I think you've punished yourself enough already.' It hasn't come up since.

My Daddy is tender, generous, and steadfast.
Plus he's a sarcastic motherfucker and I would suck his balls off just for that.

I like you and your Daddy. A lot.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I like you and your Daddy. A lot.

We like you, too.

 

[Blue]

Thank you for sharing; I wasn’t trying to be disrespectful or loud! I was being sincere. I guess I am a colorful person; I didn’t mean to offend anyone!! I was just being myself, and I appreciate that in others! Thank you for your responses!!

I sincerely doubt anybody was offended by your choice of font. It just gives me the same reaction as when I look at this:

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/76/b1/d3/76b1d3099a06bf9b0065963865263c8f.jpg

Then again, people roughly my age are apparently offended by history so perhaps I should also take a more proactive approach to being offended.

 

[BubblyBookworm]

I sincerely doubt anybody was offended by your choice of font. It just gives me the same reaction as when I look at this:

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/76/b1/d3/76b1d3099a06bf9b0065963865263c8f.jpg

Then again, people roughly my age are apparently offended by history so perhaps I should also take a more proactive approach to being offended.

I hope you all have a wonderful evening! I should not have intruded in this forum, I thought people here would be engaging. Had I known it was going to elicit so much negativity and criticism, I would not have posted! Thank you for your hospitality and welcoming messages!! Take care!!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I hope you all have a wonderful evening! I should not have intruded in this forum, I thought people here would be engaging. Had I known it was going to elicit so much negativity and criticism, I would not have posted! Thank you for your hospitality and welcoming messages!! Take care!!

Please stay.

 

[Blue]

Sorry not sorry.

I PM'd her and she's decided that me complaining about the layout is childish and closed-minded?
The entitlement is strong with that one.

 

[Mrtenant]

Sorry not sorry.

I PM'd her and she's decided that me complaining about the layout is childish and closed-minded?
The entitlement is strong with that one.

Who made you a Mod to decide what is ok or not? And why is it entitlement? There are worse things, and we all have seen it.

Use the ignore button ffs or go haunt some other thread.

 

[Blue]

Who made you a Mod to decide what is ok or not? And why is it entitlement? There are worse things, and we all have seen it.

Use the ignore button ffs or go haunt some other thread.

I'm not an arbiter of morality and never claimed to be.

Her wording implied that me and/or possibly Cascadia were childish, disrespectful, unfriendly and somehow closed-minded for merely not liking the way she presented some of her posts, she's entitled because she considers that mere act to be some sort of massive affront to her sensibilities. I said I'm not sorry for accidentally driving her away because she's insulting.

 

[BubblyBookworm]

I'm not an arbiter of morality and never claimed to be.

Her wording implied that me and/or possibly Cascadia were childish, disrespectful, unfriendly and somehow closed-minded for merely not liking the way she presented some of her posts, she's entitled because she considers that mere act to be some sort of massive affront to her sensibilities. I said I'm not sorry for accidentally driving her away because she's insulting.

Please stop pmming me! The only thing I said was that I didn’t think I would fit in here! I am very artistic, creative, and in your words, “loud and garrish.” I own who I am and I am proud of who I am! You know, I accept people for who they are, and you never know what you may learn from someone else! This experience has made me question why I posted on this forum; I made the mistake of thinking people would be open minded and accepting. You are right, I am entitled as is everyone else here to respect! I sincerely wish all of you the best!!

 

[Mrtenant]

I'm not an arbiter of morality and never claimed to be.

Her wording implied that me and/or possibly Cascadia were childish, disrespectful, unfriendly and somehow closed-minded for merely not liking the way she presented some of her posts, she's entitled because she considers that mere act to be some sort of massive affront to her sensibilities. I said I'm not sorry for accidentally driving her away because she's insulting.

Perception is everything isn't it? Would it have occured to anyone to ask her and talk to her first before attacking her for her colors? This how we welcome new posters in the forum? They don't even do that shit in the GB and those are the harshest fuckers in Lit.

As far as entitlement goes......just like you feel like you are entitled to your opinion on it? You get your say just the same as she does but with her its entitlement? Or is that because it runs contrary to your taste?

 

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[cookiecat]

Here are a few other threads about DD/lg


http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=102500

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1312732

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1368148

 

[cookiecat]

Please stop pmming me! The only thing I said was that I didn’t think I would fit in here! I am very artistic, creative, and in your words, “loud and garrish.” I own who I am and I am proud of who I am! You know, I accept people for who they are, and you never know what you may learn from someone else! This experience has made me question why I posted on this forum; I made the mistake of thinking people would be open minded and accepting. You are right, I am entitled as is everyone else here to respect! I sincerely wish all of you the best!!

One person said something you didn't like and you're leaving? One person said something you don't like and you lump us all as NOT being open minded and accepting?

You aren't accepting people for who they are. Some people aren't as creative as you, apparently. So you're leaving?

That's too bad.

 

[Blue]

As far as entitlement goes......just like you feel like you are entitled to your opinion on it? You get your say just the same as she does but with her its entitlement? Or is that because it runs contrary to your taste?

https://userscontent2.emaze.com/images/13fe4a3b-da25-4a34-8973-526d11e72e3c/f50a4a7c-1d25-44da-a0e8-035edff3787aimage19.png

I was saying she's over reacting. I don't care whether or not she likes big text, I don't.

I'm so sorry I dared to have an negative opinion on something. I'll proceed to the Minitru to have my doubleplusungood wrongthink corrected.

 

[BubblyBookworm]

I never thought so many would assume based on what I said, that I was personally implying anything about any of you! It was not just one person, but I choose to focus on the positive and for me, that means doing what is right for me. I did not say I was better than anyone, rather was expressing who I am as a person. My desire to be colorful wouldn’t change and if that bothers some, I think it is best for me not to participate. I don’t believe people should have to change who or what they are to please others. I am hoping that with all this being said on all sides, everyone has a peaceful and wonderful day ahead!! Thank you for your links!!!

 

[Blue]

I never thought so many would assume based on what I said, that I was personally implying anything about any of you! It was not just one person, but I choose to focus on the positive and for me, that means doing what is right for me. I did not say I was better than anyone, rather was expressing who I am as a person. My desire to be colorful wouldn’t change and if that bothers some, I think it is best for me not to participate. I don’t believe people should have to change who or what they are to please others. I am hoping that with all this being said on all sides, everyone has a peaceful and wonderful day ahead!! Thank you for your links!!!

You could just keep posting here like you do and ignore my slight distaste of your post aesthetics?
It's really not such a big deal to be worth censoring yourself to this degree over, post what you want wherever you want.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

This is a popular subject right now, and I don't know if we have another DD/lg thread in the Café.

So.

Getting back to the Daddy thing...


My Daddy is wonderfully supportive and encouraging. He provides accountability for me when I ask for it, but never forces it on me. He will tell you himself that he's not really a Dom, but what he does is just what I need at this point in my life. He is very much Daddy, with a splash of sadist. Just enough to keep me on my toes and make things really fun. His goal for me is to help me accomplish my goals for myself. He wants me healthy, strong, independent, and he is happy to be the safe place that I go to rest when I need a break. He is coach, cheerleader, companion, and he makes me feel smart, beautiful, funny, and sexy AF.

And he's not hard on the eyes, either.

I watch my Daddy with my friends and I realize how lucky I am to have him. He is mine, and I am his, and it fucking rocks.

 

[BubblyBookworm]

This is a popular subject right now, and I don't know if we have another DD/lg thread in the Café.

So.

Getting back to the Daddy thing...


My Daddy is wonderfully supportive and encouraging. He provides accountability for me when I ask for it, but never forces it on me. He will tell you himself that he's not really a Dom, but what he does is just what I need at this point in my life. He is very much Daddy, with a splash of sadist. Just enough to keep me on my toes and make things really fun. His goal for me is to help me accomplish my goals for myself. He wants me healthy, strong, independent, and he is happy to be the safe place that I go to rest when I need a break. He is coach, cheerleader, companion, and he makes me feel smart, beautiful, funny, and sexy AF.

And he's not hard on the eyes, either.

I watch my Daddy with my friends and I realize how lucky I am to have him. He is mine, and I am his, and it fucking rocks.

Thank you for sharing, WH! This truly warmed my heart and gave me some insight into the wonderful connection between two people in this relationship!!