Threesome vs swinging?

Posted in wrong place earlier...

I’ve been doing everything I can to sexually please my husband. I want to experiment in the bedroom. If he wants it I’m willing.

So the other day we were discussing what our boundaries are, and it got to me having sex with another woman and him watching and possibly joining. I’m ok with it. Even wanting to do it. We even discussed me and this imaginary girl taking turns sucking him off, etc. got really erotic.

Well today I asked “what if my new imaginary girlfriend had a husband, can he come watch too?” I’ve been very threesome and swinging curious. He said no. He says he does want to look at another dude’s cock.

Soooo I can fuck another woman and he can join in and fuck the both of us, as long as it is only two women. He watches m/f porn. I don’t get it.

Don’t get me wrong I want to do the threesome, but I don’t if it’s because he wants to be with another woman. I want it to be us as a couple finding ourselves sexually. Just looking for advice.

Kill the bastard.
 
Posted in wrong place earlier...

I’ve been doing everything I can to sexually please my husband. I want to experiment in the bedroom. If he wants it I’m willing.

So the other day we were discussing what our boundaries are, and it got to me having sex with another woman and him watching and possibly joining. I’m ok with it. Even wanting to do it. We even discussed me and this imaginary girl taking turns sucking him off, etc. got really erotic.

Well today I asked “what if my new imaginary girlfriend had a husband, can he come watch too?” I’ve been very threesome and swinging curious. He said no. He says he does want to look at another dude’s cock.

Soooo I can fuck another woman and he can join in and fuck the both of us, as long as it is only two women. He watches m/f porn. I don’t get it.

Don’t get me wrong I want to do the threesome, but I don’t if it’s because he wants to be with another woman. I want it to be us as a couple finding ourselves sexually. Just looking for advice.

you started out discussing boundaries, and now you don't like his boundaries, even to the point of accusing him of wanting to be with other women. hopefully he wants to be with another woman and hopefully you want to be with another woman, because if you don't it's going to really suck for her. are you the kind of person that would pick a fight with him after the threesome, just so you could have something to fight about?

also - who told you to post this on the GB?
 
Ouch. Just seemed General meant general. Just wanted advice. The question is More of “is this an end of the conversation?” type question rather than I hate his boundaries. Yes I think the idea of fulfilling his fantasy of being with two women is sexy as hell and I want to do this with him. I don’t expect him to be with another man, not at all actually.
 
Ouch. Just seemed General meant general. Just wanted advice. The question is More of “is this an end of the conversation?” type question rather than I hate his boundaries. Yes I think the idea of fulfilling his fantasy of being with two women is sexy as hell and I want to do this with him. I don’t expect him to be with another man, not at all actually.

You might have better luck on the Fetish & Sexuality board, maybe the How-to board. If you look at the threads on the General Board, you might notice that it's more for random bullshit, politics, and insulting people. :)
 
Its simple really, embrace the BDSM lifestyle and kill the bastard before you become a victim, Lit will respect you. emrace the BDSM lifestyle and kill the bastard because he/she is a victim. Lit will understand.

Killing is not wrong, Getting caught can have consequences though, so leave no witnesses.
 
Haha! A little harsh... I’m rather fond of the bastard, actually. 😝

Men are more prone to being territorial about that kind of thing than women.

And understandably so.


Let it go, start somewhere at least, and hope for the best.
 
Mustard's of the Hot Dog

And, nowhere does it sweep up afterwards!!!
 
by fire, ax or poison?

i like fire.

axe is a good CV workout, poison always leaves traces, Fire - needs good buildings insurance or a jury that believes in spontaenious human combustion.

are those three the limit of your imagination?:eek:
 
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