What's the biggest misconception about you?

[Azuldrgon]

The biggest misconception about me is that I'm unapproachable or it seems that people think I'm a "player". I just like talking/flirting and kidding around here with everyone (some more than others *wink). Sometimes I do keep to myself by just posting what music I'm listening to or what the last thing I drank was but that doesn't mean you can't talk to me.

And you are cool to talk to.

Well like you I'm an introvert.
I also feel like I don't know how to flirt.

It's not a big deal.

That I am not genuine...because of my "sugary and fru fru" delivery...

I was raised in that kind of environment so it has carried with me...it is just one small part of who I am though...

Am often judged by one chapter of my life story...

I am flawed surely...but I do mean what I feel in my heart

 

[SweetSara86]

Love connection. Ding Ding Ding!!! Now we can have awkward dates and one word conversations!

OMG...I'd been with my ex since I was 21....so I've not had much experience with even an awkward first date in quite some time

 

[hotwords229]

The biggest misconception about me is that I'm unapproachable or it seems that people think I'm a "player". I just like talking/flirting and kidding around here with everyone (some more than others *wink). Sometimes I do keep to myself by just posting what music I'm listening to or what the last thing I drank was but that doesn't mean you can't talk to me.

Daizie, I think you're fun as hell. I love your free wheeling style. Talk, flirt and kid--we love it!

 

[hotwords229]

That I am not genuine...because of my "sugary and fru fru" delivery...

I was raised in that kind of environment so it has carried with me...it is just one small part of who I am though...

Am often judged by one chapter of my life story...

I am flawed surely...but I do mean what I feel in my heart

BlackCashmere, if you truly mean what you feel in your heart, then you are flawless.

 

[hotwords229]

That I'm some kind of Casanova player type.

I'm not even good at flirting.

And I'm an introvert.

Unchained, you are sweet, smart and kind. What better way to flirt?

 

[Daizie]

That I am not genuine...because of my "sugary and fru fru" delivery...

I was raised in that kind of environment so it has carried with me...it is just one small part of who I am though...

Am often judged by one chapter of my life story...

I am flawed surely...but I do mean what I feel in my heart

Seriously? I think you are as real as it gets. Your heartfelt words and kindness come through loud and clear on this site. And I don't think it's "sugary" or "fru fru" at all. You're a lovely person with a big heart. If people can't see that truth, that's on them. Never let anyone dim your shine, sweetie.

 

[Daizie]

And you are cool to talk to.

Daizie, I think you're fun as hell. I love your free wheeling style. Talk, flirt and kid--we love it!

Thank you both. You are true gentlemen but shh I won't tell anyone.

 

[UnchainedWordist]

Thank you both. You are true gentlemen but shh I won't tell anyone.

Daiz, you're cool as hell, babe. And I saw that earnestly.

 

[UnchainedWordist]

OMG...I'd been with my ex since I was 21....so I've not had much experience with even an awkward first date in quite some time

Then ours should be funny as hell!

 

[musicman1978]

They seem to think that I want to hear their opinion.

 

[SweetSara86]

Then ours should be funny as hell!

Then it would definitely have to be a movie or some sporting event.

 

[Daizie]

Daiz, you're cool as hell, babe. And I saw that earnestly.

Thank you. And I don't think you're a Casanova. I think you are a sweetheart with a great voice.

 

[UnchainedWordist]

Then it would definitely have to be a movie or some sporting event.

Or a movie ABOUT a sporting event!! Bingo!!!

 

[lovetopleasewomen]

The biggest misconception people seem to have about me is that I'm not intelligent. I can't tell you how many times people have seemed surprised at how knowledgeable I was about whatever topic they were discussing and they're always shocked at how much I know about sports. I'm very quiet and shy IRL, so maybe they're just surprised that I'm actually speaking.

You definitely got intelligence. I can see it in your words.

 

[SweetSara86]

Or a movie ABOUT a sporting event!! Bingo!!!

You definitely got intelligence. I can see it in your words.

 

[BlackCashmere]

That I'm some kind of Casanova player type.

I'm not even good at flirting.

And I'm an introvert.

That never crossed my mind once...I see you as a very tender thoughtful guy...who I know is spiritual

 

[BlackCashmere]

This one is true for me, too. Well, not here obviously. lol But in the face to face realm, people often assume I'm either shy or stuck up. Neither is true.
I'm just a people watcher. I like trying to figure them out. I've found that if you're quiet and you smile, people will tell you all sorts of things about themselves. I'm also very private, so I have to be close to someone before I open up.

Here at Lit, many assume I a bit of a slut. I flirt outrageously, but those who really know me understand that it ends there. In PM, I'm more likely to talk about work or family than sexy stuff. I understand why they make the assumptions they do. I could stop flirting and having fun. I'm not going to, but I could. I've just never really cared much what others think of me. *shrugs*

Omg...you are such a sweet lovable soul...never thought anything other...

 

[BlackCashmere]

The biggest misconception people seem to have about me is that I'm not intelligent. I can't tell you how many times people have seemed surprised at how knowledgeable I was about whatever topic they were discussing and they're always shocked at how much I know about sports. I'm very quiet and shy IRL, so maybe they're just surprised that I'm actually speaking.

I have seen you posting many times where I thought you were so witty fun and intelligent...and smiled...you are a lovely new addition

 

[JennyNo1]

Maybe that I'm more of an extrovert than I am, from the way I am on the boards. I'm very reserved and find it a little hard to make the first move to reach out to people I like until I know them pretty well. And even then I'm kind of the opposite of BC.

 

[SweetSara86]

I have seen you posting many times where I thought you were so witty fun and intelligent...and smiled...you are a lovely new addition

Thank you so much, that means a lot to me. You're very kind

 

[Girly_girl]

I would have to say that when people find out that I'm an only child, they automatically say" You must be a spoiled brat". My mom raised me on her own, worked her ass off to try and give me a good life. I never asked for anything. I couldn't have asked for a better mom, she taught me how to be kind, make others feel welcome.

 

[hotwords229]

I would have to say that when people find out that I'm an only child, they automatically say" You must be a spoiled brat". My mom raised me on her own, worked her ass off to try and give me a good life. I never asked for anything. I couldn't have asked for a better mom, she taught me how to be kind, make others feel welcome.

I would say "you must have been well loved" and it seems you have been.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Maybe that I'm more of an extrovert than I am, from the way I am on the boards. I'm very reserved and find it a little hard to make the first move to reach out to people I like until I know them pretty well. And even then I'm kind of the opposite of BC.

hugs again.

 

[HumasWanderingWeiner]

That I'm a complete idiot based upon the stupid shit I post. Well, actually that is true. I am a complete idiot. However IRL I tend to be pretty serious as I have a high stakes job and a lot of responsibilities. I also have an engineering degree and an MBA from a top 3 business school. On here, I post mostly stupidity as this is a outlet for me and reflects a side of me that doesn't get the opportunity to expose itself. On PM, I am completely opposite.

Ok, enough of this shit, someone send me some one armed midget porn,
Pronto.

 

[lowphat]

Maybe that I'm more of an extrovert than I am, from the way I am on the boards. I'm very reserved and find it a little hard to make the first move to reach out to people I like until I know them pretty well. And even then I'm kind of the opposite of BC.

I was always scared to reach out to you in PMs You seemed out of reach (And I dont mean flirting guys)

As for me? Shit, everyone seems to think I'm some behind the scenes player, lol. Nothing could be further from the truth. I think I'm usually a let down when I PM. I usually just want a friendship, because I lack that in my personal life.

Before VT, I didn't know what I wanted, but now I do