I have been with my partner for 5 years and she has only orgasm-ed once through normal sex in that time. she says that she has been like that since her 20s and her ex never made her come through normal sex. !! I may not be the best lover of all time but my ex wife never complained. does anyone else have this problem ?
Partner Needs vibrator to have orgasm !!
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No, your partner cums like a waterfall every time I bang her.
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Sounds like it's time to roll out the abnormal shit...and stop calling her your partner unless you're sharing profits in an orgasm inducement concern, in which case, you should file for Chapter 11 forthwith.
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Does she think it's a problem?
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No, I cum like a waterfall every time Johnny bangs me.
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You may be on to something. I think we need OP to tell us what he considers normal.
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If by "normal sex" you mean by vaginal intercourse alone, that is not unusual. Most women need clitoral stimulation as well.
Not stimulating the clitoris directly would he analogous to only stimulating the lower part of the glans and not the frenulum on a penis.
Your hands and or hers should be active. Some angles can cause the penis to rub against the clit but geometry varies for that by the woman.
The clit is analogous to the penis and just like a penis, the entire thing (much of which is unseen and internal) is not uniformly sensitive. There is "that spot" for her, and only her. Where those nerves are wired up is girl-specific. What works on one doesn't on the next.
Also, the type of stimulation needed varies widely. The amount of pressure, friction, and speed are all factors. You have to vary all of that to find her "buttons." I have had mixed results with having the girl demonstrate what feels good. Sometimes their masturbatory practices are extremely, narrowly tuned. Vibes have the reputation of desensitizing. The literature varies on that.
Women who can orgasm from penis in vagina sex alone tend to be very G-spot sensitive. You can spot them by how much more lubrucated they get from stimulating on each side of the G-spot.
Mechanics aside, all orgasms are triggered in the brain. The neck, ears and ponytail is a lot closer to the brain. I can't really read too much into your post but it seems like you are lean a little more solicitous and a little less caveman. I would suggest trying the reverse.
Not stimulating the clitoris directly would he analogous to only stimulating the lower part of the glans and not the frenulum on a penis.
Your hands and or hers should be active. Some angles can cause the penis to rub against the clit but geometry varies for that by the woman.
The clit is analogous to the penis and just like a penis, the entire thing (much of which is unseen and internal) is not uniformly sensitive. There is "that spot" for her, and only her. Where those nerves are wired up is girl-specific. What works on one doesn't on the next.
Also, the type of stimulation needed varies widely. The amount of pressure, friction, and speed are all factors. You have to vary all of that to find her "buttons." I have had mixed results with having the girl demonstrate what feels good. Sometimes their masturbatory practices are extremely, narrowly tuned. Vibes have the reputation of desensitizing. The literature varies on that.
Women who can orgasm from penis in vagina sex alone tend to be very G-spot sensitive. You can spot them by how much more lubrucated they get from stimulating on each side of the G-spot.
Mechanics aside, all orgasms are triggered in the brain. The neck, ears and ponytail is a lot closer to the brain. I can't really read too much into your post but it seems like you are lean a little more solicitous and a little less caveman. I would suggest trying the reverse.
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boo hoo! woe is me!! my magical willy isn't the key to every woman's orgasm, and my poor little ego can't take it!!!
seriously though, ditch her. using added stimulation during sex is a sure sign that she's a devil worshipper. she should show some decency and just fake it like your ex did.
seriously though, ditch her. using added stimulation during sex is a sure sign that she's a devil worshipper. she should show some decency and just fake it like your ex did.
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Is netstar a Disgustipated alt ???
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I miss seeing you around, making posts like this.
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What's wrong with devil worshippers?
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well I personally do not have this issue, but I know of many woman who do. have you tried a vibrating cock ring. reasonable compromise.
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They make lovely anniversary gifts!
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Your ex wife never complained? 
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Your ex wife never complained?
Hahahah...
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Is netstar a Disgustipated alt ???
Can't be...netstar says he is with a woman.
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agreed. Hence the reference to the ponytail.
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Has yours been stepping out on you again?
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