Bi guys and gals-What turns you on?

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I'm curious about what turns you on? For me.....

I love mature, curvy women. Thicker thighs and round asses; but when it comes to guys.....

Young, hard, smooth bodies. Tight asses, six packs....

Anyone else?
 
Females, nice round ass and small tits.

Males, young smooth and hard.
 
Females: petite with nice asses
Male: hairy muscle guys with hard cocks
 
Bi turn on

What turns me on as a bi person? A good personality.
Actually, it would be the same if I was straight, bi, gay...

To me, a good personality is more of a turn-on than anything else. I learned at an early age that looks and tight bodies are fleeting things. When I was in eighth grade, a girl moved to our school and she had been horribly burned as a child, as in burned all over her body. Every bit of her skin had been melted, and she looked like a horrible old witch or something. BUT, she had a heart of gold and a personality that would light up the darkest room! In her mind, she looked beautiful and on the inside she WAS beautiful and that was all that mattered to her. So many students shunned her, but some of us were drawn to her like moths to a porch light. Let me tell you, as she grew older she never suffered from lack of attention from boys! The ones who REALLY knew her didn't care what she looked like, not one bit.

So, that early learning experience set me on the track of being attracted to the REAL person on the inside, and not all the outside trappings. A person who makes me laugh and laughs with me is a major turn on. Someone who looks me in the eye and smiles while we are comfortable together is a HUGE turn on for me. And, someone who is comfortable in their own naked skin and wants me to be comfortable with it... no matter the appearance or age... is the best turn on ever.
 
Women: women of color, on the short side, stocky, athletic builds, but not too overweight, smaller breasts, curvy butt, hairy pussy.

Men: white, big cut cock, not too overweight.
 
What turns me on as a bi person? A good personality.
Actually, it would be the same if I was straight, bi, gay...

To me, a good personality is more of a turn-on than anything else. I learned at an early age that looks and tight bodies are fleeting things. When I was in eighth grade, a girl moved to our school and she had been horribly burned as a child, as in burned all over her body. Every bit of her skin had been melted, and she looked like a horrible old witch or something. BUT, she had a heart of gold and a personality that would light up the darkest room! In her mind, she looked beautiful and on the inside she WAS beautiful and that was all that mattered to her. So many students shunned her, but some of us were drawn to her like moths to a porch light. Let me tell you, as she grew older she never suffered from lack of attention from boys! The ones who REALLY knew her didn't care what she looked like, not one bit.

So, that early learning experience set me on the track of being attracted to the REAL person on the inside, and not all the outside trappings. A person who makes me laugh and laughs with me is a major turn on. Someone who looks me in the eye and smiles while we are comfortable together is a HUGE turn on for me. And, someone who is comfortable in their own naked skin and wants me to be comfortable with it... no matter the appearance or age... is the best turn on ever.
Well put, Riley. Wish I'd written that. Good on you.
 
What turns me on as a bi person? A good personality.
Actually, it would be the same if I was straight, bi, gay...

To me, a good personality is more of a turn-on than anything else. I learned at an early age that looks and tight bodies are fleeting things. When I was in eighth grade, a girl moved to our school and she had been horribly burned as a child, as in burned all over her body. Every bit of her skin had been melted, and she looked like a horrible old witch or something. BUT, she had a heart of gold and a personality that would light up the darkest room! In her mind, she looked beautiful and on the inside she WAS beautiful and that was all that mattered to her. So many students shunned her, but some of us were drawn to her like moths to a porch light. Let me tell you, as she grew older she never suffered from lack of attention from boys! The ones who REALLY knew her didn't care what she looked like, not one bit.

So, that early learning experience set me on the track of being attracted to the REAL person on the inside, and not all the outside trappings. A person who makes me laugh and laughs with me is a major turn on. Someone who looks me in the eye and smiles while we are comfortable together is a HUGE turn on for me. And, someone who is comfortable in their own naked skin and wants me to be comfortable with it... no matter the appearance or age... is the best turn on ever.

This ^^^^ :heart:

For just physical appeal and Tumblr eye candy I tend to be drawn to; Females= petite and Tom-boyish. For males= Fembois are a very strong turn-on...and masculine older men with hairy chests/strong bodies.

But as Riley said, in real life there has to be an emotional attraction to the real person trapped inside whatever shell they are encased in.
 
Visually, nicely shaped asses both male and female and cocks of all colors, shapes and sizes. But, there has to be a good personality to go along with it or nothing is going to happen.
 
I like women who are bigger with nice curves, smooth skin, and a big butt is a must. Something about the mom next door look really turns me on. She should have breasts that hang down a little, stretch marks, and cellulite... it all turns me on.

In a man... I like older men in their 40s or 50s with a belly. They definitely need to be bigger than me and I kind of like them hairy. Just a normal cock is preferred. Somewhere between 5 and 7 inches.
 
All types, except

I just can't do very overweight people. Of course, slim women and muscular guys are a favorite, but not everybody in real life is like that. I play within my own age range (45+), and as long as they're solid, sane people first, I expect bodies that are not perfect. 10 - 20 pounds over HWP is fine, depending on how tall they are (20 pounds on 5' is different than on 5' 7".

The attitude is the most important aspect.
 
Men: A sly smile, blue eyes, younger, curious, fit, smooth, cut, and properly proportioned...not too "big" or to "small". You could call em Goldilocks men, I suppose.

Women: Intriguing eyes, a smile, a carefree attitude, long legs, short hair, and small (natural) breasts.
 
In general: Confidence, imagination, & personality.

Men or women: Wrapped in feminine attire.
 
I like thick curvy women that are on the submissive side but when it comes to men, I like slightly dominant men that are proper in public but themselves behind closed doors.

As long as either sex knows what they like or are at least open to experimentation....
 
For women - I love long hair, nice tits and ass. It also really turns me on to see her with another man's cum on her lips, on her tits and all over her pussy. I just want to lick it all off of her so bad.

For men - White men, smooth chest , big cock , cut , with shaved balls.
 
Tight, thin young bodies. Athletic types; runners, or maybe aerobics, etc...no fat out of shape couch potatos
For women: Big firm tits, flat tummy and an ass you can bounce quarters off of. Well groomed, cares about her looks and smell
For men: Fit, well groomed, hung and lots of stamina. Young fem types a plus, passable fem types go to the front of the line
 
Big cocks, dressing up as a girl, and the wonderful imagination of open minded bi-curious folk. đź’‹
 
Riely has it right

Riley said it best, for me I see it as attitude. Someone once told me, in a non sexual relationship, attitude is everything.
When I am hard and my cock is somewhere warm and wet I can close my eyes and it could be anyone.
But if they are positive, happy, fun, that goes a long way to increase attraction.
 
Chemistry, high moral fiber, shy, innocence, and someone who hides their physical attributes turned me on. Men and Women
 
hey...

I'm curious about what turns you on? For me.....

I love mature, curvy women. Thicker thighs and round asses; but when it comes to guys.....

Young, hard, smooth bodies. Tight asses, six packs....

Anyone else?

I get a kind of psycological intoxication from touching, rubbing, licking, kissing, sucking on people and their bare skin. To the point I have ALMOST orgasmed just from touching and carressing a lover and being touched by them.
Young, old, fit or not, man or woman... I need their aural emanations and to touch their skin.
 
When it comes to Women as long as theyre confident dominant but playful I am putty in their hands

Men, I like fit powerful older guys,
 
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