Dirty talk in English as a foreign language

[Windcatcher]

Dear ones,

English is not my first language. For this reason I'm interested to learn something a normal teaching can not offer.
I love dirty talk, kinky stuff and even some perverted things. I already know something in English what I love to use. My problem is that native speaker might "hear" something different to I feel, because I have not the emotional background a native speaker has.

I like to know two things.
First
Let me know what is /are your favourite words for penis and vulva, feel free to talk about other body parts, acting and liquids as well.

Second
Let me know what kind of feeling / emotion is/are behind the words.
As a native English speaker you had made your experience during your upbringing what brought you to the point to associate an emotion with a term. I still miss these emotions.

Well, folks, let´s have fun and excitement with exploring the dirty site of your wonderful Language together.

 

[Windcatcher]

Mmhh? ??

 

[L8tnIt]

My best suggestion is to learn as many different ways of describing such parts as possible:

Cock, Dick, Member, Erection, Hard-on, Penis, Shaft...

Pussy, Slit, Clit, Womanhood, Sideways Smile, Wetness, Vagina...

Asshole, Rosebud, Rectum, Anal Cavity, Nether Region, Stinkhole...

Mammaries, Breasts, Globes, Orbs, Funbags, Sweater-stretchers, Tits...

Learn your audience, and then use the terms that are the most appropriate. Some are better than others, depending on the tone.
Example: [Romantically] " as I caress my hand along your sweat-coated bosom and use the sweat to slide my hand down your waist to reach your fragrant Womanhood..."
Example:[Degradingly]"... I am gonna shove my thick cock deep inside that stinkhole of yours..."

 

[Maddiel1]

Dear ones,

English is not my first language. For this reason I'm interested to learn something a normal teaching can not offer.
I love dirty talk, kinky stuff and even some perverted things. I already know something in English what I love to use. My problem is that native speaker might "hear" something different to I feel, because I have not the emotional background a native speaker has.

I like to know two things.
First
Let me know what is /are your favourite words for penis and vulva, feel free to talk about other body parts, acting and liquids as well.

Second
Let me know what kind of feeling / emotion is/are behind the words.
As a native English speaker you had made your experience during your upbringing what brought you to the point to associate an emotion with a term. I still miss these emotions.

Well, folks, let´s have fun and excitement with exploring the dirty site of your wonderful Language together.

This is an interesting thread. I like dirty talk myself and I'd love hearing it in other languages, especially German, French or Swedish (im partial to Swedish for my own reasons )

However this is a great undertaking but I admire you willingness to learn!

 

[Windcatcher]

Thank you to everybody for the helpfully comments.
To study a new language in my age is indeed a challenge. But meanwhile I know enough to "feel" the language. I will say, to learn only vocabulary and grammar is not enough for a living language, you must feel the emotions behind words.
In meantime I have begun to love the wonderful English Language. I think many native speaker don´t realize what a treasure their language is. To learn more about the dark side of English, or better said the hidden side of a Language it only makes it complete.
In my ears and mind many kinky expressions sound nice and lovely, even if they are meant offending. That´s not with my own language. So I prefer to hear dirty talk especially from women from America, Canada, and Uk, only to name a few of them. It would be fun sex if I talk dirty and ma partner is offended because of misunderstanding.


If there would be some more ideas I would be happy.

 

[Windcatcher]

I give it a bump. I think it's interesting though.

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

Social programming is the WORST offender against meaningful human sexuality. The practical reality, from what I can tell, is that there exists a HUGE perceived positive advantage to fucking between people who cannot really speak each other's language virtually at all - this is liberating from the false moral sensitivities of common 'social programming.'

Will the human race ever grow up?

I don't think so.

Not as a whole, anyway. It has never come to terms with the meaning of sex as a critical part of internal psychology of the 'sensible consciousness' ('sentience').

 

[loveroflove]

i will tell you the truth, talk in your native language whatever it might be, the only time that is not a turn on is when you are trying to give commands.

 

[MahoganyAngel]

English is the only language I know. I like the idea of a bilingual (or multilingual) partner sticking with the english language until he is so overcome with passion, he mixes the other language with english. That seems so hot. There is a song out there that kinda explains that perfectly and it's called "Bilingual" by Jose Nunez ft. Taina.... there are different remix of it (i like another https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pa7xEsFWpE8), but here is the song with lyrics: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X3GPMC_U44s

For me, I am not use to hearing vulgar words. I can become very "clinical" when I have to name body parts in the pelvic region. I try to interpret whether the person is trying to convey an underlying message in a malicious way, so for that reason I do not like dirty talk. Sometimes.. maybe it all depends on how turned on I am.. Maybe I would allow more leeway and become more pliable to certain words in such circumstances. It's all about timing and delivery.