What is the Name of Erotica where the Woman Takes Control?

[figarojonez]

Randomly, I'll find erotica/porn where the woman is incredibly sexually aggressive, and directs her partner with exactly what to do. I really dig it, but I can't find the specific name for it. The closest I can find is cuckold, but 99% of what I've found has been the woman humiliating the guy or forcing him to watch her have sex with someone else. I want the woman to control the situation, not belittle the guy.

Is there a specific name for that subgenre, or am I out of luck?

 

[Ms_Ann]

Randomly, I'll find erotica/porn where the woman is incredibly sexually aggressive, and directs her partner with exactly what to do. I really dig it, but I can't find the specific name for it. The closest I can find is cuckold, but 99% of what I've found has been the woman humiliating the guy or forcing him to watch her have sex with someone else. I want the woman to control the situation, not belittle the guy.

Is there a specific name for that subgenre, or am I out of luck?

PM Ulaven_Demorte.

 

[Conager]

Marriage.

 

[GuiltyPleasure]

Marriage.

I lol-ed.

 

[GuiltyPleasure]

Randomly, I'll find erotica/porn where the woman is incredibly sexually aggressive, and directs her partner with exactly what to do. I really dig it, but I can't find the specific name for it. The closest I can find is cuckold, but 99% of what I've found has been the woman humiliating the guy or forcing him to watch her have sex with someone else. I want the woman to control the situation, not belittle the guy.

Is there a specific name for that subgenre, or am I out of luck?

Dominatrix. :caning:

 

[Disgustipated]

Randomly, I'll find erotica/porn where the woman is incredibly sexually aggressive, and directs her partner with exactly what to do. I really dig it, but I can't find the specific name for it. The closest I can find is cuckold, but 99% of what I've found has been the woman humiliating the guy or forcing him to watch her have sex with someone else. I want the woman to control the situation, not belittle the guy.

Is there a specific name for that subgenre, or am I out of luck?

You baited 2 of those cucks right below you.

 

[figarojonez]

Marriage.

But I'd like it to actually involve sex.

Dominatrix. :caning:

That's closer, but a lot of what I've found is focused solely on control, and haven't even left to sex. Unless I've just had terrible luck with it.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Femdom

 

[Phelia]

Her name is Fata. Fata Morgana.

 

[figarojonez]

Femdom

Again, not looking for sub/dom stuff. More like she really has to get laid, and the guy can't finish until she does; basically reversing the traditional dynamic of the woman being the one used for sexual gratification.

 

[adrina]

Have you searched under the term "aggressive women" on the porn sites?

 

[thør]

Those are the women that say, "Go, Paint My house!"

 

[barefootgirl69]

Again, not looking for sub/dom stuff. More like she really has to get laid, and the guy can't finish until she does; basically reversing the traditional dynamic of the woman being the one used for sexual gratification.

But, it's about control...

 

[Adjudicator]

Again, not looking for sub/dom stuff. More like she really has to get laid, and the guy can't finish until she does; basically reversing the traditional dynamic of the woman being the one used for sexual gratification.

You are looking for BDSM

 

[Emerson40]

Randomly, I'll find erotica/porn where the woman is incredibly sexually aggressive, and directs her partner with exactly what to do. I really dig it, but I can't find the specific name for it. The closest I can find is cuckold, but 99% of what I've found has been the woman humiliating the guy or forcing him to watch her have sex with someone else. I want the woman to control the situation, not belittle the guy.

Is there a specific name for that subgenre, or am I out of luck?

At Home, With The Castors.

 

[figarojonez]

But, it's about control...

You are looking for BDSM

Let me put it a different way; I want the woman to take control, not spank/paddle the guy, call him a little boy, tie him up, or humiliate him. I want her to essentially have a high sex drive and take the role that the man usually does, in that she immediately forces him to pleasure her physically, ie she makes him go down on her, and then uses him until she gets off. Every femdom story I've read has involved some level of humiliation or forcing the guy to wait while she teases him. While I can appreciate that at certain times, it's not the same kind of control from the woman I'm looking for.

Does that make any sense?

 

[barefootgirl69]

Let me put it a different way; I want the woman to take control, not spank/paddle the guy, call him a little boy, tie him up, or humiliate him. I want her to essentially have a high sex drive and take the role that the man usually does, in that she immediately forces him to pleasure her physically, ie she makes him go down on her, and then uses him until she gets off. Every femdom story I've read has involved some level of humiliation or forcing the guy to wait while she teases him. While I can appreciate that at certain times, it's not the same kind of control from the woman I'm looking for.

Does that make any sense?

Yes. Someone has already mentioned assertive or aggressive.

Just because she wants to 'have control' because of her high sex drive... call her a top. They have kinky sex. Sometimes D/s is only in the bedroom.

Not every D/s relationship involves humiliation, or sadism or masochism, don't misunderstand BDSM.

 

[figarojonez]

Yes. Someone has already mentioned assertive or aggressive.

Just because she wants to 'have control' because of her high sex drive... call her a top. They have kinky sex. Sometimes D/s is only in the bedroom.

Not every D/s relationship involves humiliation, or sadism or masochism, don't misunderstand BDSM.

Oh, if that was the way it came across, I apologize. I was not commenting on BDSM, just the stories I found (all of them included far different power play than I was looking for, and none of them included a woman who was just a top; they all went into heavier dominatrix territory). I would never intentionally demean or minimize a sexual persuasion or personal identity, and if you took offence, again, I apologize.

 

[oggbashan]

Randomly, I'll find erotica/porn where the woman is incredibly sexually aggressive, and directs her partner with exactly what to do. I really dig it, but I can't find the specific name for it. The closest I can find is cuckold, but 99% of what I've found has been the woman humiliating the guy or forcing him to watch her have sex with someone else. I want the woman to control the situation, not belittle the guy.

Is there a specific name for that subgenre, or am I out of luck?

Some of my stories.

Try my Brigit ones:

https://www.literotica.com/s/brigit
https://www.literotica.com/s/brigit-too
https://www.literotica.com/s/brigits-babies

 

[Lancecastor]

Randomly, I'll find erotica/porn where the woman is incredibly sexually aggressive, and directs her partner with exactly what to do. I really dig it, but I can't find the specific name for it. The closest I can find is cuckold, but 99% of what I've found has been the woman humiliating the guy or forcing him to watch her have sex with someone else. I want the woman to control the situation, not belittle the guy.

Is there a specific name for that subgenre, or am I out of luck?

Try the GB Lounge.