Is there such a thing as too much?

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For me, personally, I have experienced women who were a little afraid of my size. Not boasting or bragging here, but I'm a bit larger than average.

Is there something that you (whoever you are) like, but that can get to be too much? Too much cock? Breasts too large? Too much Dominance or submission expected, or used to try and entice you?
 
Too much of anything can be bad to whatever degree. As far as the size of your cock...I don't know how big we're really talking here, but HUGE would probably be a problem for most...until they were able to accommodate you...eventually :)
 
Well, text Cock is always 9 inches and thick. So, I'm sure that would be too much.

Other than that, no. I'm pretty fucking happy.
 
For me, personally, I have experienced women who were a little afraid of my size. Not boasting or bragging here, but I'm a bit larger than average.

Is there something that you (whoever you are) like, but that can get to be too much? Too much cock? Breasts too large? Too much Dominance or submission expected, or used to try and entice you?

Depends on who you ask. Many of the woman I been with said I am:
Ample
Average
Big
Thick

My fiance says:
I am small

My reply:
You gag on it!

That said, too much is a point of view and preference. If you find a woman that can handle your meat like a champ she might be a keeper. I know a few that would love the challenge: oral, anal, and vaginal.
 
I'm not talking about just myself. I'm talking is there anything that YOU, the people on Lit other than me, find that you enjoy but can have it be too much at times.
Come on now, I've shared my experience. What about y'all?
 
Well, text Cock is always 9 inches and thick. So, I'm sure that would be too much.

Other than that, no. I'm pretty fucking happy.


Well, I'm glad you're happy. However, I'm not here to talk about myself so much as wanting to hear if anyone else suffers a sort of burn out or other issue with something they normally enjoy being turned into a turn off.
I used my size as an issue that effects me and my life, as well as to ward off the inevitable "well how about you say before asking us about ourselves" that always comes up.
 
Depends on who you ask. Many of the woman I been with said I am:
Ample
Average
Big
Thick

My fiance says:
I am small

My reply:
You gag on it!

That said, too much is a point of view and preference. If you find a woman that can handle your meat like a champ she might be a keeper. I know a few that would love the challenge: oral, anal, and vaginal.

This made me LOL!
 
Well, I'm glad you're happy. However, I'm not here to talk about myself so much as wanting to hear if anyone else suffers a sort of burn out or other issue with something they normally enjoy being turned into a turn off.
I used my size as an issue that effects me and my life, as well as to ward off the inevitable "well how about you say before asking us about ourselves" that always comes up.

My boobs are big. No one said they were too big. If I'm not someone's type they won't pursue me.
 
Do you guys find sometimes you cock gets bigger on different days? I have. I average over 6.5 inches but there are days where I hit 7 and a little past and much thicker. The thing is I yet to figure out what triggers it.
 
Do you guys find sometimes you cock gets bigger on different days? I have. I average over 6.5 inches but there are days where I hit 7 and a little past and much thicker. The thing is I yet to figure out what triggers it.

I have noticed that as well. A bit more noticable on girth than length for me. I always figured it was part of if I had been drinking something that dehydrated me more than other beverages, since blood flow is what causes erections.
 
Yes!

Cock length. Over 8" is too much. Girth on the other hand there is more leeway.

Well put!...yeah over 8 inches and things can start to get uncomfortable for me, certain positions specially....but girth, I've never had too thick, but I love the stretching feeling as a personal preference, love when a guy has to start slow and takes my breath away!
 
Chatty & Brandy

If you don't mind my asking, what is it about length, specifically, that you dislike that is not an issue with girth?
For instance, I would think that as long as a man isn't shoving everything in, the length would be even less of an issue than girth. Can you provide more information and clarity?
 
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I know I'm too fat, too fat a belly, too fat a ass and my tits too are comically too much sometimes.
 
I have a toy that, when it arrived, I found I couldn't use it because it was just too thick. And it's not ridiculously enormous, only about 2" in diameter. Some women are stretchier than me and can take that, but I can't.
 
Do you guys find sometimes you cock gets bigger on different days? I have. I average over 6.5 inches but there are days where I hit 7 and a little past and much thicker. The thing is I yet to figure out what triggers it.

Do you guys really measure your cock on a regular basis...like with a ruler? I would think, if I was a guy, I would probably measures it once out of curiosity. Then I would be like "yeah, I've got about 6 inches"...
 
I'm not talking about just myself. I'm talking is there anything that YOU, the people on Lit other than me, find that you enjoy but can have it be too much at times.
Come on now, I've shared my experience. What about y'all?

LOL...this thread has really turned into a big conversation about your big cock :D

So, to answer your original question...I once bought a plug in wand vibrator that was TOO POWERFUL. It actually hurt/bruised me rather than give pleasure.:(
 
So, to answer your original question...I once bought a plug in wand vibrator that was TOO POWERFUL. It actually hurt/bruised me rather than give pleasure.:(
Huh... I have difficulties with vibrators often having a motor that's too weak; describing on as too strong totally make me want to try it. :D :rolleyes:
 
There's such a thing as too little ... preparation.
A guy who uses his wooing and foreplay skills effectively will find himself pussy well able to accommodate him when he gets to pressing there for entry.
 
There's such a thing as too little ... preparation.
A guy who uses his wooing and foreplay skills effectively will find himself pussy well able to accommodate him when he gets to pressing there for entry.

Very true...

Being American, I can never have too much. But I see too little disappointingly often
 
Yeah, I really like averaged sized penises. I think I am more open to what happens with them and I find it all more comfortable and enjoyable. I find used to find sex in general best with average and think average is average for good reason . I am not a 'size queen'. However, it doesn't meAn you don't end up falling I love with and making a life with people outside your preferred dimensions. 🙄.

Yes to all. ^
That being said there is too big, I guess.

Girth matters more than length, OP, because it feels GOOD.
 
I have a toy that, when it arrived, I found I couldn't use it because it was just too thick. And it's not ridiculously enormous, only about 2" in diameter. Some women are stretchier than me and can take that, but I can't.

Yeah, I'm pretty sure I'd be bummed about that.
 
Do you guys really measure your cock on a regular basis...like with a ruler? I would think, if I was a guy, I would probably measures it once out of curiosity. Then I would be like "yeah, I've got about 6 inches"...

LOL! No, I haven't measured more than once, but...well when it's with you your whole life, you can tell.
 
LOL...this thread has really turned into a big conversation about your big cock :D

So, to answer your original question...I once bought a plug in wand vibrator that was TOO POWERFUL. It actually hurt/bruised me rather than give pleasure.:(

Yeah. Road to hell paved with a bag full of dicks. I mean uh.... LOL

On a serious note, That would definitely be something that I can see as being disappointing.
 
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